when you're talking about your future self have you guys ever heard of the 8020 rule okay let's imagine so the 8020 so 80% the idea is that 20% of what you do right now gives you 80% of the results all right this is uh I forget it's a certain principal name there's a name for it starts with the p I forget but this is like a general well-known thing and it is generally true Within pretty much every aspect of my business it's like 20% of the or less even less than 20% of the YouTube videos
or Instagram videos I put out probably bring 80% of the results it's just certain things do way better than others and then I put out a lot of content and then certain things click and certain things don't now there's a book that's called 10x is easier than 2X and it's by a guy named Benjamin Hardy and it's a book that basically this is completely revolutionized the way that I'm going about my business in general now basically 80% now if you want to 2x where you are do 80% of what you're already doing and then do
20% of new things and what you're going to do is you're going to do like 80% of what you do you're going to do a little bit better now if you want to create a 10x result what you do is you do 80% over here 20% over over here and what happens is 80% so this is this is new things this is like the old things that you do right so this is both both this works for 20% of the things you do gets you 80% of the results and then 20% of what you do
is new 80% of what you do is uh what you've always done but just a little bit better now over here if you want to 10x where you are what you do is 80% of what you do is new and 20% is the things you want to become an expert at it's the things that really move the needle now what I realized is that in my old business I was creating a lot of content I was on this content hamster wheel making videos I wanted to 2x where I was do everything a little bit better
but once I became aware of this what I realized is if I just focus on running Live Events and I just do Live Events and I create all this space in my life where I'm no longer on a Content hamster wheel I'm no longer doing two or three different things in my business I was constantly doing I've now outsourced I have 80% of space where I can now do my own inner work and I can get really really really good at this 20% I can go out and do new podcasts I can do a lot
of different things that I didn't even have the time for over here because my bandwidth was doing things I've just always done for the last eight years on YouTube so every one of of you when you look at this and you were to map out the difference between what you're doing now and how you could do it 2x better to do a little bit better instead there's this there's this difference you make where you just focus on the and by the way this 20% put brings me more alive than anything else what if you just
did the things that help you feel alive does this make sense like when I'm in the frequency of a live event I'm in a very different version of myself when I'm in the frequency of making videos that I've made for eight years so when I'm in this frequency and when my whole life is around doing this more often this is going to 10x my life over the next year or two because I'm just focused on this and this is also how I get content this is also how I do everything whereas before I was on
a Content hamster wheel it's different right so the difference is the cool thing too is you create space you create a lot more space for you to try new things and a lot of people you could solve a lot and become aware of a lot when you start trying new things when you create space for yourself to try new things now as often as people are focused on in as often as people are focused on raising their ceiling how many of you heard of that like raise the ceiling the other thing you're going to want
to focus on when you start making this shift is raising the floor it's raising the floor people don't think about that what raising the floor means is raising your standards it's raising your standards so it's like if normally like the the busier I have gotten the more I have to be able to say no to things I turn down a lot of opportunities I get a lot of opportunities just because of what I've been doing for years but I have to say more I have to say no to even more now so that I can
just do this but when you raise the floor you can raise the floor in your relationships now the fear is when you stop engaging with people in relationships that maybe you've known your whole entire life but maybe the energy is imbalan there's going to be some space that's created and some people fear that space because it feels kind of empty it's just like imagine if you had friends and then you cut off some of the friends and you're not around them anymore there's an empty feeling there that space is necessary to be created to then
allow you to do this better but then you're able to try new things like I'm able now to do a lot more things I wouldn't have done before because I'm also Outsourcing a lot of things in my business I'm like hiring people so that I can just focus on this more this new version of me that's just focused on this and in the next two or three years if I just focus on doing more Live Events like this and I do them and I go on tour and do them more and more and more I'm
going to get more and more comfortable get more and more uh in alignment content do you guys see what I'm saying here as far as this is 10x this is 2x now with your future self the difference is is that when you are in 10x energy you are in an energy where you are just doing the things that bring you more alive and you're creating space for the new to come in this means you can also try new things and by the way the um the way that I found out about this is I I
met up with a friend who owns a meditation company that she's looking to sell the next couple she might sell it for over $100 million and she has a meditation company and I met up with her she's a friend of mine I was on her podcast years ago and she was telling me she kept saying like oh that's so 2x for me that's so 2x for me I'm like what are you talking about and then she's like oh you haven't read 10x is easier than 2X and I was like no I haven't read it well
she's she realized that in her business she used to always tell herself the story that for her business to grow she had to be creating lots of content well instead she thought 10x what she did instead is she has a good siiz company so what she did is instead of creating content she took six months off of creating content so she could just focus on herself on her business on her relationship ship and all of that and then she instead got more creative she ended up reaching out to certain podcasts and paying to go on
to certain podcast to promote her meditation app and her doing that allowed her for six months not to create content or anything but then she's also scaling everything she does to the next level because she's thinking creatively she has the bandwidth to be able to do that because of the creativity that she has but she's just doing she's creating Lifestyle on her terms does that make sense so she's thinking differently whereas I have a similar thing it's like if I'm not creating so much content it's not going to be as it's not going to continue
growing with momentum but there's a different way to think here so instead of me on the content hamster whe trying to make content like I've always done these last two or three weeks it got very uncomfortable because normally throughout a week I'd make three to five videos a week I would go on Instagram live a lot more often than I've been I've been going like maybe once a week but the difference is I'm Shifting the energy now because I'm trusting this new vision and I know unless I create the space for this new vision I'm
still going to be in a in the the autopilot mind of what I've always created which is at best going to be 2x does this make sense 10x you're welcome so 10x is easier than 2x this this process is something you can use in your own life through visualizing your own future self and starting to get clear of what that is but acknowledge that within your future self what are the what is the 20% of things that you really want to become a master at that you really want to get better and better at I
know that if I just continue doing Live Events and I just continue to sharpen my skill of doing it and get more and more familiar with it I'm going to get more content and then also other aspects of my business with like relaunching a coaching program for example that allows me to hot seek coach people more often so that when I'm here I'm able I have even different perspectives and it also uh helps me create create more of a perspective of like different things to talk about at the Live Events by having people that I'm
working with in between the Live Events does that make sense so I'm like tailoring my whole business to this now whereas usually this was the known and this is what I've always done and that's why I've always done it and many of you may have this future self that you're visualizing and understand that when you get clear with what that is you can start to become aware of what can you let go of and what can you begin doing and understand that there's certain things you do that when you do them you're in a higher
vibrational frequency and that that then begins to change like this is going to change my identity more than anything else that I do because for a long time what I realized is I was still being a content creator what does a content creator do creates content that's all I was doing though I was like creating content and then like I know I need to do more Live Events but I just didn't have the energy to go on tour with Live Events because in between Live Events I'm making videos going on podcasts doing all these other
things so now that there's that space I'm like okay I can just focus on this and I want to sharpen that skill I want to get better at that and the funny thing is is when I do this it brings me more alive than anything else anyways so it's a win-win if you focus on the 20% of the things you love doing it puts you in a different frequency oh yes yes go ahead yep thank you thank you um so it's about the 10x is easier than 2x so um long story short 6 months ago
or it was in may end of May uh I was doing a lot of meditation practices myself and I had this vision for this event and I hosted that event in November 16th so it was like a six-month period and it definitely was a time of my entire life 10ex yeah and it was a miraculous event and then also to your point I also went through a phase where I was alone for three years um and then everybody I met that held put on this event I only met in that six-month time frame so a
lot of people just showed up in my life and there was a ton of synch synchronicities it was a beautiful time however um I really believe in the vision I really believe in what I'm creating I really believe I reached a place where I'm in that 20% of what makes me feel alive and I see other people jumping in on the vision but financially I'm like like I put on this big event there was 150 people there was 30 vendors there was 15 volunteers and I made like nothing yeah and I worked on it for
six months and I afterwards like the Bliss of that whole time in my life was so beautiful and I was like but I can't work for free and I don't know how to break this block of like always being in business where like I'm not making enough and I don't know how to break that block what was the energy in your childhood around money was that a familiar thing that you were taught being stuck with money um my I mean my parents didn't have money until I was probably like 16 or 17 and then they
were never happy like they're still stressed they're still I guess yeah stuck and right just yeah they finally got money but they're still still stuck they're not happy yeah right yeah so the inner process for you may also be like on one side of it it's like do the passion do the frequency of like this event and you'll get more clear that's like an external kind of way to like put yourself in the state but the other thing that may be very powerful for you to do is to go inwards and to connect to your
own inner child and to connect to how you view Money what is your relationship with money because if there is scarcity or if there's a survival mode around money then guess what it's like that there's a belief that there's not enough to go around you've got to figure it all out it's not going to provide and come back to you to receive it sometimes also from our parents if our parents didn't have money we and they weren't happy we may feel guilty if we did have money does that make sense there's like inner loyalty that
we have to our parents who am I to have money when my parents had to suffer how selfish of me to have money and success and happiness if my family didn't have it right it's also confusing because it's like they were never happy always striving for the money and then when I was like 17 they finally had money and then now they no they were less happy exctly so I'm like I don't I don't get what the because it's not it doesn't matter it doesn't matter whether you have it or not it's not going to
equal you know it's it's not that that is the the the the thing at the end of the rainbow yeah you know it's the it's the passion it's the frequency the the the energy un with the live event but really looking at releasing whatever the attachment is to the story to the story around money because if like what are your viewpoints about money in general if money were a person what would money look like stressful yeah inter right yeah so here money is money is stressful it's like high cortisol right and you're saying hey come
over here but you're judging if I'm money and I'm stressed out and you're labeling me as stressed why would I want to come to you you see yeah so a lot of times looking at the way we view money now on two sides of the coin here you may think some people may think okay well I'm going to start thinking in a high vibrational or I'm going to think of money as like this awesome thing that once I get I'm happy we put money on a pedestal one moment you put money on a pedestal it's
putting money above us and giving it all this excess meaning and importance and resistance then we block it or we could put money in the gutter and say money is horrible money is evil it's the root of all evil all these negative beliefs about people with money either way we are creating resist resistance around money now the truth is money is just an exchange of value does everyone get that money is neutral when you become spiritual it can be a thing where on one hand you could imagine you have a beautiful rose quartz crystal and
you're just you're basking in it like a little newborn baby and you're like oh you're so cute M but then over here you've got a pile of money and you're like this is disgusting I'm going to put it over here this one's spiritual this one is not well in actuality both of them are Just Energy this is an agreed upon energy that we use in our reality to exchange value and when it comes to making money many times people are focused on making money I want to receive money I want to receive money I want
to receive money how do I get more money how do I get more money how do I get more money I Want I Want I Want I lack I lack I lack but if you're trying to get money what side of the equation are you missing what do you have to do to get money add value exactly give like when you are in the most authentic frequency of you and you are adding value into the World by being you expressing yourself whatever that is that's a high frequency to be in and as an exchange energy
comes in differently does this making sense but most people are focused on how do I get how do I get how do I get instead of understanding that this is a side effect the money is a side effect of what you're putting out there so if you put the awareness on that what is the passion frequency what is the energy what is my relationship with this thing all of you right now if money were a person what would it look like I remember when I first did this exercise I imagined it as like some short
stubby like greasy guy that is like that is like stingy this was like this was like the aspect of my subconscious that was like cuz when I first when I first started doing this inner work I'd become spiritual and I was focused on elevating my vibration and then I learned about certain factions of the government where money is not actually backed by gold and there was all of this like greedy energy right and then guess what if you believe into all the conspiracies and money is so evil it's not backed by gold which by the
way might be true money might not be backed by gold but that's just a story we can tie on to to say money is mean money's bad right that goes into whatever that subconscious thing is that subconscious image is but what we end up doing is we end up blocking it from coming into our life because we're subconsciously judging money which of course money is a neutral thing but it's not going to want to come into your life if when you see it you're judging it now this by the way works the same way with
what are your beliefs around men what are your beliefs around women yeah right whoa if you believe that men can't be trusted if you believe that women can't be trusted if you can if you believe that men are manipulative or women are manipulative and that is your belief well guess what you're going to attract into your life you're going to attract that energy into your life because that's what you believe that archetype is how can you attract anything else so becoming aware of what these stories are is very important now in general maybe tomorrow we'll
go a little bit deeper on some of this because very often the way we feel about Mom the way we feel about Dad is the way we feel about men and women in our life so your negative beliefs around mom your negative beliefs around dad end up becoming something that you project onto other people and you attract people that fit the bill for what you expect now why is that one one of the reasons is is because we're trying to close the loop from childhood we want to heal and close the loop from childhood so
whenever we attract certain patterns in our life part of the reason we attract these patterns is because we're trying to close the loop we're trying to heal trying to learn now maybe tomorrow what we'll talk about as well is something called the Amo have anyone ever heard of Theo Theo it comes from a book called getting the love you want or something like that it's a well-known book on relationships and why we attract what we attract subconsciously I think that's what it's called something like that but the idea of this the idea of the Amo
is that we all have a subconscious image of what our ideal partner is and this IMO has both the positive traits of the things that made us feel safe when we were kids as well as the negative traits of the things we did not like in our parents and what happens is these are infused over our IMO and when we're dating people we're literally seeing how close to ouro is this how close is this to the image I remember I had a friend who would deal with um it was a couple and they dated for
they they were together for like a year or two and they were having this challenge where he uh this person I knew he was uh very messy so he had like R he would like leave rappers laying around and all of this stuff and this would like trigger the woman and part of her story so here he is like kind of like using things and there's just trash every you know there's trash on the floor and stuff and she would get so triggered and then think he's a slob but also her dad was the same
way it would trigger the the [ __ ] out of her when he was just a slob leaving his rappers around and funny enough this guy was doing the same exact thing and it was triggering to her but it's it's interesting right it's like I remember do you see the you see the parallel she like yes it's like it's a one-on-one reflection C now from one hand is it that he's always been like that or could it also be that it's like the expectation effect where if we expect people to be a certain way maybe
they're a little bit more inclined to be that way it kind of takes a little bit of the blame out of the story because if we blame them it's like oh this is just the way is this just the way men are all men are slobs right if that's the belief then you'll you'll pull that out and find even even when it's not there there could be someone that's very clean but you might you might associate or think that that's being a slob because of whatever your interpretation is because that fits within the model for
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