I'm not easily shocked but what you're about to listen to shocked me it's a description of a bunch of girls who would keep track of the men that they'd had sex with on this big communal notice board in the middle of their house and each boy would have a rating and some other stuff poor guys names on the [ __ ] wall in front of everyone Oh things crazy and just because they're girls they con me she got away with that no one really kicked up a fuss but if the shoes on the other foot
I will meet up in arms well thank you so much to the woman who told us this story she was so much fun in her video she was in that creepiness video I'll put a link down below if you haven't seen that one yet now when I was editing that footage and I heard her say that I was stunned I was thinking I haven't heard this properly so I went back and I listen to it again what she's saying is that there was a group of girls that were so promiscuous and so proud of their
sexual conquests that they kept a tally they kept track of all the men that that had sex with on a big communal notice board in the middle of the house for everybody to see and all the guys had a rating on how good at sex they were and even when these same guys came round for a party they didn't take this down so their names were just out there for everybody to see now I don't want to labor this point and just get all moralistic suffice to say I do not approve of this behavior and
if I had a daughter and I found out that she was engaging in this kind of activity I would be heartbroken but how did this happen how did it come to be that there was this large group of women who are all engaging in this shameless behavior to understand it and the way that I make sense of it is through the psychological phenomenon where everybody sinks to the lowest common denominator this idea of the lowest common denominator was expressed so well by Jordan Peterson in this interview I saw him doing where he was the results
of this sociological study what they did was they took a bunch of well behaving children and mix them with some at-risk kids kids who are engaging in really bad behavior and they sent them all away to a summer camp where they got lots of adult attention lots of fun nourishing activities now what they predicted would happen was that being around the good kids the sort of badly behaved kids would become better you know the positive attributes of some of them would rub off on the others they actually found the complete opposite was the case what
happened was that the negative attributes rubbed off on the positive kids so even though they're in a a nice environment that was constructed specifically to make them improve their behavior they actually found that on the whole everybody got way worse as the whole group sunk to the level of the lowest common denominator it ultimately didn't matter that they were out in nature having a good time engaging in these structured and designed activities none of that could overcome the environmental influence of being around really bad kids who would influence the behavior of others you know give
tips and strategies on how to to do bad stuff so I imagine in this situation there's this nice girl and she becomes roommates with all these shameless promiscuous women so what's more likely is it that she's going to be a positive influence on them and raised the moral standards of the whole house not that likely what's more likely is that they're going to be a corrupting influence on her she's going to want to get along with her roommates she's going to want to be non-judgmental to be socially accepted the easiest way for her to do
that is to engage in the very same types of behavior and so she joins in on this notice board we understand from evolutionary psychology that women are extremely social and whether or not people like them whether they're part of the group contributes massively to that sense of safety that women desire the danger is that unless you are vigilant and actively discerning what is ethical behavior and what isn't then you are extremely susceptible to outside influence and outside influence is almost exclusively negative happy people don't tend to go around proselytizing trying to convert other people to
their way of life but miserable people do it all the time they actively recruit people to try and see the world the same way that they do this is how the process of sinking to the lowest common denominator occurs and it's the reason that I'm making this video as a cautionary tale if you're in a relationship you need to pay special close attention to the kind of women that your girlfriend spends time with if your girlfriend is friends with these kinds of women the kinds of women who are unashamedly promiscuous and display the men that
they've slept with on a a communal tally board for everybody to see then there's the danger that your girlfriend is going to join them now it is possible that before they met each other as individuals all these women were shameless and promiscuous and they just happen to find each other but I think that that's extremely unlikely in their natural state women are not naturally promiscuous they're naturally quiet reserved and cautious when it comes to sexual interactions because they have that evolutionary instinct that tells them that they need to be careful because they could potentially get
pregnant so it is natural for women to be quite cautious around sex and cautious of the other gender it's not natural for women to be massively promiscuous it's just not which means that in order for this tally board to occur for this situation to have developed it means that a bunch of women have to be acting against the natural instincts and what's capable of motivating women to do this outside of a really strong environmental influence coming from other women it's because of situations like this that I think that you need to be extremely concerned about
the environmental influences that your girlfriend is being subjected to women like to fit in with other women that's just how they're wired and so if she's friends with a bunch of promiscuous women you need to be extremely concerned that even if not explicitly stated there's going to be subtle encouragement from her friends for her to act the same way of course this phenomena is not exclusive to promiscuity if you've got a woman who's having an affair she's feeling guilt she's feeling shame but maybe if all of her friends around her are also having affairs she'll
feel less guilty she'll feel less ashamed and so even if she doesn't state it out loud there's always going to be that tacit encouragement for her girlfriends to cheat on their partners you don't want that kind of influence meddling with your relationship the same for divorce even if the woman is not happy like I said misery loves company and they might subtly try to influence their friends to get divorced as well that way they kind of in it together and you don't want your partner if you're in a happy marriage to spend time with lots
of divorced women for that reason so if your girlfriend has friends like this I think that you need to have a conversation with her and tell her that you're concerned about the people that she's spending time with now she may protest she may say but these are really good friends and I'm a good influence on them and that might be true but more likely is that they're a bad influence on her you wouldn't knowingly expose yourself to a disease and risk getting infected and so why would you knowingly expose yourself to toxic people with toxic
belief systems the leaf systems are contagious and you don't want your girlfriend to catch one of these diseases what you should be doing is if your girlfriend has a couple of friends who you really respect admire you think that they are nice ethical girls the kind of girls who would be a good influence on your girlfriend then talk them up give them compliments say how much you admire them and encourage your girlfriend to spend more time with those higher quality women
