that there is nothing worse in the world nothing more destructive in the world is that the envy brought together by the incapable at first we get scared the moment you lose fear and start to learn to deal with it you will see that envy is envy envy destructive force of the incapable is a marvel today, a concrete and crude example of the oppression and depressive force of the Brazilian social environment . my wife than of my own free will, I didn't study, I studied very little for the test with very little motivation and commitment. It turns out that this morning I was taking some notes From the video about the world of principles, my wife, when she woke up and saw the scene, simply freaked out and started an argument with me, told me that I was irresponsible.
Because I wasn't studying for the exam, after that, the thing evolved into a discussion about my responsibilities as head of the family and one of the main duties, if not the main one from her point of view, was that I I should give her a better life and think about our son, she is pregnant at this exact moment, I realized all the misery and depression of the Brazilian social object, my wife, my parents, the entire circle of acquaintances are unfortunately bourgeois, their paradise, their Holy Trinity and the entire middle class in Rio, I believe, it's a gated community with a swimming pool in Barra da Tijuca, health plan and public office with salaries starting at 10,000 per month, that is, it doesn't matter if I'm looking for a true, authentic, sincere intellectual life or not, what matters is living a bourgeois life with a little public job, all in accordance with the feelings and conventions of the serious men responsible, hey, I argued, perhaps it had been a mistake, that at that exact moment she was being a negative influence in my life, the depressive factor was what kept me away from my vocation, she is not doing That's all she's rooting for your failure because if you 're going on a certain line and that's where you're betting, it's clear that this bet is longer term than the contest, that's right and you're boycotted on this line Speak Ah My son knows what you could be in 20 or 30 years, but what would I be if I had taken the exam for the Banco do Brasil, okay, I would be Olvio de Carvalho, I would be here teaching you, today I would have social independence, authority, prestige that I have It won't be anything like that, okay, I would be another bastard who would be in the psychiatric service of Banco do Brasil, that Banco do Brasil has this remarkable thing, I had several relatives who work at Banco do Brasil, they all ended up in the psychiatric service because the psychiatric service at Banco do Brasil is bigger than Banco do Brasil itself, everyone did an internship there, that's right, sometimes we had to take a leave of absence, right? We went crazy because it was advantageous, going crazy is much better, right? You're on the list You're crazy about what you're working on there, so that would have been my destiny, isn't that so?
Hey, you're making a long-term bet because the exercise of an authentic intellectual life will open up infinitely greater means of public action than you would otherwise have, right? employee of this or that state or private company Okay, let's also say it will strengthen you a lot in such a way that dealing with Brazilian society will in fact become easier for you. At first, you are just observing difficulties and impossibilities And you are a little scared Okay, so you're in the rabbit phase, I mean the rabbit has to stay in the Burrow and every now and then it goes out to get a little food but it comes back running because it's scared and then you go, you get stronger and the your own knowledge of this circle of impossibilities instead of having a depressive role upon you is simply How do you say the map of the battlefield and the better you know this map the more you know Where all the obstacles are, all the difficulties, the better you will come out in the middle, you understand, so together with this teaching here we are saying, I hope that you all learn ways to socially validate intellectual life, there is a infinity of resources that little by little you will realize Okay, you don't need to decide everything at the beginning.
At the beginning, you better be very impressed, how are you here, the sender of this letter, everything is impossible, all the doors are closed, everyone is trying to break up with me, great, do you want to? say you are seeing the map of the problem um now the exit where is the exit until you finish seeing the map you will not discover the exit exit always exists right and just like I have many students who at the beginning of their careers were scared and felt depressed and felt trampled on by society, right, I have others who began to do very well in their respective professions precisely because they were aware of this, right, and they already had intellectual tools to overcome their antagonists, right, which you don't have yet, but you will have continue in the line that you will have Okay, so I have several students who became company presidents and have risen in life like hell, right? By having won, let's say a firmer self-awareness, therefore a justified self-confidence.
Okay, an effective confidence in your means of intellectual action um so this will also happen to you but at first you will have to live the experience of negative pressure, my suggestion is this Stay calm and you will win Okay, I'm not here to give marriage advice either no one is right but I say with your wife be extremely Severe extremely loving Don't give in 1 mm okay but never deny never deny mor Um I mean no don't level your position with hers You are speaking in the name of the duty you have to to constitute yourself intellectually and morally for an honorable battle that you must win and that you will have in due time, let's say even the material financial rewards that you deserve and she has an obligation to help you in this, to bet on your future and not just on her immediate interests. So , even as an employee of this firm, then I say, look, if you have a superior trained intelligence and such, you will do much better there than any Zé Mané has in there, right ? Of course, at first they will try to boycott you due to unfair competition, because nothing is wrong.
There is nothing worse in the world, nothing more destructive in the world, it's just that the combined envy of the incapable, at first we get scared, the moment you lose your fear and start to learn and deal with it, you'll see that it's envy, the destructive envy of the incapable. It's wonderful, it's wonderful because you show your teeth like that a little bit They all run away That's right and at first they pretend they're strong, you understand, but they're not, so it's another thing for you and the important thing is not what your wife thinks But what do you think, right? For example, I think that no father of a family has any obligation to give a better life to anyone, he has an obligation to generously share with his family everything he has, down to the last penny Um, you sell your underwear to you feed your children It's okay, do everything the best you can currently, but you have no obligation to improve, give a better life, no, I can't give it, I can't give it what I don't have, right, and what's more ?
which is a better life You are seeing a slightly better life from an immediate material point of view but I am seeing a much better life, okay where am I going to give you not only that you are asking for but many more things it may take a little longer time but you have an obligation to bet not only on next month but to bet on my future and help me achieve a much better future now how many times have I seen I've seen more Brazilians regretting not having money to buy a good gift for his son at Christmas than regretting having lied, having cuckolded his wife, having beaten him no weaker, having understood, evading taxes, having cheated his creditors, etc. etc. I mean, this obligation to maintain an ideal standard of living, the idealized ideal is a false moral is a Demonic thing, right, it's one of the biggest reasons for perversion in Brazil.
So no one has an obligation to give what they don't have and no one has an obligation to have anything, that's by definition their obligations are to buy in proportion to their resources H so why For example, my son is there studying martial arts, he was at the Championships today , etc. , etc. , right?
He has some obligation to fight with Vanderlei Silva and give Vanderlei Silva a [ __ ] If he wants to prepare for this in the future , it will take 10 years , right? My suggestion, never run away from your duties as a family man, as a husband, never, never, never, never, never, not even for a lifetime of study, see these obligations as something absolutely sacrosanct, tell yourself, if I'm not even capable of supporting the family, it's Of course, I'm not capable of all the philosophy, I have to have a job, I have to have my job, okay, and I have to try to give myself a decent life for my family, worthy of your level Why is being poor unworthy? a poor guy who works, right, you'll say his life is unworthy, what's unworthy is that you don't have money in your pocket, eh, unworthy is you taking your money and blowing it all on [ __ ] and you can't give it to your family, that's unworthy n So you have to see that your obligation is to share what you have with your wife and children, you can even try to improve a little but you have no obligation to move up financially and anyone who demands this from you is very wrong, so you have what to be for your wife you have to be a loving and strict teacher not to be 1 cm Stay calm explain a million times explain Ah you say here that she didn't understand my son it can take 1 explanations explain again and again and again and again and again with patience like this without end if it starts, wait, sit down, I'll explain it to you again, don't wait, sit down, I'll explain it to you again, again, again, again Don't give in 1 cm Don't shout Don't get angry Um, I know that after she continues with the month for 10 years, that's right, so you have the right to be angry, but she's started now Poor thing and she's pregnant, pregnant woman, you know that the blood doesn't go to the right brain so it's missing there, so So with a pregnant woman, don't argue, there's no point, there's no point, she only has half of her active IQ, right?
