Women prefer to emotionally invest into men who have NEGATIVE behaviors (she loves his brokenness)

all right well I'm here to give all of you some clarity so this is why women prefer to invest emotionally into men who have negative behaviors okay women prefer to invest emotionally into men with negative behaviors I'm going to show you why this is I'm going to show you how you can solve this and I'm going to show you how to make sure that you display the right things that actually creates real attraction that she feels for you so this is what you'll find okay women value even more than peace and stability so majority of

men I really believe they think that like if they just made more money or if they were rich and they were successful that they would attract all the women that they wanted and that women would look at that peace and stability and that consistency that he would be able to bring to the relationship and she would automatically feel as if he's a good fit okay but here's what you're going to find women value their emotions being stimulated okay up and down consistently positive emotion negative emotion positive emotion negative emotion positive emotion negative emotion constantly feeling

something they prefer that far more than they ever will stability and consistency so I'm going to show you why this is because I have a lot of methods for this and I have a lot of methods how you can actually apply this into your dating life once you see this for what it is so the more you date the more you're going to actually see this play out okay and this is why when she's dating you she never actually cares about you and I know that might sound harsh but I really don't care like you

really have to internalize this when she is dating you she literally does not care about you she does not care about you as an individual she cares that you're making her emotions stimulated she cares that she feels something when she's around you so this is why when she's dating you she never actually cares about you she only cares that her emotions are stimulated and that means that you could know her for let's say five years or even more than five years but the day that you stop stimulating her emotions she will either attempt to leave

or she will start to want to cheat this emotional stimulation up and down up and down we had a good day we had a bad day we had a good day we had a bad day we had a good day we had a bad day we had two weeks where every day was a good day and then he did this and now it's a bad day and now I'm mad about this and I'm sad about this and I'm really mad that we didn't get to eat here for dinner and then I'm mad that we didn't

get to go to this movie and then I'm mad that this happened and then he did this and then he said this and I don't know if he cares about me and now I don't know why he wants to sleep in the other room even though we sleep in the same bed every night and yeah that's what she likes to see well how do you know that she likes to see this because every man in her life throughout all of her 20s and probably her early 30s that provided her with this consistency she thought that

they were boring so she left them so keep that in mind okay she could know you for 5 years or more and you might think you actually have a real relationship with a genuine person in front of you and the day that you are not satisfying her emotional state is the day that she leaves so the day that you stop stimulating her emotions she desires to leave you so the biggest thing that men really just have to realize is that women don't actually like them men have to realize this women don't actually like like you

in that relationship they just don't they don't care she likes how you make her emotions feel and that's it she likes how you make her emotions feel that's what she cares about that's what she optimizes for so you'll notice that women really only show love to their children if they have them okay you'll notice that women really only show love to their children so I want you to think for a second and just look how they respond when they're actually like holding a baby for example you will notice that she starts being sweet her vocal

tone is nice she wants to be caring she wants to be nurturing okay think about everything I just said as a man if you act mature and masculine and stable every single day where you're consistent with your temperament and your attitude you're boring okay and you'll most likely get cheated on women only choose to unlock their feminine nurturing spirit for example like when they're with babies or when they're with their children because the baby is problematic so what does the baby do the baby will cry or the baby will scream so now there's a problem

that she has to try to solve she has to be sweet she has to be nurturing she has to get it to calm down the baby might poop randomly just randomly it's problematic then once the baby does that well guess what the baby might start crying again and now she has to deal with that on top of that the baby can't sleep well when the baby can't sleep the baby cries so you're going to notice since there's constantly problems that's what she tends to so now she has something to tend to and now she has

something to fix and this is what you're going to notice women will do is they will constantly be in this cycle of trying to fix the next problem and trying to fix the next problem and trying to fix the next problem and the next problem and the next problem and the next problem and the next problem and that keeps them in the loop of chasing or of wanting more so keep that in mind now she has something to tend to and something to fix so men who act like big babies a lot of times like

just big overgrown immature baby men who act like big babies okay who will not grow up will typically attract the most women as she has now something to nurture and she has a problem to solve and she has something to try to fix but here's what you're going to find stable honest hardworking good men these are the men that get left it doesn't matter how high value you think you are it doesn't matter how many followers you have it doesn't matter how high of status that you have that's what you're going to notice is its

internal person personality temperament traits that she cares about that is it okay so women are drawn to your Brokenness and will desire to look at you like a project that they want to fix or that they want to change they are drawn to your Brokenness if you have bad habits they are drawn to those bad habits they're like how can I help him how can I fix him how can I save him okay this is where most men um will typically get this completely wrong they will try to to save or fix traits okay that

they notice that maybe the woman is displaying that is negatively affecting the relationship and as soon as he gives any effort she loses all desire because he's trying women want to be the ones who are trying to fix and mend the relationship so this is another thing that men have been convinced of is that the better you act the better you're treated but that could not be true okay these are all the negative behaviors that women secretly love but they will never tell you about they really love your lack of care they love your lack

of care your nonchalant attitude your inability to even put forth any effort because you don't think it's worth your time this is all the things that women really are drawn to you being late if you're constantly late oh dinner's at 5: why are you late oh the birthday part's at this time why are you late if she has something to complain about you're winning her over if she's not complaining you are not winning her over I'm going to say that one more time if she is not complaining if she's not constantly complaining about you to

you trying to fix you or change how you are she don't like you women need to constantly be complaining about something that they don't like about you you're going to notice they like to use a bunch of words but when it comes to the action of them actually leaving that guy they won't do it so always look at where their actions go okay being late signals lack of care so these are some of the negative behavioral traits women like a man who's being late okay a man who's forgetful if you're always forgetting things if she

says oh uh the company meeting for the New Year's parties at this time can you be here and then you totally forgot it even existed that's a good example uh not wanting to participate this is great you know everybody is doing family photos over here at this time over at this you know location and you just don't even want to go okay not participating over sleeping okay this is another huge one prioritizing your sleep and not really caring okay um another example for your lack of care would be not being Dependable you can't focus okay

or you're always changing topics like if you're talking and then you just stop mids sentence and you don't even finish that sentence or that paragraph and then you just change directions and you go to a different sentence you're like yeah is that the mle and then uh you know maybe you're getting drinks and then you look over at the waiter you're like oh we should get another one of those do you like that would you eat those I think we should split that and then you look at her you go what was I saying and

she goes oh you were saying at the mall and then you go yeah I can't really remember okay so changing topics you will notice with women like the way you know you're succeeding is if your conversation has no start point and it has no end point it's just a bunch of open loops if you have a bunch of open Loops in your communication and your speech the entire time on the date it's like she's just drawn to you okay so she looks at that type of guy and she goes well he's definitely not boring okay

um and then she goes well I bet I can change him I bet I can fix him up a little bit so he's not so late I bet I can fix him up a little bit so he's not so forgetful let's see if I can get him to participate I know all these good men over here would love to participate in the family photos but I don't care about them because they're boring right what I want to do is I want to see if I can get the guy who doesn't want to participate in the

family photos to participate over sleeping I want to see if I can get him to set an alarm for the first time in 5 years let's see if I can get him to focus on one thing and let's see if we can get him to be the type of guy where I'm proud to say I'm with okay this is what she likes is a a work in progress okay and if she goes well I bet I can change him this is what she's looking for and this is what she's optimizing for now bonus points all

of you out there where you're like well I want to know how I can achieve some bonus points here here's some bonus points if she feels responsible that she is the one who helped you get a better job and she feels like she's responsible for being the one who's helping you make more money because she found a way for you to get a better job so you take more action in life oh man you have just found yourself a recipe for a woman who is so attached oh yeah if she feels like she's responsible for

your success oh wow watch her really want to stick by your side oh yeah she's like oh here's this guy and he didn't have anything going for him and I helped him get a job and I helped him get on his feet and I'm going to fix him up and make him a good man this is what she likes I don't know why there's been so many people telling you over the years like to be this like uh whatever this gentleman this like upstanding guy who has all these great traits whatever this high value characteristic

of being dedicated and dependable for yourself to show yourself that you're the best of all this they don't care they don't care all of that signals effort women hate when they see effort they might like it at first glance o he's put together yeah wait till a date or two when they got to go deeper into his inner workings of his personality traits it's not fun nobody ever told guys this at least no one told me this okay so let's look at this side her goal is to basically find a guy who's like almost like

a little bit of a loser but she thinks he's hot this is like her sweet spot if she finds a guy who like kind of doesn't have the best traits but she thinks he's hot she's like oh I bet you I can build him up I bet I can change him into Prince Charming but only for me okay so this is the problem the problem that you will constantly find in your dating life that you will just constantly find over and over and over and over and over is that women are drawn to Brokenness women

are drawn to your Brokenness they are drawn to your Brokenness and they are only drawn to you if you need help women are only drawn to you if in some way shape or form you appear like you need help keep that in mind so what you will also find in your dating life is they'll spend year after year after year trying to change and fix bad men with no future or change men who will not commit so if she's like oh I want to see if I can change this guy who will not commit or

he has bad traits on paper but for some reason she's drawn to it this is what you're going to find is women are drawn to Brokenness so there's really no way around this because like you can't change what they're drawn to you just have to have new information right if you have new information you can make new decisions about your life of how you'd like to live some of you guys guys right now watching this a lot of you guys have income goals and Status goals that you're hoping will lead to a better dating life

some of you guys right now are optimizing your entire life right now for these two things income goals and Status goals I already know it I know that you are trying to build a better future for yourself in hopes that it will level up your perceived dating value and your perceived smv I'm here to tell you that this isn't going to work I'm here to tell you that a lot of women here are going to look at you as long-term material they're going to want to get some food out of you and some meals out

of you and then they're going to tell you that they had a great time but for some reason you're just not what they're looking for women are drawn to problems okay in life with women you are punished for having your life together often times okay so they'll spend year after year after year trying to change men okay or bad men with no future who will not commit so it's always best like here's the thing if you're a guy where you have a good future for yourself you have a lot going for yourself you show up

to work every day on time you have so many good quality traits you are smart you take good care of your body you're going to have to purposefully add some things that are typically not what you would normally do right away so I'm going to show you what I mean what I would advise to all of you guys who are in this situation you want to be dating multiple constantly see multiple out on dates that's first because that is going to give give basically like ah what am I trying to say this is going to

give some inconsistency in your text message and your call communication so she doesn't know when she's going to get to see you that's first next never act like you care about a future never act like you care about your own future where you're constantly talking about your goals and stuff always just let your actions speak for themselves okay but never act like you're purposely trying to build something especially build something for her this is what a lot of guys do is they try to signal that they are building something for her so they're like oh

yeah you know I just got that new promotion and I'm making so much money and look at the future I'm building us sweetie and she gets turned off because she can feel that attachment okay so another thing you got to remember is always operate on your own time if you want to be late that day be late that day this is what I'm saying okay and then when you have the things she tends to fall in love so this is what you're going to find okay I'm not really sure why everyone believes or beli that

women want these like high value men these high value High status men that everybody thinks that they want if you look at how dating works and how dating operates in the real world okay literally like the real world this is what you have to look at how do things actually play out in the real world okay women don't care so what you have to remember is all this does in her mind mind when she sees wow look how hardworking this guy is look how disciplined he is oh my gosh he could provide this great future

for me all this does in her mind is signal effort what you're going to find play out in your own dating life is all forms of effort starts to become not seductive all forms of effort when you demonstrate effort women are not drawn to this this is not seductive women get turned off by these things so here's what you're going to notice that effort starts to make her think that you're not pre-selected so she goes well only a man who has to try will only man who has to try only man who has to give

effort will why does he think he's not good enough to just be as is he has to try because he has to improve well why does he have to improve because he's not pre-selected because he does not feel as if he's enough so this is why women are drawn to that Brokenness they're drawn to the guys who don't care they are drawn to the guys who are not putting forth effort and what she will do is spend year after year after year trying to change these men so she goes well only a man who has

to try will so this is what I'm getting at okay she basically feels that since you need to add to your Baseline genetics if she sees that you need to add to who you are in any way shape or form she starts to see that there is effort and then she starts to think well he's this way for a reason because something has happened to where he felt the need to improve in the first place and this is why you're going to see The Men Who you would never think in a million years win in

their dating life have way more success than guys trying very hard to grow and to develop whether that be their future their discipline or how they are as an individual like women don't care so what to do with all of this like what should you do with all this you see this for what it is you see how women prefer to invest emotionally into men who have negative behaviors what do you do okay what you have to start to do I say this in almost every video you have to start to learn understand and master

the language of women and the reason being is because there's more than meets the eye when it comes to what she's drawn to her attraction is of the mind it is of the mind it's how she thinks about you it's how she views you it is you as an individual it is not just about what she sees so her attraction is of the mind and what that means is that means every word the reason why I call it the language of women okay because to women words matter words is literally how they facilitate their entire

reality your entire reality when you see the world is through the physical like this the physical women see their reality through words and what words do is words change their emotional state and how they feel which Alters the perception of where they're at that day their reality is different than how you see things every word that comes out of your mouth is either a display of higher status or lower status is every word every text message and every sentence this is why you have to start to learn understand and master the language of women and

I've created an entire process for you to do so we have put over 1,700 guys together showing them this process showing them how to learn understand and master the language of women and since I created a process that I know can help you get results since I created a process that I have seen work since I created a process that so many guys are using I want you to see this too you hop inside of that I'm going to show you a process that any guy can basically just copy past into his dating life and

for once finally have real Clarity to get to where he needs to go this is why women prefer to invest emotionally into men who have negative behaviors no matter how this makes you feel you have to really see this for what it is hit that like button comment and subscribe and we'll see you in the next one