there's been so many times where women say to me he like oh I told him I want a divorce but hoping he'd come back for me but he let me pack my bags when we push you and you succumb to us you automatically lose us what with so after I gave him the ultimatum he just looked at me in my face and was like if you feel like you need to move move is I just really blurted that out I did not mean it I had no intention I had no so the last day I
was putting my stuff in the car he came over and helped me put my stuff in the car give him a ultimato give him me that grown ass man I will help you Pat that he he doesn't know what it's like to do effort for woman I told him you either marry me or I leave and it backfires we got a video from Modern dating here like the video subscribe stay on the path of progress let's get into it there's been so many times where women say to me it's like oh I told him I
want a divorce but hoping he'd come back for me but he let me pack my bags so sometimes they file for divorce or take it that far as a way of testing their partner and if they're with quite a help partner they'll think you mean it and that's the thing if he's a masculine guy he's just not going to put up with any of that BS yeah you want to leave there's the door there it is have fun no arguments no emotion nothing okay there's the door bye so this is what's commonly referred to as
a [ __ ] test or a masculinity test as I call them and this is what women do either subconsciously or consciously I just know that they do it and they do it to basically find out what kind of man are you are you the strong man Alpha Adam or are you the poor weakling beta Bob and how you respond to this test is how she sorts you into those categories so in that example when she is saying yeah I'm going to divorce you or whatever he just says yeah okay go ahead there's the door
have fun he stays solid inside his masculine frame he stays solid within his choices and within himself who come collected he doesn't let her affect him now that is obviously what the alpha adom guy does so he passed but since it was so extreme she's be gone for good let's be real test their men constantly it's an evolutionary thing because here's the reality child birth is potentially fatal so to put that risk onto a relationship he better be able to endure all types of storms so we have to test them so we have to unfortunately
test them we have to test are they going to be faithful financially stable have their own boundaries now the problem is unfortunately for men when we push you and you succumb to us you automatically lose us what we're saying when we're pushing you is really make sure you don't give into this because if you do then I know you're not strong enough oh my God give me an example it might be something like I push a man to say I'm going to come home when I want I'm going to come on girls trips I'm going
to do whatever I want and then when you actually give in and say okay essentially she feels like she's not being protected so she feels like nobody's governing her you don't have a spine you're not responsible or she might say I'm talking to my ex-boyfriend and you say I don't feel comfortable with that she no you have to I have to have to fine he accepts it essentially she's saying that you don't mind if I have an affair by essentially what we're begging for is sometimes is the boundary we're not looking for you to bow
down wow so hard for men to figure that out I feel so bad for men it's like a reverse psychology all the time unfortunately the way I think about this is it is your job as a man to basically build up your walls to build up your Fortress so is strong sturdy and firm and that's what gives you frame okay so you have these big castle walls up right you have your watchtowers you have moat all the way around and women go around your walls they go around your Fortress to test the structural Integrity okay
they go around they have a sledgehammer in hand they hit the wall a couple of times huh this is this is pretty sturdy or they hit over here a couple of times oh that collaps pretty easy there's a weak point okay and this is just women bro that's how it is and here's the thing it depends on the situation it depends on each individual man and woman but basically the more masculinity test that you fail the more she is going to test you and the more she is going to disrespect you until eventually she just
leaves cheats on you Etc whatever so basically women will do everything but communicate directly yes fellas if a woman tests you on a regular basis you better run for the hills there's Nuance to this one all right because women do this just across the board and one thing you really need to understand is say you're just starting to date a girl and she's giving you these masculinity test don't take this as offense she is literally just testing your strength testing your capabilities seeing if she can make you emotional she is seeing the strength of your
character and if you continually pass these masculinity tests you are significantly more likely to get her in the bedroom okay that's the game so after I gave him the ultimatum he just looked at me in my face and was like if you feel like you need to move move and so we went through 3 months of like chicken where I had no friends in Vegas no family in Vegas I just really blurted that out I did not mean it I had no intention I had no job I had nothing I had no plans on moving
to Vegas I thought I was going to force this man to propose to me the way I see ultimatums like this is that it is essentially the ultimate masculinity test okay it's the ultimate test of frame she is basically trying to force you to do something that you don't want to do so if you accept it you put a ring on it honestly bro you might be doomed to be beta Bob for the rest of your life I'm not even going to lie because that's what it is it's a battle of frames who can win
this interaction don't negotiate with terrorists all right for 3 months he was like do what you got to do you want to move move so the last day I was putting my stuff in the car he came over and helped me put my stuff in the car and we putting stuff in the trunk and I just started crying I'm like you really going to let me leave he looked at me and he said have a safe trip gach chat my first wife gave me an ultimatum she left me a note saying to get out because
she wanted a divorce the relationship was going very badly at the time I packed my stuff and left the next day she called later wondering why I had left I never saw her again no kids in the relationship she had nothing to hold over me and overplayed her hand I remarried to a great gal and I'm happy for women doing a test like that like saying you know get out this is my house I want a divorce that is just low IQ are you kidding me you're putting your entire relationship on the line but I'm
always curious with situations like this because it's very rare that things are going just 100% perfect just 100% peachy everybody is in just a state of blissful happiness and then all of a sudden she just drops this nuke on you like oh I want the divorce papers get out of my house that kind of stuff compliance is more like a ladder okay so it doesn't start with get out of the house I want a divorce it starts with did you put the toilet seat down it starts small then it gets a little bit bigger honey
did you clean the toilet and then it just builds and builds and builds until ultimately she is completely leading you she can't respect you and now she wants to kick you out of the house it's like the final masculinity test it's not reverse psychology it's called a [ __ ] test just walk away if you get one okay this guy's definitely missed out on a lot of opportunities cuz really the masculinity test kind of only in the beginning of the relationship and after those first beginning stages of dating if you're a good man and you
have a solid frame you will almost never be [ __ ] tested again in your relationship and if they do randomly pop up I would take that as a red flag like hey what is going on here cuz after all of these you know test in the beginning should be pretty smooth sailing both of the roles are well defined she knows you're the leader and she accepts her role as the follower and it's pretty simple you can red be like I was saying I think we should just stay friends you know what I'm saying cuz
I'm not ready for a relationship like you know I'm just not ready for all that right now you know what I'm saying like real talk damn ch's thinking it now huh you did cornbread cornbread cornbread too this ain't G this from scratch Lord [ __ ] and you cook this like this all year WR stay the same taste like this all year round well I don't know baby look you mind if I take myx off look check this out I'mma take my Alx off for a couple years cuz I've been thinking since I've been sitting
here eating on this that you might be right we might do need to get in a relationship because um real talk I've been hung lately and these women I've been dealing with that you know um this The Taste I've been looking for so uh you want to get married tomorrow we you want to get married tomorrow cuz yeah that look like that was going to Happ me I don't want to be single no more I'm going go we going to go and get married tomorrow and I'm I'm going bring my little TV and my little
VCR that I got my four pair of boxes that I got at the crib with Mom and bring them on over here with you cuz look like this is my home look like I the phone to [Laughter] have that is so funny it's a joking clip of course but there's so much truth in it because that is what real female game looks like women should strive to be such an asset to your life providing so much comfort so much sweetness that your life is literally worse without her and this right here is truly how women
get what they want providing just so much value to that man that it enables him to be an even better version of himself takes stress off of his back so he can work even harder that right there is how women get rings that's how they do it a lot of women today really only have one or two moves that they use they either give you the bedroom fun or they take it away and that's it I don't want to go to your house he's like oh okay then I'm I'm going to drop you back home
and I'm like what I can I cannot believe at this point in my life I'm like okay so then like I had something okay at 1:00 p.m. so then I told him like oh can you at least drop me where I'm going like so then I will stay there he's like I'm not going to drive all the way there you know what I told him via text I told him like look the last thing you will hear from me is that you deserve the the people that you're with like you deserve the woman that you're
with because we're talking about a man that he he doesn't know what it's like to do effort for woman he's like let's go buy a pack of donuts and we will go to my house why for what why would I go to your house even if it's not the first time I see you why would I do that guys can you imagine the shock so he dropped me back home okay and I'm like okay thank you for the tour you you gave me a tour in the city loved it do you see how Smiley she
is do you see how excited she is this guy is swimming in her head ever since to the point where she has to make a Tik Tok video about it just saying like oh my God this guy had so much masculinity he had so much frame oh my God like this reaction right here how Smiley she is she is literally one text away from being in this guy's bed that's the way it is she's giggling like a school girl basically and it's because this guy had a pair of balls he put her in her place
didn't put up with any of her BS yeah you want to play games okay bye go home so how you pass the masculinity test is basically just to brush it off your shoulder it doesn't mean anything you can ignore her you can call her annoying just literally call her out like wow what a weird question to ask the main message that you are trying to get across is that you are unbothered unfazed by whatever the masculinity test is I'm marrying for for love for true love don't do that don't marry for love marry for money
okay a Met Gala ticket is $775,000 true love can't buy you a Met Gala ticket marry for money so she's basically saying that she's a payto playay woman just with a few extra steps in between it is what it is $75,000 for a met Galla ticket people still won't know or care who you are yeah exactly she's prioritizing a $75,000 event ticket rather than a house she isn't even gold digging for stability I don't know why that cracked me up dude like the whole idea of like this very rational gold digger is very funny to
me it's been 30 days we've been married you haven't changed nothing into my name you haven't put a house in my name you haven't put the insurance in my name this who I married this who I married 30 days ago this who I married 30 days ago what really taking you so long like 30 whole days Des 30 whole days and you still haven't put me on nothing like nothing it time to do it's like you not even taking this marriage serious it's like you taking it too serious right now it's like you still M
look check me check me out my mama boy mama's boy do you love me or you love the money which one you what are you here for dude just yikes how can you marry a woman like that bro just loud obnoxious a marriage is supposedly for life if you're never planning to get divorced bro what's the rush chill relax it's all good unless you're planning some shady [ __ ] huh huh planning something Shady huh you care about cuz what if you died what if you died what's going to happen to me if you die
who going to take care of me this is the mostal like gas we got married going to do everything you going make sure I'm taking care of and now I'm like second gu everything you you can't be serious right now yes I am cuz you don't even love me the Bible says when a man how you going to say that said that he clean to his wife and leave his mother like what is wrong with you worried about some paperwork go sit down go sit down go give my ring back then how about that take
the ring off no we ain't married take the ring off then take the ring off back cuz that's a promise and even still not getting you you liar straight line and when I get for the judge I'm going let the judge know that you bro just such a f just such a yikes and this is the woman that he decided he decided to put a ring on this woman he was like yeah that's that's the wifey material right there yikes dude yikes my R back there we can this right now can put it right here
put it right here thank you see I don't care take your R see whatever you want to get my last name back go go back to go back to Sanchez first 30 days and she's acting like this get an enement second what if you die bro she's plotting that get out get out now that's a good advice right there bro she already had an exit plan I will an know that marriage quick as all get out what all right grammar's hard sometimes yeah cuz let's be real if that guy really thought that that woman was
wifey material enough to put a ring on it bro got some work to do let's be real uh R are you married yes cool is he happy he happy that's a weird question usually they ask if I'm happy yeah but like it's a different kind of an interview I'm just you know because he's not here like I I want to show my care for him as well is he happy your answer is yes no do you don't want to you don't you don't want to answer that question no I think it's okay I think I
think we got the answer who we that's me and the and the camera guy you got it bro [ __ ] you yes and [ __ ] you what dude what wow man whoa what a clip holy so here's the thing I don't think men should be too concerned with their own personal happiness you should be more concerned with your output getting that personal fulfillment building yourself up as a man and don't be too worried about your happiness okay because when men indulge in just pure happiness just doing what makes them happy so to speak
that's when you see guys that are just obsessed with video games they just play video games all day they don't really care about much else you're eating junk food constantly not on your purpose not providing anything not taking care of anyone in your life just chilling just chilling being happy those are the guys on the PE Hub every single day let's just be real for me personally my emotions are pretty flat they're pretty Baseline across the board most days of course I have good days and bad days like anyone but for the most part they're
just pretty even so what you should do is try and take on more stress put more on your back put more on your shoulders because that is the thing that's going to make you feel more like a man it's going to make you feel more fulfilled and that's what will bring you true lasting happiness and your woman's role if you're in that good healthy traditional relationship both of you understand your roles you should try and soothe as much of that stress as possible okay you shouldn't try and take that stress away like trying to do
your job for you just soothing that stress like you're the big man you can do this I'm your cheerleader type of stuff but I am well aware most people don't think like I do okay in this situation it seems like there's a lot going on behind the scenes I imagine she feels called out for feeling selfish for not thinking about her husband's happiness that's what it is if I had to guess but I'd be very curious to see what you guys have to say about it so leave a comment below is your husband happy no
answer truthfully I'm surprised the answer wasn't who the f cares about his happiness he's the husband his feelings don't matter it's all about me so here's the thing you as the man you need to be able to do things despite your emotions if you are feeling sad if you are feeling pain if you are depressed you still need to be able and get up and do what you need to do I'm not saying it's easy I'm saying that's what you need to do when women are in that Dynamic they're able to rely on a strong
man what she does is she's able to tap into to your emotional state and if you are cool calm and collected across the board that's what she is going to feel she's going to feel like wow I can just relax I'm totally safe my man has this cover and that's what is going to bring her more fulfillment and happiness the fact that she can rely on you what you said I said brok always got something to say you know me how how how you know I'm broke you live here don't you yeah I stay by
myself what's that supposed to mean wait you calling me broke because I stay here yeah in the same complex that you stay in yeah how that make sense I talk me have to have a curiously know what what all does a guy need to qualify to date you he needs to have his own crib not in apartment his own car that's not busted at least making six figures and know how treat me like a princess yes how you is 22 you stay here by yourself I live with my mom this your car I st with
her too yeah what you do for a living I work at Wendy's that's it yeah so how the do you expect us to have all that when you ain't got none of it what he need to worry about is what he got going on that's all that matters so he got to pull up on you every time y'all hang out like you ain't even got the option to do that for him okay mind your damn business and Go On by your day trash man where the F that came from you taking out the trash aren't
you yeah like a normal person would my would have them come get it from the house he still got to take it to the D ma'am you you have a nice day I I hope your delusion come to life delusion what's that supposed to mean you still talking bro always got something to say like the video subscribe stay on the path of progress I'll see you guys later
