My Brother Was Secretly Obsessed With My Wife & Got Fired When His Pregnant GF Exposed His...

my brother was secretly obsessed with my wife and got fired when his pregnant GF exposed his stalker Behavior to his entire office I 32f never imagined I'd be sharing this story but the events of the past few months have completely shattered my family my wedding day which should have been the happiest moment of my life turned into an absolute nightmare because of my younger brother Thomas's 28m disturbing obsession with my now wife Remy 29f I met Remy 3 years ago at a local charity fundraiser for children with cancer I was volun in at the registration

desk and she was coordinating the entire event from the moment I saw her efficiently handling everything while still maintaining a warm smile for everyone I knew she was special we started talking during the cleanup and I was immediately struck by how passionate she was about her work in nonprofit management Remy was different from anyone I'd ever dated she was kind ambitious and genuinely dedicated to making a difference in people's lives at the time I had just ended a 5-year relationship with my ex Jackson 33m it had been a toxic situation from the start but I

was too blind to see it then Jackson had cheated on me multiple times throughout our relationship always finding ways to blame me for his infidelity he would tell me I was too focused on my career that I didn't give him enough attention or that I was too cold when I would find evidence of his Affairs he would Gaslight me into believing I was paranoid and seeing things that weren't there it took me years to finally gather the courage to leave him when Remy came into my life it was like a breath of fresh air she

never played mind games or tried to make me doubt myself instead she encouraged me to pursue my dreams and supported me through my career change from Finance to teaching we moved in together after a year of dating and everything felt right I introduced Remy to my family at my parents anniversary dinner everyone seemed to love her especially my brother Thomas he was particularly interested in her work with Charities and would often ask her detailed questions about her projects at first I was thrilled that they got along so well Thomas had always been the more reserved

one in our family of keeping to himself so seeing him open up to Remy made me happy he started joining us for dinner or movie nights and I thought we were becoming the close-knit family I'd always wanted looking back I should have noticed how Thomas's Behavior was slowly changing it started with small things he began showing up at Remy's workplace during her lunch breaks Remy's office was nowhere near his workplace and he would brush it off saying he was in the area for meetings Remy always being polite never complained directly but I could tell she

was uncomfortable with these surprise visits when I confronted Thomas about it he claimed he was just trying to be a good brother-in-law and that I was being overprotective then came the constant comments about Remy at family gatherings Thomas would go on and on about how lucky I was to have found someone like her he would say things like I didn't deserve someone as special as Remy or that she needed someone who could truly appreciate her unique qualities at the time I dismissed these comments as harmless admiration but they were becoming increasingly frequent and uncomfortable the

situation escalated after Remy and I got engaged Thomas started calling Remy late at night claiming he needed advice about his relationship with his girlfriend Jenny 26f he would say they were having problems and that Remy was the only one who could help him figure things out these calls became more and more frequent sometimes lasting for hours Remy would try to help but I could see it was starting to affect our personal time together when I finally told Thomas to stop calling so late he got defensive and accused me of being controlling as we began planning

our wedding Thomas's Behavior became even been more concerning being my only brother he was naturally my best man but he tried to take control of every aspect of the wedding planning he had opinions about everything from the venue to the flower arrangements he even tried to accompany Remy and her bridesmaids to dress fittings claiming he wanted to make sure everything was perfect for his future sister-in-law Remy was clearly uncomfortable with his involvement but tried to maintain peace for my sake a week before the wedding Thomas showed up at our apartment late one night with what

he called a brilliant plan he suggested inviting Jackson to the wedding I was shocked he knew how Jackson had treated me and how much pain he had caused but Thomas insisted it would be good for Remy to see Jackson at the wedding his reasoning was bizarre he claimed it would help Remy realize her true feelings either she would see Jackson and know for sure she wanted to be with me or she would realize she was making a mistake when I pointed out how ridiculous and hurtful this suggestion was Thomas became angry he accused me of

being selfish and not considering what was best for Remy despite my firm refusal Thomas went behind my back and invited Jackson to the wedding anyway I discovered this when Jackson showed up at our rehearsal dinner with his signature smug smile seeing my abusive ex walk into what was supposed to be a celebration of my new life with Remy made my blood boil Remy was visibly shaken and I could see tears forming in her eyes before I could escort Jackson out Thomas stood up and made an announcement that changed everything in front of our entire family

and friends he declared that he had invited Jackson because he couldn't bear to watch me marry Remy then he turned to Remy and professed his love for her saying he had been in love with her since the day we met he claimed that he understood her better than I ever could and that she deserved someone who could truly appreciate her someone like him the room fell completely silent Remy was horrified my parents were in shock and Jackson stood there with a satisfied smirk clearly enjoying the chaos he had helped create I lost control and punched

Thomas in the face something I had never done before in our lives Jackson tried to step in making snip comments about how he knew this would happen but Remy's brother quickly stepped in and physically removed both Thomas and Jackson from the venue we proceeded with the wedding the next day without Thomas my parents though heartbroken supported my decision to exclude him Jackson tried to crash the ceremony but thankfully the security team we hired kept him out the whole situation cast a shadow over what should have been the happiest day of Our Lives but Remy and

I were determined not to let Thomas's Obsession and Jackson's manipulation ruin our special day update one the situation with Thomas has escalated beyond anything I could have imagined today the aftermath of his behavior at my wedding Came Crashing Down in the most public way possible Jenny showed up at Thomas's workplace a busy marketing firm in downtown and what followed was a scene that his co-workers won't soon forget I got a call from my cousin Amy who works at the same firm around lunchtime according to her Jenny stormed into the office during their weekly team meeting

she had just learned about Thomas's Declaration of love for Remy at our wedding for Mark one of Thomas's co-workers who had attended the wedding Mark had casually mentioned the incident not realizing that Jenny had no idea about any of it what makes this situation even more complicated is that Jenny is 4 months pregnant something Thomas had kept hidden from everyone including our parents Amy told me that Jenny was visibly showing which made the whole scene even more heartbreaking she demanded to speak to Thomas in front of everyone her voice shaking with anger and hurt when

Thomas tried to pull her into a conference room for privacy Jenny refused to move she wanted Witnesses she started asking him Point Blank about the wedding incident about his feelings for Remy and about all the lies he had told her over the past year Thomas apparently looking completely panicked tried to deny everything at first he claimed it was all a misunderstanding and that people were exaggerating what had happened at the wedding but Jenny wasn't buying it she had already spoken to several other wedding guests who confirmed every detail she revealed something that made my blood

run cold all those late night calls to Remy about relationship problems they were completely fabricated Jenny had no idea Thomas was even making these calls there were no relationship problems at all in fact she thought they were doing great and had been excitedly planning for their babies's arrival the truth came pouring out in front of Thomas's entire office Jenny discovered that on nights when Thomas claimed to be working late he was actually finding excuses to be around Remy he would go to events he knew Remy would be attending through her work or drive by places

where he thought he might run into her Jenny had found receipts from coffee shops and restaurants near Remy's workplace all from times when Thomas was supposed edly stuck at the office but the most disturbing Revelation came when Jenny started talking about what she had found on Thomas's work computer last month while using his laptop to work on their joint budget they were planning to buy a house together she had discovered a folder filled with photos of Remy these weren't inappropriate photos but they were numerous pictures saved from Remy's social media accounts screenshots of her professional

head shots and countless photos from our family gatherings when Jenny had questioned him about it at the time Thomas convinced her that he was putting together a surprise slideshow for our wedding the confrontation got even uglier when Jenny revealed that she had found draft emails in Thomas's work account dozens of unsent messages to Remy all written late at night expressing his feelings for her and how he thought they were meant to be together Thomas had never sent these emails but the fact that he had written them while his pregnant girlfriend slept in their bed was

devastating to Jenny by this point several of Thomas's co-workers had to step in because the situation was getting out of hand Jenny was understandably hysterical alternating between crying and screaming at Thomas she threw her keys at him keys to the house they had just put a down payment on together and told him she never wanted to see him again Amy told me that Thomas's boss had to escort Jenny out of the building not because she was being disruptive but because she had started feeling faint from the stress and they were worried about her condition given

her pregnancy the entire office witnessed everything and Amy said the look of shock on their faces was Unforgettable I got another call later in the day from Jenny herself she was calmer but clearly broken she asked me if I had known about her pregnancy and when I told her I hadn't she broke down crying again she told me that Thomas had begged her not to tell anyone about the baby yet claiming he wanted to wait until after my wedding so as not to steal my thunder now she realizes he was just trying to keep her

pregnancy hidden so he could continue his pursuit of Remy without complications the whole situation is a mess Jenny is staying with her sister and has blocked Thomas's number our parents are in Shock about becoming grandparents under these circumstances and Thomas's reputation at work is in shambles Remy feels guilty about the whole situation even though none of this is her fault I'm just trying to process how my brother could do this to someone who loved him all while expecting a child with her update 2 after Jenny's dramatic confrontation at Thomas's workplace things have spiraled even further

out of control the incident opened a Pandora's box of Revelations about Thomas's Behavior at work that none of us could have anticipated following the scene with Jenny Thomas's company initiated a formal investigation into his conduct it started when Lisa a junior copywriter at the firm came forward with concerns about Thomas's past Behavior she revealed that Thomas had made her uncomfortable for months by constantly comparing her to Remy telling her she reminded him of Remy and even suggesting she style her hair the same way Remy did at the time Lisa hadn't known who Remy was but

after Jenny's Outburst everything clicked into place two other female colleagues also stepped forward one reported that Thomas had repeatedly asked her to join him for coffee because she frequented the same Cafe as Remy while another mentioned how Thomas had tried to persuade her to apply for a position at Remy's nonprofit organization so he could have an inside connection there all these women had felt uneasy about his behavior but hadn't connected the dots until now the HR investigation uncovered something even more disturbing Thomas had been using his work email to send messages to Remy's professional email

address Remy had blocked his personal email months ago so he started using his work account to bypass the block the emails which HR shared with me as part of their investigation were difficult to read they were filled with desperate Declarations of Love claims that Remy was making a huge mistake being with me and detailed observations about her daily routine that proved he had been watching her Remy finally broke down and told me why she had never mentioned these emails she had been receiving them for months but had blocked his work email and tried to ignore

them to keep the peace in our family she was worried that if she told me it would completely destroy my relationship with Thomas and devastate our parents reading those emails made me feel sick they showed just how deep Thomas is session ran the investigation also revealed that Thomas had been tracking Remy's schedule through Kevin a mutual colleague who worked part-time at both their companies Thomas had manipulated Kevin claiming he was planning a surprise party for Remy and needed to know her schedule Kevin having no reason to suspect anything Sinister had shared Remy's work patterns with

Thomas this explained why Thomas always seemed to know exactly when to show up at her workplace or the cafe she frequented during lunch the final straw came when it discovered that Thomas had created a d spreadsheet tracking Remy's daily routines including her regular workout times at the gym her usual coffee stops and even the routes she typically took to work he had gathered this information through a combination of social media stalking his conversations with Kevin and his own observations during his frequent drive-bys of her office the company terminated Thomas's employment effective immediately his behavior violated

multiple company policies regarding harassment and misuse of company resources they also reported his stalking behavior to their legal team who advised Remy to consider getting a restraining order what makes this even more tragic is that Thomas seems to have no understanding of how inappropriate his behavior was when he was confronted with the evidence during his termination meeting he insisted that everything he did was out of love and that nobody understood his feelings he even tried to argue that he was being discriminated against for having feelings for someone after his termination Thomas sent a group email

to several family members including our parents and me blaming Remy for ruining his life and career he claimed that that she had led him on by being friendly to him and that everything that happened was her fault our parents finally seemed to understand the severity of the situation especially after reading the emails he sent Remy update three after everything that has happened I finally made the difficult decision to completely cut Thomas out of my life the past two months have shown me that his obsession with Remy isn't going to stop and I need to protect

my family after losing his job Thomas's Behavior became even more erratic he moved back in with our parents claiming he couldn't afford his apartment anymore more at first they took him and hoping they could help him get back on his feet but things quickly went downhill Thomas spent most of his days drinking and ranting about how Remy and I had destroyed his life he blamed us for everything his job loss his breakup with Jenny and what he called his ruined reputation the breaking point came 3 weeks ago Thomas showed up at our house at 2:00

a.m. completely drunk he started banging on our door and screaming that he needed to talk to Remy when I refused to let him in he began shouting about how I had stolen Remy from him and how she would have chosen him if I hadn't manipulated her our neighbors called the police and when they arrived Thomas tried to fight them he ended up spending the night in jail and we had to file a police report Jenny reached out to me last week she's due in 3 months and has made it clear she wants nothing to do

with Thomas she got a restraining order after he kept showing up at her sister's house demanding to talk about the baby according to Jenny Thomas hasn't shown any interest in their child's well-being he only uses the pregnancy as an excuse to contact her and ask about Remy Jenny's lawyer is already preparing custody paperwork to ensure Thomas can't use the baby to harass her in the future our parents finally stopped defending Thomas after the incident at our house Mom admitted that she found Remy's pictures hidden in Thomas's old bedroom dozens of them taken from social media

and family events some with my face scratched out dad discovered that Thomas had been using their address to send letters to Remy's workplace since we blocked him on all other platforms Thomas has created at least six fake social media accounts trying to come contact Remy he used photos of random men as profile pictures and would try to message her about work rated things but would always eventually reveal himself by bringing up their supposed connection Remy had to make all her social media accounts private and ask her company to screen her work emails more carefully Remy

and I have moved to a new apartment in the secured building we changed our phone numbers and had to explain the situation to both our Employers in case Thomas tries to contact us at work Remy's nonprofit organization has hired additional security because Thomas kept trying to attend their public events it's sad that we have to take such Extreme Measures but Thomas's Behavior has left us no choice the hardest part in all of this has been watching my parents struggle with the reality of who Thomas has become they finally understand that this isn't just a phase

or a misunderstanding their son has serious issues that they can't fix mom still cries when she talks about him but they support our decision to cut contact they've even installed security cameras at their house because Thomas's Behavior has become so unpredictable looking back at everything that's happened since my wedding day I feel a mix of anger and sadness I lost my brother Jenny lost her child's father and our family is forever changed but I know cutting contact is the right decision some people say family is forever but sometimes the healthiest thing you can do is

walk away from toxic family members even if it breaks your heart to do so