listen bro you're not ugly in fact you might be downplaying your attractiveness this whole entire time you see the way we perceive our own attractiveness is usually through outside validation you know people telling us we're handsome all the time or maybe on social media getting thousands of likes on our pictures you know normal stuff but for most men that may not be the case that's why in today's video I'm gonna share with you five subtle signs you might be more attractive than what you think subscribe and like let's get into it with the new age
of online media social media dating apps and me myself as a digital Romeo teaching guys how to look better in pictures there's one thing that I've came across and that is most guys actually look better in real life so if you've ever been out on a date and a woman told you that you look better in real life chances are you might be downplaying your own attractiveness and the reason is is because sometimes we get so attached to our digital image that we forget that hey I'm really that guy in person too and so the
true truth is maybe you just don't know how to take pictures maybe you just don't know how to present yourself the right way but truth is you're probably a few points higher in real life and I believe though online and social media is important when it comes to your presentation and taking pictures the most attractive way but don't neglect yourself too much because you actually might be one or two points higher when you go out in real life I actually love this whenever I meet a girl from dating apps and she happens to look better
in real life than she does in pictures is like literally the best thing ever I'm sure some of you guys have had that experience too now though you look better in real life I don't believe every guy should just stick with that you still want to work on your online presentation you still want to work on actually presenting yourself in the most attractive way through pictures and online media because that's kind of where the world is heading in regards to people perceiving us right most of you guys watching this right now have literally never seen
me in person you see me through videos you see me through pictures so with that being said that is my image sometimes I'll be me guys and they'll tell me like yo you're you're bigger in person I've had girls actually too not necessarily tell me that I'm more handsome in person but I'm not a catfish and I think that's the biggest thing that matters there is that you you at least want to have some sort of congruency between your online image and your in real life image however if you look more attractive in real life
then that's a good sign all right so have you ever been in the gym you're just doing your sets maybe you're doing some pull-ups some curls whatever it may be and a guy just comes up to you and asks you like hey what do you eat what's your diet like what's your workout routine like I don't know about you guys but this has happened to me literally all the time where I'm just going about my day I don't even have to be in the gym and some guys sort of ask me what routine am I
on or ask me advice without me offering or soliciting any sort of information that I'm a coach or anything so that's the next subtle sign that you may be more attractive than what you think is the fact that other men ask you what your routines are it doesn't only have to be be your workout routine it could be your hair routine it could be your beard routine it could be your skincare routine because some of you guys actually have really nice skin but if you don't that's where today's sponsor comes in and that is teach
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of sign that you might be more attractive than what you think is the fact that every time you present yourself opportunities get presented to you this can go in any facet sphere men woman doesn't matter but a big example that I have and this has happened twice to me literally two times to me it's the fact that I'm putting myself out there on dating apps social media not asking for anything and then opportunities always arise from the fact that I present myself out there for example I met a Fashion Stylist on hinge a few months
back who so happened to work with Neiman Marcus which is like this designer brand and so what she did she saw my look and then from there connected me with the manager of Neiman Marcus and then I got booked for a photo shoot for Neiman Marcus a luxury brand in which if I never presented myself on a hinge that would have never happened another example is that I met this other girl on Bumble who happens to run like this big e-commerce brand and then you know we might have had a business meeting or not but
the point is she wanted me to model for her e-commerce brand so if you find yourself like going out in public or going to the gym consistently or even on dating apps on social media and more opportunities are being presented to you in regards to how you look especially in regards to people wanting you to model their stuff or maybe you wanted you to be a part of some media this is people in a way telling you like hey I think you're attractive I think you have this certain look to present this for this certain
media type I want you to be in it and even though directly they won't say like you're super hot or super attractive or you're handsome that's a clear sign that through you presenting yourself you are being presented opportunities and honestly it doesn't have to be just the way you look another example is that I was in the gym a few weeks ago once again and a guy came up to me who's doing some sort of media for this fitness program he's coming out with is like you know some P90X sort of like fitness program thing
and he wanted me to be one of the fitness people like showing the exercises for an example without me even introducing myself to him he literally just came up to me was like Hey I'm doing this project I want you to be like an extract in the background for this for this project right so that's when I realized anytime I present myself or maybe you guys present yourselves too if opportunities are just clearly and always being presented to you in some sort of fashion chances are you're a lot more attractive than what you think you
are now we talked about your digital image we talked about opportunities we talked about routines but one big thing about body language if you guys ever notice this is that people just cannot look you in the eye and overall they just have really nervous body language here's a psychology fact people are a lot more nervous and less confident around people they perceive more attractive especially more attractive than themselves or just highly attractive in general so let's say you're on a date and a girl can't look you in the eye she's nervous probably not making good
conversation a bit shy that's a clear sign that she perceives you to be highly attractive and if this happens on a consistent basis even outside of dates let's say you're meeting just a dude or at the gym or this worker here this anybody they can't lick you in the eye you can clearly see that they have nervous Body Language they perceive you to be attractive even if you don't see it yourself and I started to realize this for myself whenever I would be out on dates I remember this this one time specifically of course you
can make eye contact with me but she was going to show me something on her phone and I literally saw her hands trembling I see her hands tribbling bro like it was literally shaking away I didn't call her out or anything but in my head I'm like damn this girl's nervous so at this point in time it's almost a red flag and for girls like a little too confident a little too confident like on the first date or when you meet like anybody and they're a little too confident chances are either they're used to being
around Attractive people or they just don't find you that attractive and that's when you can get actually deeper into the psychology aspect of it from a male's point of view let's say you're on a date with a very attractive woman the more confident you act the more it kind of seems like you're kind of used to it and that you're not faced by her attractiveness but on the opposite hand let's say you're with a very attractive woman and you're nervous you can't lick her in the eye you got weak body language you're letting her know
subconsciously like hey I'm not used to being around an attractive woman or I perceive you highly highly attractive so watch out for people's body language including yourselves whenever that happens now lastly I'm not sure if this is super subtle but any attractive man can attest to this and this is the fact that you attract gay men or homosexual men right if you're a guy and you've never attracted to giving man in your life or you don't have just gay men trying to hit hit at you or maybe you go somewhere and it might be a
few gay people when they're making eye contact with you chances are you're probably not as attractive as what you think you are I cannot tell you that every single attractive guy like genuinely objectively attractive guy has to some degree attracted gay men not just one but like all the time and of course like when you're attractive and you you put yourself together you might give like Metro metrosexual sort of Vibes you don't don't get homosexualized because you want to be more masculine but men especially gay men know what looks good to them sometimes more than
women do and they're also a lot more open about it so sometimes I've had gay men sort of approach me in environments they they come off straight keep in mind I had no idea they were gay but later on I learned that they were gay and that they literally just cold approached me trying to make a friendship or something like that that goes with social media and dating apps too if you got gay dudes consistently hitting you up sometimes more than a straight woman but you might want to readjust your image and how you're presenting
yourself to the world but it's also a clear sign too an affirmation that you're probably a lot more handsome than what you actually think you are because like I said gay men know what they want and they know what looks good if you're an ugly or unattractive guy you're probably never gonna have any sort of gay men trying to get action so overall I just noticed these little hints and these subtle cubes and if you relate to I would say at least three out of five of these points you're definitely a lot more attractive than
when you perceive yourself to be alright let me know if I missed any down below definitely don't forget to check out teach Hanley down below if you want a better skincare routine I'm gonna see you guys in the next video