you have the option to choose are you going to let the pain in your past Define your reality right now that's your choice that you make every day is what happened to you when you was 8 years old going to define the person that you are today or are you this person who you choose are you in control of your life you going to let pain that happened 6 years ago mess up your mood today in real life the only thing that's real about your journey is the step that you take right now if you
don't apply what you hear you won't get what you want life doesn't get any easier it doesn't get more forgiving we just get stronger and we get more resilient you are going to incur a lot of disappointment a lot of failure a lot lot of setbacks a lot of defeats but in the process of doing that you will discover some things about yourself that you don't know right now and when you figure that out you'll learn like the world is off the chain opportunities are endless but you can't get them looking in your rear view
or your future going to look just like your past yeah so you're here because you're different you're UNC commmon one man said I choose not to be a common man it's my right to be uncommon if I can you don't have the reality that you want you create it you in charge of your life stop praying that the storm will pass over you and pray to grow through the storm stop going around it go through it what you go through you will grow some fights are not won in the first round don't get caught up
in well I've tried it four or five times and things didn't work out if there's something that you want and you have hungry for it you've got to do whatever is necessary until and when you give the best you can and that's not enough you must do what is required it don't feel good do it right but if you keep going you actually are set up for Success you can't just be a spectator in life if you want great things you want opportunity you got to go get them and you got to be open to
step out your comfort zone and don't give up on yourself don't throw the towel in so quickly many people give up on the one Y Line the race is not given to the strong nor the Swift but it is given to he that endureth until the end we might be through with our past but our past is not not through with us we deal with so much stuff in our past we letting energy and things that happened in the past affect our emotions right now that's crazy everybody is facing setbacks everybody is feeling pressure everybody
is feeling like this anxiety like can they do it are they smart enough will they make it so what you have to choose right you're going to go through this heat and pressure and come out the other side shining or are you going to let it Crush you and at a certain point we all have to make that choice we all have to make that decision otherwise someone's going to make it for us it's your reaction to adversity not adversity itself that determines how your life story will develop Rock Bottom is the solid foundation to
build the future and you've lost everything you have everything you need you need endurance you need stamina to reach some goals you're not going to hit the million with the first investment you're not going to hit the Home Run always at first swing I will never accept defeat it doesn't say I will never face defeat it don't say I will never have defeat it says I will never accept defeat I will never quit don't mean you know that everything is easy it means that even if I'm not I don't think I'm good enough I don't
think I'm smart enough I'm I'm not going to quit on myself I'm going to see it through to the end I don't care what the adversity has been you have two choices you can be unforgiving bitter angry upset and be a carrier of grief or you can choose resilience what you will realize is that you have greatness within you what you'll realize is that you're more powerful than you can ever begin to imagine what you will realize is that you are greater than your circumstances that you don't have to go through life being a victim
all right so when you're first learning how to ride a bike your dad your mom sister somebody's holding the seat right they're holding the seat you're pedaling they let go what happens when they let go who said that say it louder what happens when they let go fall you fall everybody understands that right we all get that concept okay so you get back up you're crying you you know scraped your knees it doesn't feel good to fall right falling on the concrete does not feel good okay so you get up but you get back on
the bike they hold the seat you're pedaling they let go you get a little further and then what happen sir you going to fall again it take a few times right everybody has been through that experience in some way right you get what I'm saying here's the lesson it's the falling off the bike that helped you find the balance you already know what failure feels like you already know what it feels like to quit to to stop to throw in the towel to sit on the couch but do you know what it's like to give
everything that you have and push and persevere and to upload the program of resiliency to your heart drive you will fail your way to success see 85% of people allow Their Fear of failure to outweigh their desire to succeed you're going to make some mistakes and it's okay anything that's worth doing is worth doing right if you know how to do it but if you don't know how to do it it's worth doing badly until you get it right falling off the bike actually helped you find the balance and I want you to use that
logic when you think about your life the failures we go through the setbacks we have they actually help us on our life Journey but you can't see that opportunity if you keep looking at the setbacks keep focusing on what didn't go right stop waiting for the storm to pass and ask yourself the question what can I accomplish in the rain give yourselves a round of applause for having uncommon desire to reach your goals to achieve something great with your life bring your level of energy up the wise man once said that whatever does not kill
you only makes you stronger [Music]
