WOMEN WERE HARD, UNTIL I LEARNED THIS...

so there's a truth about women that most men will never actually see coming and it's one of those things that really sits right in front of most of us or right under our nose yet nobody ever really tells us about it and none of us really recognize it now the thing about women is that they don't want you to know this because once you understand this then you will stop playing the game of Attraction on their terms okay and you'll start moving a little bit differently in a way that's going to benefit you but once

you see this Truth For What it truly is once you realize why so many men fail at keeping a woman's attraction even when they think that they've done everything right you will see the game for what it truly is you will see this reality for what it truly is now here's what typically happens what typically happens is you'll meet a woman and things will be great the energy will be high you'll be playing it cool you'll be not giving too much away to her you'll be keeping a bit of mystery about yourself and guess what

happens she will be intrigued by you she will start chasing you and during this time you'll still be focused on your life your goals your mission and that is exactly what pulls her in you've created the right balance between attraction between you and her but here's the mistake that most men make okay as things typically progress you get comfortable and you start thinking she's really into me and I've got her now and it's in that moment that you start to change it's in that moment that you think that you have won her over that is

when you think that's when you begin to change that's when you become too available too predictable too invested you've essentially given away the game without even realizing it now here's why this is a huge problem now from an evolutionary standpoint women are wired to seek out the best possible partner they're wired to seek out the one who can provide the most strength the most resources and the most protection but here's the catch my friends women are biologically drawn to uncertainty they biologically drawn to the uncertainty principle okay they are attracted to men that they can't

fully pin down men who still remain a challenge to them even when they are in a relationship okay so this has nothing to do with playing games it has everything to do with staying in control of yourself staying in control of your value and staying on your mission you see the thing about women the thing that you have to understand and really really internalize before you can have better interactions with women is that a moment the moment that a woman feels like she has won you over the moment that she feels like you have stopped

being a challenge the attraction for you will begin to fade and you will have shifted from the man who was on his path when you first met her to the man who's just now simply orbiting around her rather than your own life and the thing about women is that women will say this all day long they will do things all day long to make you think that they want to be the center of your universe or Center of Your World but the reality is that women want to feel constantly like they are in competition with

your ambition and with your purpose and with your own life that is what ultimately keeps them engaged they don't want to know with certainty that they actually have you that they have won you over because the second that you hand over all of your energy to a woman guess what happens she knows that she's got you and guess what happens then what happens then is that she will start to look elsewhere okay the moment that a woman thinks that she's one you over she will begin to look elsewhere I want you to really think about

this and really understand this cuz it has such a massive potential to change your life okay if we look at human history throughout human history men who had options were always The Men Who were most desired okay The Men Who women could not win over were always the men that women desired the most they were the leaders they were the haunters they were the providers okay they didn't need to chase women they had bigger things to focus on and because they had options women were always drawn to them and these men were unpredictable they were

the type of men that could not be one over easily by a woman and that is the type of man that women are still attracted to even in their modern world because it is embedded deep into their biology to be this way okay women cannot help but be massively attracted to a man who is not one over easily but if we look at this from another perspective okay if we look at it from something other than Evolution we can look at it from perspective of psychology and the same concept applies human beings in general are

wired to Value what is scarce they're wired to Value what is hard to get and so when something becomes too available too easy its value starts to drop this applies to everything applies to money possessions opportunities and most definitely it applies to attraction and relationships you see the moment that a woman feels like she has you completely the moment that a woman feels like she has essentially won you over that she is yours like she no longer has to actually work to keep your interest then what ends up happening is she starts to lose interest

herself now the really weird thing about this the thing that's kind of hard for most guys to understand is that when this happens when a woman begins to lose interest in you she may not even realize it herself but what she will feel is that the spark of Attraction for you will begin to fade can we look at this from the perspective of science science backs this up flawlessly okay and from a scientific perspective the human brain is actually designed to seek excitement and it is designed to respond to challenges and that's why unpredictability creates

dopam okay unpredictability actually produces dopamine within the brain the chemical response for desire is dopamine okay so when a woman is not sure if she has fully won you over her brain will produce more dopamine and she will stay engaged trying to win you over but once a woman is confident that she has you wrapped around her finger once she knows that she truly has you whipped or she truly has you under her spell that is the moment that the excitement will die that's the moment that she will no longer be attracted to you and

when that happens she will start to look for that feeling of excitement somewhere else maybe from another guy because now she knows that you're no longer the challenge that you once were so she's no longer attracted to you how many times have you guys seen this happen before I've seen this happen many many times where guys who think that they've locked down a woman who stopped putting in the effort to start giving her pretty much everything that she wants on a silver platter they think that they are securing her love but in reality what they're

actually doing is they are losing her respect and interest and it is in that moment that the chase is actually over and with it the attraction will fade away it's really that simple so what is this truth that so many men go their entire lives never even even realizing what is this truth that the majority of men never see even though it's right under their nose that has potential to change their lives forever it's really really simple okay the second that a woman thinks that she has won you over is the second that she will

start looking elsewhere so one of the most important things that you can possibly do in your life as a man if you want to maintain optimal attractiveness around every woman that you come across is to never ever under any circumstances make a woman think that she has won you over now I know there's influences everywhere there's society that has told you from a young age that we should give a woman everything we should make it official we should get married you know do all these things to make a woman think that she has fully won

us over but the reality is that that's just not how reality works that's not how attraction works okay often times the things that Society tells us are best for women or to be attractive to women are actually the total opposite of what actually attracts women that's what you have to understand so the most powerful thing that you can do as a man in order to maintain optimal attractiveness is to never allow a woman to think that she has won you over okay whether it's in a relationship whether it's outside a relationship it doesn't matter never

give a woman the ability to think that she has won you over because the moment that the challenge is gone the moment that she doesn't feel like she has to fight to win you over that is the moment that she has essentially broken you that is the moment that you become undesirable it's really that simple and only the man who truly understand this concept will be able to not just create attraction with women but also maintain it over a long period of time and with that said I hope you guys found this one useful and

until next time my friends thank you so much for watching