When You Constantly Thinking About Someone - God Could Be Telling you This. Open It Right Now!

you know there's a journey we're all on a journey not just toward the realization of her Earthly hopes dreams and plans but a journey toward a higher calling a Divine Purpose sometimes it can feel like something's missing like there's a puzzle piece that just doesn't fit we meet so many people throughout our lives some are just passing through While others leave Lasting Impressions family friends colleagues they all have the roles and yet there's that lingering question that inexplicable longing for something or rather someone more Proverbs 19:21 reminds us many are the plans in a person's

heart but it is the Lord's purpose that prevails our heart's yearning may be pointing us in a direction we haven't explored guiding us to a connection that can help us fulfill our god-given mission picture yourself walking in a dense forest guided only by a compass that Compass is your faith leading you towards your destiny now imagine you find a partner on this path someone whose presence not only comforts you but aligns with your divine plan it could be a mentor a close friend or even a life partner the Apostle Paul writes in Romans 8:28 and

we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him who have been called according to his purpose it's normal to question whether our desires are aligned with God's plan especially when it comes to relationships yet if we are diligent in seeking his will we may discover that the very yearning in our hearts is a nudge from God directing us to someone who will be instrumental in fulfilling our divine Destiny it's not merely a feeling it's a spiritual call echoing deep within you you a sign that you're meant to live

an impactful life and that someone you're thinking of perhaps they're a part of God's grand design for you a co-pilot on your journey towards purpose and fulfillment Embrace this longing as an opportunity to explore to pray and to seek guidance from God it's not a sign of weakness or confusion it's a sacred signal a whisper from the Creator that something beautiful and meaningful is on the horizon take a step of Faith trusting in his plan reflect on 1 Corinthians 134 to7 love is patient love is kind and remember when God leads you to someone it's

not a coincidence it's a Divine connection listen to your heart but also to his voice and let his love guide you to where you're meant to be so what are some of those reasons a divine Divine calling for a special purpose perhaps this person you're thinking about is someone God wants to connect you with the fulfill a specific Mission or purpose everything in this world was created through God and for his glory as stated in Colossians 1:16 all things were created through him and for him could it be that this individual fits into God's grand

plan for you reason two a journey behind this world life is a fleeting moment in the vast expanse of Eternity as we try to grasp our place in this transient world we realize that our existence extends far beyond the here and now the thoughts you have about this person might be a pathway to understanding a higher calling something that transcends Earthly bounds reason three uniting for the benefit of all God has designed us to be part of of a grand tapestry each thread woven together with purpose and intention when we look at the example of

Ruth and Boaz in the Bible we see how God orchestrated the relationship to benefit not just them but generations to come maybe the thoughts you're having about this person are God's way of guiding you toward a relationship that could enrich many lives reason for an invitation to trust and explore finally these recurring thoughts might be an invitation from God to trust and explore what he has in store for you it's like the parable of the talents where the master entrusts his servants with resources God may be entrusting you with this relationship to see what you'll

do with it will you embrace it and multiply the blessings or will you bury it in fear and uncertainty so if you find yourself irresistibly thinking about someone take a moment to pray and reflect seek God's wisdom and guidance it may very well be that he's calling you to Something Beautiful purposeful and eternal God's wisdom shines through every aspect of Our Lives molding our paths guiding our relationships and shaping our Destinies in The Grand Design of the universe everything is perfectly aligned for a reason and when it comes to relationships God's voice is ever present

Whispering gently into our hearts consider the creation story Adam was alone in the garden and God in his Divine wisdom saw that he needed a companion thus Eve was born from Adam's side an intricate part of his being but God's intervention in our love lives is not restricted to Biblical times it continues to resonate in our lives today unlike Adam and Eve we may not witness Divine apparitions but we sense God's gu guidance through the quiet stirrings within our soul Ruth and boaz's love story is an incredible testament to God's deliberate orchestration their Union was

not born from Mere attraction or convenience it was a relationship imbued with eternal purpose a connection destined to reach beyond their generation God's hand was in every step they took towards each other just as he's guiding you towards someone special when you constantly think of someone when your heart aches to be with that person pause for a moment and ask yourself is God speaking to me through these feelings sometimes our emotions might not make sense just like when God instructed the prophet Hosea to Mary Gomer it seemed illogical but it was aligned with a higher

purpose one that was part of God's magnificent plan God is neither random nor chaotic he's a god of order just as he places the stars in the sky and commands the waves of the sea he arranges our relationships with Precision he sees the beginning and the end the joys and the sorrows and he's orchestrating it all to culminate in his perfect will when you feel that unrelenting pull towards someone know that it might be more than just mere infatuation it might be a sign from God guiding you towards a relationship that's not just for the

present Joy but also Al for a purpose that transcends time trust in his wisdom and embrace the journey he set before you if God's placing someone on your heart Embrace that guidance for he's leading you to love and purpose beyond your understanding your relationship if Guided by God is a beautiful tapestry in his Grand Design when God created Adam the first man he placed him in the beautiful Garden of Eden filled with abundance and Tranquility but amidst the perfect surroundings God recognized something profound it is not good that man should be alone I will make

him a helper suitable for him Genesis 2:18 this profound wisdom transcends time and speaks to the essence of our Human Experience God's design isn't for us to navigate life's journey alone but to find those specially designed to walk beside us imagine a Mighty Oak tree rooted deeply in the earth alone it stands tall but its branches May bear the weight of Life storms now picture a forest where each tree supports the others creating a canopy that Shields against the harshest winds together they Thrive for two are better than one because they have a good return

for their labor Ecclesiastes 49 in relationship there are those destined to support us alleviate our burdens and make our journey more bearable and joyful when God places the thoughts of someone in your heart repeatedly it's a Divine call a gentle reminder of his will to strengthen you and Aid you in fulfilling your purpose Elijah a powerful Prophet faced his struggles and moments of weariness even the most resilient Among Us can falter but remember the promise of do Deuteronomy 318 the Lord himself goes before you and will be with you he will never leave you nor

forsake you do not be afraid do not be discouraged so let's Embrace those thoughts those persistent reminders of someone God has placed in our lives these connections aren't mere coincidences they are sacred opportunities catalysts that can help us achieve our god-given purpose look around you seek those special connections and you'll find the strength to overcome discouragements and obstacles to chase the dreams and divine calling placed in your heart in a world that may seem divided and fragmented let's recognize the beauty of divine companionship we are all branches of the same tree nurtured by the same

Creator when we walk together our paths become a symphony of Grace and love the testament to God's Eternal wisdom believe in these Divine messages embrace them and let them guide you to a life filled with faith hope and love in our lives we encounter times of hardship loneliness and vulnerability it's in these moments that God provides companionship a Guiding Light your significant other may be God's gift to you offering encouragement motivation and solace in times of need embracing that person could be the key to fulfilling your destiny but how do you know that this person

is indeed the right one for you our creator has a remarkable way of guiding us he plants thoughts and feelings within our hearts to protect us to help us make wise decisions the Bible says in Jeremiah 29:11 for I know the thoughts that I think toward you saith the Lord thoughts of peace and not of evil to give you an expected end when we are swayed by worldly desires God's gentle nudge reminds us of the path he's laid out for us we can learn from the tragic tale of Solomon whose love for many foreign women

led him away from God this serves as a stark warning the person you keep thinking about might be God's way of guiding you toward love that honors him understanding the intentions of others can be perplexing but God who sees all and knows all places these thoughts in your mind when you can't shake off thoughts of that special someone it could be a Divine indication that there are the right one for you so Embrace these feelings trust in God's wisdom and seek his guidance he's leading you to the love that you deserve the love that will

help you flourish but it requires Faith patience and discernment let your heart be guided by his love and wisdom then you may just find the person who's been placed in your life to help you soar in the midst of life's mired plans it's not uncommon to find yourself on a solitary path this isn't a cause for alarm or fear instead it's a sign of God's intricate planning for your life embarking on this Lonesome walk signifies his dedication to perfecting every aspect of your existence to fulfill his divine vision for you when you're treading this lone

path it's crucial to understand that it's not indicative of a future devoid of a partner 2 Corinthians 3:18 but we all with open face beholding as in a glass the glory of the Lord are changed into the same image from glory to glory even as by the spirit of the Lord think of it this way God is the greatest Artisan carefully molding your life to meet his Grand design just as an artist takes their time meticulously refining their Masterpiece so does God invest his time in curating your life to its full potential in the grand

scheme of his plans your spouse will arrive not a second too late or too early but in God's perfect timing God is purposeful about your matrimony and the person you will eventually Unite with this concept cept is profoundly liberating knowing that you'll meet someone that you'll form a bond with and together you will create a Haven called family for those who've devoted their Futures to the Divine architect the road to marital bliss may seem circuitous and sometimes obscured but rest assured he will guide you through various phases until you arrive at the destiny he has

carefully crafted for you remember life is not a monotony but rather a complex tapestry of Seasons your navigation through each of these phases depends on an array of elements some within your control and others Beyond it you might have noticed this already and if not it's a crucial point to ponder your growth the lessons you learn the viewpoints you cultivate they're all shaped by the numerous Seasons you weather in life God the insightful teacher that he is will sometimes Lead You Down challenging paths not to hurt you but to free you from shackles you might

not even realize you are bound by there may be moments when he guides you through experiences that appear tough not out of spite but to fortify your convictions fostering maturity in certain Realms as you Journey along your individual path remember that it's not a sentence of loneliness but a beautiful Testament of God's intricate planning in your life it's a journey of preparation of cultivation of personal growth that will eventually lead you to the blessing that is your future spouse don't be scared of walking alone embrace it as a Divine period of preparation because God is

in his perfect timing preparing you for your spouse in the early stages of Jesus ministry an event of momentous proportions took place his baptism by the prophet John the Baptist imagine the scene a Divine spectacle where Heaven itself seemed to part and God voiced his presence as the Holy Spirit embodying a dove descended Upon Jesus it marked a significant moment yet the Bible informs us that swiftly following this Jesus was guided Into the Wilderness by the Holy Spirit the purpose to face the devil's Temptations we find guidance in the Book of James specifically 1 2-4

Rejoice my fellow Believers when you confront Trials of various kinds for it is the examination of your faith that Fosters resilience allow this resilience to fulfill its purpose so that you grow in wisdom completeness be of deficiency meditate on these words and understand how trials and tests that question your faith give rise to perseverance different translations highlight this resilience as patience and endurance verse three as elaborated by the Amplified Bible says rest assured the experience of your Faith's examination nurtures endurance leading to spiritual maturity and inner tranquility God presented Jesus with a period of Temptation

to strengthen and ready him for his impending Ministry consequently after vanquishing the enemy in the wilderness the Bible narrates that Jesus returned to civilization armed with the holy spirit's power this substantiates our earlier reading if you permit the experiences that God weaves into your life to run their course you will emerge mature whole and deficient in nothing you might be wondering what this has to do with being single or feeling lonely or Waiting for God to bring your future spouse into your life the parallel is simple yet profound just as Jesus was led into the

Wilderness to be tempted and tested to grow in strength and Faith so too might you be in a Wilderness season of your life the trials you face the loneliness you feel these these are not punishments instead they are opportunities for growth chances to develop your faith and perseverance this might be the Wilderness time for you a time of waiting a time of preparation as the Bible tells us God's timing is perfect he knows what we need and he knows when we need it if you are walking alone right now it's not a sentence of lifelong

solitude but a divine plan it's a path of preparation where God is equipping you with the necessary tools virtues and experiences you need to be ready for your future spouse so don't fear the Wilderness embrace it allow God's purpose to unfold for he is preparing something or someone wonderful for you the Bible assures us that God does not lead us into seasons of uncertainty that we cannot surmount he navigates us through the Wilderness of our life ensuring that we emerge Victorious just like Jesus did after his trials in the desert an Angelic assembly came to

fortify him this narrative serves as a gentle reminder that during our solitary Journeys God is always present orchestrating every step to guide us towards his grand design for our lives the period of solitude can seem daunting you might feel prepared for a relationship or even yearn for the revelation of your spouse yet God In His Infinite Wisdom knows the perfect timing he recognizes that if your paths were to intersect prematurely it might not lead to the joyous union he intends instead it could bring about regret and disillusionment therefore he guides you through a phase devoid

of romantic commitment or emotional entanglements this solitary journey is not a punishment it's an opportunity for you to unburden yourself it's a Divine interlude during which God lightens your load removing the excess baggage you've been carrying picture yourself standing at the edge of that Wilderness again now it does not seem as daunting because you know that the Wilderness is not a Barren land of solitude but a place of De Divine preparation during these moments of solitude God is forging you into the individual you need to be for yourself for your spouse and for your world

so do not fear walking alone instead find solace in solitude knowing that God is with you preparing you for your spouse for your future Let The Echoes of the Wilderness be a testament to God's grace and the divine plan he has for you recognize that we're sculpted by the lessons of yesterday it's not the solitary Journey we embarked upon that defines us rather it's the teaching these experiences bestowed upon us shaping our current lives as you Traverse through your personal journey of growth and self-discovery what we commonly refer to as the Wilderness experience it is

the divine intervention that assists in relieving in you from the burdens you've been carrying all along this could be the heartaches from past relationships childhood traumas fears emotional turmoils and much more take a moment to consider individuals who've been carrying the weight of pent up anger over the years they may have been silent Spectators of their parents' suffering a close friend's abuse or the bias they've experienced because of their gender these experiences often lead them to form an unconscious bias against specific genders this resentment reflects in their relationships where they interact with a sense of

mistrust or predisposed judgment this unconscious bias is one of many problems that divine intervention seeks to resolve during the seasons of solitude it's crucial to keep in mind that as you lay your burdens at jesus' feet he promises rest and relief in the times when you're LED away from the company of friends family and significant others it's a divine plan to provide you with an opportunity to seek comfort and Solace it's an intentional isolation a part of your spiritual journey to allow for introspection healing and eventual growth it's a time of restoration a preparation for

your future spouse these solitary phases of life might seem daunting and intimidating but it's essential to see them for what they truly are periods of preparation and healing the purpose isn't to instill fear or create a sense of isolation but rather to prepare you for a future with a partner who complements your journey and your growth it's a divine intervention to rid you of the traumas of your past and prepare you for a harmonious future so when you find yourself treading the path of life alone don't be afraid understand that it's a part of a

grander plan a Divine scheme to ready you for your future spouse it's a path towards healing understanding and ultimately love remember as you walk alone today God is preparing you for a journey together tomorrow embrace the Solitude for it is the road leading towards a brighter more ful filling future it is a common misconception to assume that marriage to God's chosen life partner will amplify our prayer life however this belief could set you up for disappointment while marriage and its responsibilities May cataliz a more prayerful lifestyle it can be argu to establish a new prayer

routine in the midst of marital challenges if there was none prior to it God guides us through periods of solitude to fortify our spiritual lives if we intend to cultivate a prayerful habit it must be established during the periods of solitude not after we've entered into marital commitments this dear friends is the journey God wants us to undertake before we find our life Partners walking alone is not an ordeal it's an opportunity for self-discovery and growth it is a sacred time when God is preparing us shaping us into individuals who will not only be ready

for a relationship but will Thrive within it by first grounding us in a relationship with him so let us not fear Solitude instead let us embrace it knowing that God is using this time to prepare us for a wonderful future with our spouses navigating the Waters of singlehood as followers of Christ often feels like an Uncharted Journey filled with anticipation for that Divine partner chosen by God this Voyage however isn't without its turbulence leaving us teetering between hope and despair certainty and doubt it's in these moments of waiting these periods of solitude where it's effortless

to lose heart yet let us find solace in the foundation of our faith securing the Divine blueprint of Our Lives consider this it's not the waiting that signifies Frailty but rather it's your perseverance that becomes an emblem of your fortitude a testament to your unwavering Faith perhaps you've reached a point in your life where you're equipped for a companionship you've established emotional resilience Financial stability yet the pursuit of love seems fruitless it's as if the proverbial fish in the sea have vanished leaving you a drift on an empty Ocean or maybe you've recently weathered the

storm of a heartbreak with a weary heart scarred by past loves the weariness of chasing shadows and forgiving past transgressions have left you contemplating surrender feeling like an ember about to be snuffed out if any of this resonates this narrative is for you while the waiting may seem endless and the loneliness daunting remember the words of Psalm 27:14 wait for the Lord be strong and take heart and wait for the Lord with a steadfast heart remember that our Lord's schedule is perfectly synchronized with our needs when the waves of Doubt crash against the shores of

your faith draw strength from Exodus 1414 the Lord will fight for you you need only to be still it's not about ceasing your search but about surrendering control releasing the Reigns to the one who knows your heart's deepest Desires in those Quiet Moments When Solitude feels like an unwelcome guest recall Isaiah 4031 but those who wait on the Lord shall renew their strength they shall Mount up with wings like eagles they shall run and not be weary they shall walk and not faint God's timing is impeccable as you continue this Voyage find comfort in his

words letting them be the lighthouse guiding you through the fog of impatience and the stormy seas of doubt your Divine partner is awaiting not as per your schedule but as per his perfect timing let's look at Lamentations 3:25 the Lord is good to those those who wait for him to the soul who seeks him the Lord's promise is ever so clear and ever so sure your soulmate Your Divine partner is on their way in God's perfect time they will arrive Heaven's timing is perfect dear friends allow God's promises in Isaiah and Jeremiah to resonate within

you your soulmate crafted by Divine Design will enter your life when the time is right so remember to be still and Trust in God's perfect timing your patience and faithfulness will soon reward you with the gift of a soulmate and together you will soar on wings like eagles bolstered by love and faith consider these comforting words from the scriptures indeed I know the plans I have in store for you declares the Lord plans to prosper you and not to harm you to offer you a promising future filled with hope if you seek me if you

call on me and pray to me I will listen Jeremiah 29 111-113 this Divine Assurance is a testament to the providential love God has for each of us promising a worthy companion tayor just for you avoid falling into the Trap of uncertainty refusing to accept such Divine Assurance trust in his plan for he will deliver the right partner when the time is perfectly right anticipation might seem effortless initially yet the journey to finding your soulmate can often feel like the longest vigil on the 99th night David a man after God's Own Heart was also plagued

with worry and despair leading him to express his anguish openly in Psalm 142 2 1:2 to the Lord I raise my voice I cry out for his Mercy I lay bare my grievances before him in his presence I reveal my distress we mustn't Overlook the fact that impatience is an intense emotion a torrent capable of making you feel as if God's Mercy is withheld when the ache of the past heartbreaks linger and when it seems like you've been constantly directed towards heartache it might see seem as though God is deliberately leading you into these painful

paths however amidst such tempests of emotion the Lord invites you to stay steadfast although anxiety May creep in tempting you to seize control continue to clutch onto his promise the harmonious combination of the right person and the right time is crucial because without either perfect love cannot manifest ecclesiast IES 3:1 wisely declares there's an appropriate time for everything and a rhythm for every event under Heaven merely believing that you found the right person doesn't guarantee that the timing aligns God's voice resounds in the depth of our hearts today advising us to be still and patiently

wait for our soulmate for his timing is beyond perfect intricately designed and beautifully orchestrated to bless us with a love story far greater than our imaginations this patience might challenge us yet it is this very challenge that ultimately shapes us prepares us and leads us to the true love we yearn for a love that reflects his love for us consider the life of an apple tree it sprouts grows and in due time it blooms however when the Apple first appears it isn't ready for Harvest it needs time to ripen to become sweet and perfectly edible

relationships mirror this process the right person might already be in your life but it may not be the right time perhaps you or the other person are preoccupied not quite ripe for a committed relationship jumping in prematurely even with the right person may lead to failure and worse potentially delay God's Grand Design you wouldn't want to be with the wrong person merely because your timing seemed ideal would you this idea stems from the belief that we can manipulate time a concept destined for failure God in his infinite wisdom has an Immaculate plan and perfect timing

for all things as stated in Jeremiah 29 11 to 12 for I know the plans I have for you plans to prosper you and not to harm you plans to give you hope in a future then you will call on me and come and pray to me and I will listen to you this powerful promise assures us that God will never lead us astray or allow us to settle for less than his Divine Design in his perfect time everything will align and all the elements will harmoniously fall into place we must liberate ourselves from the

erroneous belief that we must cling to what or who we perceive is Right such thinking is not in alignment with his purpose for us instead let's anchor ourselves in patience and faith for in his name he will bestow upon us the person who will love us unconditionally and in the most beautiful way possible as expressed in 1 Corinthians 2:9 but as it is written what no eye has seen nor ear heard nor heart of man imagined what God has prepared for those who love him the second facet of this Divine promise is that even when

God signals us to wait it doesn't mean he's not at work if you've been waiting a while never believe that your quest for love is at a standstill you're not at a dead end God is not directing you to reverse your course this period of waiting merely indicates that you're navigating some life speed bumps as assured in scripture your path has been carefully designed and it leads to a place of profound love and enduring happiness so remember just like the Apple you and your potential soulmate are on a journey to ripeness maturing under the watchful

Eyes Of God trust his time timing for it is Flawless allow him to cultivate you and your future partner so that when you finally come together it's a ripe sweet and delicious experience that was worth every moment of waiting occasionally God orchestrates these periods of hardship to guide us towards a deeper Reliance on him he whispers gently in the midst of our trials I hold the reins I na navigate the course I guide your journey reflect on this finding solace in the knowledge that God has your best interests at heart consider the seasons they don't

rush winter Waits patiently for spring and spring waits for summer yet every season arrives in its perfect time just as God's plans for you will unfold at the perfect moment it's like the the formation of a pearl inside an oyster the process is slow and takes time but the result is something Precious and Beautiful God in his Divine wisdom has an appointed time for you to meet your soulmate your duty is not to worry or Rush the process but to be patient be still and Trust in God's perfect timing so take heart and Trust in

his divine timeline believe that your journey is uniquely tailored to his Grand blueprint take this moment to cultivate peace patience and faith knowing that in the Divine Orchestra of life every note is purposeful every rest is essential and the grand finale will be perfectly timed don't be quick to walk away from a feeling of attachment for someone it doesn't have to be ROM manic to be helpful in your life and you don't have to ruin a relationship because you cannot understand it now are you currently struggling with intense feelings for someone have you prayed about

this situation and tried everything you could but it seems nothing is happening does this make you worry that this person might have some spiritual hold over your life first of all let me introduce you to something that the Bible says in Romans 8:28 it says and we know that all things work together for good to those who love God to those who are the call according to his purpose no matter what is happening in your life whether by mistake or by the working of God's hand as a child of God your heavenly father as a

way of making it work for your good he's always looking for ways to turn what you're going through into something beneficial therefore you must realize that your current situation is not beyond God no matter how unexplainable he can change it and use it for good so instead of running away or denying it ask God to give you a heart to understand the higher purpose of the situation relationships can benefit or harm you depending on who you get attached to but as Christians remember that we have the spirit of God who guides us if a relationship

with someone will hurt your life God will not allow you to go too far with them he will R show you signs and set you free from them when you follow him because of the great Destiny God has in store for you you'll meet and interact with different people each of these people will have a part to play in helping you reach that Destiny we call these people Destiny helpers they are strategically positioned by God to help you challenge you provide for you and sometimes hurt you to reach the destiny God has in store for

you in the the book of Acts God directed The Man Cornelius to meet the Apostle Peter because he would be instrumental in his salvation and the salvation of his family similarly God told Philip to join The Chariot of a complete stranger his obedience resulted in the salvation and baptism of the unic and possibly the salvation of those that the unic would Minister to back in his home country God told Joseph not to turn Mary away but to marry her because she would be the mother of the god Child Jesus think about this God dealt with

each of these people separately about someone else that he wanted them to stay with or connect to whether it was for marriage or another purpose it was all to glorify the name of the Lord you may be struggling with an unexplainable feeling to connect with someone right now because that person has a role to play in your destiny do not be Hasty to reject them because they don't look the part also the feeling ings may be valid but the timing could be wrong maybe God is calling you two together but for a future connection he

may want you two to grow up mature finish your current projects or travel apart for a while a union right now would hinder that process of perfection God is trying to do in you in such a situation you don't have to worry about a connection however don't hastily cut them off if it's the will of God for you he'll bring you two together at the right time don't be quick to call it quits or avoid someone you have deep feelings for because they're not romantic apart from the fact that such a person may have a

profound role in your life you may actually be the one who has a role to play in theirs what if God puts feelings of emotional attachment for them in your heart so that you can pray for them talk to them lead them to Jesus or save them from suicide will you throw all of that away because the feelings don't have a romantic end when God puts feelings for someone in your heart it's not your job to put a tag on them your job is to seek God's face and find out the purpose of those feelings

Jesus said in Matthew 7:7 ask and it will be given to you seek and you will find knock and the door will be open to you this is the wisest thing to do do you know why it removes every false sense of expectation and emotional fantasy remember that the Bible says in Proverbs 13:12 hope deferred makes the heart sick but when the desire comes it's a tree of life false expectations will always give birth to heavy disappointment and heartbreak you may be thinking about marrying someone whereas God wants you to be friends with them to

help them mature win in life and settle down with the one for them someday you may also be thinking of just befriending someone but what God has has in mind for you is a romantic relationship that will lead to marriage with them do you see why you need to pray for understanding an understanding heart will save you from the pain and sorrow of disappointment Solomon prayed for this in First Kings 3:9 and God answered him by giving him wisdom like nobody else in the Bible before Jesus so give your servant a decerning heart to govern

your people and to distinguish between right and wrong for who is able to govern in this great people of yours on the other hand if after praying you notice that you still have strong feelings for someone that aren't going away but you know connecting with the person will not be beneficial to you especially spiritually then you should deal with whatever is triggering those feelings you may be struggling with an emotional attachment with an unbeliever one with whom a relationship would lead you away from God or divert your attention from God's purpose for your life when

you observe by the spirit that an association with someone would not benefit you in the long run or benefit God's work in your life you need to discipline yourself to cut them off this might be painful but you must remember that heartbreak from such relationships or attachments will strengthen your commitment to God whatever sacrifice you make to please God fulfill your calling and protect the future he's called you to will yield a more excellent result Philippians 3:8 says what's more I can consider everything a loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my

Lord for whose sake I have lost all things I consider them garbage that I may gain Christ and Jesus himself tells us the reward that awaits any who does this for his sake in Matthew 19: 29 and anyone who has left houses or brothers or sisters or father or mother or wife or children or fields for my sake will receive a 100 times as much and will will inherit eternal life when you serve the Lord by seeking only those things that will honor him he will in turn honor you he said in his word that

he honors those who rever him and will lightly esteem any who dishonors him suppose a relationship with someone would cause you to dishonor God fall into sin and backslide from the faith in that case you must commit yourself to breaking off that connection you must discipline yourself to get over those feelings for them avoid spending time with them try not to be in the same place as them for as long as possible if possible reduce or cut off communication with them master your thoughts and look for other relationships or life interests to replace them it

might take some time but with prayer and sincere discipline you will get over them and your feelings for them God will never lead you to dishonor him he will never want to put you in a position that would cost you your soul for all of eternity yes he may put you in life-threatening or difficult situations but not at the expense of your soul this matters to God he will continuously inspire you to go after healthy relationships that benefit you spiritually mentally financially emotionally and even romantically so before you decide on those feelings right now ask

yourself is God in this where does this kind of relationship lead who is this person and what is my role in their life sometimes you may need to get close to this person to find out everything will not always be clear all at once so we need to be patient until God reveals everything don't rush in too deep and don't rush to get out learn to build your connection over time so that whether or not it leads to marriage you can honor God and be a blessing to each other's lives may the Lord inspire you

by his Spirit In Your Heart may he direct you to the right relationships that will add more and more value to your life leading you in the path of Destiny until you become all that God designed for you to be in Jesus name amen did you know that at some point all of us have experienced addiction don't fret it's often a positive one I'm sure you found yourself addicted to the thought of someone before perhaps you're even going through this very situation right now I imagine that you're either very pleased and excited because you're thinking

about your crush or irritated and exhausted from thinking about someone you have no intention to interact with at all however I know that the common denominator is the state of confusion you're in right now the thought of God not giving you the strength to resist thinking about this person all the time will make you wonder this is especially true because we know that his plan stands for us may often appear unclear and ambiguous do you know that there is one subtle mistake people frequently commit it's when they assume that a matter as trivial as this

is unrelated to our relationship with God some people unconsciously separate their romantic affairs from their spirituality they deny the idea that God plays a huge role in an activity as simple as thinking of someone you know what I honestly get them the idea that God's controlling our thoughts seems off because it makes us feel that our identity is not our own but if you're a firm follower of God you should know that this isn't what he actually does the Lord declares in Isaiah 558 for my thoughts are not your thoughts neither are my ways your

ways he said so himself there's no way he can think for us because if that were the case our lives would practically be perfect the truth is that our thoughts are fueled by the Holy Spirit within us in the word of God we continuously consume God doesn't control the thoughts we have rather our train of thoughts is heavily Guided by his teachings and his generous wisdom that he showers upon us God says in Colossians 2:5 for though I am absent from you and body I am present with you in spirit and Delight to see how

disciplined you are and how firm your faith in Christ is the good thing though is that you're watching this video this means that you believe that God indeed plays at least an indirect role in this matter so if you really can't stop thinking of someone then God may be telling you one of these things the first one is that God wants you to learn more about them or yourself in Philippians 4:8 we find God's instructions finally brothers and sisters whatever is true whatever is Noble whatever is right whatever is pure whatever is lovely whatever is

admirable if anything is excellent or praiseworthy think about such things as people of faith we were raised to do our best and think about things worthy of Glory granted the devil has the ability to slip in ideas that are aligned with evil agendas but despite this we're equipped with the right Spirit to reject these and shift our thoughts the other way around I repeat God desires for us to think of noble right pure lovely admirable and praiseworthy subjects including people when you're thinking about this person do these characteristics apply is your heart filled with pleasing

thoughts or does it become clouded with selfish intentions you have to reflect on how you're thinking of this person to be able to understand what God's trying to communicate to you if you think of them with the utmost positivity then he might want you to learn from them he's trying to drive you closer to this person because he can see that they can serve as a positive influence in your life but if it's otherwise he still wants you to learn from them but only so that you can real realize the negative impact they have on

you for example you may be thinking about them because deep down you're driven by carnal intentions in the Book of Job job even professed to make a covenant with his eyes not to look at a young woman with lust he exerted effort to avoid this because once you look at someone lustfully the enemy will use this as a window to sneak in and if you let this happen God will be displeased because it's disrespectful to yourself and this person it's crazy how thoughts of other people can serve as a mirror for you to look at

yourself isn't it there is no shame in finding yourself in the situation as long as you turn away from this kind of thinking the moment you recognize it no one deserves to be looked at for the sake of objectification and ungodly pleasure in other cases you're thinking of them too much because God wants to show you that you can do better by giving a person so much thought you can unveil the hidden characteristics of this person or the subtle features of the relationship you might have with them note that everything that happens is a learning

opportunity this is the time to ask yourself how am I thinking about them and what can I learn from this with God's guidance you'll be able to unmask your honest thoughts about them do you think of them in a genuine manner or is it for a self-centered purpose Additionally you get to learn more about yourself you'll be able to be honest about your agenda and discover what you truly want for yourself and this person this helps you to figure out your next step if this person's not remotely close to the ideal partner you have in

mind another probable message is that he's encouraging you to pursue this person when God puts someone in your heart this will manifest in your thoughts you may not realize this yet but he actively works on you in order to prepare you for your soulmate and if the timing's right God will let the two of you find your way to each other the amount of energy and time you're spending on helplessly thinking about someone can signify that you guys are on your way to fulfill his plan of love for the two of you there won't be

a love potion that God will prescribe for you to fall in love it has to be natural and effortless which starts by focusing your attention on each other God has gifted Us free will and you have to make use of this if you know that the person you're thinking about endlessly might be your future partner your thoughts words and actions reflect the contents of your heart and in your heart resides the Holy Spirit connect the dots and you'll see that you're budding feelings for this person hinder you from thinking about anything else the prolonged period

of this is most likely 's effort in nurturing these feelings because he wants you to do something about it we are his children and friends not robots slaves or puppets when he wants you to be with someone communication will take place our thoughts can be an instrument of communication with him you're obviously listening but are you going to respond John 13:17 says if you know these things blessed are you if you do them if you know that these thoughts are the fruits of what God's placed in your heart pursue this relationship your lack of response

might be the reason why you've been stuck with them for a long time now I'm calling on you my dear friend to take action your one true love might be behind those closed doors but you'll cause delays if you won't be brave enough to knock the third one is that God may be telling you to be patient and hear what he has to say about this relationship this may be particularly true if this person is someone you can't be with at the moment this may be a person who cuts things off with you or someone

who cannot reciprocate your feelings if you know in your heart that you've tried everything to move forward but you still can't stop thinking about them God may be teaching you patience he's telling you that you need to take time and process this by pondering about it there's something you haven't completely grasped yet in this encounter and he needs you to think about it more do you remember that as a student when you ask the teacher for help during an exam the teacher wouldn't give you the answer they would only encourage you to think through the

lessons this is exactly what God might be doing to you right now he wants you to pay more attention to some details about this person because you'll need them in order to advance you need this key to unlock the door for the next chapter how sweet is this teaching approach right one thing about God is he won't spoon feed you with all the lessons you need in life he's generous yes but he knows that the best way for you to thrive is by letting you handle these situations and by assuring you that he's with you

every step of the way so when God's not letting you move on from thinking too much about someone he's helping you he's guiding you so that you can think through what's happening and learn a lesson from this acknowledging his help will make the situation bearable and insightful sometimes the things that are happening are not specifically for your relationship with someone but for your relationship with God take all the time you need and think your way to the Discovery God wants you to make through this person I promise you that the end result is in your

best interest these are a few of the possible messages God wants to convey when you're always thinking about someone Proverbs 23:7 reads for as he thinketh in his heart so is he let me Enlighten you on what this scripture means by diligently assessing your thoughts you have the power to elevate your quality of life in Christ you will be able to monitor the things in people you let into your life and see through their intentions if you resonate with any of these reasons make sure to look forward God loves those who understand that his plan

is always the best one Soul made or not this person can be a huge impact on your life be guided by the spirit as you explore the potential of your connection with them