93% of communication is nonverbal yet most guys are only focusing on what they say when they're speaking so in today's video I'm going to show you seven things you can do right now with your body language to be perceived as more attractive and more confident number one use this hand gesture to demand more attention why do powerful men like Elon and Ronaldo always put their hands like this it's because you can influence others with your hands but only if you use the right hand gestures and you use the right hand to do it in a
study published on Pub met researchers had two groups explain a metaphor the first group used their right hand to explain while the second group would use their left hand what the scientists found is that when a participant would explain a metaphor with their left hand not only did the explainer feel more confident but the listener was also more attentive the reason is that people aren't used to seeing others use their left hand as much as their right hand so when you're talking to someone whether in person or at a cafe you want to make sure
your right hand is occupied if you're standing you're going to be holding your phone if you're sitting you can be holding your coffee cup then you're going to explain using your left hand instead of your right hand you'll not only feel more confident but the person you're speaking to will be more attentive they'll be paying attention look body language is that simple just by you switching the hand that you use to talk you're making yourself more interesting people are going to pay attention to you it's a massive upgrade now imagine if you finish this video
and you actually apply all seven techniques I'm about to show you bro your charisma it's going to be out the roof bro let's go to number two learn to read other other people's minds only using Body Language by just understanding their body cues you can influence those around you by knowing what to avoid and you appearing more confident so I'm going to show you five body language cues you want to study in Men followed by five body language cues you want to study in women and what they mean for men one a soft and weak
handshake this means they lack confidence in what they're about to say two if the first words that they speak are soft or they're broken that means that they're intimidated by you three fidgeting and playing with their nails it means they're nervous four if a man can't maintain eye contact it means that they're threatened five if his feet are pointing away from you it means that they want to leave that situation you want to study these five signs to always understand what type of man you're talking to in front of you now here are five cues
for women one a slight tilt in the head means that she's genuinely interested in you and what you're saying if she's neutral it means that she's disinterested two if she's within 2 ft of you it means she's comfortable with you if she's standing outside of that distance it means she's uncomfortable with you and wants to leave three if she's using a lot of hand gestures while she's talking it means she's emotionally invested in what she's saying four if she's touching her jewelry or her neck these are known as pacifying gestures which suggest she's feeling nervous
five if she smiles with her teeth it means she wants to continue talking to you if she smiles just with her lips it means she's just trying to be nice to make you feel good if you know these five female body cues you'll always know exactly what she's thinking let's move on to number three use the right power color to look your best as a man you want to wear more color you just don't want to wear it like this each color here looks good on its own but together they clash and they make the
outfit look messy so here's how you're going to wear color the right way first you're going to find out what color looks best against your skin tone by looking at this skin tone color wheel for the cooler skin tones the brighter colors like blue green and yellow look great for warmer skin tones Shades like dark blue purple or red are flattering if you want to check your skin tone you just want to hold a white piece of paper next to your face and look in the mirror if your skin looks yellowish you're a warm tone
if your skin looks bluish or pinkish you're a cool undertone and when you're picking an outfit only keep the colors on your outfit try to keep your shoes neutral that way you can wear colors easily for example I love wearing sneakers now the one thing with sneakers is that they get dirty very fast I hate that you have to be replacing them unless you try these from vessie bro I found these the other day and I've been wearing them non-stop these are the black tidle sneakers from vessie and they're waterproof they're high quality and they're
super affordable for how they are what I love about them is I wear sneakers way too much and I'm tired of replacing them but with these because they're waterproof they rarely get dirty and to clean them it's a breeze staying dry in style with select waterproof vesses now just $99 at bessie. comom don't wait I'm going to have vessie linked down below they have a wide range of shoes they're all waterproof and like I said they're affordable so there's a style for everyone I'm also going to have a special coat that's going to make it
even more affordable for you next once you've chosen your color you're going to use contrast to make that outfit pop let's look at the color wheel again colors that are across from each other are complimentary colors and they make each other stand out colors that are next to each other are analogous colors which makes a contrast way more subtle but still look good together to wrap it up if you're choosing to wear more color in your outfit you can neutralize your sneakers even more and you can use something even more subtle like black vessie has
a great pair of sneakers called the storm burst sneaker it's a black pair and these are waterproof as well and because they're black these will rarely get dirty in other words you can pretty much mix and match with any color outfit you have and you can be rest assured you'll always look good and the best part is because they're high quality you're not going to be replacing these if you guys want to check out besti they're going to be linked down below look at their entire range but the two that I suggest which I wear
all the time are the stormburst sneaker I'm going to have those linked down below so you can wear the same ones that I wear it's easier four you're going to maximize the three elements of your foot body language I'm going to show you three things you didn't know about your feet and what they're saying when it comes to body language the first one is proximity which refers to how close you are to someone when you're talking to them if you want to show you're comfortable you need to place your feet within 2T from the other
person if you want to convey discomfort you want your feet at a distance and you want to be outside that twoot range next is Direction which indicates where your feet are pointing if you want to show interest always Point your feet towards the person you're talking to conversing on the other hand if you're in a conversation you want to get out of you want to point your feet away from them to signal that you want to leave finally we have stance which refers to how far apart your feet are a wider stance it conveys dominance
and confidence a narrow stance may come across as weak or insecure so you always want to stand around shoulder width apart with that said look there isn't any point in putting this much effort in your feet if your shoes always look messy which is why you should check out vessie bro damn I made that rhyme but the point is you don't want to be in a conversation with a girl or with anybody and they look down your body language is on point but you're shoes are all scuffed up how good you look depends on what
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by walking with confidence most men will walk with their head down with this forward tilt and a hunched back it's like a nerd neck makes men appear weak and unattractive I don't want that for you bro so here's how to fix these issues so you can start walking with confidence I want you to stand up right now and follow these instructions first before you even start walking I want you to imagine a tiny string attached to the top of your head and attached to your ceiling this is pulling your head upwards pulling your chin slightly
up next you're going to pull your shoulders back and down until you feel a slight tension on your traps and upper back now is when you start walking but notice I'm not looking down my hands are in my pocket I'm not looking at my phone I'm looking straight ahead while my arms are swaying parallel to my upper thighs this is what shows dominance confidence and control now if you really want to level this up to the highest level you want to add a slight sway to your shoulders to do this you're going to let your
hand swing slightly more towards the back swing of your stride this will push your shoulder back a bit to create a natural suway this is insane mainly attractive in the same way how women sway their hips when they walk that you find it attractive similarly women will notice that sway in your shoulders and find it attractive because it conveys confidence six you should never do this when you're sitting down look there are a few things you can do to drastically appear more confident anytime you're sitting down first you want to avoid any body language that
makes you appear small like sitting with your legs closed instead keep your legs or knees shoulder width apart and open second avoid leaning in with your head and your body instead you want to lean back while you're extending your legs outward Third never look down always keep your head and your chin up to make it easier just focus on looking in between the eyebrows of the person you're talking to Fourth avoid any pacifying Behavior such as biting your nails playing with your jewelry or rubbing your arms as these are signals of discomfort and fifth you
want to steer clear from any erratic Behavior like tapping your fingers or your feet constantly or like moving your head around looking everywhere instead remain calm now you've learned how to use hand gestures to command attention you've learned to read other people's mind with their body language you've learned how to move your feet to look more confident you've learned how to walk with confidence and now you've even learned how to sit with confidence these changes will instantly make you look more dominant and more attractive that's a guarantee and you can do them now but there
are two more changes I want you to do to your body language that's going to change the game forever number seven use the 3second pause to increase magnetism super simple way to increase your charisma and magnetism is with your body language and you're going to do it with the 3second pause when someone asks you a question instead of immediately trying to answer I want you to look slightly to your side you can even place your hand near your mouth almost like you're in deep thought to add even more weight to your body language you can
almost even slightly move back and count to 3 seconds when you do this you signal that you are extremely invested in what that other person is saying as well as carefully crafting your answer this demonstrates confidence self assuredness but also it keeps the other person at the edge of their seat waiting for what you have to say number eight you will use these two hand body language tricks to control any situation if you want to take control of any situation you face you need to use these two hand gesture the first is the plator when
you approach someone you want your hand in your palms facing upward this creates a very warm and open approach which is ideal to use with people of lower status and no I'm not just saying this as my opinion this is is all backed by science biologically we are more likely to trust someone when we can see their open Palms the second is the leveler and this is when you approach someone with your palm facing downward notice how even my tone changed that's because this gesture is used to convey Authority now imagine you use this in
two situations first I want you to picture me talking to an old friend pointing my hand upward as I face them like yo man it's been so long where you've been now compare it to this hey how have you been you see the difference the first open and friendly the second it's closed off that is a huge upgrade to your communication style and all we did was change how you placed your hand this is why body language is so important and why I want you to implement all eight body language tricks I just showed you
so you can be more attractive and confident
