does true love truly exist some people may ask this question because they wish to experience it someday in their own life it's a question that often lingers in many people's minds it may be that it stems from past experiences that have left their Mark but let me share something with you get ready for God to reveal some fascinating insights that will reignite your passion for love and all it encompasses join me on this journey as we explore together Your Love Story and Union are about to flourish Guided by God's Divine will and purpose let's dive
in and discover the beauty of love my dear friend when God intends for two people to be together and create a future he sets the stage for you to start feeling something unique for that person it's like feeling butterflies in your stomach a special kind of connection that's meant to grow into something beautiful I want to tell you that your love story is a beautiful Masterpiece that has been shaped by God and this will let you meet the one he has destined for you I want you to be prepared because the Lord is pulling your
soulmate straight to you and connecting your hearts together God loves you and wants what's best for you he wants your love life to follow his plan before getting into any relationship make sure it's according to God's will this isn't about finding the one who will love you but it's about doing the right thing and fulfilling God's purpose for your life to have a fulfilled life and marriage is to allow God to guide you into making the right choice for your life Psalm 37 4-5 says take Delight in the Lord and He will give you the
desires of your heart commit your way to the Lord trust in him and he will do this when you sink your plans with God's guidance Envision him revealing all truths to you imagine seeking the perfect partner entrusting everything to God and being led to someone Beyond Your Wildest Dreams that's God's power in action so dear friend let God lead you to the special person he has destined for you trust in his Divine plans be patient for his timing and witness the incredible Wonders that unfold bringing you pure joy in the end beloved I've got a
beautiful message for you imagine this God is out there bringing your soulmate straight to you he's orchestrating this amazing connection where your hearts will just click together perfectly it's not just about you loving them or them loving you it's about both of you sharing this deep Mutual affection that's truly special and also honoring God along the way now let's talk about Jacob and Rachel for a moment Jacob thought Rachel was the only one for him but guess what God had other plans he brought Leah into the mix to make every everything fall into place it's
like a Divine puzzle even if it seems a bit Tangled or confusing trust that there's a grand design at play just like how God fulfilled his promise to Abraham through Jacob and those 12 tribes there's a bigger plan unfolding for you that will lead to a truly fulfilling life so embrace the journey trust the process and get ready for the beautiful story that's waiting to unfold in your life God is pulling your soulmate to you and you will know when this happens how will you know have you ever felt a strong connection between yourself and
someone it's like your hearts are meant to be locked together it's not a coincidence it's God's way of aligning your hearts with each other he's the ultimate Matchmaker weaving Destinies together this Divine connection brings true fulfillment when your hearts are entwined it's not just about the physical Bond it's about a spiritual Unity that leads needs you to serve God together and walk in faith the Holy Spirit gently guides you affirming that this person is the one for you and encouraging you to follow his path the Holy Spirit Will nudge you to understand why you're drawn
to someone when you grasp the purpose behind your connection your relationship blossoms with Harmony and love so many relationships falter because they lack God's guidance people often prioritize physical attraction over spiritual connection Le leading to Broken bonds but Psalm 11:3 says when the foundations are being destroyed what can the righteous do many relationships lack the holy spirit's guidance so they don't have a solid spiritual Foundation to differentiate between the one from God and those who aren't a strong foundation will help you connect with God which will then direct you to the one he has ordained
for you another way to know that God is pulling you to your soulmate is the desire that both of you have to seek God it will be a balance of developing feelings for each other and also striving to do God's work and grow in faith this is because God is the one orchestrating that relationship he brings you both together to grow in faith so that you will both understand the true meaning of love and what it has to offer to humanity Matthew 633 says but seek first his kingdom and his righteousness and all these things
will be given to you as well placing God at the center of your relationship is the most crucial part with God is the pillar of your relationship supporting you and that person you will have a fulfilling marriage do you know that when you're with the right person there will be this sense of peace and calmness that fills your heart imagine feeling a deep Comfort just by thinking of that special person even amidst life storms this sense of Peace beyond anything you can imagine sign ifies a strong connection between your hearts when you feel this peace
it's a sign that the holy spirit is guiding your relationship it's God's way of leading you to your soulmate ensuring a blessed and fulfilling marriage with God connecting your hearts all your desires will be fulfilled also there will be a Divine confirmation when God is pulling you to your soulmate this confirmation can come in different ways this is a way God communicates to his children in order for them to know his will for their lives beloved God doesn't do this without planning his plans for us are like Shining Light leading us to the direction we
are expected to go did you know that Abraham's servant believed the lady who offered him water at the well was meant for his master's son many women may have walked past him that day but Rebecca's effort and patience stood out as she kindly offered him a drink that simple act confirmed his belief similarly God can confirm his plans for us including guiding us to our soulmate in different ways Isaiah 55 8-9 says for my thoughts are not your thoughts neither are your ways my ways declares the Lord as the heavens are higher than the earth
so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts Our God who is the creator of all the Earth loves us and knows what is best for us if God is leading your heart towards someone it's best to hold hold on to that person he wants you to know that this connection isn't just about feelings it's about seeing yourselves serving God together growing in faith and having a peace that is beyond explanation I encourage you today to not shy away from the feelings you're having there is a reason for them God
knew that Rebecca would come to the well which is why he put it in the heart of Abraham's servant to sit and wait for her rest assured God will not force you into making any decisions he will only guide you like a father guides his child to prevent you from making any errors beloved I urge you to allow God to lead you because his plans will bring you hope and joy especially when it comes to your relationships prayerfully seek his face for guidance trust and have faith that he will guide you toward the right path
filled with love God bless you what do you think makes a great love story I'm sure you've watched hundreds of stories about two people falling in love there's no one size fits-all type of love story but I want you to think about the common denominator all inspiring and exemplary love stories have it's simply this great love stories are characterized by excruciatingly beautiful twists and turns hear me out the sweetest romantic relationships you'll ever know of are the ones where both parties overcome the toughest C circumstances just to be with each other this is the very
reason we're familiar with the formula producers and artists use in conveying love there's always a series of struggles before they reach the happy ending this is not to say that we just romanticize hardships in finding love because we see it in the media no the point is that art imitates life which involves all the realities we commonly face we see it on the big screen is because this is exactly what we go through and most of the time we have it worse the kind of challenges we must deal with and our pursuit of romantic relationships
are perplexing but we endure because of the happy ending we'll have with the love of our life so if you decided to seek this message out because of a very challenging situation about a special connection you have with someone promising you made the right call because here's a big misconception even us Christians fall victim to just because we're loyal Believers doesn't mean God will hand out his blessings on a silver platter our identity as Christians doesn't guarantee that we'll conveniently meet the one and everything moving forward is sunshine and rainbows the truth is that God
will reward your faithfulness by giving you his guidance and wisdom but you're not Exempted from the trials that come from the Blessed event of meeting the right person for you the fact that you've been a committed follower only means that you'll feel the gravity of these challenges more because people who have strayed from God's presence are more likely to ignore the fact that the challenges are blessings in Disguise let me walk you through four challenges that God will allow for the purpose of orienting you and your heart to prepare you for your destined partner's arrival
the first one is an inner struggle Matthew 6:21 says for where your treasure is there your heart will also be when we want to train a muscle we do specific exercises that Target that muscle in the same way God will sometimes allow you to experience internal conflicts because he needs you to train your heart and mind in order for these to be fit and mature when dealing with love it's common for us to have our heart and mind in Conflict this isn't necessarily bad sometimes it indicates a red flag but in other cases this is
merely anxiety getting the best of us now you've been blessed with the right skill set to discern whether your inner struggle about your connection with this person is a serious red flag or simply indicative of the need to reflect if this person is the one God's chosen for you he's likely to allow your heart and mind to clash so that they can eventually find the right footing as your love story unfolds as we go through phases embark on new Journeys or acclimate to different environments these changes will cause us to recalibrate the way we think
and feel your Season of Love will not be Exempted from this when God prepares you for your future spouse he'll push the necessary buttons for you to adjust Psalms 26:2 declares trust me Lord and try me examine my heart and mind and this is exactly what he'll do in your best interest a few examples of inner struggles you may face involve Discerning your true feelings coping with differences between your expectations and reality realigning your priorities and battling a lack of self-esteem these internal challenges are essential because you get the opportunity to Deep dive and tap
in on how you really feel about all this it's just like when you decide to deep clean your room and ReDiscover things you truly value yet forgot about Mark 6:52 says for they had not understood about the loaves their hearts were hardened conquering inner struggles means to both strengthen and soften your heart to accommodate God's instructions about your true love let's move on to the next the Second Challenge is when you're put in trying in unfamiliar circumstances that concern priorities or values close to your heart in other words the Lord will let external pressures enter
your life to help you build resilience as you will greatly need this for your marriage 1 Peter 510 tells us and the God of all Grace who called you to his eternal glory in Christ after you have suffered a little while will himself restore you and make you strong firm and steadfast who you are now is a result of all the challenges you've endured when you want to achieve a certain physique we do this by subjecting ourselves to a little pain and discomfort and not happily lying in bed right now when God wants to put
you in the heart of an amazing partner to be he wants to make sure that you're prepared to cope with uncertainty and trying times James 1:4 let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete not lacking anything by allowing you to go through difficult situations God is polishing you so that you may be mature and complete for your soulmate emotional intelligence and maturity are frankly the top traits everyone wants in their future partner and these are the exact qualities that you strengthen when you persevere the third challenging thing is this God
can also use your failed relationships to advance you to the path of true love yes brothers and sisters your past relationships have not been a waste of time these experiences lead up to the partnership God has promised you Proverbs 24:16 declares for the righteous Falls 7 times they rise again but the wicked stumble when Calamity strikes you will never see Biblical scripture that tells you that it's wrong and shameful to fall in love several times you'll learn that you have to be careful Discerning and protected by the armor of God for your own protection but
ultimately God advises us to be filled with love and share this with our neighbors most of you I believe have tragic experiences with love and God uses such events to teach you lessons to apply to the lasting relationship he's prepared for you you know what they say you're not starting from scratch but rather from experience your past issues TR traum and scars might come into play and challenge your ongoing connection with this special someone but again challenges are not supposed to be walls that block blessings and opportunities lastly I would say that the most challenging
thing you'll inevitably encounter along the way is when your spiritual relationship with God experiences a bit of trembling let me explain the Lord really wants a Clear Channel to communicate with you now if he observes that we are too occupied with worries or other matters our relationship with him suffers bit by bit earlier we established that the prospect of love and meeting your true soulmate entails a lot of challenges and thought there will be times when you find yourself drowning in everything until you accidentally neglect your connection with our father this in itself as a
challenge he'll pose in order to align you with this person testing your spiritual strength in John 15:5 he tells us I am the vine you are the branches whoever abides in me and I in him he it is that bears much fruit for apart from me you can do nothing the fact of the matter is that our relationship with God is the foundation for our relationship with everyone else if you don't have a strong relationship with God do you think you'll be able to build a healthy one with your loved ones or even more with
your future partner remember that your spiritual growth advances your maturity God will challenge you to strengthen your spirituality as your faith is meant to be at the center of your romantic relationship before you can become the perfect partner to your soulmate you are first challenged to be the perfect child of God this is what Matthew 5:48 says you therefore must be perfect as your heavenly father is perfect furthermore your relationship with the Lord promises you the fruits of the Holy Spirit and these are the only values you'll need to be the most suitable partner for
your soulmate I'll quote from Galatians 522-23 but the fruit of the spirit is love joy peace patience kindness goodness faithfulness gentleness self-control against such things there is no law these are just four of the challenging things God will use to prepare you for the sacred relationship you're about to partake in but don't get me wrong just because there are numerous challenges doesn't mean that our father takes joy in knowing that we have to suffer this is never the case my friend our God is a god of clarity and it should be clear that these challenges
are brought upon you so that you may end up stronger and better than who you were yesterday this is God at work in your mind heart and soul to prepare you for the most enchanting love story that's ever written a story that's Inked just for you look forward to this and remain spirited as your Season of Love is right around the corner sometimes we spend a long time waiting for God's answers to our prayers for love and intimacy we picture this perfect someone in our hearts someone far away who will one day come and take
our loneliness away but what if the answer is closer than we think life can feel like a puzzle with missing pieces we pray for a sign and a clear Direction and it can be frustrating when they don't come right away but maybe God is working in a gentler way maybe the answer to our prayers for someone special is already in our lives answered but currently a friendship now think about this have you ever felt drawn to someone you already know maybe this is someone who makes you laugh who you confide in who shares your faith
those connections can be God's Whispers guiding us towards Something Beautiful in today's video I want to share that God is saying until you are together with that person this will keep happening most people think and expect some things to happen in a certain way they forget that God is too big to be Boxed In by our ideas about how things should or should not happen let me tell you a story from 1 Samuel 16 that really drives this point home when God needed a new king for Israel to replace King Saul he sent Samuel The
Seer to anoint David when Samuel arrived in Bethlehem he first thought eliab one of Jesse's sons was the chosen one saying surely this is the Lord's anointed but he was wrong here was God's answer to him but the Lord said to Samuel do not consider his appearance or his height for I have rejected him the Lord does not look at the things people look at people look at the outward appearance but the Lord looks at the heart just like Samuel almost found himself anointing the wrong candidate for kingship many single Christians today stumble into a
similar trap when it comes to their marital relationships often we cling to imagination convinced that our IDE partner must possess certain qualities or fit a specific mold yet in our fixation on these preconceived notions we risk overlooking the simple truth God's plan for our marital bliss May unfold in ways far beyond our wildest dreams just as Samuel had to learn to discern God's true Chosen One among Jesse's Sons we must open up our hearts and Minds to the possibility that God's perfect match for us may defy our expectations it's not about finding someone who checks
all the boxes on our list it's about trusting that God's plan is infinitely wiser and more fulfilling than anything we could imagine this is very true my friend this is what God has sent to me to share with you today he is saying until you are together with that person certain things will keep happening now what are those things that will keep happening until you and the right one are united well one of the things that will keep happening until you are together is disagreement sounds weird right I agree but let's take a closer look
to understand what this means have you ever wondered why you are battling so many arguments conflicts and Chaos in your present relationship sometimes it's because you have yet to meet the one person God has destined for your life imagine that deep desire to make your partner happy to be their Rock yet no matter what you do it feels like you're hitting a brick wall that frustration might be a sign that you're not aligned with your true soulmate according to Divine plans on the on the other hand when you have found the right person it's like
finding the missing piece of a puzzle you will enjoy a remarkable level of harmonious agreement between the two of you the level of synchrony that will exist in your relationship will be so profound that other people can tell this is a match made in heaven Amos 33 says can two walk together except they be agreed this is one great question that people need to answer before they jump into a relationship if God is forging your relationship then you will experience this depth of agreement between the two of you but until then one of the ways
God tells you to move on is by how you disagree over every little thing this is not to say there are relationships out there with absolute agreement all the time however your relationships should not have constant disagreement now the second thing that will keep happening until you meet your god-ordained spouse lack of inner peace one major way God leads his children is by giving them peace but we often take God's peace for granted especially when it has to do with relationships when you are not with the right person you will notice that you lack a
depth of peace in your your mind the holy spirit is the author of peace and sometimes when he wants to let you know he doesn't support your relationship he simply withdraws that peace this is to get our attention because when we have lost our peace we know we need direction so inner peace is elusive when you're not with the right person but when God blesses you with the right soulmate you you will discover the peace of God more than you could ever imagine just as and the peace of God which transcends all understanding will guard
your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus now to the last thing that will keep happening until you find the right person Divergent opinions and values marital relationships stand as one of the most complex aspects of human life why is it this way relationships are not one size fits all what works for Jack is not exactly what will work for Nick sometimes when you are with a partner and there is always conflicting opinions and values it may be God telling you to reconsider that relationship of course you will not always have similar interests and opinions
even with the right person however when you both always have conflicting opinions and values it is a critical time to pay attention to your relationship when you meet that person that God is bringing your way your opinions May conflict but overall there will be that unique alignment of your values why because God is leading you to and as a result your values will align well with each other even your compromise ises will stay within the borders of your faith and not go against God I appeal to you brothers and sisters in the name of our
Lord Jesus Christ that all of you agree with one another in what you say and that there will be no divisions among you but that you be perfectly United in mind and thought friends it is God's absolute will that you and your significant other are perfectly United in mind when this happens it strengthens your relationship and makes it very beautiful finally never close your mind when it comes to these things that keep recurring they may just be the necessary hints that God is giving you about your present or future relationship in the midst of disagreement
and Divergent opinions peace can seem elusive yet as Christians we are called to navigate these storms Ms in relationships with Grace and wisdom that comes from God let us strive to not impose our own will but to seek God's will for our marital relationships God is committed to Leading us on the path that leads to true love and Lasting peace May our relationships be flavored with Grace and our actions be guided by genuine love as we journey together in finding the perfect soulmate amen what can be more frustrating than the pain of heartbreak the hurt
the torture and the trauma of a loved one walking out of your life can be one of the hardest to Bear few people fully recover from this kind of hurt heartbreaks and breakups can be devastating and dangerous because we become deeply attached to our significant others many relationships have been Shattered by breakups leaving countless young people wary of embracing the gift of a new relationship one of the main reasons for heartbreak is a lack of proper understanding of what love truly is love isn't about emotions and physical attraction it's much deeper than that have you
ever felt unable to move on and enter another relationship after someone walked out of your life if this sounds like your experience you need to watch this video by the end you'll see how God is giving you a fresh chance to love again and we'll discuss the signs to look for in a new relationship before we go on remember this every breakup is a chance to learn and grow like the saying goes every disappointment is a blessing in disguise heartbreaks as tough as they are are a part of life while it's tempting to believe in
the concept of the one scripture teaches us that God has blessed us with Free Will and the capacity to love many the idea that only one specific person is destined to be your spouse isn't biblical instead trust that God can lead you to a compatible partner who shares your values and Faith when we cling to the notion that our ex was the only one capable of loving us completely we risk falling into a pit of despair this mindset can lead to prolonged emotional suffering and hinder our ability to recognize new opportunities for love that God
may be sending remember your worth isn't determined by one person's ability to recognize it as Psalm 13914 declares I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made your works are wonderful I know that full well Embrace this truth and know that God has a plan for your life that includes love and companionship while it's natural to feel responsible for finding the right partner it's crucial to recognize that ultimate control lies with our heavenly father no matter how hard you try you won't be able to find the perfect partner on your own Proverbs 1921 reminds
us many are the plans in a person's heart but it is the Lord 's purpose that prevails now it's tempting to just throw up your hands and say God you take care of this love stuff but taking a chance on love is worth it in the long run Proverbs 19:14 TPT says you can inherit houses and land from your parents but a good wife only comes as a gracious gift from God this isn't just about wives God is in the business of providing awesome husbands too right now God is working on bringing the perfect match
into your life trust that God's plan is greater than any effort you can make on your own Embrace his guidance and believe that he is leading you to the right person remember Adam from The Bible he didn't have to go looking for Eve God literally brought her to him Isaac didn't have to stress about about finding Rebecca God had it all planned out so what does this mean for you beloved it's time to let go of all the hurt fear and bad stuff from your past relationships instead turn to God and ask him to guide
you to a new partner who fits with his awesome plan for your life I get how tempting it is to jump into a new relationship right after a breakup we all want to feel better right but this is where patience and other Christian virtues such as self-control come in let me share a quick story there was this young lady who rushed into a new relationship after a breakup because she was worried about what people would think she ended up giving in to pressure from her new boyfriend and did things she wasn't ready for what's the
lesson here after a breakup you might feel like everyone's judging you but don't let that push you into a relationship that's not right for you a lot of young people make this mistake but remember my friend that God wants you to rise above all the shame and drama and focus on him don't let pressure lead you into situations that could hurt you even more here's the awesome news no matter what you've been through God is giving you a fresh start with someone unexpected this is your confirmation but one thing I do forgetting what is behind
and straining toward what is ahead God is speaking to you right now you need to place the past in its proper place be very careful not to let past hurts interfere with what God has prepared for you in the future you must be certain not to bring the past into the future the past is gone and the future has yet to come only God knows what the future holds however Satan wants to keep us glued to our past experiences to hinder us from the Glorious future God has for us while it is true that some
heartbreaks can be very painful we must not remain in the prison of unforgiveness and bitterness because of what we have experienced there is someone and something special God is working out for you he is preparing someone who will restore your faith in true love he isn't just bringing you the perfect match he is also working on bringing someone who can make you forget every hurt you have ever faced in past relationships having believed this the next question people ask is how will I be sure that this person is not the same as the previous partner
who betrayed us in this video let me share two signs so you will know that the new spouse that God is sending your way is different from anyone you have ever experienced before the first sign is favor he who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord one of the signs you need to watch for as you navigate the Journey of finding a new relationship after a breakup is what the Bible describes as favor when the right person shows up one undeniable sign you will notice is that you will experience
favor sometimes the right person is more than favor the right person is more than a gift the right spouse is God's wisdom offering you the best out of life in another human being if in your journey of finding a new relationship after a breakup you are unable to discover favor then you need to pay close attention to be sure if this person is truly the right person for for you what exactly is the kind of favor that the right partner brings the right partner brings several kinds of favor including emotional support companionship spiritual growth strengthened
family relationships personal growth and practical support in daily tasks and life decisions making life's burdens lighter the second sign is the fear of God charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised again this is not only about women the need to fear the lord applies to everyone in your journey to discovering a new relationship please be sure that this Prince or princess Charming fears the Lord they may be kind Charming intelligent beautiful and handsome however if they lack the fear of God it may be a
sign for you to maintain your composure until the right person comes along never give in to the pressure and stigma of getting involved in a new relationship because of how wealthy or influential someone may be one outstanding trait you need to watch out for is the fear of the Lord a partner who fears the Lord will not only love you but will also live life with you in a way that glorifies God and leads you on the right path and as you journey to discover a new relationship may the Lord give you the wisdom to
find the right relationship and may you find Grace to make your relationship work and bring glory to Jesus may your relationship be one that truly brings peace and Lasting Joy do you think it's possible to love someone more than once well here's the overlooked thing about love and relationships in general love is something you carry forever ever once you love someone it'll always stay with you and you'll carry a part of it even after the relationship ends we are a mosaic of everyone we've ever loved even for a heartbeat loving someone is sharing a piece
of who you are and this piece is still yours regardless of what happens to the relationship you can't UNL someone Love Remains only its magnitude varies with this a failed relationship does not necessarily mean that the bond between you and this person is over it doesn't equate to them being exiled from the next chapters of your life especially not when God still wishes to use this person as an instrument James 1:4 reads let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete not lacking anything think about how your relationship ended would you
consider a complete and thorough ending or is it something that didn't quite give the two of you satisfaction this is crucial because every Orchestra God conducts is towards the goal of a complete and nurturing result but if this isn't the case between your relationship chances are your connection with this person is not yet meant to end perhaps God's testing you and the failed relationship is only a setback for you to persevere through there's no need to be skeptical brothers and sisters in congruity happens but it shouldn't leave you discouraged think of this like when you're
listening to a new song Sometimes you don't like it the first time you hear it but when you listen to it for a second time you find yourself loving it likewise just because a relationship failed doesn't mean it will permanently not work out as said in 2 Timothy 1:7 For the spirit God gave us does not make us timid but gives us power love and self-discipline being timid refers to a lack of Courage a lack of willpower to go for something outside of your comfort zone this is not a quality God wants to see from
you after an unsuccessful attempt at something that could be great like a relationship with your soulmate what God wants to see is how you keep an open mind to his supervision despite the adversity he wants you to possess the kind of strength love and self-discipline that will help you notice and navigate these three things that'll happen when God's directing you to someone from your past the first one is when you're put into situations where your paths inevitably cross have you ever had a weird sense about something that seems normal you ask yourself if this is
a mere coincidence or if God is trying to tell you something that's exactly the kind of question that puzzles you when you start noticing increased encounters with this person it can even be moments that prompt you to think about them and not a literal encounter it can be as casual as suddenly being surrounded by things that remind you of them or it can also appear as an obvious attempt by this person to get in touch with you this is extremely confusing after a breakup since the default strategy is to avoid the person even just the
possibility of bumping into them but somehow if God is at work he will find a way for the two of you to notice each other in one way or another Proverbs 20:24 says a person's steps are directed by the Lord how then can anyone understand their own way the environment you're in the signs you notice and the circumstances you take part in are all orchestrated by God now if this person is unexpectedly being brought back into the picture even if you don't have any idea why you have to trust that this is all under God's
Direction remember that when God wants something to happen he's persistent this may include him nudging you repetitively to situations entangled to this person think of Jonah no matter how many times Jonah tried to escape the task of going to the city of Nineveh God remained persistent in keeping Jonah in his presence in the same way when you notice that your connection with this person is slowly being rekindled in the most unexpected ways you might have to consider that God is touching this person's heart because they're meant to stay if God's turning their heart back to
you then believe that he's also preparing you for this event which leads us to the second sign it's when God shows you that you and this person have changed so much since you've last parted when God introduces you to an unfamiliar territory he will equip you with A New Perspective some people never look back in that in itself is a problem sometimes we need to be brave enough to reflect on our own past to be able to objectively see what there is to learn you gain new insights that'll make you think oh so that's where
it went wrong then you can move forward in confidence knowing that you won't make the same mistake twice as God prepares you for someone who he inclines to come back to you the Lord will restore you in a tranquil Discerning and forgiving heart heart that will allow you to deeply reflect on your past relationship with this person in this period you'll be granted the wisdom to analyze if the returning spark between the two of you is worth another shot second Peter 3:18 proclaims but grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus
Christ to him be glory both now and forever amen you ought to ponder if you and this person have grown in the Lord's Grace during the time you've spent apart because this is the key to a successful Second Chance God won't be bringing this person back into your life if he knows that the both of you are as the same as before he would ensure that the two of you evolved into better versions of yourselves and that these versions are perfectly compatible Proverbs 2717 mentions that as iron sharpens iron so one person sharpens another the
relationship might have left you broken for quite some time but surely God has helped the two of you heal and strengthen as individuals what's the point of returning to an old flame when nothing is changed right think about this person and answer this question will their return to my life be a significant contribution John 1426 tells us but the advocate the Holy Spirit whom the father has sent in my name will teach you all things and remind you of everything I have said to you people come and go and honestly some come back they would
beg for a space in your life but not all deserve it which is why you have to discern whether or not this person has changed for the better and is worthy of another chance you have to let the Holy Spirit walk you through this you'll know that it's God who's bringing this person closer to you for the second time if you notice that you're empowered to reflect on your past with them and learn from what's happened between the two of you the last sign is incredible but you need to be as objective as possible it's
when it feels like fate is pursuing the both of you let's be honest we're not strangers to the difficulty of moving on we all know it's hard to cope with a failed relationship knowing that you've put all your hope love and hard work into someone here lies the challenge when you're clouded with these heavy feelings it can be difficult for you to distinguish if God wants this person back into your life or if it's just you who refuses to accept that you're not meant to be together the second one is dangerous because the devil will
lead you to misread signs you may think God wants you to pursue them again when in fact God wants otherwise as said in Galatians 5:13 you my brothers and sisters were called to be free but do not use your freedom to indulge the flesh rather serve one another humbly in love you're free to welcome whoever you want back into your life but this is not what he wants for you at this moment this is exactly why the third sign is Rock Solid you'll know that God wants this person to return to you when it feels
like fate is doing the work not you or this person what I mean by this is things just fall into place you're not trying hard and this person's not desperately winning you back but somehow the both of you attract each other closer like some natural magnet that's the biggest difference if this whole thing is fueled by desire this person would chase after you with desperation the kind that makes you feel uneasy but when it's God's hand that gently turns their heads towards you again everything appears to be smooth and easy it won't feel like this
person's coming back because they can't live with without you but rather you'd feel their sincerity in wanting to try again because God is guiding them in this direction don't be afraid to have this honest conversation with them if our gracious God can give us double triple infinite chances what's your excuse to deny yourself and this person a chance at a successful and more mature relationship there's one thing you need to know about giving second chances it's Hit or Miss there's no no guarantee whether it'll work out for the better but we give it a shot
anyway because that's the kind of generosity God has taught us 2 Corinthians 9:7 says each of you should give what you have decided in your heart to give not reluctantly or under compulsion for God loves a cheerful Giver if there is even the slightest ounce of Love left in your heart for this person who you know is amazing and is grown be prepared to give it to them cheerfully this may be God's perfect timing for the two of you
