you it plays free from hunger free from poverty free from people and trouble so quite so perfect so what do we make of it we look for advice for words of wisdom if there is someone who has spent a lot of time thinking about the Society of individuals that is Bauman zygmunt bauman 90 year old Polish sociologist this untrue that happiness means a trouble-free life happy life means overcoming struggles fighting with Travis resolving difficulties the challenges with you you just go through the challenges you try your best you strain yourself and then you get the
moment of happiness when you see that you have controlled the challenges of the faith now that is exactly this joy of overcoming difficulties of fighting with trouble facing the Point Blank and overcoming now that is being lost that's being lost when the comfort grows to me didi you have everything you have enough tradition to keep you away from hunger and misery poverty one thing you don't have one thing which cannot be provided by the state is can be provided by the policy from the top is to be among other people to be with other people
to be one one of the company that you have to do yourself people who are trained in in the patterns are losing the ability to negotiate cohabitation with other people because you already are deprived of the skills of socialized all fully tiring requiring a lot of effort of attention process of negotiating and renegotiating reduce crushing we agree agree creating independence strips you of the abilities to do just that we are now dividing our life between two different worlds online and offline connecting and disconnecting the online life is to a great extent cleaned of risks risks
of life that's so easy to make Internet network friends you are never really feeling your loneliness if you don't like attitudes represented by some other users you just stop communicating with them when you are popular what you inevitably see the reality of diversity of human race people are diverse people passers-by from your meet strangers you have to face the need to dialog the engage in conversation you have to face up to the fact that people are different there are many ways of being human when you are getting dialogue you never know how it will end
perhaps instead of proving that you are wise and all the others are stupid it will prove that others are wise and yours too independence strips you of the abilities to do just that a society of individuals the more you are in the pattern the less you are able to stop your independence and replace it with very pleasurable interdependent so at the end of Independence is not happiness in the end of Independence there is emptiness of life meaninglessness of life and utter utter unimaginable bordo
