master the art of talking to any [Music] women you are about to discover the Ultra rare secret that most men will never know about how to attract women I guarantee that by the time you finish watching this video you will know exactly how to talk to women how to get in in their minds and how to make them look forward to the next time they see or hear from you this is you and this is the girl you will be talking to what you should tell her what you should talk about and how you can make the conversation flow smoothly This is the first mistake you can make but before we start Don't forget to show love by clicking the like button and subscribing this way you will be supporting the channel allowing me to create more content for you not only does it motivate me to bring more quality content but also helps the algorithm to understand that this video is good and distribute it to more people so that they have access to this information too so I want to know if I can count on your like let's get straight to the point when you start talking to a girl don't overload the conversation with the topic or how you are going to talk before we get into details I want you to change your perspective on this I want you to change your internal mindset when talking to a girl you need to remember that she is just a human being nothing more don't put her on a pedestal just because she is attentive I know this may sound superficial and like something you've heard before but it's crucial that you internalize this from now on whenever you talk to a girl beautiful I want you to remember me and tell yourself she is just a human being The second thing I want you to internalize is that you need to see yourself as being in a higher position while she is in a lower position not if worry i will explain how you can do this later but for now just listen now when you are talking to a girl her subconscious mind the instinct that controls love and search for the right man is evaluating you to see if you are the right guy for her or not if you have watched all the videos in this series on how to attract women you will know that women are emotional beings who are attracted to what they feel but in today's episode we are going to dive deeper into this topic let me explain to you what it is attraction to a woman the most important and fundamental concept that you must understand to be successful with women is attraction without understanding how attraction works you will never be successful with women and dating there are no exceptions to this rule unlike men women often they act based on how they feel they make decisions guided by emotions rather than logic they see something they feel something and respond to that feeling because their actions are based on emotion they essentially cannot control Who they are attracted to and who they are not attraction is a response subconscious that women have towards certain behaviors exhibited by men so to trigger attraction you need to incorporate these behaviors into your personality but before we dive into the specifics let me clarify a few facts one women don't control that they are attracted two women don't control who they are not attracted to This means that attraction happens on an unconscious level and women cannot control it now I want you to imagine this subconscious part of a woman's mind as a radar when you start talking to her this radar turns on and starts scanning you to see if you are suitable for her or not this radar is separate from her Conscious Mind which means if this radar is her Conscious Mind will not be able to say no that is why many women end up falling in love with the same bad guy who mistreats and deceives them her logical brain constantly tells her You made the same mistake she will be mistreated again she will be deceived again but because she is biologically programmed to think emotionally and her Radar is disconnected from her logical mind her logic cannot control Before we go any further, I want you to take this fact with you. Any girl in the world from the moment she is born has one primary goal in life and that is to find the right man for her and know that this is not it's the typical talk you hear from society but it's the biological truth. A woman can be a scientist or a NASA astronaut but even so her ultimate goal remains to find the right man for her and that right man is not someone she chooses but yes the radar inside her that searches and selects you so from now on whenever you talk to a girl know that this radar inside her is scanning you to see if you are suitable for her or not this radar looks for many things in you among the more important is whether you appear to be better than her or whether she is better than you the way he determines this is by observing how you interact with her whether you treat her in a way that shows you see yourself as better than her or if you see her as better than you if you treat her in a way that shows that you see yourself as better than her the radar will understand that you are better than her and that's when the woman will become your friends let's quickly go here If you want to develop a magnetic attitude and become a Natural Seducer to attract super hot women without doing absolutely anything, I want to invite you to check out my e-books, access the link in the video description, go there and get yours now Take advantage because the offer is limited I know this may seem confusing and it seems difficult and complicated but trust me at the end of this video you will understand everything and you will know how to make any girl no matter who she is think about you all day after your conversation without knowing why she did that so what should you do and what should you say to make the radar understand that you see yourself as better than her let's start with something simple that many people ignore body language if you have tried researching body language you will see that some say to keep your head up others say don't put your hands in your pockets and others say sit with your back straight the first thing I want you to do now is forget all this it's all nonsense and it won't help you at all there are three points I want you to focus on regarding body language a common mistake many men make is leaning towards the girl while talking this often turns her off because you are subconsciously signaling that you are very interested in her instead make a habit of chatting with her leaning back This is the first point the second point is almost Start pulling away when she says something you disapprove of for example if a girl says I'm not really interested you could respond with I know I'm probably too much for you to handle You're a really nice girl anyway and then start to walk away while saying this and you'll probably see her either approaching you or trying to stop you with a quick comment.
Attractive girls aren't used to guys pulling away like that, they're usually used to it. to be pursued so moving away will demonstrate high value which will automatically make her more attracted to you the third point and the most important in relation to body language that I want you to be aware of throughout your life is this I will give an example to help you understand imagine yourself sitting next to an important person someone with high status like you would sit you probably wouldn't sit relaxed you would try to show respect and wouldn't feel comfortable you would be smiling and laughing alone to please them but now imagine -if sitting next to a friend you've known for 10 years or sitting next to your brother what would your body language be like you probably wouldn't care at all how you're sitting you could be sitting with your legs stretched out you could be reclining and talking to them you wouldn't even care if they are sitting next to you or not therefore When two people sit and talk the person with the greatest value between them is the one who sits comfortably and doesn't care about the other person sitting next to them . is the mindset I want you to adopt when talking to a girl the first thing I want you to do is sit comfortably in a position that makes you feel comfortable and not care about how she perceives you this idea of thinking about how you must sit must disappear from your mind if you want to put your hand in your pocket do that if you want to take it out take it out if you want to lift your leg lift it if you want to lean back lean in the important thing is to be comfortable and do what makes you feel comfortable will the girl won't care what you do with your hands or your legs while you are talking she will only care if you are sitting comfortably or not and I want you to apply this mentality to your entire life not just with girls please stop of giving so much importance to your body language and what you should do to impress others do what makes you feel comfortable no one owes you anything the moment you start thinking about what body language you should adopt know that you are on the wrong path please Learn to feel comfortable make peace with yourself and don't care what she thinks feel however you want how you feel has a direct impact on how your voice sounds when you feel relaxed confident and comfortable your voice automatically adjusts to this state, it becomes calmer, more controlled and conveys a feeling of security and when you are nervous or anxious this also shows, making your voice sound more agitated or even shrill, so the second point in relation to your voice is simple instead of worrying about controlling its tone or volume focus on how you feel if you are feeling comfortable and safe your voice will naturally follow this path now an important tip on how to use your voice always pause often when we are nervous or anxious we tend to speak too quickly for fear of losing the other person's attention or leaving an uncomfortable silence but in fact taking small pauses during the conversation not only shows confidence but also makes your words seem more important and captivating pauses create expectation they give time for the other person to absorb what you are saying And most importantly they show that you are in control of the conversation don't be afraid of Silence now let's move on to the next point This is one of the The most important and also one of the most ignored by men is controlling emotions As we have already discussed, women are emotional beings and react according to how they feel.
If you can control your emotions and demonstrate a calm, almost carefree attitude, you immediately stand out. that you should not show interest or sympathy but that you should avoid extremes never show that you are very excited or eager to meet her the secret is to maintain a balanced posture be interacted enough to engage in the conversation but not to the point of seeming that she is the center of your world this makes you maintain an aura of mystery something that women naturally find intriguing now let's talk about how you should structure the conversation itself many men fall into the trap of asking question after question in a desperate attempt of maintaining the dialogue, besides being tiring for the woman, it makes it seem like you are trying to fill the silence at any cost instead of asking questions incessantly, a much more effective approach is to make statements, I will give an example instead of asking where you are. mora you can say you seem like the type who likes to live in quiet places when making a statement you invite the other person to respond in a more engaging and personal way without seeming like you are interrogating this also demonstrates that you are observant and confident enough to do if your statement is wrong she will want to correct you and this creates a more interesting interaction Another fundamental point is humor the ability to make a woman laugh is without a doubt one of the quickest ways to create an emotional connection laughter is a powerful emotional response and when you are able to provoke this reaction in a woman you are basically signaling that you are a fun laid back guy and capable of making her feel good but here is the key don't try to force jokes the most effective humor is what emerges naturally from the conversation based on subtle observations or small moments Don't think you need to be a comedian to make a woman laugh often a simple but funny observation can be more effective than a rehearsed joke and here is the last tip but perhaps the most important of all never let the conversation revolve around her all the time it may seem counterintuitive since we often hear that we should be good listeners and yes listening is important but if you spend the whole time just asking questions about her life and not sharing anything about yourself the conversation will end up feeling like an interview women also want to get to know you understand who you are what your interests are your passions share your stories your experiences your thoughts This creates a genuine exchange and gets the conversation flowing in the mind It also demonstrates that you are someone interesting and confident enough to talk about yourself in summary When If you start to apply these principles, you will notice that conversations become much lighter and more pleasant, women will naturally be attracted to your confidence, the way you behave and the way you conduct dialogue, and most importantly, you will not be trying hard to impress.
When you adopt this posture of security and comfort, attraction will happen naturally without you having to try so hard. Now that you understand the importance of a balanced conversation, I want to talk about something fundamental: patience, patience is a quality that is often neglected by men when When it comes to conversations with women when you are talking to a girl you like it can be tempting to want to speed things up quickly and take the interaction to a deeper level as soon as possible however it is crucial to understand that most of the time attraction it doesn't happen instantly it builds over time Especially when a woman feels she is interacting with someone who has value what this simply means is that you must be comfortable letting the conversation take its natural course without rushing often the simple act of being gift showing that you are enjoying the moment without expectation of an immediate result can be incredibly attractive to a woman. It demonstrates that you are not desperate that you don't need validation and that you are confident enough to allow things to unfold organically another important aspect is maintaining emotional control Especially when things don't go as you expected.
The conversation will not always flow the way you would like and that's when many men make the mistake of becoming frustrated or irritated if the woman doesn't seem to be as interested or if the conversation seems a little stuck Keep calm and remain calm remember that women are very sensitive to emotions and if you can demonstrate that you are okay even in the face of small challenges this will show your inner strength even more now let's talk about tests As I mentioned before, women consciously or unconsciously often test men during interactions, these tests can be small sarcastic, feigned disinterest or challenging questions, the purpose of this is to assess their confidence and emotional stability, many men fail these tests because they take everything too seriously or they feel If you are offended, the best way to deal with a test is always in a relaxed and humorous way. Don't defend yourself or try to justify your actions. Just respond in a light and fun way.
For example, if she makes a joke about something you said, don't take it personally. play with the situation and show that you are capable of laughing at yourself. Additionally, these tests are used to check if you are who you say you are or if you are just trying to impress her.
When you are authentic and don't overreact to the tests, this sends a signal. that you have confidence in yourself and don't need her approval to feel good let's also explore the concept of mystery which is a powerful tool to keep a woman's interest it's not about hiding who you are but about not revealing all at once when you leave some things open when you don't reveal all the details of your life immediately it creates a sense of curiosity people in general are attracted to unknown so by keeping a little mystery about your life or your thoughts you increase her desire to know more about you for example instead of directly answering all the questions she asks sometimes it is interesting to give vague answers or play with the questions This makes her feel the need to continue the conversation to find out more. Furthermore, the mystery is also related to the way you tell your stories.
When you share something about yourself, leave small gaps for her to ask questions or show interest in knowing more. this way you will always be giving her something new to discover now a Last Point about what we have talked about so far authenticity many men make the mistake of trying to look like something they are not believing that this will attract women The problem is that women can Quickly notice when a man is not being Genuine They may not know exactly what is wrong but something in their body language, their tone of voice or their attitude will seem out of place and that is a big obstacle to building a true attraction and being authentic to them. the other side is much more powerful even if you have some insecurities or aren't sure how to come across, being yourself creates a real and lasting connection so the key to a good conversation with a woman is being yourself, having confidence without arrogance and maintaining lightness and humor throughout the interaction Don't worry so much about what she is thinking or feeling every second of the conversation if you apply these principles patience emotional control acity and a touch of mystery you will not only improve your conversations but you will also create a solid foundation to build genuine and attractive connections and finally remember each woman is unique there is no Magic Formula that works for everyone the most important thing is to learn to read the situation and adapt to the dynamics of the conversation always maintaining a posture safe and relaxed over time you will see that it will become increasingly natural and fun to act with women in a light and confident way now that you understand the basic principles let's talk about how to apply all of this in practice one of the biggest difficulties that many men face when talking to a woman is to keep the conversation flowing after a few minutes they start to run out of topics or enter an uncomfortable zone of silence this is normal but there are effective ways to avoid these moments an important tip is to become a good listener listen actively What she says not only helps you keep the conversation flowing but also makes her feel like you are genuinely interested.
When a woman realizes she is being listened to, she feels valued and this increases the emotional connection. Men often care so much. with what they are going to say next that they end up not paying attention to what the woman is actually saying.
This is a common mistake and can be avoided with a simple adjustment in your mindset instead of thinking about the next topic or question, focus on what she is speaking and respond based on that follow-up questions are a great way to keep the conversation flowing Also learn to use silences strategically Silence doesn't have to be uncomfortable when used correctly it can create tension and increase interest if you feel like you're getting run out of things to say take a deep breath and relax it's okay to take a break from the conversation you don't need to fill every second with words sometimes just smiling and maintaining eye contact can be enough to keep her interest it shows that you are comfortable with yourself and With the situation now let's talk about something that many men ignore the importance of the environment and context the place where you are can have a significant impact on the conversation relaxed environments such as cafes bars or parks generally promote lighter and more natural conversations very formal or noisy places can make connection difficult, so choose environments where you can interact in a relaxed way and without external pressure. Another important aspect is non-verbal communication. We already talked about body language, but it is important to emphasize that your facial expressions and tone of voice has a great impact A genuine smile and a relaxed expression convey confidence and make the woman feel more comfortable around you In addition, varying the tone of voice showing enthusiasm in some moments and serenity in others It helps to create an interesting dynamic in the conversation.
