there is a way to get exactly what you want from women by putting in at least 10 times less effort than other men put in all right you will understand that by the end of this video and you'll be surprised that most men don't know about this so the thing is so many men whether they're single or in a relationship with a woman think that they need to do a lot in order to get sexual and romantic interests from her they don't realize that all the extra effort that they're putting in is unnecessary and it
actually turns the woman off right so I'll give you four examples I could give you 50 but let's not go there I'll just give you four so you understand it and then I'll share what you need to do instead and I'll give you examples of that so you know how to do it so first let's have a look at what most men do where they put in way too much effort and then they don't actually get the results that they want number one being very agreeable so agreeing with her opinions about everything or as much
as possible to make it seem like he supports her and is aligned with her right they have things in common for the most part he will also be afraid to speak up and say what he really thinks or feels in a moment with a woman because he's worried that she's going to reject him or judge him negatively because of that and then he's not going to get what he wants so he just puts on an act of being very agreeable and that's a lot of work for him mentally and emotionally right he's got to act
like he is the same as her or similar to her and he's got to constantly remember all the things that she's saying to hopefully not trip up and then go back on what he was saying he's basically putting in loads of effort to hopefully make her see that they have things in common that they're aligned with each other and if he does that enough then she's going to reward him with sex if he's single or a relationship or if he's in a relationship he's going to get the affection the respect the love the sex that
he wants and is craving but the problem is that most women can pick up on it they can pick up when a guy isn't being authentic and they also don't like that he seems to just go along with whatever she says or pretty much everything that she says and as a result she starts to become suspicous I of hang on is he putting on an act just to be liked by her is he putting on an act to get what he wants from her or are they really aligned as people do they really have that
much in common but an important thing to point out here is that you can have 10 things in common with a woman and she'll still friendzone you if you don't use the approach that I'm going to teach you later in this video that just gets rid of all the games all the mental and emotional effort of trying to be liked by her and so on so let's move on to number two pretending to have no sexual desire so he feels sexually attracted to her but he tries to seem like an innocent guy who would never
think about sex or look at her in a sexual way so he's thinking well look I've heard women say that all men think about his sex and I've heard women say that they want a guy to become their friend first or I've heard women say that they don't want to be treated like some sort of sexual object or something like that he will have heard something and as a result he will think that okay the way to get results with with women is to come across as though I don't want any of that sexual stuff
right I'm just happy to talk with her yeah yeah I'm just happy to talk for 2 3 hours maybe 2 3 weeks 2 3 months I'm fine if I'm in the friends no problem I'll just keep talking and eventually she's going to like me enough as a person and I'm going to get the sex that I want I'm going to get the affection that I want I'm going to get the relationship that I want but she doesn't feel the same way and there are so many reasons for that I won't get too much into the
science in this video but essentially most women experience what's called responsive sexual desire meaning that you actually have to create feelings of sexual attraction inside of the woman rather than just hoping that she experiences spontaneous sexual desire which is what most men experience and she then just wasn't sex because she wants it and that's it that's one of many reasons another reason is that when a woman is interacting with a guy sometimes she will know that okay if the guy is is continuing to talk to her then he has a sexual or romantic interest in
her but other women don't actually think that they think well maybe he just wants to be friends maybe he really likes another girl and is currently pursuing her but he's just talking to her because he wants to talk to her right he likes talking to her he just wants to be friends with her or in some cases she assumes that maybe he just doesn't see her in that way he doesn't see her in a sexual way he only sees her in a friendly Type of Way alternatively she just comes to the conclusion that okay okay
well we get along and we can talk but there's no obvious sexual spark between him and her so they would just be better off as friends right there's no point pursuing anything or trying to have sex because it might feel awkward there's no point trying to have a relationship because it most likely won't last right there isn't a strong sexual spark there which is needed for a male female relationship to actually turn into a romantic relationship that lasts so a guy who pretends to have no sexual desire for a woman usually thinks that he's doing
a good and Noble thing yet the woman isn't impressed and she doesn't jump all over him and say wow you seem to just be like a friend and there's no sexual spark between us so let's get it on let's start dating and the irony is that he could have gotten a result with her the first time he met her and by result I mean phone number kissing her setting up a date and in some cases even having sex on the first night or day that they meet or the first date or second date and after
that getting into to a committed relationship they become boyfriend and girlfriend and they potentially go on to become husband and wife and off they go right the guy used the approach that I'm going to tell you about in a minute but when guys don't use the approach that I'm going to tell you about they put in loads of effort with women and they are thinking that they're doing the right thing but they're actually causing themselves to get friendzoned rejected and overlooked by women that would have actually been interested in them in a sexual and romantic
way and as a result they end up thinking well women are just so difficult right it's too hard maybe I need to work out more maybe I need to become more successful and then women will like me at that point right they will eventually like me if I can just become successful enough then all of a sudden another guy comes into the interaction and you will have seen this before you may have even experienced it when talking to a woman that you found attractive another guy came in and immediately made her feel the way that
she really wants to feel when she's interacting with a man and she suddenly just started focusing on him and all of a sudden there are sparks flying back and forth between him and her she's smiling she's giggling she really likes him in that sexual and romantic way and they start kissing or they exchange phone numbers or they start dating they get into a relationship right away and the other guy maybe yourself has been sitting there talking to her for 2 3 hours or maybe 2 3 weeks or you've known her for 2 or 3 months
or maybe years and you just can't get anywhere and it's like well what the heck's going on here another thing that guys do where they put in way too much effort that they don't need to be putting in it's unnecessary is qualifying himself so he will be subtly hinting at or directly talking about his quote unquote boyfriend material qualities such as being a disciplined guy a guy who is loyal ambitious he's kind he's respectful and so on he might also talk about how other guys aren't genuine with women but he is additionally he might also
try to subtly mention the things that he's achieved in life and what he's hoping to achieve in future what he's 5year plan is or his 10year plan is or you know how he's currently working on something that could make him successful and so on and the woman knows what's going on right she can pick up on the fact that he's trying to qualify himself to her he's trying to talk about and show some qualities that make him good boyfriend material to hopefully make her think that oh right this guy's disciplined you know what he's been
going to the gym for the last 4 years that takes a lot of discipline and he eats well and jees is respectful as well you know what we should start a relationship but that's just not how it works additionally not only is that not the way that it works with women but when a woman gets a sense that a man is qualifying himself and is hoping to get a chance then she starts playing hard to get she feels like she is in the oneup position in terms of value and she's going to be essentially doing
him a little bit of a favor by getting with him which then makes the whole thing so difficult she starts being so much more judged mental and logical rather than going with her emotions and as a result she starts to nitpick and think about things that she doesn't like about him and she then friendzones him or rejects him and the last one I'll mention is assuming that he needs to be 100% serious about everything around her he wants to show her that he's serious about being respectful listening and being as responsible about everything as possible
to hopefully be liked by her he's doing that because he hasn't yet realized that although it's it's great to be respectful to listen and to be responsible life isn't always that serious and he can relax and stop trying so hard around her so the thing is when a guy uses an approach with women where he's trying to show that he's good enough and that he's a good guy and that he's good boyfriend material then essentially he's the one in the one down position where he's trying to hopefully be approved by women right so you may
have heard the phrase seeking approval before and essentially most guys do that without even realizing it some guys may behave in a tough aloof sort of way but at the end of the day in their mind they're still seeking approval from women they're still waiting for signs that they are okay that they are good enough for the woman they're still seeking that approval other guys will seek approval in a much more obvious way where they'll have that sort of wide-eyed look on their face where they're like you know they're trying to be as nice as
they can as good as they can and hopefully if they just say and do everything right the woman's going to approve of them and then they're going to get a result whereas another God will come along and rather than trying to seek approval from women where he's hoping to be liked he'll just cut through all that nonsense and all that hard work by making them feel attracted as he talks to them and this is something that you can do instantly and it's actually very easy Once you understand how it works I'll give you some examples
in a minute but once you understand how it works you realize that you don't actually have to do a lot anymore all you've got to do is display some traits that make women feel attracted to you as you talk to them and they stop being so judgmental all of a sudden they're not nitpicking instead the woman's feeling attracted to you and she then goes with her emotions right she goes with how she feels and she starts to rationalize in her head that okay he may not look like the guy that is normally her type but
she's feeling very attracted to him she finds him cute she finds him sexy she finds him Charming she loves the way that he makes her feel so a very simple way to start attracting women instantly rather than trying to hopefully be liked by them and putting in all that effort to be liked as a person to hopefully get a chance is to use what I call playfully challenging humor so for example imagine that you're talking to a woman and she says I'm really into yoga and meditation these days what are you going to say what
are you going to say to that most guys don't really know what to say at that point to playfully challenge her or to make her feel attracted so they just default into all right I going to try to be liked here as a person what does the guy do then he'll ask things like oh so what made you get into that or where do you do that how long you been doing it is it fun do you go to a class or do you do it yourself at home and he's hoping that if he talks
to her and keeps the conversation going long enough and gets along with her and maybe has some things in common with her then she's going to give them a chance right they're going to have some things in common right she's going to think hang on a second I'm really into yoga and meditation these days and he said he likes that so let's have sex let's have a relationship right it just doesn't work that way what a woman is looking to feel around a man that she's going to have a sexual or romantic relationship with is
attraction and attraction is something that you can create attraction is a reaction to attractive traits when you display traits that are attractive to women they automatically feel attracted to you for example we men don't need a woman to be playfully challenging us or to playfully mess with us in order to feel attracted to her we don't need that but a woman does need to be able to see that you're not looking at her as being in the oneup position and you're in the one down position seeking approval from her women don't want to go in
that one down position because it kills the sexual Dynamic right a woman doesn't want to feel like she's more powerful and more dominant than you when it comes to the sexual experience right she is going to open up and be penetrated by you right she is the one opening up and surrendering she wants to see that you're actually in the oneup position and playfully challenging humor is one of so many different traits that I teach that instantly shows the woman that okay she is in the one down position and that's where she wants to be
that's what makes her feel turned on and it's not about being disrespectful or rude or demeaning women or anything like that but energetically she wants to feel that you're in the oneup position position and she's in the one down and that automatically turns her on right it automatically turns her on you don't have to try to get to know her for 2 weeks 3 weeks 2 months 3 months 2 years trying to show her that you're a really good guy that uh you've got great boyfriend qualities and uh you know you're disciplined and you're smart
and all these sorts of things you can make her feel attracted to in that boyfriend girlfriend or lover type of way right away right so for example if she said I'm really into yoga and meditation these days what are you going to say well most guys watching this video are going to say I don't know I don't know what to say so I'll give you some examples she says I'm really into yoga and meditation these days and you can say something like this right okay let me guess you also drink a green smoothie in the
morning do you Shee or well that kind of sounds boring doesn't it I thought you were cool or yeah I'm cool with that as long as you don't invite me to go to yoga with you on our second or third date or something that won't be cool or yoga and meditation that sounds boring I play video games much cooler or yeah you look like the type a real hippie or so what you're telling me is that you're a hippie and just a reminder here by saying that you're only joking and she's going to laugh women
get this sort of stuff she knows that you're coming from a place of love not hate right it's not a case of you saying let me guess like you also drink a green smoothie in the morning jeez and being serious about it instead energetically she can feel that you're only joking right you're only messing with her right okay let me guess you also drink a green smoothie in the morning do you Shee and when the next example I'm going to give you it doesn't actually need to be that funny instead you can just come from
a place where you're not looking at her as being above you and that you need to seek approval from her instead you feel so confident in yourself which is attractive to her by the way automatically makes her feel attracted that you have the confidence to say something like this oh you too jeez I've heard a lot of people talking about meditation these days but does it actually provide any benefit and that way she sees that you're a guy who isn't afraid to express some feeling or opinion on the topic and isn't a guy who's putting
on a nice guy act to seek her approval and hopefully be liked right most guys will say something like oh cool so um what made you get into that he's hoping that if he's nice enough to her right and she likes talking to him about her life and they're able to get along then she's going to reward him with kiss in sex love a relationship but what's going to be missing is attraction right so a guy who is seeking approval like that and trying to be liked he'll put in so much effort talking to the
woman and frankly putting on an act of being interested in things that he may not even be interested in right so she's talking about fashion and he couldn't give a crap about that but he puts on an act of being interested in it rather than having the guts the Courage the non- neediness to playfully mess with her about it he can't do that because from his his perspective what he thinks he's got to do is be as likable as possible get along with the woman as much as possible and then she's going to reward him
and guys do that when they're single and they also do it in a relationship they forget that you get results with women instantly when you make them feel attracted right instantly and as I said playfully challenging humor is just one way of making a woman feel like she's in that one down position where you're not seeking approval from her right you can do it by having Untamed energy or you can do it by displaying assertiveness you can do it by displaying what I call Loving dominance you can do it by being more confident than her
in the moment or having what I call emotional Independence and that means that your emotional state isn't dependent on what she is saying or doing right and she will then notice that oh right you're not relying on her to hopefully show you that she likes you in order for you to feel good about yourself but most guys do rely on that they can't be confident enough in themselves because they don't actually know how to make women feel attracted and for their entire life for most guys they've been trying to get results with women by being
as likable as possible but that gets them rejected or friendzoned so they don't actually feel like they're attractive to women they don't think that they're good enough but when you actually know how to make women feel attracted you see that they react to you with feelings of Attraction instantly and continually throughout an interaction and into a relationship and some guys may think well gez that might be a lot of work then I've I've got to make sure that I'm attractive all the time it's not a lot of work the way that it works is that
you either display the attractive trait or the unattractive trait right you're either going to be displaying and being confident or you're going to be displaying insecurity and being insecure being insecure and displaying insecurity is a lot more work it's a lot more stressful and it causes you to experience bad results in life being confident once you understand how to do it once you understand the mindset and then actually being like that is so much easier and it gets you the results that you want same with something like flirting some guys think well I'm just not
a natural flirt right so they think that flirting is just not for them and then they go through their life being neutral with women and women don't feel attracted to them or women lose interest in them in a relationship and they think that women are just so difficult and they can't keep a woman so they need to work out more they need to become more successful they do that but then they get rejected or dumped anyway and the guy mistakenly thinks that all that pain that he's experiencing is something that he has to EXP experience
because he can't flirt with him and I'm not a natural flirt when flirting is something so easy to do it's so subtle and it instantly creates a sexual Vibe and sexual tension between you and a woman and once you get used to doing it it's so much easier you put in so much less effort just a little flirting glance or a bit of a facial expression or a flirtatious comment when you're interacting with a woman get you pretty much all the results that you want compared to hours or weeks or months of hoping to be
liked by the woman but she doesn't feel it anyway so if you've been in situations like those before where you've been trying to come across as the perfect good guy only to end up overlooked or in the friend zone you know the frustration you know the feeling and the thing is maybe you're confident in other areas of life but something shifts when you're around a woman that you find attractive you find yourself playing it safe and hoping that she'll notice how genuine or respectful you are only for the interaction to feel flat and lack the
all important Spark that actually causes a man and a woman to want to have sex or begin a boyfriend girlfriend relationship the thing is most guys don't realize that they just need to show a few traits that women automatically feel attracted to and their entire relationship to women changes suddenly women want you in a sexual and romantic way and it doesn't require you to put in loads of effort trying to prove to her that you're a good guy with good intentions who will always listen always be respectful and so on instead she is attracted to
you so she wants you sex and romantically right there and then anything else quote unquote good about you is a bonus but it's not required which is why women who do want a good guy will sometimes get with a guy who doesn't even treat them that well because what they're looking for initially is a feeling of Attraction that's what's most important if you get that right and you're a good guy then she feels lucky to be getting a chance with you however I have to point out that if you get that right if you know
how to make women feel attracted and you're not a good guy the woman still feels lucky to be getting a chance with you because the most important thing initially is that the woman feels attracted to you that is the feeling that she's looking for and the thing is I've given you an example of displaying one of the traits that will make a woman feel attracted to you but there are so many others right and if you don't know how to display the traits that make women feel attracted to you rather than just like you as
a person then I recommend that you head over to master attraction.com at Master attraction I teach you all of the traits that make women feel sexually and romantically attracted to you even if you display a couple of traits then you're going to be so much more attractive to women compared to if you're displaying the opposite of those traits additionally when you display attractive traits it means that you don't have to put in all the effort to hopefully be liked by the woman instead she likes you right away because you're making her feel attracted to you
which is the most important thing when it comes to a boyfriend girlfriend relationship or a husband wife relationship or even a lover type of relationship whether it's just going to be sex or a serious relationship between a man and a woman the most important thing that needs to be there at the core is attraction everything else that is good about you is simply a bonus but if you're unable to make women feel attracted to you when you interact with them then you're going to have to put in loads of effort and you're not going to
get what you want with women at the end of the day it's always going to be a disappointment for you because you're trying to be liked as a person to get what you want when she actually wants to feel attracted to you and before I give you a final Secret in this video here's just some of what the members at Master attraction have been saying one of the members who had zero confidence in him self and thought that women wouldn't find him attractive use the technique that he learned in the first lesson to hook up
with his yoga instructor other members of the community have been meeting up going out and meeting women and getting great results another member went out and kissed multiple girls in a night and got multiple phone numbers another couple of members of the Mac that's the master attraction community that you get access to when you're learning from the lessons went out and one of the guys had never picked up a woman in a bar before and he did it on the first night and she was a cute blonde and as he said he couldn't believe how
smooth and easy it was by the way I'll point out that you don't have to interact with the community you can just remain anonymous and see what is being posted but you can also participate in the online community if you want and even meet up with members in person another member had sex with three different women 3 days in a row and for guys who don't understand the techniques that might sound hard to believe like how could he do that but when you know how to make women feel attracted to you rather than trying to
get them to like you women want you they want you sexually and romantically and as long as you have the right confident mindset which I teach in the first lesson then you're not afraid to shoot your shot you're not afraid to move it forward and this particular member has been getting amazing results this is another member from Austin Texas I have members from all over the world but this member had only been using dating apps and hadn't been getting quality women but when he started using the attraction techniques when talking to women in person he
slept with two different attractive women two nights in a row and finally another member attracted a woman on a beach and ended up kissing and cuddling with her in the water there so many more success stories that I could share with you but let's get back to the video so a final secret that I want to share with you is that you'll notice from now on that most guys don't know about this most guys assume that they need to do a lot and put in a lot of effort to hopefully get a little bit of
a result from a woman and those guys will be trying very hard to be liked but then you'll also notice that in a small percentage of cases there'll be another guy who knows how to make women feel attracted and rather than trying to get to know her and put in loads of effort over hours or weeks or month once he'll make her feel attracted instantly by for example playfully challenging her or flirting with her or displaying what I call Untamed energy or being assertive or being more confident than her in the moment and that doesn't
mean being a showof or anything like that but being emotionally stronger than her and she will feel like she's in that one down position and as a result she'll instantly like him more than the guy who is trying to be liked the guy who's trying to be liked is in that one down position and he's ruining the potential sexual dynamic between him and the woman but the guy who comes over and makes her feel attracted and makes her feel like she's in that one down position in terms of dominance strength confidence whatever it may be
she instantly feels attracted to him she instantly likes him because that's the sexual Dynamic that women look for and it's not about demeaning women treating women badly but instead it's about not seeking approval from women not looking up to women as someone that you need to get approved by in order to get a chance and when you can make women feel attracted to you by displaying the traits that put her in that one down position she automatically Al likes you she automatically wants something to happen between you and her as a result you get more
from women by putting in so much less effort than other guys put in because you're not trying hard to hopefully be liked you're not putting in loads of hours or weeks or maybe even months of effort hoping that she's going to see that you're a good enough guy and then she may consider potentially giving you a chance instead she really likes you right away because she's feeling attracted to you you're not making the classic mistake that so many guys make of trying hard to hopefully be liked Enough by the woman you're making her feel attracted
to you and it's surprisingly easy and you will have witnessed it in your own life when another guy came along and made a woman feel attracted right in front of you when you had been trying to hopefully be liked by her I hope you can understand that you don't have to put in loads of effort trying hard to hopefully be liked by women a woman will really like you right away if you focus on making her feel attracted to you and as a result you'll get so much more from women by doing so much less
than other guys