[Music] uh the question of the sister is why did the messenger of allah say why did he marry aisha at such a young age and can we use that as an example for us to marry young girls the same age today is that right so let's answer this question it's a good question and it's an easy question now the why of it nobody knows except the law because the prophet saw sam never married any woman except it came to him from what what does it mean what is why the prophet saws never went around looking
at women and select this one or select that one i said yo check this out tell that mentioned in the quran the messenger of allah southern never spoke anything from himself but whatsoever he heard from wahi this is what he did now we know that the prophet is a man like everybody else but allah subdued his nufs allah subdued his nufs with wahi revelation so he was guided by allah he was accompanied by jibril alaihissalam his nafs never came up above the revelation so whatever the prophet sam selected to do he did it through the
influence of allah and through the guidance he received from jibril alaihissalam so why he got aisha we don't know that because where did the order come from hello so the kafir the non-muslim who is not able to understand and recognize they between the sky and the earth they suspend it because what they're ignorant they don't know they don't understand the premise of revelation so they can't appreciate that but those who can't appreciate revelation understand that prophets allah muslim were ordered to do things that we don't understand that we call we call it miracle phenomena because
it came from god so allah selected aisha for the prophet salallahu that's number one and when the prophet saw sam realized that allah inclined him towards aisha he was a well-known man in mecca right well known honest he was an aristocrat a well uh a very influential man he was a he was the the supporter of the prophet saw sam he was a companion of the prophet saw sam and ayasha was his daughter so one day the prophet sam said to him from the inclination he got from allah he says he says do you love
me abu bakr said ya rasulullah i sacrificed my mother and my family for you he said then i would like to ask you for your daughter in marriage this is very common among the arabs don't think about norway don't think about europe you know don't think about china don't think about america you think about the arabs the arabs at that time it was it was part of their earth it was very normal for them to ask for the daughter of a man when she was 9 or 10 so that that daughter could come and move
with the family not sleep with him but come and move with that family so he could observe her she could observe him so by the time she got to the age where she could have sexual relationships and have children and intimacy they would have already built a bond you understand that do you understand that so the problem saw sam he didn't sneak around someplace and get her phone number he didn't try to meet with her somewhere he wasn't eyeballing her he was not desiring her this was his best friend and who was abu bakr abu
bakr was one of the most respectful people of mecca of the quraysh so if some crazy foolish ignorant corrupt hating people wants to call the prophet saws a pedophile not usually then that means that this means that the mother of ayesha the mother the father of aisha i forget his wife's name that means they would have had to facilitate the prophet saw sam in being have a do a pedophile relationship would that be correct could two respectful parents could they have been guilty of something like that could allah have inspired to prophesy sam but somehow
another he fell out of inspiration and he did something like that no that could not be the answer the answer had to be something different so the prophet saw sam said to abu bakr oh abu bakr why don't you give me your daughter in marriage and abu bakr allah replied he said oh messenger philosophy but we are brothers and the process of him said yes but we are not those kind of brothers see they're not brothers of the blood they're not brothers of the same family this means that your daughter is lawful to me and
it is within the context of what the arab urf that means the arab society what is well known to them which is legal what is decent what is dignified what is halal what is clean so the props of them could not have been asking to do something that was abnormal it had to be something that was normal now let us look at the fruit that came from the tree so we can understand it who was aisha she's the woman that memorized the quran when the quran was revealed when the last ayats of the quran the
last 6636 is were revealed three months later ayesha had memorized the whole quran think about that secondly because she lived with the prophet she saw him she understood him intimately clearly her mind was bright and she was a powerful young girl a very aggressive young girl powerful aggressive and deep and intelligent memorize the whole quran and guess what she was holding with her when the prophet saw passed away at least two thousand six hundred ah hadees that nobody else knew and that's why after abu hurairah radiology nobody related to us more hadith than a isha
radhila so when you look at the product when you know when a girl is raped when a girl is molested when a girl has been involved in some pedophile type relationship she becomes dysfunctional she becomes you know something different she doesn't know herself she becomes guilty she becomes dirty she becomes dysfunctional and you see the result of it throughout her life is that correct or not no not our mother aisha and her she was the teacher of 72 of the companions of the prophet saw sam and the tabernae and the attaba atabayan she was their
teacher our mother and when the proud son passed away she was only 18 years old which means she only was married to the prophet sam and lived with him nine years and when she died she was a mother of the believers is that correct or not is that right or not so that means nobody could marry their mother so from 18 years old until she was 73 years old she lived by herself teaching which one of the women could do that so when the people talk stupid give them some of that history so they can
understand who she is and when you understand who she is you can understand the context of things and so sister may allah reward you for that question it comes in a lot of places but that's the answer and we say at the end allahu alam say that and that's for what we don't know you
