Imagine Focusing on These 10 Life Lessons for the Next 6 Months

one stop hoping for a completion of anything in life most men make the error of thinking that one day it will be done they think if I can work enough then one day I could rest or one day my woman will understand something and then she will stop complaining or I'm only doing this now so that one day I can do what I really want with my life the masculine error is to think that eventually things will be different in some way they won't it never ends as long as life goes on man needs to learn to feel the present moment and not hope for an unknown future the challenge is to tussle play and make love with the present moment two never change your mind just to please a woman if a woman suggests something that changes a man's perspective then he should make a new decision based on his new perspective but he should never betray his own knowledge in the intuition in order to please his woman or go along with her such an action will weaken both her and him they will grow to resent each other and the crust of accumulated inauthenticity will burden their love as well as their capacity for free action three don't get lost in tasks and duties whatever the specifics of a man's purpose he must constantly remind himself of the danger of losing himself in an endless list of tasks and refresh the spiritual aspect of his life through regular meditation and retreat otherwise he risks becoming a mere mechanical performer of Duties and routine which leads to a loss of meaning where inner Freedom suffers a man must be able to stop find internal depth and direct his attention to the essence not just superficial tasks four your purpose must come before your relationship every man knows that His Highest purpose in life cannot be reduced to any particular relationship if a man prioritizes his relationship over his highest purpose he weakens himself deserves the universe and cheats his woman of an authentic man who can offer her full undivided presence 5. live as if your father had died a man should love his father but be free from expectations and criticism from him a man needs to grow out of his shadow become himself and take responsibility for his decisions and actions in order to be a free man 6. what she wants is not what she says sometimes a woman will request her man in plain English not to get him to do something but to see if he is so weak that he will do it in other words she is testing his capacity to do what is right not what she is asking for in such cases if the man does what his woman asks she will be disappointed and angry the man will have no idea why she is so angry or what could possibly please her you must remember that her trust is earned not by him fulfilling her requests but by him magnifying love consciousness and success in their lives in spite of her requests seven lean just beyond your Edge at any given moment a man's growth is optimized if he leans just beyond his Edge capacity and fear he should not be too lazy happily stagnating in the zone of security and comfort nor should he push far beyond his Edge stressing himself unnecessarily unable to metabolize his experience he should lean just slightly Beyond the Edge of fear and discomfort constantly in everything he does it is a process of self-discovery where a man finds strength and wisdom in his own Essence and unlocks potential he had never even imagined eight trust nobody a man must be prudent Vigilant and able to recognize true intentions before placing his faith trusting someone blindly often leads to disappointment and betrayal it does not mean completely isolating himself or becoming cynical but rather learning to trust his own instincts and judgments it's about Discerning who and what deserves his trust and taking responsibility for his decisions trust is earned not given nine be willing to change everything in your life a man must be ready to dedicate everything to his purpose face or resolve the consequences of his past actions and then be willing to move on from this particular way of life he must be capable of entering a period of uncertainty not knowing what to do with his life and waiting for revision or a new form of purpose to emerge these cycles of specific action followed by periods of not knowing what the hell is going on unnatural for a man who is shedding layers of karma on the way to realizing his potential [Music] 10.

she doesn't really want to be number one a woman sometimes seems to want to be the most important thing in her man's life however if she is the most important thing she feels her man has made her the number one priority and is not fully dedicated or directed to Divine growth and service she will feel her man's dependence on her for his happiness and this will make her feel smothered by his neediness and clinging a woman really wants her man to be totally Dedicated To His Highest purpose and also to love her fully although she would never admit it she wants to feel that her man would be willing to sacrifice their relationship for the sake of His Highest purpose 11. don't use your family as an excuse if a man never discovers his deepest purpose or if he permanently compromises and uses his family as an excuse for doing so in his core in masculinity become weakened his woman loses trust in sexual polarity with him even though he may be putting much energy into parenting and housework a man should of course be a full participant in caring for children and the household but if he gives up his deepest purpose to do so ultimately everyone suffers 12. don't ever chase after someone a man who constantly chases someone often ends up with compromises and dependence which robs him of the freedom to be himself by pursuing someone and begging for attention a man diminishes his own value leading to a loss of self-worth true self-worth is found when he starts prioritizing himself understands his own needs and values builds his life based on his beliefs and directs time and energy towards self-improvement 13.

you don't have to please everyone people like it when others give them positive feedback and approve of their actions in reality pleasing and trying to make everyone happy only makes a man's life miserable and attracts people who only want to use him because they know that they will always put their needs ahead of his own everyone has things that they consider important to them if a man doesn't take time to determine what is important to his life it will easily find himself swayed to focus on what is important to others if we try to please everyone we will end up pleasing no one 14.