Top 10 Sigma Male Traits | Signs You’re a Sigma Male

there was a time when men were described as either being the alpha male or the beta male one that is neither alpha nor beta and is dancing to the beat of his own drum sigma male they get a lot of attention for good and bad things but it's what we don't yet know about these personality types that keep people coming back for more first what is a sigma male a sigma male is a man who chooses to live his life outside of the normal social dominance hierarchy of society sigma males are often the ones who

step outside their comfort zones create amazing things start businesses are quiet and confident partners and hard workers they are extremely attractive to women because they appear to be self-sufficient and capable of making their own way in life not relying on anyone or anything to meet their needs if you're wondering how to identify a sigma here are 10 characteristics that define a sigma male and separate them from their beta and alpha male counterparts number one he loves being alone but he values other people one of the first things anyone will notice about a sigma man is

how much they value their own solitude despite having the ability to turn on the charisma and charm whenever necessary sigma males are never more comfortable than when they're on their own they're introverts who love having the time and space to think and decompress because other people act like energy vampires around them no matter how much those people may mean to them with that said sigma males still understand the importance of having valuable people around them because they know that they won't be able to accomplish all their goals on their own this means it can be

difficult to be in a relationship with a sigma male especially for women who are used to men who obsess and dote over them sigma men are best partnered with women who don't need to be around their partners at all times because those kinds of relationships can end up feeling too emotionally and mentally draining for a sigma man number two he is a silent leader what comes to mind when you picture the traditional leader someone on the front lines with an entourage of officials or subordinates around him at all times someone who is always on the

highest floor making executive decisions an alpha male who speaks loud always looks big and intimidating and doesn't look like someone you would ever mess with but sigma males are just as capable as alpha males as being leaders except they have their own approach to it sigma men can be counted on to do what needs to be done they have the perfect mix of self-reliance introspectiveness and intelligence to figure out any problem and turn something inefficient into something efficient you would always want a sigma male on your team you get the confidence and leadership of an

alpha male with none of the downsides of someone with a large and fragile ego that needs constant validation a sigma male will never quit regardless of the obstacle or inconvenience instead he will keep working at something until he finds a way around it they are the types who aren't afraid to go do what needs to be done even if it's unbecoming of a leader because their utmost priority is the goal not their image number three he knows how to adapt to different situations alpha males can grab a social group or a situation by the neck

and make themselves the leader but there are times when imposing your own leadership isn't always possible or recommended when alpha males aren't given the respect or authority they think they deserve they have a tendency to become a lesser version of themselves and that's where a sigma male has the advantage while a sigma male can be in charge if they need to be they don't require the validation of being the leader in various social situations and power dynamics they are happy to fit whatever role is needed for them at any given moment meaning they are more

fluid and flexible than alpha males and thus more commonly successful in any situation with no self-imposed expectations or pressures a sigma male can be either a follower a leader or any position in between as long as they know that they are being used efficiently and productively the problem with this however is that this can sometimes rub other people the wrong way the unabashed confidence and freedom to play any part can come off as arrogance intimidating those around the sigma male number four he treats everyone around him the same way so much of our daily life

is built off social hierarchies and it's something that we're first exposed to as early as school most of us end up knowing who the popular kids are how you should act around them and how you should act around the non-popular kids and those habits behaviors and social structures follow us all the way to adulthood sigma males can't stand these invisible and meaningless power dynamics built off nothing but unearned social status they totally reject the notion that you need to treat one person one way and another person another way simply because there are some invisible rules

dictating what kind of person he or she may be so unlike most of us a sigma male is more than happy to treat everyone around in the same way this is one of the reasons they make amazing leaders they don't limit the voices in the room to just the people who've yes man their way to the top they see value and intelligence wherever it may be and other people don't intimidate them because they aren't competing with them number five he doesn't need a social circle to be himself alpha males tend to need structure because their

personality revolves around the reflection of themselves off other people they like knowing that they have control over others and they're manipulating others for good or for bad their personality is so often built off the validation of the people around them they have difficulty imagining who they truly are without the social circles they're a part of sigma males are made differently while they aren't afraid of being a part of social circles they don't drown themselves in social obligations and commitments the way alpha males do they have the security of knowing that their personality exists fully outside

of the bonds of other people they don't follow trends they often don't know what's going on in the world of celebrity gossip and they can't stand the idea of being popular let alone a social media influencer he is the same person no matter what social context he may be in and that actually makes him easier to deal with than most people if you understand who he is then you never need to relearn his personality again he'll never let anyone or anything around him change him number six he understands the importance of silence sigma males are

men of few words you will almost never find them going on and on and on chatting and gossiping about the little things going on in their lives and this is because they firstly don't care about small meaningless things that may no longer matter in a day but also because they understand the value of protecting their own energy and there are few things more important to a sigma man than their own energy but just because they tend to be quiet types doesn't mean they let themselves get pushed around while alpha males can be described as dominant

extroverts sigma males are best described as dominant introverts they command the room by simply walking into it with their presence in their aura whereas an alpha male might command the room with their voice or actions when dealing with a sigma male it's crucial to give him the quiet time he needs most people don't understand that silence between two people doesn't necessarily mean there's no viable connection and being the person who can give a sigma man the silence they need without being awkward about it is an easy way to make yourself a pillar in their life

number seven he hates living life safely the sigma male is unafraid of risks that's not to say he's constantly imposing on authority or acting recklessly unlike full-on rebels sigma males don't have a problem breaking a few rules or taking some well calculated risks if it serves their person he doesn't do this to flaunt his authority or command respect from others unless that's part of his plan but to drive his projects forward every risk has a purpose the sweet balance between pragmatism and idealism is exactly what makes sigma males incredibly efficient leaders and partners they understand

the best possible scenario and produce situations that may not be as perfect but are better suited and more probable for a given situation you'll often find sigma males on top of the food chain in whichever situation they're in they have complex personalities and hate being fitted into one box as a result you'll find that the sigma male in your life is rarely an archetype they excel as athletes entrepreneurs intellectuals and creatives just because they're capable of broadening their horizons and adapt to excel in any environment number eight he's incredibly self-aware introspection is one of the

primary traits of a sigma male as opposed to an alpha male who projects himself outward for everyone to see the sigma male focuses on himself and how his actions impact his entire being sigma males know themselves extremely well they know their strengths and are actively working towards improving the weaknesses they think matter instead of spending his time surrounding himself with people you'll often find the sigma male in his bubble analyzing what he could have done better even without the best social graces they still manage to avoid drama because they know how to handle social situations

and understand how to come across likeable as someone who lives their entire lives in their heads and doesn't really seek out validation they'll surely appreciate it when someone finally notices the very special things about them as introspective as they may be sigma males are still human like the rest of us and may get into trouble from time to time however they'll be able to patch up whatever lapses in judgment they had in no time and turn failures into opportunities for self-development number nine he is the master of his own fate sigma males are independent self-starters

you'll very rarely find them in anything other than executive level and managerial positions as deeply introspective individuals they have a sixth sense for inefficiency and have a knack for breaking down processes into actually actionable steps it goes without saying that the sigma male is deeply ambitious he may not always be the loudest voice in the room but his convictions and morals remain strong even when no one's listening as such the sigma male doesn't really conform to structure and tries to create a lifestyle that best suits his personality his rebellious proclivity shines through here whether it's

in his work his creativity or his relationships he pursues all these things without adhering to rigid structures and establishes systems that are more complementary of his goals and skills the majority of entrepreneurs are sigma male personalities this recurring dominant trait from sigma males pushes them to assert their position take a stand and build something for themselves instead of working for someone else sigma males are fiercely confident individuals who will stop at nothing to get what they want and transform their reality into what they want it to be number 10 it's hard to understand him the

sigma male personality may be one of the hardest personality types to understand because he is neither beaten or alpha but unique in his own way it's difficult to characterize his choices and his behavior because they don't really fit in our binary understanding of what it means to be dominant or submissive if you're dating a sigma male one of the most difficult things about dating him is that he's not very vocal his knack for problem solving tends to come first which may not always be what you need emotionally combine this with the disinterest in playing by

traditional societal expectations sigma males can come across as robotic unfeeling partners this could not be farther from the truth sigma males are among the best partners out there precisely because they're highly self-aware they may not always communicate what they're thinking or planning because they live in their own heads but that doesn't mean he doesn't take you into consideration sigma males are primarily solution driven they want to keep moving forward and help those he cares about become the best version of themselves too this fascination for efficiency can come across a little unempathetic at times but it's

his way of showing you he cares no one else lives by the motto action speaks louder than words better than a sigma male if you enjoyed this video give it a thumbs up and share it with your friends so i can keep making them for more videos like this hit the subscribe button and remember to click on the notification bell also be sure to check out our other videos as well thanks for watching and i'll see you in the next one