listen I'm just warning you you have to be careful dating or marrying a people pleaser you need to be cautious getting involved with someone who puts your needs above their own someone who actually seems to enjoy loving and giving and sacrificing for others even at their own expense see givers have a low threshold for accepting love meaning a little goes a long way for them you could essentially give them breadcrumbs and it feels like the whole loaf to them and they have a high threshold for neglect meaning they'll make excuses for your disrespect they'll blame
themselves instead of holding you accountable they will tolerate a lot of mistreatment for quite a while but here's the dangerous part once you invalidate their feelings to the point where they don't even feel safe talking to you anymore once that threshold of neglect is reached it's over a switch gets flipped and trust is gone they felt abandoned for so long and they have nothing left to give it's not that they want to stop giving and serving overall they just want to stop giving to you because they realize they deserve more than the bare minimum
