okay so right now I want to talk about putting her on ice okay why ignoring her makes her chase you and why this is so so powerful for creating attraction with the opposite sex right putting the girl on ice letting her know that you are not going to tolerate her bad behavior you are not going to put up with her being flaky ghosting you texting you when it's only convenient for her and not you treating you like your name is Stanley right no offense if your name is Stanley but you know what I mean you
know what I'm getting at treating you like your name is Eugene okay you have to put her on ice there are times where these girls will act up start treating you like crap okay because you're just being a little too nice you're just being a little to supplicate of torture you're feeding or eat her ego just a little too much and now she's starting to take you for granted all right she's not texting as much she's not calling as much she's not wanting to go out as much and when she does she kind of shows
up late these are the times that you are going to need to put her on ice okay and you're going to need to withdraw your attention you're going to need to withdraw your physical presence so that she can feel that you're gone she can feel that she's losing you and she can regain the value that she once had for you the respect she once had for you okay and sometimes I mean this can kind of be compared to dread game in some ways or what I like to call intermittent attention where I sometimes I give
the girls the girls I'm seeing intermittent attention but usually when I do that it's not because I'm trying to do it because they were acting bad or anything like that it's generally I do it because I'm so busy and because it's so powerful right so it's not like I'm trying to do it as a technique never do these things as a technique right when you do these things that's a technique they do not work this is why I tell you guys you must become the game don't just learn the game become the game live the
game make it a part of who you are okay even if you're not gaming girls out there use it in your business use it to become a better man use it to get into better shape to increase the amount of money you have in your bank account okay you should be practicing these things daily using game on yourself because pickup is a lifestyle as I always say right but for these girls especially in today's world where these chicks are heavily heavily indoctrinated by feminist values and they are super super entitled even if you're here in
the Western world these girls are so so entitled it's insane right these are the girls the most that need to be put on ice and it takes a man with balls of steel to do it to put them on ice because that's it's just not something every guy can do most guys aren't wired for it this is why I say you know guys without pickup training guys without training in-game it's you know I mean unless you're a complete natural it's very very difficult to live this way because you're you know without training your constant gonna
be second-guessing yourself and caring about what others are thinking about you what other people are saying about you how the rest of the tribe feels about you will they kick me out of their little social group if I start acting this way you know you're constantly gonna be in your head without training but once you've got pickup training game training you really get out of your head and you start not to care what anybody else has to say about you right you you stop living for other people's opinions and you start living for your own
right it's more important how you feel about yourself feeling good in your own body and ground it in your own energy than it is to please people that you'll never ever please even if you are doing the right thing they'll always find something to nitpick about right you're not you're never gonna please anybody but yourself so now is the time to do that right and if you're dating girl who is not treating you right and it's demonstrating bad behavior as I tell you guys never reward bad behavior right that's the worst thing you can do
if she is just not paying you any respect praise or admiration at all and she's just doing a bunch of things that you don't like okay whether it's mouthing off to you talking back to you costly challenging everything you do you say constantly questioning your leadership then you know what you got to do you've got to put her on ice okay pH oh I put her on ice and let her know that hey I don't need to tolerate this and then just go do your own thing for a while okay go do your own thing
ghost her for a little while and let her get her thoughts together let her regain her respect and value for you while you go do your own thing what you should be doing in that time is exploring your other dating options because if the girl is already treating you like that you should start exploring your other dating options right it's like if your car keeps breaking down on you keeps leaking oil keeps leaving you on the side of the road at some point you're gonna get tired of sinking money into that car you're gonna get
tired of having to tow that car every time you take it out you're gonna get tired of having to take time off from work because you got to take the car to the shop you're gonna get tired of doing those things and then you're going to start exploring your options right you're gonna start seeing what other cars are available that won't do this to me is there a car that's better-looking than this car more reliable you're gonna start doing those things all right no different in relationship when this chicane treating your right and she's making
you not feel good in your own body she's not making you feel more of a man but less of a man it's a bad sign too when she doesn't make you feel like a better man but a worse man that's the time you got to put her on ice right unless you're just gonna cut her off completely but this is the first step is putting her on ice it's kind of like if you're somebody's manager at a job first step you got to write them up right they're like not doing what they're supposed to at
their job you got to write them up it's a first warning right you're gonna put her on ice and then you're gonna see how she performs after that like is she gonna shape up is she showing signs of improvement or is she just never gonna change cuz if she's never gonna change and she's always gonna treat you this way then it's time to move on to those other options that you've been exploring while you go sitter while you were putting her on ice okay for me personally I don't like to just cut girls right off
unless they're doing something really horrendous I don't like usually if they're just kind of acting out a little bit or just getting a little too nitpicky or you know just starting to devalue me in any way shape or form I will put them on ice do my own thing maybe it'd only take a few days sometimes it takes a few weeks one girl it even took a couple of months I just go sitter didn't talk to her then she finally came around and she saw my point and she was like I could see where I
got this wrong and I could see where you might have misunderstood and blah blah blah and she she reached out and trying to work it out with me and we continued our relationship now what did she continue acting the way she was not to the extent that she did previously before I put her on ice right but then after that I had to put her on ice again for a few weeks and then she got a little bit better a little bit better but you know what she wouldn't got better at all if I didn't
put her on ice she wouldn't have treated me with even more like the level of respect and value that she does now had I not had the balls of balls of Steel to put this hot girl on ice and let her know hey I don't need you to function in life I am an independent self-sufficient self-reliant grown-ass man and I don't need you right too function in life I can live my life just fine without you and that is the message that you send when you put these girls on ice when you let them know
like hey you know I am not willing to tolerate this this is not okay with me this is not making me a better man okay I do not feel good when I am with you you have to communicate these things and let her know like you're just not gonna put up with it because if you don't and you let her walk on you like a doormat and you know treat you however she wants she will I teach all my self-development students people will act as good as they need to especially women okay this is especially
true for women they will only act as good as they need to there's why all those girls that you bought flowers for that you sacrifice for that you you know pushed your own life aside for this is why those girls never appreciated you she treated you piss poorly because there was no reason for her to act any better than she needed to in order to keep you there right you were willing to put up with all of her shenanigans and you stayed so she kept dishing it out right because people will act as good as
they need to so there will be times where you know what these girls will test you a little too hard and a little too often and a little too much more than what it's necessary and when that happens you gotta let her know you ain't gonna tolerate it and the way that you let her know is by putting her on ice PAH oh I and with that said I'm gonna wrap up here until next time this is em from the 33 secrets do not forget to smash that like button below also hit that notification bell
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