came back but he came back but what do you mean he came back from abroad I thought everything was fine everything was working fine but then he came back wow I'm exhausted have you ever felt like this you've seen several stories of people who went abroad It seemed like everything was going well and suddenly the person is back here because there are several reasons that can make life abroad end up not working out and here I will bring you seven of these reasons for you to think a little and reflect before you take that step The first thing is not to do adequate planning, not to even do any planning, planning is just going to buy a ticket and I'm going to disembark and when I get there we'll decide, you know, that idea of when I get there I'll see, it's something we have There's a lot of desire to do this, right, when I get there, I'll see, nevermind, I'll worry about it now, when I get there, everything will be fine, right? So, a lot of people have this idea that when I get abroad, when I get there, There, things will fall into place, the puzzle will start to come together, everything will start to work out and that's it, you didn't need to plan anything, you didn't need to suffer in advance, suffering, right, a lot of people think that planning is suffering in advance V all ah those problems Oh this could go wrong oh I have to think about it, you have to think about the financial part, you have to think about health and there are people who think that I'm doing it now, you know, things like that and what ends up happening is that not really planning is one of the main I would say that the main reason that makes people return to Brazil is not planning to leave thinking that everything will magically work out and when reality hits you see that it's not as easy as it seems you end up coming back a second time something that happens a lot is that people think it 's not necessary to learn the local language, they think like oh, I'm going to a country where I don't know the language, I don't know anything but I don't need to because there will be a Brazilian community there, I'll stay involved there with the community, right, people will help me, I'll get nice people who will give me a hand, so I don't really need to speak the country's language, right, there are so many Brazilians there, it won't make any difference, then I learn, then I see it once again, right, that thing that Then we see, let's leave everything for later instead of resolving everything now and when you go abroad when you arrive in the country you see that it is really necessary for you to learn the local language because everything, right, everything works in the local language, you go to the supermarket you have to know what you are buying You go to the doctor you need to know how to explain to the doctor what is happening you won't always bring an interpreter, imagine, right, it's a little unpleasant You sometimes have something a little more intimate there to talk about with the doctor and there is a person by your side there saying interpreting the things you are saying, right You better have this Independence There are a lot of people who end up feeling very dependent Everything For Everything you need someone, right you can't go to the pharmacy to buy a medication alone, he can't go to the supermarket because he doesn't know, he can't understand, he can't buy things, he can't go to the doctor Because he needs someone to explain the symptoms, explain what's happening So you end up having a very closed life there, right? Even if you have a community of Brazilian people and people who speak Portuguese there, you need to know the local language so that you can have your own life .
do financial planning and financial planning what I'm talking about here is you really put all the expenses in relation to the cost of living How much is the cost of living in the country you're going to How much is your own cost of living for you in your family, how much are you going to spend on all this, you have to put it there, right, health, education, housing, food, finally, leisure, all these things need to be there so you know how much you are going to spend and you also need to know how much you need to take with you in terms of Economy too, right for you not arrive and have You don't have time to really focus on your job search there or if you haven't yet got a job, right, or if you 've got a job that doesn't pay All those things you bills Sometimes you end up not finding the job that pays the salary you were looking for and sometimes one of you goes as a couple, sometimes just one of you gets a job and the other will try for the job when he arrives and the one salary just doesn't covers all expenses So you have to see a lot, you have to do this financial planning very well so that you don't go around putting out fires, don't go around in need. There are a lot of people I see here asking for help because they are in need because can't get the job or why not the salary in cities like Paris, for example, the cost of living is very high, the salary is also considerable, considerably higher than in other places, but we know it's very difficult, right, so sometimes the salary will not pay all your expenses there so there are people who will have a very tight budget and will live with this with this very tight life so you need to do all this planning so that you really know where you are standing, another thing that I see people They sin a lot when it comes to health, neglecting health issues, this also happens when traveling, we know, a lot of people don't take out travel insurance when they're going to travel because they think they're in good health and don't have any medical problems, so they're going to travel for two weeks and it doesn't happen. nothing and then unfortunately you end up spraining your foot There and the hospital bill ends up being astronomical because of a foot that you sprained that you had no idea this would happen so these are things that can happen at any time anywhere you need to be prepared so health is something that we really cannot neglect, we never know what can happen to us so you need to have a solid plan there for your health too you will work on it later when you arrive at the place there you will adhere to the local health plan or do you need it, right?
You already have health insurance, sometimes for the first few months just to cover that period until you find the job and start paying the quotas, if that's the case in the country you're going to, so you need to keep all of this in mind. So , you know, thinking that bad things unfortunately happen, we never know when they're going to happen, so you need to have everything right, I see a lot of people who end up getting pregnant, they're not waiting, they end up getting pregnant and then they get a little worried, right, and now I'm leaving what I How am I going to pay, how does it work and everything and we know that a birth costs considerable money in any country you go to, so it's something you need, you know, to have support, you need it. have insurance you need to have something there to help you at this moment one thing that also makes people come back to Brazil is choosing the wrong country to live in sometimes people will have an idea Sometimes you will have an idea of that you really want to go to a place that you really want to go to a certain country that is the country of your dreams you want to live that dream life of that place without researching the country just with what you saw, you know, in the movies You saw the people telling you that you heard about it but that's not really what happens, you don't really know what life is like in that place and you choose simply because you think it's your best option, after all, life there sometimes it's much more expensive, it's much more complicated, isn't it difficult to find a job in your area, didn't you know that maybe your area is a little saturated in that country , if you went to another country you would have much more chances, you could have a salary much bigger but no you went to that country because you had that business then I have to go to that country here research the country very well before making that decision a sixth reason that makes people come back a lot is not integrating into the local culture As I said, there are people who think they will just stay in that Brazilian community there and everything is fine, but in reality you will needing to integrate with other people you will miss it or sometimes the Brazilian age there is not everything you thought it was, you won't be able to find the friendships you wanted there you won't really be able to build bonds with those people even if they are Brazilian even if they speak your language It may be a little difficult for you to integrate with those people there so you need to integrate with local people and if you don't speak the language if you keep to yourself you don't have This openness can be difficult for you, you know, loneliness will hit, sadness will hit and people end up coming back because of that, you know, you don't feel good, but there's no way you can't have that feeling of happiness, you don't have that pleasure, but even if you can have a job There, managing to support yourself, having enough money , but there isn't that part that everyone needs, right?
We are people, sociable beings, we need that side of this socialization, to go out with people, have fun, get to know each other, talk, and if you don't have everything, this ends up complicating things and another reason also what makes people return home too early is not being able to maintain this psychological part, you know, not having worked on this psychological part before going abroad because seeing it only seeing it from the outside, seeing people happy, seeing the life that people have We start to imagine all that, all that, you know, that can happen without thinking that things don't happen that way, right, don't leave, you don't leave here and you get here, there's all that path there, right, a winding path for you to pass, things won't go happen in a linear way different from what we have in our heads, so it is very important that you have this psychology prepared, knowing that there will be moments, right, there will be moments when you will be here, there will be moments when you will be here, you will take a step then sometimes it will be possible It will be necessary for you to take five steps back, right?
