if you're an introvert you may think that you're destined to suffer socially but one of today's most popular celebrities is a self-proclaimed introvert i think they know this but i'm a very shy introverted person even more amazing zendaya captivates people without pretending to be extroverted which can feel exhausting and fake so today you'll learn four easy tricks to be charming as an introvert without changing your personality our writing assistant and resident introvert hadley will walk you through them take it away hadley so the first mistake some introverts make in conversation is forcing themselves to be
outgoing all the time doing this will drain your social battery fast so instead learn to front load your enthusiasm this means using your social energy in the moments that matter most entrances and introductions for example watch how zendaya starts this interview [Music] [Applause] [Music] now this doesn't mean you need to go dancing into every room you can do this by being a big hugger or even just a big smiler bring energy and enthusiasm to those first few minutes of conversation and later you can transition to whatever energy level feels natural to you now when you
do become a bit lower energy it can be tough to get a word in over those louder extroverts but there's a trick you can use to get people to listen to you without raising your voice use hand signals to capture attention we talked in the past about how keanu reeves will move his hands a few seconds before he speaks to grab attention despite his quiet voice zendaya does a variant of this to stop people from cutting her off she holds her pointer finger up to show that she's not done speaking doing this this this thing
where i'm basically up in the air and i spin down and i get caught and i heard a fart now wait we hold your pointer finger up while pausing mid-sentence and you can really captivate people without needing to be loud here's a great example you can model from stephen young i think he started doing that because of you though this simple trick can help you captivate people and avoid getting cut off without needing to raise your voice so now that you've got their attention let's cover a super easy trick to make people enjoy talking to
you even more and that's speak through a smile watch how endearing zendaya is as she smiles while she speaks he speaks english and it weirded everybody out yeah did you know that nettie pott was going to be a you know so funny now if you're not the talkative type you can still make people love being around you just by being a likable listener one fantastic habit for making conversation more fun for yourself and for making people like you is to listen with the intention of laughing zendaya laughs easily in conversation and it makes the people
she's talking to feel amazing madrid is also in spain right all day sometimes the thing that makes people like you most is not when you are funny but when you make them feel funny watch how tom can't help but smile as zendaya cracks up beside him oh my it's definitely you'd have to take avocados yeah you'd have to like from a pure logistical standpoint it'd have to be avocados yes if you've ever had a friend who laughs at literally everything you say you know how amazing this feels now one quick warning never fake a laugh
doing this will backfire and make people immediately distrust you if you've ever suspected someone of faking a laugh around you you've probably felt like this before she's got a fake laugh in a real life they are very close yeah and it took me one day of working with her when i was like that's like i literally was like i wasn't that funny so rather than fake laughter you want to cultivate the ability to laugh freely whenever you do find something funny if you currently struggle to laugh when you're in conversation that's totally fine laughing is
a habit that gets easier the more you do it so a good practice is to watch something you know will make you laugh right before going out this prime will help you be in a better state to laugh when you're actually in conversation and that's four tricks to be charming as an introvert now if you enjoy these videos but find it hard to put it all into practice when you're actually in conversation you may like our program charisma university it takes just 20 to 30 minutes a day and each day comes with a daily action
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