this is from markk Manson and it's why he hates being around negative people being an is a weak person's idea of strength complaining is their connection never let yourself be held back by other people's fears people criticize what they're afraid to do themselves because bold action reminds them of their own inaction if you're afraid to be criticized why do you care about the opinions of those who are too timid to do it themselves if you are the criticizer does tearing someone who has the courage you lack make you feel better and I love that