friend, pay close attention to this second story because it will be very useful for your whole life. Best regards and I hope you find growth and success in these words. The second story is about leaving everyone behind in just 7 Days.
Once a poor man was to a Buddhist monk and said teacher I am very worried about my habits I want to do a lot but I can't do anything I want to be a successful man but I am totally limited by my habits in fact I don't even know what qualities or skills I need to be successful that's why I come to you to learn about those qualities please guide the buddhist monk said just as we are limited by bad habits if we adopt good habits we will also be guided by them These good habits will help us achieve a lot in our life so today I will tell you about 15 habits that can make you a successful man or woman, do not forget what I tell you. Just remember these habits in your mind and begin to gradually incorporate them into your life because these habits will not only bring you success, they will also make you a person of great value and a person so good that people will say they want to be like you the first habit on the list is getting up early in the morning if I had to say what is the most powerful habit in the world that all successful people adopt is getting up early and giving up laziness If you start your work before the first light of day you will gain self-confidence you will overcome laziness and believe that there is no challenge you cannot overcome The way you get up in the morning shows how much willpower you have and how important it is for you to achieve your goals. goals getting up early means more effort more hard work which will make you more successful compared to others if you have a habit of getting up late you should get into the habit of getting up 5 minutes earlier and in a few days you will start getting up early naturally the second habit is always be learning something new This is a wonderful habit found in all people who have achieved success in their field keep learning more about your work what we learn in life will always be useful at some point successful people use different methods to achieve their dreams and they want to know everything related to their goals so that it is easier to achieve them there is no shortage of knowledge in the world but you should always be eager to acquire knowledge in the field in which you want to be successful you may discover something that expands your capabilities Beyond what you imagined so approach learning with the curiosity of a child the third habit is to talk less and listen more we have two ears and one mouth which means we should Listen more and talk less listeners never lose out and They are always enriched with new knowledge.
Talking less means that you give yourself the opportunity to absorb more of your environment. Learn from others and understand situations better before giving your opinion. When you listen more, you pick up details that you might have overlooked when you were too busy talking.
This makes you a better communicator since when you speak your words are more considered and carry more weight. Speaking less means wasting less energy. Do not get too involved with people and do not appear weak in front of anyone.
Do not argue unnecessarily. A person who speaks less has a greater ability to think deeply as you are more connected to your inner self Your inner thoughts are so strong that they can bend any success at its feet Listening more than talking also helps you build better relationships both personally and professionally people appreciate when you feel a Genuine interest in what they have to say which improves trust and mutual respect and positions you as someone who values the opinions and experiences of others which is crucial in leadership and building strong teams the fourth habit is learning to disagree and say no to others we are not puppets who simply nod our heads to everything others say You are a unique person and your dreams your desires and your principles are different If your destiny is different then your path is also different will be and if there is something you don't like doesn't mean you should follow it just because it works for others it is not true that what works for others will also work for you if you follow the same method as others you will be like them remember you are the most unique person in this world and no There is no one like you, therefore you have every right to disagree and also to express your opinion and you must say no to everything that is not correct for your purpose. If you do not feel like going out with your friends, learn to say no to them.
you want to be a businessman and not a farmer Tell your family that you want to be a businessman not a farmer the obligation does not last forever and it does not benefit us learn to say no where necessary because by refusing you could do bad in the eyes of others but you will never be bad in your own eyes most people fail to do anything meaningful in life Because they fear what others will say if they fail therefore most people live a life dedicated to others forgetting about the most important person The fifth habit is learning to take take risks appropriately the biggest risk in life is precisely not taking any if you are not taking risks for what is worth it or what you believe in you are wasting your life and running the risk of staying in the same place eliminate the fear of take risks and also the fear of what others will say ignore the laughter and ridicule neither your time nor your investment will be wasted from life to death a person only needs three things food clothes and a home and obtaining them is not difficult but Your mission is to reach the door of death safely as a warrior you must overcome each challenge take risks and win the crown of Victory until you reach the gates of heaven TAKE risks For the right reasons you will never regret taking them but you will regret the lost opportunities The sixth habit is to try to understand the person with whom you will spend the next 60 or 80 years that person is you how much time you dedicate to yourself and learn from your past mistakes What do you do to improve your present and what do you think about your future do you feel every day for 10 minutes to think about what is happening in your life where you come from where you are now and where you are going what is the biggest need and the biggest challenge in your life no one knows you better than yourself if anyone can understand what What do you feel? That's you. Spend 10 minutes every day and in those 10 minutes there should be nothing else, no books or work, just you and your thoughts.
During this time, talk to yourself and try to get to know yourself. The seventh habit is to learn to make decisions and get to work. immediately how many things you have been putting off until now how many things there are for which you need to make a decision but you don't want to do it and you keep putting off the work This is because most people cannot decide whether they want to do that work or not If they want continue in a certain relationship or if they prefer to start a business or work for someone else people usually avoid reflecting on these questions learn to make decisions it is better to make a decision than not make it make a decision and try to do it well and once you decide Get to work all successful people have very little time to make decisions and do their work if you have decided or planned something at 8 in the morning at 8 minutes your work should be going as planned it is necessary to take massive action in everything That you propose the eighth habit that can change your life is Learning to use your time wisely.
Time is something of which there is always a shortage. It does not slow down. It is something with which you can only keep pace.
You cannot fall behind or get ahead of time. everything that is happening in your life Today you must face it therefore learn to move with time and move forward doing what is important to you because if you fall behind in the race against time no matter how much you run you will never be able to recover it who is sleeping surely he is losing something and whoever is awake is gaining it our countdown of time begins the moment we are born so don't waste your time use it for your goals and know yourself habit is to learn to ignore unnecessary complications we have a limited amount of time and a defined amount of energy if we continue to spend it our energy will be dispersed and we will never be able to concentrate it towards our objectives and thus the objectives are lost the mistake that most people make is who try to get involved in everything and with everyone which divides their energy and prevents them from doing any important task. Therefore delegate the non-essential work that others can do and focus all your energy and all your time on your important tasks the tenth habit is to eliminate negative people from your life and surround yourself with positive people a negative person absorbs your energy and makes your thinking become negative therefore try to stay away from Such people on average a person is surrounded by five people that is to say the five people with whom we spend most of the time, somehow we end up being like them and adopting their habits, the company influences And if the people around you only see defects in everything, leave them immediately because they are people who prefer the cold in summer and in summer rain such people are never happy nor do they let others be happy everyone in the world has the right to be free you have every right to live life with a positive thought you should not tell yourself negative things like I only have bad luck or this It only happens to me all the successful people in the world have seen a successful person within themselves and have always ignored the words of negative people never associate with negative fools because they will not achieve anything and you will not receive anything the eleventh habit is When you have a good idea in mind, write it on a piece of paper or a note on your mobile phone.
Our brain brings new and good ideas every day. If we don't write them down, we will forget them forever. Also, if you have a plan, Write it down.
Do this. Fix and visualize the plan. in our mind also write about all the things you want to achieve and about the habits you want to eliminate by writing down the thoughts the load on our brain to remember them is reduced And then our mind is freed to think of new ideas the tenth habit is to stay healthy and adopt a more altruistic lifestyle eat less and digest more the daily practice of pranayama exercise and meditation will not only keep you healthy but also beautiful and increase your self-esteem with a healthy mind and body you will be able to progress more in your life and achieve your goals the first happiness is a healthy body the thirteenth habit is to always be happy and smile no one wants to make friends or spend time with a person who is always complaining or criticizing because everyone has their own share of problems and pain in life and why would anyone want to?
increase your pain and sadness So keep smiling and if you do others will see in you a ray of Hope maybe your smile will make someone forget their pain smiling doesn't mean you have to be laughing all the time it means you have to be happy positive and think that you are very lucky that you do not lack anything in life and if something is missing you can fill that void now the fourteenth habit is to always spend less than you earn most people spend more than they earn in the name of ostentation and Then they live a life full of poverty and suffering, therefore try to increase your income legitimately, spend less than you earn and save money for the future. You can also invest in developing a skill that will make you generate more income. The 15th habit is to be a good and responsible person there are many things you can do to help others try to alleviate other people's difficulties and feed the poor try to bring smiles to people's faces an individual He is truly successful when he contributes to the well-being of his country and society in addition to its own success therefore helps people good actions and tries to set a good example in society the Buddhist monk explained that these are the 15 habits that if you adopt them will allow you to live a successful life and be an example for others the poor man received the answers to his questions he thanked the Buddhist monk and left now friends Let's begin our third story a long time ago in a town there lived a very cunning thief one day he thought that until he went to the capital and proved his worth he would not earn respect among the people.
With this thought, the thieves headed to the capital and when they arrived, they walked around the city to see what they could steal. They decided to start with the King's palace. The king had deployed many guards for the security of the palace day and night, not even a bird could enter without Being Caught there was a large clock in the Palace that rang every hour of the day and night.
The thief took some iron nails and when the clock struck 12 he nailed one into the wall of the palace with each chime in this way without making a noise he nailed 12 nails in the wall then holding on to them he climbed and entered the palace went to the treasury stole some diamonds and left the next day when the theft was discovered the ministers informed the king The king was very surprised and angry he ordered the number of diamonds to be doubled. patrolling the streets of the city and that anyone found wandering at night would be arrested as a thief while this announcement was being made in court The thief was present disguised as a civilian and found out about the entire plan he also found out what the 26 guards selected to patrol the city stealthily went home he disguised himself as a Saint and visited the wives of those 26 guards each of them was eager for her husband to catch the thief and receive a reward from the King one by one The thief visited all of them He read their hand and told them that that night would be very favorable for them because their husbands would catch the thief, but he warned them not to allow the thief to enter their house because he would attack them. He told them to close all the doors and even if they heard the voice of Their husbands were to throw burning coal on them to ensure that the thief was captured.
All the women prepared for the thief's arrival that night without informing their husbands. Meanwhile, the husbands went out on patrol and continued to keep watch until 4 in the morning. It was still dark and they had not seen anyone.
They thought that the thief would not come that night. And they decided to return home. As soon as their wives arrived, they became suspicious and began the procedure suggested by the thief.
As a result, the guards burned themselves and had great difficulty convincing them. their wives that they were their real husbands and that they opened the door to them due to the burns they suffered. All the husbands were taken to the hospital.
The next day when the king arrived at court he was informed of everything that had happened. Upon hearing it, the king became very worried. and ordered the police chief to capture the thief personally that night the police chief began patrolling the city prepared while he was on a street The thief replied I am the thief The police chief thought that the young man was joking with him and told him to stop the joke And if you are a thief Come with me I will lock you in jail The thief responded What harm will that do to me and he arrived with the police chief to the place where people are imprisoned there The thief said Mr police chief how do you use this cage Please explain it to me the police chief responded How can I trust you I'll show you And if you escape The thief said without you asking I have given myself to you Why would I escape convinced by your words the police chief agreed to show you how it worked The cage As soon as he put his hands and feet in it The thief quickly turned the key and locked the cage with the police chief inside and left saying Goodbye It was a cold winter night and when dawn came the police chief was almost frozen to death.
In the morning when the soldiers began to leave they saw the chief of police Trapped in the cage they took him out and took him to the hospital The next day when the court was held the whole story of the night was told to the king The king was so surprised that He decided to personally watch the thief that night. The thief was present at the court and heard everything that was said. At nightfall he disguised himself as a Saint and sat down to make a bonfire under a tree at the end of the city.
The king began to patrol and He passed by the saint twice. The third time he passed by, he asked him if he had seen any stranger passing by. The saint replied that he was concentrating on his meditation and that if someone had passed by, he would not have noticed if they wanted him.
The king could sit with him and observe whether anyone passed by or not. Upon hearing this, the king had an idea and immediately decided that the saint would use his clothes to walk around the city while he stayed dressed in the saint's clothes waiting there. looking for the thief after a lot of discussion and refusing two or three times finally The thief agreed to the king's proposal and they exchanged clothes The thief immediately mounted the King's horse arrived at the palace and went to sleep peacefully in the golden room of the King, the poor King, disguised as a saint, stayed waiting to capture the thief when it was 4 in the morning and the king saw that neither the saint had returned nor had any man or thief passed that way, he decided to return to the palace but when he arrived at the At the door of the palace, the ministers thought that the king had already returned and suspected that he must be a thief trying to enter the palace disguised as the King.
They captured him and threw him into a dungeon. The king screamed but no one heard his words. At dawn, the minister in charge of the The dungeon guard recognized the king's face and, trembling with fear, fell at his feet.
The king called all the soldiers and returned to the palace on the other side. The thief who had slept all night in the Palace disguised as the King. As soon as the first ray of lightning came out.
