The HARSH Truth About Going Monk Mode { It's Actually HURTING You!!}

what is the big term in our space abundance mindset right how in the world you're going to have an abundance mindset if a lot of your life you have not worked on let's go boys let's go let's go let's go let's go let's go alright guys man welcome back to another YouTube video and today I have a buckle your seat belt strap on your your parachute type of video the harsh truth about going monk mode why it's actually hurting you guys this is probably going to be one of the most important videos I've ever made

so I need you guys to pick very very close attention if you need to take out a notepad for this video please take it out and pay very very close attention to everything I'm going to say right this is going to help you very very well long term so please open your eyes your nose your ears everything and pay attention let's jump right into the video I have no time to waste guys the hardest truth about going monk mode why it's actually hurting you guys the first thing is monk mode actually makes you socially awkward

and this is partly my fault for a long time I myself right along with other people have told guys focus on yourself focus on this focus on this but what I've learned right as I've grown up as I've had more life experiences as I've had more failures and results is that you as a man need to be very very competent in all parts of your life so you're not a Target so you don't lack in certain areas and I believe this is what monk mode has done to not just myself but to a lot of

guys when you're only focused on one thing you become extremely socially awkward I got guys coming to me who haven't talked to a girl in over two years I got guys coming to me who are 40 50 years old and the woman that they're dealing with they can't even go out there after she dumps him they can't even go out there and have a conversation with a girl this is what monk Moore has done it has forced men into a corner to become a inadequate in a lot of areas of their life hoping to be

great at one area of your life and guys I have realized that this is a horrible mistake you need to be able to practice your social skills all right I remember when I was in college and I was studying engineering and you know I was just focused on engineering just focusing on school I didn't know how to talk to a girl I couldn't even go up it was like girls frightening me and I look back now and I'm like how did I come on YouTube and give guys this advice right I've never really been a

huge fan of monkey more but I've given guys the advice to just focus on one thing and I'm looking back on my life well I struggled the most all parts of my life guys where I struggled the most it was because I was trying to do one thing at a time instead of being a more well-rounded man when I didn't when I wasn't able to talk to girls was because I was focusing just on school when I wasn't making as much money as possible it was because I was focusing just on girls socially aware you

need to be socially confident right this is going to translate to all parts of your life your business your relationships with men and women you need to become good with men as well so if you're stuck at home not doing anything because you're on monk mode guess what this is gonna make you a weirdo because your social score is going to be very very low and then when you do try to come back out there and be better with people it's gonna show you're gonna it's gonna be off putting your your behavior is not gonna

just it's gonna look weird so guys I am now an advocate for all men to not do this because what I've seen and the reason I'm making these videos because I've seen so many guys suffer from this and they're they're realizing the problems too late so I'm here trying to save as many people as possible try to get as many guys to get off this nonsense as fast as possible and to start becoming more competent the more competent man wins the better you are at everything the better you are as a man self-improvement is not

working on one thing singularly self-improvement means I am working on my entire self you cannot call yourself high value myself included if you're just good at one thing why not good at everything why can't you be focused on your work be focused on your Fitness be focused on your money while still being good with women why it's not that much of a feat it's not that complicated to do I'm not saying you go start prioritizing women or or money no that's not the point of this video the point of this video is not to start

prioritizing anything you get my point the point of this video is to prioritize everything not just one thing at a time put the things that you need to focus the most time on the Indian too first what I like to do guys I like to draw a triangle my work purpose comes the top of the train this is what I'm going to dedicate the most amount of time to in a single day second is my fitness third will be my family and friends lastly is women in that triangle I have dedicated several hours to my

purpose to get in the gym to my family and friends and lastly to women but there's no point in the day there's no point any day where i'm not working on every part of my life so when I get to the top when I finally reach the heights of success that I want to reach there's no part of me that anybody can manipulate there's no part of me that anybody can say oh well you got this but you don't got this there's no part because I've worked on everything I don't want to help raise a

generation of men and I don't want to see what I'm seeing now guys who are older who have come and made money and but they but they are they're lacking so severely in one part of their life that is ruining them literally guys coming to me who are 40 years old 50 years old their girlfriends have dumped them the girls damn wives have dumped them taking half their [ __ ] and now they have to go back in the market with no idea what to do with no idea how to to to attract women in

their life because they've never worked on this all the money in the world what does that mean if a woman woman sees you as an easy target so play please guys you need to start dedicating time to become better at everything you cannot be socially awkward and expect that just because you're focusing on getting better in the gym or just because you're focusing on getting better uh money that that is going to overcompensate I'm gonna get to that point a little bit later let's get to the second point the monk mode forces you to operate

out of scarcity what is the the big term in our space abundance mindset right have an abundance mindset have an abundance mindset how in the [ __ ] world you're gonna have an abundance mindset if a lot of your life you have not worked on how how in the world are you going to have an abundance mindset if the only thing you're good at is what you have to now use to to to over compensate for the lack of in other parts of your life abundance mindset guys you get through abundance you get abundance when

you're competent in all areas of your life I'm gonna take me for instance guys like I mentioned a little earlier if I look at all the stages in my life if I'm FedEx Field is right now at 26 years old if I can go back to a FedEx Village at 17 18. the one advice that I would tell him is to do exactly what I'm telling you guys to do right now hey bro this engineer [ __ ] you trying to get you ain't gonna make that much money you start learning some [ __ ]

else hey bro the girls ain't picking you because you look like [ __ ] you don't even know how to speak to a girl start working on that you ain't okay [ __ ] but you not in great shape I would have told myself to give myself more abundance and start working on more areas in my life I've had to make the mistake of trying to do this one thing even if I got good at this one thing I still was struggling in other areas you don't get abundance magically you don't get abundance by acting

out of scarcity what I'm seeing is that guys they work on parts of their life right let's say it's a guy who just worked on his money he works on his money but he hasn't practiced his social skills he hasn't got good with talking to women he doesn't know how to text girls he like he doesn't have an attractive image that can consistently allow him to attract women so what do you think that what do you think happens guys let's see like you watching this video if a guy hasn't worked on those parts but has

been working on his money what do you think didn't happen once he gets money I'ma let you tell me he does what he overcompensates with what win money this is how guys are getting screwed or let's say a guy just have status he hasn't worked on social skills he hasn't worked on understanding women what do you think happens when he finally reaches the level of status he has that he wants he overcompensates with status let's look at Mr Zion Williamson for for a second Zion Williamson is a perfect example of a guy who didn't understand

women but got status and now is suffering the consequences because of that dealing with Scallywags corn Stars because he doesn't know how to properly vet women a true high value man we don't need to sleep with every girl we we've dealt with so many women or enough women to know which woman to avoid we don't just look at a pretty face in the big butt and say that's enough for you to get with me we know that there are consequences for dealing with certain types of women so we just avoid them we have big discipline

how do you get big discipline guys is it bad working on this more part of your life or becoming very well very competent as a man to where all parts of your life are on point so you know what to look out for when you work on just one part of your life like a Zion Williamson you become a Target you guys understand that there are women out there who look for men like that who look for men that don't understand game they all did that have status they they're literally women out there guys who

they will pray on guys who are coming up or who have just made it hoping they don't they don't know female nature latch on to them as a meal ticket is that who you want to be do you want to work on your status and your money to then become a Target or do you want to have the skills the the power to be able to attract the kind of woman you want in your life while also working on your status money looks if you want to stop operating out of scarcity if you want to

finally be respected you gotta start getting good at everything you're harder to replace guys when you're scarce not when you're operating out of scarcity who is the man that is that is easier to replace is it the man who just has money is it the man who just has status is it the man who just understands women or is it the man who has everything I would rather be a 85 in all parts of my life you guys already know me I have a very obsessive character I have an obsessive nature about things when I

want to work on something I'm going to do it a million percent I'm I'm like rigorously working on all parts of my life because I'm obsessed about results I don't want to be a Target I don't want to get finessed I don't want to just lead with my success I don't want to just leave with my looks I want women to have a hard time replacing me it's gonna be hard to replace you like me when I got everything when I'm in great shape when I'm handsome when I understand women when I have status how

old is gonna be harder to replace a guy that checks all the boxes or the guy that takes more miles monk most sets sets you up to be played by most women so another thing I'm realizing is when guys this focus on one thing they start to overcompensate but they get with women and now all their cars are on the table what do you mean by this FedEx well if you only have one part of your life that you've worked on so much you're now it's like you're playing Russian roulette right it's like okay this

is the one I'm hoping that I don't get my my my head cut off by picking the wrong girl you're hoping that whatever you just worked on is what this one woman values and if she doesn't what happens you get frustrated you get angry this is where this red pill rage comes from because a lot of guys will work on themselves for so long and then they they finally get back into the market and what happens ah you you know you look good but you're poor so women still don't take you seriously oh you got

money but you don't look good so women use you for your money so guys become even more frustrated and it sets them up to be played by them because what do you guys know about women they have programmers they're emotional but they always trying to poke hoes in who you are as a man right you guys know this if you've dealt with women long enough you will know that women are always trying to find what your weakness is so when they realize that you haven't you you're not as well-rounded as a man that you can

be they know that your money is all you got they know that your status is all you got they now say okay they're gonna play into that and then they're gonna try to play you because they see they see one big old Target they feel like you don't understand them they feel like they can use you right for what you're good at you don't want to be played by women who are looking at you as an easy come up you don't want to be played by women who are looking at you as okay he got

this but he don't got this so I'm gonna go get what he don't got from elsewhere that's why I tell you guys I'm not playing when I say all parts of your life I'm working on my sex game I'm working on my looks my health my like I'm obsessed about results guys I track my [ __ ] water every day I track my food every day I track my money every day I take time look I got a damn Kindle I take time to read every day I'm that serious about making sure that no part

of my life is lacking I refuse I'm constantly trying to educate myself I'm constantly trying to give myself an edge why because I know the more competent I become as a man all right the harder I am to replace it's very it's gonna be very hard to play me it's gonna be it's gonna be tough I ain't just worked on my money I ain't just working on my looks it's gonna be tough and lastly monk Mo makes you more insecure in the long run what I want you to be as a man right FedEx Field

is look at FedEx Fields look at my advice as I'm gonna tell you what's harsh right I'm not your friend guys I am not your friend I am here as a father figure as a motivator so you get the most out of life I don't give a damn if you don't like me I really don't care I want you to give results I would rather you get results than like me because what you gotta understand is we're all being programmed by somebody somebody's programming you bro is your programming does it have your best interests at

heart are the words that I'm telling you do I have your best look at your life in total analyze what I've just told you so far in this video if you look at your life on a long enough time span which advice do you think is going to be best for you on a long enough time span being a very competent man in all parts of your life or working on just one area you just think about that for a second G right I don't want you to be a man that once you work on

one thing you then you know you not you haven't worked on everything else so now you you're insecure about certain parts of your life I don't want you to be insecure about anything I want you to be so damn confident that it's unbelievable that women have no choice I want you to give the people in your life women and men no choice but to have tremendous respect for you to Value you to be afraid of losing you and this happens when you're competent in all areas of your life insecurities are bred from a lack of

knowing that you're not that good in in certain parts of your life human beings were very realistic we try to pretend like we're not but we know what we struggle with we know what we struggle with guys and the things that we lack those things tend to eat at us I'm telling you as a man that the the sooner you can get serious about improving all parts of your life improving your skills with women improving your your understanding of Life money finances health and fitness I want my guys to be undeniable right I want you

to be under it just it didn't makes no sense like people just have to give you your props you have they have to give you your flowers they you just you're just that dude please guys as a man what I'm realizing is I'm getting guys who are young I mean guys who are old who have decided that I'm just going to do one thing at a time and then they're suffering so much from it all the money in the world won't make you uh lose your social awkwardness getting all the women in the world won't

make you money no part of your life needs to be lacking I want you to be good at everything so there's nothing that a woman can come in the future and poke at you with oh you insecure about this huh now they finally weakies I ain't gonna play on their weakness I want my dudes to be what undeniable get to being undeniable start working on all parts of your life prioritize the things that require the most energy from you so what I want you guys to do everybody watching this video right now if you don't

already have Google Calendar download Google Calendar this is high prioritize and track my days the things that take the most amount of time they get the most amount of time my business my purpose they it gets a chunk of my time but I also got time for my Fitness in there I also got time to talk to family and friends and I also got time to deal with women the problem with guys is you're focused on chasing women that's the truth the [ __ ] that's telling you oh you you with me for a second

how do you have to forgive women if you attracting them not chasing them if you focused on attracting women how in the hell you got to spend more time with girls bro I work on my image I work on my fitness I make sure I create an attractive image of who I am so I can consistently attract women I don't got to spend that much time to get new girls I don't gotta spend more time to get dates you guys spend that much time to get days because you haven't worked on creating and attracting women

so don't sit up here and act like women are taking that much of your time oh I dare taking that much of your time because you're spending so much time if you spent that time to prioritize your image who you are as a man you can focus on attracting women it's 168 hours in a week bro come on G 24 hours in a day even if you sleep eight hours and if you even if you work 12 hours which most of y'all are not doing that's how you work eight hours you sleep eight that's sixteen

they still another eight left you work out two hours that's 18 hours that's still six hours left what else are you doing with your day focus on attracting women and they can they can get less time you can spend less time to get them bro I know guys who run businesses and still don't attract women they're not spending every hour talking to girls but they've worked on their inmates to attract women in their life so you don't have to spend that much time getting new women when you do have free time that's when you can

deal with them competencies in all parts of your life makes you high value self-improvement is working on your entire self and I'm out man like comment subscribe share the video love you boys