Kwasi here and in this video I want to talk to you about the coordination period and in general the inevitable grace period and how to really coordinate when life isn't going your way because if you learn to do this then any single situation in your life you can use to your benefit to help you manifest whatever it is that you want so this is very very powerful make sure you watch this video to its entirety before I begin this video I want to quickly announce that I'm doing a free giveaway of my book life mastery
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free one to one consult while it's still available and wait till the end of the video for the announcement on that and with that let's get started with this video now in this video I want to talk to you about the inevitable grace period and I know I made a video on this before but I want to get into more detail in this right now because this is something that I've been going through recently myself and I've seen certain changes you know in the way that I actually deal with it things that are helping me
now if for most of you who don't know the inevitable grace period is the period of time when you're you know going through the highs of life but now you're hitting the lows and this happens to everyone because the more higher highs you experience the lower lows you can experience and this is primarily because of identification with something when you get to identified with the events in life that are going on naturally you're going to experience these highs and lows right so with that being said let's really get into this video and understand three key
ways that we can actually overcome this period and actually use this period to lead us to more and more freedom rather than bondage so whenever you're going through this inevitable grace period in your life you must understand that breakthrough is coming seriously like I've seen that every single period in my life whenever I had a downtime because I coordinated it correctly I had a breakthrough I just went to higher highs and there was more and more evolution so to really understand this concept think about it as a gym for your spiritual self what's really happening
is every single time you go to the gym you're putting your muscles under stress right you're you know breaking your muscle cells and you're getting into more and more discomfort and uncomfortable states but as a result what's happening your muscles are growing same thing happens in life if you coordinated correctly and use the right principles then this period of you know this downtime you're experiencing right now what's gonna happen is it's going to lead you to more and more freedom better things are gonna start happening to you better things are gonna start happening for you
and all of these things are possible because of this coordination principle now if you don't know what the coordination term even means I urge you to check out a book called reality Tran surfing I make a lot of videos on it but really it's a very very powerful method of manifestation and it's a quantum physics model of viewing reality and the events that occur in it and also really explaining powerful method of managing your reality so I make a lot of videos on them because it's an 800 page book but if you really want to
check it out I made a video up here or up here explaining the differences between the law of attraction and reality turn surfing so make sure you click up here to check that out now with that being said this coordination period comes very important so really thinking about it you're going to go through a breakthrough this is what's happening this is going to lead you to more and more freedom so the goal is to use this to lead you to more and more freedom so make sure you stick around till the end of this video
and I'm going to share with you three key ways to overcome this now the second thing is is this is reality testing you every time you go through a down time in your life what's happening is you're hitting a new level so this is going to keep happening over and over because now you're getting to more and more breakthrough is more and more breakthroughs one of you get stopped and you struggle with something it means you're trying to break through to a newer level new level of spiritual evolution mental evolution physical evolution this is what
it is so make sure you start to see it that way and when I'm describing the keys this is going to make more sense now the final thing is what really happens in this period and why this period really happens is because your importance level is way too high ideally goal achievement should be like going to a deli and picking out a sandwich because your importance level is so low like really think about it if you went to the mailbox to collect your mail would you really put a lot of importance on if you weren't
to collect your mail today or maybe now maybe an hour later you did or it didn't come today unless it's something important in the mail right so that's exactly what it's like whenever you put too much attachment and identification on this particular thing naturally you're gonna start writing the highs and lows of life whenever you become your thoughts then naturally when your thoughts are negative you're going to feel shitty right but once you start bringing awareness to these things in your life what happens you're no longer identified with them you're no longer your thoughts but
rather you start to realize that you have thoughts and because you're not your thoughts you can detach from them and have a separation between you and your mind whenever you start to feel your body then you start to have a separation between you and your body so you're not your body you're not your mind you're not the events that are happening in your life this is just a particular experience of life that needs to happen in order to show you and teach you something really stop and think about this because once you get this breakthrough
within you nothing in life is going to ever challenge you every single go achievement is just gonna be like walking to the deli and getting whatever it is that you choose that's how it should be really some delays are just a little farther away than others so it takes a little bit longer to get to the deli but eventually you're gonna get there right so now why I'm really bringing this topic up is because recently I've been going through this period myself I've been writing a lot of highs everything's been going wrong with the reality
mastery program I've been getting a lot of clients into it and you know gun to such a point that my problems have really upgraded now I have too many clients to deal with because you know this just one to one you can only deal with so many clients so now I have to either go to group coaching or online programs and that's what's working on next and that's why I announced this at the beginning of this video now with that being said you know I saw that once I'm trying now I'm son now since um
leveling up and trying to get to this level problems are showing itself the biggest test to someone in their lives is when you start a business I'm so serious if you really think about it Tony Robbins had this code what do you said people don't have business problems they have life problems that reflect in their business a lot of people who are doing 95 s have this security and the safety of you know just doing a job that protects them that they have something to fall back on to but once you start your own business
and you really become accountable for yourself there is no one to fall back onto so what a lot of your limiting beliefs and know your identity that you've taken up they start to surface so really understand that now with that said in my personal life I saw that because I was trying to level up to this newer level and go into this newer height I started inevitably encountering challenges because all these limiting beliefs and my old identity starts to show itself remember the second principle I talked about reality is testing you at this moment whenever
you go through something tough in your life and challenges start to you know show themselves it's your old identity surfacing what's really happening is your old self and your new self they're fighting against each other the new self isn't strong enough to survive so the old self is trying to overtake it what you really must do is stop feeding this old self feeding all these victim mindset and everything like oh no I'm not worth it bla bla bla but rather feed this new self but there's a right and a wrong way to do that and
that's why we get to the keys so really getting to an example you know I've seen that recent of problems that have started to show itself in my reality is clients starting to refund I had two clients who refunded and this refund actually cost me money because the process of the payment processes that I use it charges you percentage so now this actually cost me money out of my pocket but I didn't realize that before but I put too much importance on this and like oh no you know everything is going to my clients are
refund they oh no and I'm just making this problem larger than it has to be instead of reacting to it and giving it my attention I withdraw attention because this is the old self the old fears that are coming up before I even started this journey I always had a fear that oh no what if my clients refund and you know everything just goes to it's just this old fear coming to surface and really showing itself in reality because you're taking a new journey but everything always ends up the way you want it if you
learn to coordinate right so I saw that this was happening and I saw that I was getting reactive to it and as a result of my reactivity my state has been lowered and I've been perpetuating in this state for a while now but recently I've realized what's going on and reminded myself of this inevitable grace period and that this is just a break through to the next stage and I know that a month from now I'm gonna come back to this moment watch this video and stop laughing and be like all oh this is funny
well this is what happened but it's just a period in life now these are just experiences in life once you start to identify with them then you become these experiences and you forget that you're in a video game and the simulation because you've become the simulation once you do that every single thing that happens in this simulation actually affects you and your spiritual self right so that's the state we don't want to get to if you really think about playing a video game like maybe even GTA or you have a character in there like look
at the Sims let's say a lot of you play the Sims I used to love the Sims you have a character in there and something bad happens you don't feel anything because you're controlling the character there is something in control of the character that's what we want to establish right now the separation between you and your actual self yeah I am so with that said let's really get to these three keys that's gonna help you coordinate this period like a boss so the first and foremost step is to really reduce your importance to all of
these events now I've made a lot of videos on how you can reduce your importance and even what the concept of importance is now in general what a heightened level of importance does is it generates an imbalance in the field of nature if you think about every single thing in your life there's always going to be a little more importance to something than other things this is natural this is how I've been conditioned we've been conditioned to believe that okay this is important that's not important ideally it should be like your mum is just as
important as another stranger on the street but because how we've been conditioned we believe that you know this one person has more importance than that other person and this again generates excess potential maybe not to a great extent but it still generates excess potential this is the very reason people who try to manifest the specific partners are unable to do so because they put them up on a pedestal now what really happens when you build too much importance is this excess potential comes in and excess potential is really something that you know comes in to
balance out that heightened importance you've generated if you think about raising a pencil up here it gains gravitational potential if you think about you putting too much importance on a particular person then it your thought energy creates this imbalance in nature it's kind of the equivalent of putting the pen up here the pen wants to go down to the ground to the lowest energy state if you think about electrons they don't want to be at an excited state for those those science II geeks out there they don't want to be at that excited say they
want to come down to the lowest energy level but they have no choice because of the importance level that you put in there this is raising the excess potential so now you must overcome this excess potential and also use your intention energy to get to your goals so this becomes a very very daunting task to do as opposed to if there was no excess potential no importance you could just calmly go to your goals and choose whatever it is that you want and then come back calmly and quietly that's what the essence of trans surfing
and all of this stuff that I teach on this channel is all about so remember that if you just reduce your importance consciously and if you can't do it consciously you know checks out check out some my videos on how to create situations for yourself that importance is reduced so remember to just reduce your importance level and once you do that you'll see that things become a lot easier now if you really think about the concept of importance think about what thing you're going through in your life right now what if someone from a third
world country who wasn't even able to feed themselves came in your position in your shoes right now would they feel what you're feeling or would they be grateful really stop and think about that there's always gonna be someone at a worse situation than you are right now right so clearly what's going on is that your reality isn't shitty but rather you're putting too much importance on it because if someone else who's a little more disadvantaged than you came to your situation they would be grateful right but we forget that because we are just too much
muddled in our problems in the current state of things so we can't create the state of things we would actually like to experience so that's the key number one reduce importance if you reduce importance then you create that detachment between you and the event and it no longer has any effect on you even this is easier said than done I make a lot of videos on my channel explaining this so make sure you click up here to check out the videos on importance and how to reduce them number two is really using what is known
as the advantage principle now every single event that you go in your life it's it can either be a positive event or a negative event in reality every single event is neutral there is no good thing or bad thing even if someone dies it's just to create balance in nature nature is a perfect system it'll always be at balance so all of these events are inherently neutral now the nature of thought is such that we can put a positive attention and a negative attention on things the way we serve for reality and really shift to
life lines and parallel realities is by the nature of our thought energy if our attention is positive and we positively perceive it then it's going to shift us into more and more positive life lines if our attention is negative and we're like oh bad things are happening to me then we're going to shift a negative life lines do you see how this works if something happens in my reality it's an inherently neutral event but we put a charge on this event we put a positive or a negative charge on this event and by the virtue
of putting this charge you're shifting to the corresponding reality then your life shifts and the general direction of your life shifts and corresponding events become positive or negative to really understand this concept I want to give you an example of two women let's say there is Mary and Beth Mary and Beth both turn 70 years old now the event of turning 70 is a neutral event right Mary perceived this event negatively she says oh no I turned 70 my life is coming to an end oh you know might as well collect my things it's time
to go Beth turn 70 and she's like wow I just turned 70 time to live the rest of my life in complete adventure she lives the rest of her life climbing Mount Kilimanjaro you know she just completely becomes adventurous and does crazy crazy things for the last few years you know left in her life last 20 30 40 years however long she lives but Mary on the other hand because of her perception and what meaning she's attached to the event of turning 70 she lives the rest of her life in complete dread really stop and
think about this for a second whatever meaning you've attached to any positive end that's happened in your life that's how your life is turning out right now reality is created in this present moment for the future moments to come there is no way you can change this present moment even if God were to come here right now do you think you'd be able to change this exact moment this current frame in this whole script cannot be changed no matter what you can influence your future what you are experiencing right now is all a result of
your past and maybe it's in this lifetime or a previous lifetime but this is the essence of karma karma is trying to play itself out and kama is the thing that creates physical reality so make sure that you put positive meaning to events that have happened in your life I've seen so many people go through a tough childhood and say things like oh no you know what because of my childhood I'm like this and they just turn out to have a shitty life I've seen other people who have had traumatic childhoods but still have overcome
them and become extremely great and gone on to do profound things and when you ask them how come you're here because if you know your childhood roses like this how come you overcame that and they say well it's because of my childhood right that those things had to happen in order for me to get here so they put a positive meaning to that event that's happened in their lives so always remember remember that this is the advantage principle click up here to know how to use this advantage principle so you can put a positive turn
two things in your life and shift the corresponding realities where everything unfolds your way if you start to practice principles from trans surfing principles that I'm sharing on this channel you'll see that you know maybe three to four months a year later your life just turns out positive everything just starts going your way seriously I just get lucky and lucky every single day everything just always happens in my favor because I'm practicing all of these principles and applying them in my life and because of these principles that I even teach in the reality mastery program
my clients have gotten to a point where good things just happen to them for no reason I want to help you get to that point where good things happen to you for no reason and these principles will literally help you get there I'm not even kidding these are very very powerful so make sure you're even taking notes or religiously apply these principles in your life so remember that step one was reducing importance and do this consciously or if you can't do it consciously let's say you have a fear of heights and you can't really do
that consciously create a safety net under you know so I've made videos on that to make sure you check those out and finally this is the part people have most trouble with this is the part where you let go people have a tough time letting go and by letting go I mean experiencing this moment fully letting it come not resisting it too many times I see that whenever I'm feeling shitty I just don't want to like I don't want to confront that feeling I just want to be on social media scroll through Instagram all the
time even when I was going through this down period in my personal life I was just scrolling through social media you know trying to get something like trying to see the next thing that's gonna make me feel better or trying to eat food stuffing myself with cookies or watching TV incessantly watching TV shows but still that discomfort is within me and this discomfort is wanting to be experienced so turn everything off literally just sit down and experience it don't do anything just let it be there just watch how it changes just observe it this is
the key to letting go you don't have to do any fancy gimmicky thing people think oh no letting go must be you know much more complex than that it's always the simplest things that make the biggest difference so number three is letting go and the way to let go is to experience something fully and remind yourself that I am the experiencer I'm not this feeling you're creating a separation between you and the feeling something is trying to play itself out but you keep stuffing your back in the more you stuff it back in the more
it keeps playing over in your life over and over again the more it keeps persisting because you're resisting it whatever you resist persists so with that I conclude this video and I sincerely hope this helped just to recap the gist of this video why bad things are happening is because of really three main reasons first one this is the inevitable grace period no this is life just testing you number two your old self your old identity the two selves are at war with each other your new self is trying to survive the new self that
is fitting worthy to achieve your dreams is trying to survive but the old self is trying to overpower it and it's not fit and worthy to you know receive whatever it is that you're going through right now and really experience the next level so you must remember to feed the new self and starve the old self because at the end of the day the most important question is who are you becoming finally your importance level is too high and it needs to go down and the three keys to that first of all reduce importance second
of all really use the advantage principle if you don't know what that is make sure you click up here to check the video on the exercise on using the advantage principle and to attach positive meanings on events in your life now that I tell myself that all this had to happen in order for me to get to the next step I know that I'm gonna look back at this and be like wow I'm so glad that's happened this is me using the advantage principle in a certain way even if the benefit isn't visible to you
right now make sure you are just putting a positive event on it positive meaning on it anyways because it's not visible to you but that doesn't mean it's not positive and finally learn to let go and what letting go really means is experiencing this moment fully for what it is don't try to do anything don't try to you know use doing this as a means to escape it or eating food as a means to escape it but rather just sit there and experience it if you want a powerful way to accelerate this letting go process
use the method of incremental surrender and this is straight from the reality mastery program so click up here to find out what incremental surrender is and how to use it so make sure you check that out and I sincerely hope this video helped please leave me a comment letting me know what you thought of this start applying this in your life and I know for sure you're just gonna get luckier and luckier with that conclude this video so if you're new to the channel make sure you like comment subscribe and hit that little bell there
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we're gonna be doing is really shifting you at your very core so you can have a massive shift in your reality and what I saw my personal life was that everything that I manifested was all a result of who I became at the very core the very identity level when I shifted into the 2.0 version and then correctly did it I saw that I experienced the reality that that 2.0 version myself would experience when I went in my dream partner when I wanted my dream job when I wanted to quit my nine-to-five and get financial
freedom when I wanted to even get good grades in school or get my physique the physique that I always wanted it was all thanks to who I became not trying to change my beliefs not trying to change my emotions not trying to have have-have or even dududu a lot of people just you know use doing this and techniques as a means to get something they want but techniques are really just gimmicks you know that they're not really working at your very core and that's why you don't experience that massive shift that you're looking for in
your reality just as quickly as the shift comes it goes away just as quick when you use gimmicky techniques and I saw that in my personal life when I tried just visualization meditation guided visualization fifty five times five none of that stuff worked for me because it was just a quick gimmick to try to get a little change in my reality but identity shifting is what did it for me and I want you to experience as well so make sure you click on the link in the description below to sign up for a free one-to-one
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