you going to do this okay fine that's all I needed that's all I needed for him to do that and it it became personal with me for me anger was good anger was good because it was motivating the more I could create an enemy the more I wanted to go and kill those guys I've been listening to them laugh my whole career an Irish man win a fight in the UFC hell no laugh laughs all around hell no he's all talk he's all hype he's a joke the sound of laughter and the sound of Doubt
motivate me I saw you celebrate my lossing like I wasn't going to win again you got to want to be successful so bad that you forget to eat that's how bad you got to war I'm just wondering if you are bold enough Dearing enough if you can believe in your dream again if you can get committed if you can make it personal it's personal cuz it's about you it's personal it's personal person it's person it's personal it's person it's person it's person person it's personal going I talk to C and cuss talk to me over
and over again over and over and over again every night and every night for hours and hours I just never had to worry about nobody ever bullying me again cuz I know I would kill them if they me you've got to create a lot of different emotion to to to heighten your sense of awareness and focus it's about you ultimately actively moving through your emotions rather than being stopped by them towards a goal I think when change hits and it's personal that's when the perspective shift comes get into something that's really personal that means something
to you I I think that's the the key to what we to what we do it's got to be it's got to be personal it's up to you to carry on remember you owe you something continue to believe that we all have desires and dreams make your dream a reality I'm talking concrete commitment the commitment that says can I stay true to what I said I would do got to the mood that I've set it in has left see when you get personal when you make it personal Everything Changes don't make it personal what a
joke it has been personal when week after week I'm choked up fighting back tears with every sentence it's personal I have waited my whole life I will wait no more that's why they say many a call you were chosen oo it's it's about it's about you having a vision of POS ability for yourself that that has to do with being great because I'm going to make it personal because it's always been personal to me on the other side of your fear is a fulfilled Destiny how bad do you want it be a dangerous man now
being dangerous is not not being a threat they're two different things and it's not about going out and lifting weights and walking around with your chest and shoulders up hulking around saying I'm dangerous very rarely is that a dangerous man often the most dangerous man in the room is the quietest man in the room you should be a monster you know cuz everyone says well you should be harmless virtuous you shouldn't do anyone any harm you should sheath your competitive Instinct you shouldn't try to win you don't want to be too aggressive you don't want
to be too assertive you want to take a backseat and all of that it's like no you should be a monster an absolute monster and then you should learn how to control it you need endurance you need stamina to reach some goals you're not going to hit the million with the first investment you're not going to hit the Home Run always at first swing but resiliency says I belong here and I deserve another shot I want my opportunity give me my opportunity you can't be a good man if you're not a dangerous man it's like
is there something wrong with being competitive there's something wrong with cheating there's something wrong with being a tyrant there's something wrong with winning unfairly all of those things are bad but you don't want people to win this is your life my friend and I'm sure when it's all said and done you don't want to look back and see that you wasted it this is your life my friend so you stand up this is your life my friend so you rise up this is your life my friend so you keep going this is your life my
friend so you never give up this is your life my friend you need to keep going this is where you take your contr I need you to know that you're called You're armed and you're dangerous so you found out that the secret sauce in your life is the guy in your mirror that it's not some outside variable that's going to come and save you the Cal is not coming it's up to you baby get up off the couch I got to go leave the cave kill something and drag it home you found that truth in
that moment despite my doubts and all of those sort of things I'm going to put my trust in that and try and then go for things and not be scared to fail and not be driven by fear and all those sort of things because it's personal it's about your journey your goals listen to me you got it you have to eat the dream you have to sleep the dream you have to dream the dream you have to see it when nobody else sees it you have to feel it when it's not tangible you have to
believe it when you cannot see it do they do they have what it takes are they willing to do whatever it takes um a lot of people give up that's just the you know that's just the truth come on there too many people riding on you you got a mother she's been doing everything she can to put food on the table you got to do it for her you got a father that's counting on you you got to do it for him you got some siblings that are watching you right now you got to do
it for them but guess what else you got to do it for you because deep down in every human being they want to see the greatest version of themselves but most people quit most people stop believing it's personal it's personal you got to make it personal no matter what challenges I face no matter what the statistics are I will maintain unwavering faith that I can achieve the outcome that I want and if I don't I'll be at peace with it that was my why it's I'm willing to do everything in my power to fulfill my
potential and become the best version of myself it's an unwavering Faith imp possibility that's it you got to get fueled on the inside and say now is my my time and it's about you it's it's personal yes it's about your core it's about your mindset what do you actually want how do you want all of your life to go I believe everything happens for a reason I think we get to choose the reason and I decide my faith nothing that you want will manifest itself unless you aim for it and you won't aim for it
unless you know what it is and you won't know what it is unless un you ask yourself and then you might say well why don't you ask yourself and the answer is well maybe no one ever explained to you that you needed to which is a crucial issue and then maybe you don't also trust yourself if you had the job or career track that would motivate you just hypothetically what might that look like this is dreams we're talking about we're talking about dreams this is just really rigid if you become the best of you you
have to almost become fanatical you know this is my life this is all I live for this is my air this is everything dreams require sacrifices people don't want to sacrifice following your dreams is a lonely solitary scary dangerous Pursuit you can't wait for somebody to think you can do it and when you get to the point where all you want to do is be successful as bad as you want to breathe then you'll be successful and I'm here to tell you number one that most of you say you want to be successful but you
don't want it bad you just kind of want it you don't want it bad than you want a party you don't want it as much as you want to be cool you most of you don't want success as much as you want to sleep nobody knows but you you can't get advice on what you should do with your life you take control of the circumstances you take control of the outcome you take control of your life it's in our hands it's on us and nobody can make that decision for us it doesn't start with them
and they it starts with me whatever the [ __ ] you're doing just prove to yourself it's the [ __ ] that you want to be doing build around that this is the only life that I have and I'm going to take the leap of faith I'm going to jump in it I must live what's in me and all of us have something in us that we must live and if we don't know what it is right now we must create it or we must find it all of us have this whatever this this something
is that gives our life that meaning that value that power and that happiness see when you get married to purpose married to Destiny married to who you've been destined to be everything changes it's not about external validation it's about your relationship to yourself you know and you know when your head hits the pillow at night and when you wake up in the morning what that relationship looks like it's not about them it's about [Music] you I don't know who I'm talking to I don't know what you've been called to do what you've been called to
accomplish what you've been destined to build it's time to take a deep dive into the deeper parts of yourself the parts of you that nobody sees when you take something personal it gets personal I'm not just putting on the front I'm not just here in public to make you smile and applaud me and support me and make comments and Share my video I'm not here I make this thing personal everything that I do do in public I've done it in private so I'm just asking you don't just scream on a stage or be connected to
millionaires as strive to be a CEO or an investor or a politician or an athlete or a musician or a singer I'm just wonder can you conquer in the dark when you make it personal what you do behind closed doors matters so I'm just wondering when you going to make it personal when you going to make it about what it looks like that nobody sees the part you that nobody sees where's your integrity behind the scenes come on where are your values behind the scenes what do your habits look like behind the scen come on
what kind of work are you putting in behind the scenes come on drop down to give me 50 come on write it again come on believe it again come on sing again record the song again come on I'm talking to that athlete I'm talking to that musician come on who are you out there that philosopher that engineer that thought leader that critical thinker come on that captain of industry I'm talking to you when your personal life lines up with your purpose then public authori yours you want influence I'm not talking about just Fame I'm talking
about influence the power to change people's lives can you stret yourself can you condition yourself come on can you believe again can you see it again can you write again can you make this thing personal that it doesn't start with the people connected to you you it starts with you it doesn't even start with your past it starts with where you are and where you're going can you look ahead can you stretch forth can you condition yourself can you prepare yourself for the next thing come on make it personal it doesn't start with everybody it
starts with me because people will leave you for de and then what's your wife what did God put in you release it to the world if it's going to be personal make it personal don't just be great in public be great in private what you do in Dark if I pulled up your search history what would I find would you still be an example to the world if I went through your closet if I went through your basement if I went through your attic if I went through your CER Council if I went through your
house how personal is your purpose every single day you are either losing ground or gaming ground the choice is yours but this time make it personal if you're going to do it if you're going to accomplish it if you're going to achieve it even if you're confused and it's cold and it looks crazy and you're going to need to know the difference between contribution and commitment because there are two very different things see everybody wants to contribute to Destiny but nobody wants to be committed to Destiny you want to contribute to the idea that you
could be something you want to contribute to the idea that something's going to come of the sacrifice that you have made but you have not sacrificed you have not suffered you are not committed when you are committed you give everything you have every single week every single day every single hour every every single minute 720 hours a month you are beating on your craft even when you're at work you're dreaming you're thinking you're Vision casting you're writing it down making it PL communicating to your destiny connections so that it can become a reality if you
can see it in your head you can hold it in your hands but the question I want to answer is are you committed I'm just wondering if you are bold enough daring enough if you can believe in your dream again if you can get committed see when you get personal when you make it personal Everything Changes because you see you made it about your girlfriend last time you made it about your boyfriend last time you made it about your kids last time and your kids started acting up and then you let the dream go it's
got to start with you and God first listen God put a gift inside of everybody and it's our responsibility to Rel Le it to the world this time is [Music] personal so do it for your loved ones do it for your wife do it for your husband do it for your children do it for generations to come come on after you're dead and gone what will they say about what you did yes there are so many people depending on you but it's got to start with you and the man upstairs what he put in you
make it personal everything in my life breathes and eats this purpose that I have I got to make it personal it's it's it starts with me when it starts with me it ends with me I don't know where you are in your game of life you may be in your third quarter you may be in your fourth quarter come on you're not going to live forever not in this world come on you may be in your first quarter your your second half and this time it's got to be personal see last time you were just
running through the plays last time you were just running the songs that you rehearsed in rehearsal last time you were just going through the motions and you got numb come on and you got tired and weary and now you're broken and bitter and angry cuz you lost and I'm just wondering if you're courageous enough bold enough if you have enough Faith come on if you have enough inside of you resilience to come back to the seene and make it personal is rain sleep or snow keep building and so this time it's got to be personal
and you may not feel qualified you may not feel like you educated enough you may not feel like you're connected enough you may not think that enough people are aware of you cognizant of you because you don't have a blue cheick and you're not a celebrity yet but you got to work hard and silence you got to work when nobody's watching you got to sacrifice behind the scenes you got to take it personal when you take it personal your private life changes everybody wants Public Authority but nobody wants private discipline when your habits change behind
the scenes when your private life begins to shift when you put aside the things that are not serving you if you can make it personal it's personal it doesn't start with them and they it starts with me it starts with me so make it personal Let Yourself Go fall free into it step into it you are worthy you are an unrepeatable miracle and there is none like you in all the Earth there will never be another you your DNA your fingerprint come on your gate your presence your authenticity come on you're special you're special and
you're necessary you've never looked at yourself in the mirror and said you let you down until you get to that point you let you down tell tell me what you complained about Winners complain winners want to hit themselves talk Champions do not complain why because they're focusing on what they said they wanted to do as a goal so so the only thing you're missing now is are you willing to get up and do the work well we going we going we going to complain y'all we going to work you have a chance to control your
destiny that my friend is the American dream not a Cadillac I need you to give you your best come on I'm pleading with you look I'm going to say it one more time I need you to give you your all I didn't say your kids I didn't say your spouse I didn't say your best friend I need you for the next 30 days to give you every single thing you got so do me a favor do you want it or not the truth is you got to find something within you got to find something within
and that's got to push you and that's got to elevate you and that's got to drive you and that's got to move you have you ever looked at yourself in the mirror and say I'm not getting up on time I'm not going to work on time I'm not putting in 120% when I'm at work I let me down you are a champion think like one I value myself enough to give 120% or don't do it [Music] rich people don't waste time they realize it's their most important commodity they don't watch a lot of TV they
don't do a lot of entertainment if they're not working they're studying their craft and getting better at their craft I would love to tell you that on the road to success everything is going to work out it's not it's going to be a dog fight you want what it looks like but you don't want what it feels like it's hard it's tough the investment is worth it I'm telling you set a standard I went got my GED then I got my fouryear degree then I got my Master's Degree then I got my PhD and I
ain't smart but I set a standard so when my kids came in this world their mama got a masters they daddy got a PhD they at least got to finish High School I set a standard multi-millionaire as a speaker from the bottom up I set a standard right and so what I had to learn how to do was I had to say yo when the lights go off who is Eric what am I working on what's my North Star what's important to me what makes me happy and when you find out what your why is
and your why got to be deeper than you when you find your why you don't hit snooze no more when you find your why you find a way to make it happen you have full permission to be your greatness right now you have full permission to be your greatness whoever whatever your greatness is you have full permission to be that right this second like get to a point that if nobody else give you any likes or nobody ever comments on your stuff or nobody ever says you're great you great you're happy with what you do
like you love yourself and you happy and you do it for you the dream is yours but you're saying I'm not worthy of the dream you're probably not but it's been given to you anyway I'm not smart enough you're probably not but it doesn't matter it was it was given to you and it's now your responsibility to do something with it you've been given it it's the gift that you never open it's the gift it's yours do what you say you going to do and you make no excuses and you don't let nothing get in
your way I left I was like I got to be in control of my life and I wasn't mad at nobody I'm not mad at nobody now it's just I feel like I got to be in control if I if if something go wrong I want to go wrong on my dime not yours I don't want to play by your rules I want to play by my rules take control go for it please you have to hear this when I say I need you to be intentional and deliberate hear me I want to paint the
picture you have one team that that that has the ability to score they have the ability to do well they have the ability to score on the opponent what their challenge is is that they can't do it they can't sustain it you have one team that's good in spurts you have another team that's dominant the teams that are dominant dominant because they can do it from beginning to end right listen to me and they can do it team after team after team right they can do it over and over and over it is is they
dominate because they they put pressure on you from the time you start to the very end like oh even when they're up they continue to dominate and your problem is you're not intentional and deliberate you wake up on Monday and you might be strong but by Wednesday are you hearing what I'm telling you you're not intentional and deliberate you are hoping you are hoping that the best is going to happen to you and the best never happens to you like and this is critical what don't you have because all these things are going to stop
you from getting to that next level what don't you have in terms of getting to that next level what don't you currently have because what you don't have you need to start doing your homework so you can what so you can go get that you owe yourself I didn't get here making excuses it's your life only one person can stop you from making that become a reality and that's you [Music] you and a lot of Y'all Scared just walk into it stop running from it because your life ain't sweet ain't like your life sweet from
running what's my North Star what why am I here what's my purpose like leave your mark That's why I'm so happy I ain't Happ me because no house I have it because no cars I know my purpose but with this this right here in your skill set this thing can take you wherever you want to go and then take your kids wherever you want them to go and you complaining cuz coach want you to work and practice so you can get what you said you wanted he you mad at coach cuz he ain't going to
let you take no shortcuts cuz ain't no shortcuts on the next level y'all think y'all think you you think this hard wait till you get to the pros most people were closer than they ever thought they were to finishing that big thing but they never finished it because they didn't feel like finishing it or they were doing it and it was pain and most people quit in the pain because the pain hurt so bad that they don't know if they want to keep going to get to go but You' got to take your focus off
of what's not happening and put your focus on what can happen so if you're focusing on the negative that's what you going to get that's what you're going to see no more blaming no more I don't want to hear it no more I don't want to hear this teacher did me wrong this professor did me wrong my Mentor didn't my mama didn't my daddy didn't stop to blame me if it's your life I need you to take complete ownership of it it's your life I don't want to hear no more excuses you blame that's what
you do you make excuses for why you broke you make excuses for why you stuck and it is easier to make it somebody else's fault than the man up and look in the mirror and say it was your fault it's easy to put it on somebody else why cuz then you ain't got to do nothing there is no no excuse for not living up your fullest potential no excuse in this life there will always be [Music] obstacles there will always be challenges there will always be Giants it hasn't been easy but it's time to win
it's time to win you are going to need vision before you win you're going to have to see it winning this battle in this life there will always be a man a woman a boy a girl or a team who will face impossible odds and somehow through some combination of Courage will grit and a mustard seed of Faith they'll manage to overcome if a man can Master discipline then there is nothing he can't win it starts on the battlefield of your mind this is where the war is won remember your why it is the why
that gets us to win and it is the why that gives us the power to persevere through the how all you have is all you need I have waited my whole life for this moment thank you to everybody that doubted me here say everybody that doubted me here said everybody that stopped believing in me here the everybody that counted me out if nobody believes in you you got to make it up in your mind that all you have is all you need it is the battles that you face today that prepare you for tomorrow's Wars
you are fighting for your family you are fighting for your legacy what you are fighting for is bigger than you do not forget this there will be many Giants in your life there will be depression there will be anxiety there will be oppression there will be overwhelm will you Buckle under the pressure or will you rise to the occasion stop praying that the storm will pass over you and pray to grow through the storm stop going around it go through it some fights are not one in the first round flat out and the moment that
you get that and you get crystal clear and you accept the fact that there are some Giants that you will not defeat in the first round you are a dis iined desperate dangerous fulfiller of Destiny dangerous is the one who owns a dream I say it again dangerous is the one who owns a dream I didn't say rid a dream I didn't say Lis a dream I didn't say Airbnb a dream I said own the dream go down to the title agency put the money down and buy that dream so that you own it and
that dream can never be taken away from you dangerous is the one who Masters their thinking dangerous is the one who ain't afraid to sweat dangerous is the one who won't quit dangerous is the one who knows their identity self-awareness is the starting point for living a life of victory until you know your true value your selfworth your calling will continue to elude you those who continue to run from being who they were made to be disqualify themselves from greatness the enemy is hoping that you never discover your true identity that you are beautiful strong
and amazing and that you deserve the best that life has to offer he's hoping that you never hear this message here's why it's important because if you can't see [Music] yourself how will you ever see opportunity you know what my friend I think you're capable of much much more so bring it out bring it out every single day that you live on this Earth Earth bring it out every single day that you open your eyes bring it out every single day bring out the best version of yourself my friend because we still have work to
do you already know what failure feels like you already know what it feels like to quit to stop to throw in the towel to sit on the couch but do you know what it's like to give everything thing that you have and push and persevere life doesn't get any easier it doesn't get more forgiving we just get stronger and we get more resilient run after your dream run after your idea run after your goal what is it that you have been called to do get up and run after it action will reflect that which you
are dreaming in your mind and the world will begin to see that what you are believing for the ones who rocked the world the ones who made history the ones we call Legends they dream with their eyes closed they didn't set the limits of their imagination to the world they were currently living in they dreamed the world the way they wanted it to be once ownership has been taken of a dream of a vision it creates a power inside one to bend and shape reality until it looks like an exact copy of that which is
held in the mind how dare you to dream [Music]
