It's not a nice feeling to miss someone you love Do you get me? My audience is from age 5 to 90 and I have gone into every home Is Nancy on stage the same Nancy off stage? my dad would always tell me “Be careful” “Be careful” So this “be careful” is still with me Did you compare your life with your siblings? with your siblings? They were living a normal child's life but you were not? Have you you ever been embarrassed on stage? This person and I love them How do you feel When you see your
daughters? this is the best achievement I have done in my life Better than music and all the awards? It's a nice answer Honest What are you afraid of? Of death If today were the last night of your life Who is the person you would be the saddest About not being able to talk to? You cannot do anything about it I hope they don't hear it now After struggling for 65 years I finally sat down with Nancy So anyway, we waited for a good amount of time 65 years? I said 65 and none of us is
65 actually The meeting was supposed to happen a long time ago But we waited and I know, as an audience you've been asking for this interview for a long time So finally, as Nancy said, everything is beautiful in its time True So, I hope you like the episode and I hope you will see maybe new sides of Nancy Because we talked for a long time and there were many questions - I hope you - Right You liked it It was very different I really enjoyed it Because you're someone different and I like to be with
someone different Someone smart I like smart people - And you're smart - And the nosy And nosy, most importantly I am very nosy Yes, but - Your curiosity has increased now - I feel it's important - It increased - Because me and you both of us are nosy - So come on, let’s go - True I hope you like the episode guys and girls Always support us so we can bring you the best guests and the best stories Those who love Nancy I hope you'll love her even more after the interview Those who don't know
Nancy find her everywhere Enjoy the music she has presented for years and years It's not easy for someone to continue successfully for years and years There are many artists few around the world who managed to remain present for this long period and until now generations after generations Love them So, thank you Thank you, Anas Okay At last but not least True We'll sit down with my mother soon, God willing without cameras To begin, Hello, Nancy How are you really doing? How am I really doing? Now, how I'm doing has many different aspects but in general
I’m very good Tell me one of the aspects What are they? what are the factors that when added altogether make the result ''good'' Because I feel that there isn't always in life I mean, life is not always you can’t always say in absolute terms, I am not happy with my life or I am happy Life is made up of happy moments And happy memories, I mean beautiful memories good times As much as you can collect and create them in your life the result is the more you multiply them the result is that you You have
a happy life Your life is happy in general I mean, because If I wake up from sleep every day and say that I have this and that and think about them all day, no Happiness in life is a decision You decide whether you want to live happily or not and there are things you can do in your life that make you feel happiness things that make you happy when you do them Then, you're collecting beautiful moments And the more these beautiful moments are the more your life will be closer to happiness than to unhappiness What
makes Nancy happy? Some of the things Many things and very simple things A nice gathering with people I love A nice visit a cup of coffee with someone I love a nice trip Maybe some nice words you come across and I reciprocate those words later a nice concert a nice success a new success There are many things in life when I think that make me happy A dish that is delicious that I eat with a lot of appetite For me this is happiness Sitting in a cosy place with my kids Going out into nature, there
are many things Do you maintain these things? You make sure they're there so you don’t burn out and not feel That that’s it I really preserve these things and now more than before I mean, even though now I work a lot and travel a lot but I keep saying I keep thinking that I want to find time Even though my work is happiness for me, honestly It is meditation I love to sing I love to meet people who love me and I love them There is this mutual feeling of love and joy But I also
find other times for me to also be I do things That make me even happier Things that increase the things that make me happy Okay And who are you, Nancy? Who am I? Now we want, Up until now, honestly I'm still discovering myself Until now I can't say now “I am complete” “This is who I am” Because a person truly keeps discovering themselves at every stage I discover a new me I discover a new Nancy I discover what I love and what I do not love who I like to be with who I don't like
to be with What are the things that upset me So that I don't do them or don't let anyone do them to me and the things that make me happy That's it, I mean every stage has a new Nancy, I can't say who I am now Now I am someone definitely better than yesterday Today I'm better than yesterday and tomorrow I will be better than today And how do you make sure? that you become better? A decision You decide every day to be better than yesterday? Right, of course And this is what, in my opinion
makes me At least between me and myself Feel better than yesterday My feeling tells me I know myself And Nancy who What? Why did you laugh? Nothing What did you think? I just wanted to make you laugh It's easy to make me laugh Is Nancy on stage the same Nancy off stage? At heart, yes In my heart I am always myself on stage how I look at people how my love for people is How I see people I'm the same on a human level But of course on stage I am I mean, a star I'm
standing on a stage singing it is different from how you see me in everyday life not in my heart but in my behavior Of course there are different things Okay But usually On stage I really I observe people a lot I like to observe I remember many faces Now, I don't always remember names but I remember many faces And I know very well while I'm singing who is happy who is less happy I get closer to them I like it to be I mean, I like to have good energy at my concerts And I saw
this because when I saw you in El Gouna Look, I have been to a lot of concerts There are concerts where the artist sings and leaves but maybe they don’t have... You feel it's the same like in the album They don't do anything different And there are singers and artists who have a presence they know how to play with the audience and read the audience I mean, even one of my friends who is a DJ said that the DJ has to Not only play the playlist in his head He must live the music To see...
Is there a positive reaction from the audience? Are they liking this style? Okay, I’ll go more with this style True So he plays based on emotion and plays based on excitement So, I noticed that you you know You know how to control the whole place you make people have fun some get up and dance and enjoy it with you You greet this and talk to that So I noticed that you have this thing This also comes more with experience and it also depends more on the person how high their EQ is I feel the people
around me a lot That is an important skill It is important but tiring sometimes True You know, I was telling the therapist I talk to I told him, awareness I mean, awareness has consequences When you are very aware It is exhausting So much He told me, yes but with the mind that you have The way your mind works, it cannot tolerate being naive or foolish You have to search and learn But sometimes I feel like that’s it once you know, you cannot unknow once you are aware, you cannot be unaware Exactly, 100% You know? It
is exhausting and the more you know the more you get tired Especially when your nature is to dig into things to find out more When you dig, you get tired - Because sometimes - I wanted to say that because sometimes you're expecting something And you end up with something else It leaves you with disappointment sometimes So sometimes I tell myself Stop digging more That's it Look at the picture from the outside don't go into details anymore because they exhaust you But you're curious - But I can't - Curiosity is important I can't I understand Okay,
let's go back Your childhood in three words Summarize your childhood in three words Take out the word childhood Okay, so the absence of of childhood is one A big responsibility Exhaustion Let's describe each one Why did you answer so quickly and said ''Remove the word childhood'' Why? Because I didn't live a childhood I mean, it was not there I lived a childhood before I became aware of life before I became aware of the world Maybe I was three years old Four years old five years old I think as far as I remember I think that
from the photos that I see I did live a childhood but after that My youngest daughter is six now I was seven years old the first time I went on stage and sang At seven years old Now, when I look at my daughter I say to myself that she is so young How? So, the responsibility was much bigger than me Not it was not my place Like someone eating food that does not suit them not for their body It was like that It was hard because... I would sit with people who weren't my age listen
to conversations that didn't suit my age I mean, I would go sing on stages stay up late at night also not for my age I was supposed to sleep early I would memorize songs also not for my age I wouldn't understand their meanings, I just memorized them and it was hard for me to memorize them Egyptian songs, old songs long ones, I mean I remember, I used to write them down My mom used to write them for me because the Arabic lyrics were difficult but I used to memorize Them by ear and read as much
as I could That's how it was, that's it And you said exhausting? Staying up late Memorizing along with school I would go to school come back and study my lessons I would crave sometimes you know, To have for example, my dad used to really love, his dream that I would be someone famous and all that and he achieved his dream I mean, I achieved his dream for him For example, if I had let's say I was going to sing on Saturday Starting Monday I get scared I mean, not on Saturday Or an hour before Starting
Monday I start to worry, When he'd tell me I have a concert on Saturday Starting Monday I start feeling anxious about how I will sing Every time I think about it I feel like this pain of it like someone who has an exam This, this exhaustion At a young age seven years old, eight years old And does this plant anger? No, no Towards your parents? No It did not plant anger Did it not plant anger because it's the only life you lived and didn't know to compare it to anything else? You know? This is the
life I knew, Anas I didn't know any other life I used to see my friends they were living a different life and my siblings were living a different life Right but it didn't Now, at the time of course I was not happy I was not happy I mean, I was not really not happy but I was always feeling that even playing even when I just wanted to go have fun if I went I felt I had a burden a responsibility that could possibly not be there but it was there All the time As if you're
always thinking that tomorrow You have something weighing on you I mean, I was always living in tomorrow Tomorrow I will do well I will not do well, I will That is it, especially since he told my dad that I have to people have to be happy at the party and mistakes are forbidden You have to memorize the songs Don't you dare make a mistake It is forbidden You have to create an atmosphere and these words Now, at the time my dad maybe didn't know that these were things I wasn't ready for but I didn't have
a choice Little by little, I became ready Right I reached this point where you're telling me that I can feel people So, that is why I don't have anger On the contrary, no instead, I understand I understand my dad a lot that he was he wasn't doing it to hurt me He was doing it Because he wanted something to come out of me and he knew that I have a beautiful voice and he believed in me until the last minute, until now He was persistent and he did this and now my life is good thanks
to him, I mean Did you come from a modest family? Was there a huge need? Moderate No, no, there was no need My dad used to go and pay money to people to let me sing only to strengthen my personality and to make me Yes, to practice To make me stand more on stages and get more used to standing on stage and to the people and create an atmosphere No, on the contrary, Even around us in the area He would know there's a party here or there He would call his friends Saying, ''I want to
bring Nancy'' and sometimes even he had to pay money No, not for not for the money No, I am comparing Your story, of course It's not apples to apples but when I see, for example The Jackson Five since their childhood they were a band and then Michael Jackson went off on his own but later he always used to complain that he didn't live his childhood Then he tried to live his childhood and make amusement parks, etc. There is a football player Called Thierry Henry Thierry Henry his father was very strict with him and he tried
to make his son a striker until he grew up and became professional in football When he scored goals he wouldn't smile Why? But when he did anything else he was happy When he gave a pass to his teammate and his teammate scored, he was happy But when he scored a goal he was always angry serious So, when he went into psychology The psychologist told him You have a kind of resentment that your father was always telling you that you must score you must score a goal So when you scored a goal it felt like homework
and you don't like it You do not like homework But when you do anything else on the pitch you are happy, but still Thierry used to say that in the end my father made me play in the World Cup I reached and won the World Cup I played with Zinedine Zidane and others Thanks to my father who was hard on me Right So, the relationship was strange between him and his father There was anger that you were strict with me when I was young but at the same time, thank you Same thing, right You know,
it's hard The same thing For example, I now there is no way I'd be that strict with any of my daughters in this way There is no way, maybe not strict but I cannot force them that much I can't But maybe he is stronger than me Maybe he is stronger than me He had the ability to Even though I was cute when I was little I mean, he should have felt sorry for me Spoil you more How was your relationship with your mom and dad? In what way? I don't know, closeness Are you close to
both, is it formal? Or not? No Of course it's not formal with my mom and dad No, but I was close to my dad, with news with news with stories and such like like secrets My mom I was close to her through food Food She liked to feed us so much Like she was close to me in I mean, she raised us with a certain discipline That's why we felt like now, I mean contributing with 50% not to say more 50% of mothers now Raise their children with discipline before anything, what time we sleep, what
time we eat Honestly, I feel it's 10%, not 50 I feel it's 10% Honestly, the other day someone told me You know what, Nancy? He said to me, do you know that most children today are orphans? I said, ''What do you mean?'' He said, if children are raised on iPads and maids They are orphans Where are the parents? And today you walk in the malls and you walk in the market in the street The mother is distracted the mother who sleeps and wakes up late the mother who doesn't pick them up from school and the
child who's glued to the iPad 24/7 No 24 hours fine, six hours a day and the one who feeds him or gives him his food is the nanny So, where is mom? Where is dad? So, when you said 50% I thought, ''No, I see it'' ''as even less'' There is not much discipline Not much upbringing, unfortunately Now, we are living through a very difficult era from every aspect I mean, an era the era of social media is I mean it has good sides it has positives it has negatives not only for our children on us
as parents too There's a huge impact on on all generations whether adults or children Of course, children need much more attention before a certain age they should not be given up till a certain age the child should not be given An iPad unless the parents are meaning, they tell him for example, you have 20 minutes a day Now you're not allowed and they shouldn't give him a mobile except at a certain age But, we're not living alone children go to school they see their friends they see People around them they talk to people around them
They start to see every parent raises their children in a different way some children at the same age have a phone some don't They start coming to complain to their parents my friend has one, I do not She has it and I don't Here, it's the parents' duty They need to be how much they need to be in the way they deal with their children how much they're friends and parents at the same time how much they advise them that it's not you who's wrong they are wrong that you're right and they show them that
they're right and they explain why and not No, with punishment I said no, to punish you This generation doesn't understand this way Right This generation understands, Our children's generation, not our own they understand through dialogue They understand when things are explained to them through explanation if you explain it to them They'd act stubborn once Twice then they understand that no, and they might go and also defend themselves ''No, we should not have phones now'' Now this, needs a lot of effort from the parents, mothers and fathers That's why I was telling you that it also
affects us as well Also, parents nowadays are also on social media - Right - Unfortunately They follow their jobs, half of it has become on social media meetings have all become half of them online Zoom calls Zoom meetings, Zoom everything life and technology have taken us to a place where we were forced to be we can no longer go back and hopefully it will not be Worse ahead Hopefully it will not I hope we don't destroy - AI is coming - a generation all by itself But what can we do? We cannot be unfair to
parents because they also have circumstances True Some parents work, and those who don't might be putting in more effort On our children on the kids so that they focus more This is a big topic Because, honestly social media and screens take away focus I notice sometimes sometimes when I see that Lea My daughter is sitting for longer than usual on the iPad I see that her concentration has become less than on other days So, I notice this To go back to the question your relationship with your mom and dad you said your mother used to
teach you discipline Yes, like all moms there was a rule at home What time we wake up we eat, we sleep We finish our plate There is no There's one dish at home not a hundred not a hotel There is There's Sunday There is a lunch with the family I mean, normal Mom did not work she was at home She raised us Dad used to work He would go and come naturally A man because he spends all day at work he comes back and spoils his children more Whereas the mother has been there all day
spending it with them And she sees the mistakes that happen every second and every minute and there's always misunderstanding and constant yelling Dad comes at night life is beautiful and happy He spoils us a lot Right Because he sees us for this half or one hour Before we sleep So, I mean our life was very normal Did you compare your life with your siblings? Because They were living a normal child's life but you were not? Yes You would you get upset, like why Is it that they don't have to and I do? Yes I did
but still, I would not say I mean, I wouldn't tell anyone not even my mom Maybe I would tell mom but not to my dad, because I felt when I was young that there was nothing that would make him change Nothing could change anything about him I mean, sometimes we'd have visitors that I didn't know People from his work Dad works in real estate people would come to the living room He would call me to sing songs and I found that very very difficult I mean, usually now if Imagine, when they called us we used
to feel shy to even greet them We were shy to say hi we were shy to say bonjour or bonsoir let alone sing and by nature I wasn't I was shy I was shy by nature not I wouldn't quickly not that kind of personality that would enter With a loud voice bonjour, yes, I sing, No, not like that at all So, it was hard That's why I didn't Even when I was little I knew there was no room for discussion with him What is your best childhood memory? The best memory Something nice Yes I mean,
when we would go we would go out on Sunday all of us together our outings Me and my siblings and dad and mom in one car We have fun we play We play riddles they make us guess riddles And who wants to who wants to say the first riddle who will figure it out, know it The nice days like those when we would feel that life is beautiful, all of us gathered like that We would go to the snow we would go to the mountains to areas of Lebanon We would go around on Sunday because
dad didn't have work as soon as he woke up in the morning we would have breakfast at home and he would take us on a trip Sometimes we would also go to our relatives it was nice I used to be happy when I went to my maternal and paternal cousins we would go because They wouldn't ask me to sing there I would play with my cousins The adults were on their own and we were on our own See, look how the nice day was the one with no singing and there was childhood Yes What's the
hardest memory? from your childhood The hardest memory Now we're a bit of a war generation and we lived through some we lived through a few years of war and life was not nice When there was war back in the days, I mean but and you know, in war sometimes there is stress on the whole family and so on So, there were many in the difficult times misunderstandings would happen between my father and my mother We used to get upset and on top of that, there was war We wouldn't hide at home because the shelling was
close to us, to our house we would split up I would go with dad me and my brother or my sister and someone with mom and we wouldn't stay together we would go hide somewhere and my mother and my sister and my brother would hide somewhere else Very strange I feel that it's hard If I try to imagine how because there is the pressure of war and the pressure of war puts pressure on the home And then you see a conflict between your father and mother So you see a lot of pressure, and then you
have to separate Because you're afraid of the bombing It's definitely not a normal situation No, because there is no safety I mean, safety in the parents the safety between the parents and the safety in the home and the safety in the country give us a sense of security as children, I mean Just as we are living now, This is something that keeps repeating A child needs safety what makes him feel safe the most is that his parents give him safety firstly between each other then towards him then in the country he lives in Did you
remember something specific When I asked you the question? No This no Is it real? Or No, let it slide, Anas? No, seriously, I didn't really remember details, no I just answered you I went back in my mind until I could answer you because it's the first time, someone asks me this question And I give this answer, thus I went back and remembered I answered you Thank you When you see your siblings living a normal life does this affect your relationship with your siblings? Or you can I mean, you can resolve it in your head and
say, no, it doesn't concern them Or does it start to create jealousy or sensitivity? Why am I the one responsible and they are not responsible? Does it affect the relationship? as you're growing up Maybe at some point in time, it affected a little later on, no Now, no So how did it not affect? How were you able to get around it? Okay, so let me explain it to you I had this conversation with my mom, I would tell her ''Why me?'' Now I knew that I was the only one who had a nice voice But
I used to ask my mom, why me, now? I have to keep going back and forth and look at them But when we grew up a bit my siblings started blaming my dad, because he stayed with me he started caring about me a lot and in their opinion were a bit affected in terms of the time He would take me to the concert and bring me back, take me to Rehearsals and bring me back take me to practice I mean, there was my dand and I spent more time together So my siblings at a certain
age there would be a clash, like between him and my siblings they would tell him that You don't even know, You were not with us You were with Nancy This was hard for them, I understand them But I hope they understand me because at the time I didn't want what was happening I didn't want It was not my fault I didn't tell him to do so Nor did I force him On the contrary, the decision was his, not mine But now they understand the situation for a long time, not just now Right This happened during
my very first period maybe even before I became famous not maybe, for sure before I became famous That's normal What is funny in all of this is that you wish you had their life and they are upset about your life That's it You know, they think, no, you have the bonding time with your father the priority; you say No, this is not the bonding that I want I want to go on a Sunday trip 100% We needed someone Just to explain to me and explain to them Art Was it your dream or your father's dream?
At first it was my father's dream then it became it shifted to become my dream, my dream and my dream and they became dreams There is a video that I saw Karim Give me When I conducted my research about you I found a video, I remembered Give me the big iPhone Can I have water please? Okay, when I was doing the research before seeing you today I found a video when you were thirteen years old Do you know the video? No, there are many videos of me at thirteen Do you know this one? No, this
is not thirteen - One moment - Younger I was younger there Less than thirteen - It is written in the title - I was eleven thirteen anyway, eleven And there is a woman called Madeleine Tabar? Madeleine Tabar, yes An actress Madeleine Tabar Do you remember what she told you? Yes What do you think of what she told you? Shall I play it for you or do you remember? No, she told me that My dear, you are too young to sing and stay up late - Yes, she said - Right? She said, first I will kiss
you She said, don't get upset at me and hug you so she kissed you and hugged you and then she went and sat down and she was, very frank What I liked about her is that she said her personal opinion she said, maybe I don't understand she said, first of all something along the lines of she said, I am against any child Anywhere in the world entering the field of art or any job too early So she said, and you sing songs that maybe you don't understand yet about love and romance and “my love” and
so on she even said, you the way you're dressed is not I wish you would Just wear jeans and a T-shirt that suits your age Then she said, maybe I don't understand She was realistic She said that there is another side to what I'm saying This is practice and that you're putting in the hours and hours so that in the end I think she even mentioned the name of another singer George, maybe George Wassouf Yes, and she said He also started Is it true he started early? Of course - She said, look He started -
at these examples - very early that in the end when they reach the age of fifteen or eighteen They have already put the work into it So this is what she was saying She is saying So I wanted to ask you What do you think now that you are older, about what she said Now that you have daughters No, I told you, for me, regarding this topic I told you My daughters now I cannot imagine that I'm making them live that I'm burning stages of their life and their age I cannot imagine it I also
don't want to Every age has every stage of life and every age has its own time that a person must live You cannot get ahead of time He cannot When he is ten he shouldn't live as if he is twenty Otherwise a baby would be born already an adult At once Why are we born and there are things we learn little by little There are things we shouldn't learn quickly Time has Its own lust and its own stages and they must be lived because later you feel a sense of loss You regret it later You
say, oh I didn't live through all of that It doesn't mean that you're not happy in your life now but you will still have this idea that Of I didn't live through them so that's why with my children now I like them to live every stage of their life without missing anything And I explain to them I talk to them about this We talk a lot especially me and the older ones Mila and Ella We talk a lot about They sometimes ask me about things Let me give you an example, for instance for example Either
silly things things related to their clothes things related to their hair things, for example about nail polish For example, places they want to go to a trip they want to take I tell them, ''It's not the right time'' On the contrary, now You have to enjoy what you have now now you can live this beautiful stage and then if you don't live it you won't live it later It will not be the right time to live this stage then Can we put on nail polish at the age of ten or eleven years old? Mommy, it
doesn't look nice It is not nice, it does not suit you and it is not nice You won't feel Why, you've got time there is a time coming when you can put whatever you want but now it is not nice think of something else that suits your age now that will make you happy try to enjoy it try to love The things that are right for your age I mean, you guide them You make them think that No, this is what's right this is how we should act Because sometimes the child if you tell him
Yes, do everything as you like They don't feel secure They need to hear the word ''No'' They have to hear his mother's opinion his father's opinion So they feel that No, thankfully I'm at ease, there is someone who tells me what to do They feel safe and relaxed until they reach a stage and a time when they can decide Parents start giving him Authority gradually You decide about this You decide about that What do you like? We help you with what you like to do We are by your side we support you There comes a
time when parents need to know that, no You cannot decide for them at this age you cannot decide on their behalf now They should do something they love True That's how I see it That's it We're moving through a lot of topics No, I'm with you Stay Rely on me If you could edit your life and choose the beginning of practicing music And singing not to be the beginning that you had but you postpone it till around the age of sixteen or let's say eighteen - Would you edit it? - Maybe I would have not
reach where I am now But would you? If you had If you had some device that lets you edit the past At the stage I'm in now with where I am? I wouldn't edit anything You'd leave it as it is? As it is Even if you lose a phase Of course I wouldn't edit or change anything because I believe that everything that happened is what brought me to where I am now and I really love where I am now And I am really, I mean, proud of it Do you feel that that most children cannot
handle the approach that you followed? It takes a certain type of personality? Correct Not everyone can handle it, of course First of all, not everyone can handle responsibility There are even adults who cannot handle responsibility It depends on temperament and on character also what they lived through but all three together not only what they lived through their personality and temperament also play a big role It's a package I feel that Maybe someone else who lived my childhood I don't know maybe would not have reached what I have reached now and maybe would have reached different
places but surely everything plays a role and every person is different from the other No one is identical I feel that your father saw this I feel that your father noticed that In what sense? He knew that this girl can do it even if the girl is upset and complaining but this girl has the qualities to be able to endure and carry on Maybe, but his faith is what made him come all the way here his way of thinking got him here because I feel that his dreams and his thinking And he visualized me before
seeing me in reality He imagined me and he kept thinking about this thing and he made it happen I believe in this too Yes, but I feel that your father if he had tried it on any of his other children or let's say hypothetically a different daughter From the girls We can call her whatever Leila If he had a girl called Leila One of my siblings? No, we're just imagining a character He had a daughter called Leila and he had those dreams but he noticed That after six months or a year the girl cannot handle
it, he cannot continue, even if there is a conflict between his dreams and this personality, it cannot handle it - You - Right He said, ''She can do it'' You know? even if she does not like it No, if I push a little She can do it Right So, he continued Right He saw that the dream is in this girl Right I feel it's like that Right Otherwise it would be a life shock but he would accept it because had he felt that I'm not accepting it Maybe he would have felt that his dreams are
turning into sorrow He wouldn't have continued Right but maybe he felt there was a response and that there was Right There was a spark There was a spark, right Do you like fame? Now I do Why now? Because now I'm in it I'm talking to you about now in the present, of course I love it Do you feel that fame brings loneliness? It reduces privacy You cannot live the way you want You don't have I mean this is the least I can say That I don't have privacy in my life but There are advantages theres's,
as I told you there are many advantages to it and there are things like that that do not let you at all times do whatever you want go wherever you want Be happy wherever you want to be A hoodie and sunglasses They recognize me Right For example, you if you are wearing a hoodie and if you are wearing - My nose - Sunglasses my nose reveals me and if your nose is covered I know you from your laugh because your laugh is nice Thank you, bless you You said you are happy in your life and
you choose happiness Have you been depressed at any stage of your life? “Depressed” is a big word Right Depression is a big word No and I don't like people who belittle the word ''I was just sad, and depressed'' Depression it is an illness Some people need medication That's why I told you, ''No, never'' It has to do with everything Sometimes I meet a person I don't meet often for example, or me and her She tells me, I miss you I feel that I miss you is a big word Missing for someone to miss another there
has to be memories and things in common and other stuff we talk but I don't know I feel that there are words that should not be said unless it is coming from inside, not from your mouth From your heart So, no, depression is a big word and I'm not depressed Thank God Thank God I talk a lot about depression because I know a lot of people suffer from it I ask them a lot how they get through it because I don't like my show to be only about They tell me, I was depressed And I
stop there, no you got depressed, but how did you treat it? How did you work on it? What did you do? because I know people are watching and maybe someone who is deep in depression and sees that maybe sports helped this person it was a psychologist for someone else so I am giving Them ideas that no, there is treatment, That's why I like to get into these topics with solutions Not just a story What does love mean to you? It depends on which love you're talking about tell me what's on your mind I mean, love
For a person, or love for things? or love for work or love for what? Let's talk about love First of all, in general First, for example love of children love of children is the most beautiful thing in the world the love of children themselves it makes you live it renews your life It makes I don't know there is a feeling even my children and even the children all the children who who come to my concerts and I see them because my audience is from age 5 to 90 and I have gone into every home I
mean into the family So, I see only seeing children around me being happy and wearing clothes that are new and cute, and they come to attend my concerts I feel happy As if you brought me back to life again this is the love of children What about romantic love? Romantic love Do you know Fairuz's song? I know some When you are when When you feel that you want to say that If I come back to you, I'll get mad and if I leave you, I'll suffer I can neither leave nor can I stay This is
love Love for a person very very deep actually not deep, very Contradictory? Contradictory, of course Messed up, for sure otherwise it wouldn't be this love that has fast heartbeats What do you feel are the components of love? What is it that makes love? between two people? I don't know Do you think it's respect, for example? Trust? Attraction Chemistry? No, these come with time but love first of all no one knows how to explain it It cannot be explained At first it cannot be explained The first half hour or hour It cannot be explained Later, you
start to explain it Correct Now, sometimes you explain it sometimes its explanation drives you far away and it sometimes brings you closer Getting you even closer It depends I mean, it depends on how the two of you are How much they have together how much there is I'm not going to tell you, respect and trust those things, of course those have to come otherwise it becomes There starts to be That's it, I mean but before those the closeness and before we reach understanding and dialogue and respect before we get to those there's love you asked
me about love This is love The contradictions Where you are not knowing whether you're hungry or full not knowing whether you feel hot or cold not knowing whether you are happy or upset or you have an emotion whether you want to cry or laugh This is love It's all about those confusions And marriage? Is marriage hard? It can be hard and it can also not be hard Both are possible There are marriages that are hard and there are sweet marriages What do you think makes it a sweet one? It differs from one person to another
It differs from the very beginning It differs Based on treatment, here after love here comes understanding then comes respect then comes today, to be able to live in the same house with a person I mean If you're not one if both of you are not one you You cannot I mean, you cannot you cannot live with someone when you keep not feeling that you are them and they are you and that you two are not on the same wavelength not on the same way of thinking on the same goal on the same dreams If there's
no understanding If there's no dialogue dialogue is very important to me dialogue and understanding marriage doesn't last without them because marriage is love of course with all of those things Sometimes, love increases after marriage the two people become very close to each other more than before Not that they understand each other more It becomes with marriage there is not only that he is my husband but my love which is more important than him being my husband My love because he can be he can be my husband but not be my love My friend There are
many there are here love splits into types Sometimes, I want to love him like my son I want to love him like my friend I want to love him like my husband I want to love him like my lover I want to love him like my brother, I don't know I want to see in him all kinds of love and of course, plus understanding And respect this is how I see it in my humble opinion A beautiful answer It's a very, very nice answer In your opinion, what do you see as the most important three
things in a healthy marriage relationship? The three most important things? I told you Let's simplify them Simplify them? - You've got into philosophy - You felt that the answer was... I should write a book about this point Let's sum them up three things you find necessary for any happy and healthy marriage you would say, these are the most important components there are other things, but these three I feel that one thing is Always I feel that if both people have it they will last they will live in agreement of course apart from dialogue and understanding
and love and shared life I feel there should be no “I” You mean ego I mean, the word “I” disappears between them they become one they become I mean Careful, this answer is a bit it has also different aspects because I don't really like the woman being above the man I don't really like that My personality, I mean because this thing leads to many things that have a negative effect both on the woman and the man This is just my opinion but what I mean is not from that angle that there shouldn't be any ego
It doesn't mean That the woman is like the man No but that they should be one state for them to be one soul that they are one person in two people I mean, and the most important thing also is that each one cares about the other’s feelings Today, when I care about the feelings Of my husband I don't hurt him with words automatically I respect him I do the things that make him comfortable and that he loves and when I make him comfortable then he shows me the version of himself that I love Right That's
it It's a cycle It keeps going I saw a video, it said that the thing that starts love is not the thing that keeps love How? It was trying to explain He said it in a nicer way He said the beginning of love and how you fall in love is not what Makes love last the beginning is simple chemistry over chemistry, as you said - attraction - Right We liked each other Right but what makes it last for years is something else something different not the thing you started with Exactly Of course it's not what
you started with I told you the love of if I come back to you, I'll get mad and if I leave you, I'll suffer Then, I told you for love to last if we want to think about marriage we get to the other aspects alongside love He said what makes marriage last Is if there's goodness in people It's a nice way his answer is nice He said, if there is goodness in you towards each other it's almost close to what you said you said if he cares about you feeling and you care about his feelings
you fear for his feelings and you're kind You know, kindness is huge I mean, the magnitude of kindness in a relationship kindness doesn't mean you're kind when you're relaxed and refreshed No, kindness is when you are upset and you want to be rude but you say No He doesn't deserve it for example Nice your words are nice If I just sit and hurt This is nice words hurt 100% You are right but Sometimes I for example, sometimes I hear a couple, for example who say that we are always making an effort To keep the relationship
going but I don't agree with that because if the relationship only continues with effort it becomes like an obligation or it becomes like duties or you become you're working How do you go to a job you don't love? So, I prefer that things are spontaneous and for the feelings Should be spontaneous that we do not need effort to live together Life is naturally easy we love life together That's a nice point but effort means you have something you're not convinced about or do not like but you're putting effort So it continues and you live How
long will you be able to go on? It becomes homework Homework I can maybe understand that someone says, for example we must go on a date once a week together He and his wife for example, every Saturday They pick a restaurant Maybe this is the effort or the work But you have to be excited for the outing not like I have to go out now You don't want that - It's not nice, you know - Of course not No So, I don't know I understand when they say there has to be effort rather than a
lazy person for example, I don't like it when Married couples He has a belly and her, I don't know what happened to her even in appearance, they aren't nice anymore Their bodies used to look good before marriage after marriage, biryani and what now That's it They don't look good together - I say - Biryani What happened? What changed? but it's nice that you care about your looks and she cares about how she looks and you still - You must find each other attractive - Be careful you are a third party watching maybe they are comfortable
and happy Maybe they really love biryani I don't know and they love each other with the biryani They even eat each other up Eat, my love, eat I made biryani for you at 3 a.m. Come Before you sleep But I mean I feel there is something there is a word in English maybe in Arabic it's negligence there are a lot of people after they get married, they become complacent Which is maybe complacency That's it, she is mine I put the ring on That's it, I don't need to put in effort I never need to be
romantic I don't need to flirt with her like before That's it, she's mine and this is very dangerous in any relationship to think, I've secured her or she thinks I secured him That's why I said there has to be dialogue Dialogue is very important I mean, if if one of them starts feeling this there is a conversation, there is they have to talk She tells him I'm not happy with this and I feel such and such and he tells her, I feel such and such when there's communication and understanding maybe Things will change Now, but
if there was a conversation and it didn't work and then there was a conversation again and it still didn't work then that means they are these two people are not meant for each other It's not not that one person I mean, then it's not that he wants to That is it we got married, we are obliged No, but there are times when there are things that pass some things are normal and some things, no, that are not normal especially if they keep repeating and get bigger there's a part that stays upset and it didn't work
And they didn't fix it It keeps recurring then there will be a separation What is this obsession people have with you about Nancy and divorce I was upset when I saw in the research I feel they ask you that question a lot Where? Nancy and divorce Why is the audience obsessed? Like, by force I feel they want you to divorce by force This rumor I don't know how it started I feel some people are obsessed they like to see people divorced like by force even if things are going fine they don't want to divorce No,
by force maybe some people don't like to see two people getting along Or two people together It has become very common now it has become rare to see a couple together and getting along and they don't have problems God bless Yes, it's rare They don't have problems that picture has become rare as if it were a discovery Or as if it were something new to them They are not seeing much of it So that's why they imagine and they think that No, like we're seeing many people like that It's impossible that they would be an
exception there So, they try to drag us into but it is just with the majority but it is just With the majority But, I mean It's just talk Why do you feel that a lot? See how hard fame is? back to the topic of fame If I weren't famous who would have brought it up? They wouldn't care Why do you feel that divorce nowadays is very high? very Because there is no longer the ability the ability to tolerate neither with words nor with actions There is no, no one no one tolerates a word no one
sacrifices sacrifice has become very rare I don't know This is what I'm seeing I mean What I am seeing in the people around me that I know who are getting divorced I feel that, you know, divorce is happening over very silly things more than over deep things and important things I mean one argument no one can put up with it Even though You argue with your mother with your father or brother What does it mean if you argued with your husband or if you argued with your wife immediately, we want to separate I mean, there
is no longer any value to the family and to the union and to the child, there is none the silly things are what drive me crazy Not the deep things There are many people who do not get along That's it We couldn't agree but there are people who, no, like Right Over simple things, I mean They did not wait to see how it would develop maybe it would develop for the better you talk and understand each other but there is no there is no patience Right like everything nowadays we cannot kids cannot watch a video
on TikTok for more than a minute they cannot True There is no focus our kids are not focusing They cannot be patient There is neither patience nor focus Right but the world is currently designed for impatience today if you order food on the app If it's a bit late - late by two minutes - They call a hundred times Before, if he brought You the pizza, even if it was cold you would still be happy it finally arrived Thank God, even after an hour Today if changes from 14 minutes to 16 minutes You get upset
I don't know, right Before, we used to get bored today you don't get bored if you stop at the traffic light you're on the phone You are driving You stop at the light You do not get bored You take out the phone Oh, green light before, if you stopped at the light I'm bored, come on When will it turn green? Now you get excited if you stop Oh, I have a chance to check the phone Do you know what makes me laugh? In the elevator Originally You'll stay for only 18 seconds as soon as the
door closes in the elevator What do people do? On their phones - Even though there isn't - Ten seconds network in the elevator They are forced but they cannot, like for example No one stands like this I always stand like this in the elevator, I stand like this I'm the weirdo in the lift Staring like this You know? And people What's happening, man? Why are you in a rush? What will you get to do? in this quarter of a second in which you arrive Weird, it's a weird world No one gets bored Boredom is what
makes you creative it makes you think of nice things That is happening with me with my kids sometimes and surely with other kids, and surely now if mothers are watching me They know how much we suffer from that we take our kids on a very nice outing to nice places and they have fun all day We go back home for the first half hour they tell me ''There is nothing to do'' ''We are bored'' So, the word “I am bored” not only for our kids even for adults Do you know what I feel about it?
I feel it's shameful Shameful Now, I understand our kids a little, maybe they are saying it just like that, quickly I don't know Even though surely if you let a child all day do one activity maximum one or two only the things he likes And the rest of his time should be at home not doing anything so that he has time to invent something to entertain himself with to create, to dream to develop to expand his imagination This time of boredom is what makes him develop Right But when an adult says “I am bored” I
feel it is shameful you're not supposed to get bored at this age you should, even you when you are sitting alone your mind should not be, like empty your mind alone without the phone should stop you from getting bored Your thoughts, your dreams your imagination I don't know Take a book to read Watch a movie let your thoughts take you somewhere else but just “I am bored” is also a big word, like “depressed” Right “I am bored” is the same The word “I am bored” is not nice at all How do you feel when you
see your daughters? All three? How I feel? I feel that this is the best achievement I have done in my life Better than music and all the awards? And the fame? And everything? With them With them It's a nice answer Honest a real answer, because truly, with them of course I have done many achievements that I love before I got married and had kids Right Big achievements and dreams I have achieved I'm still dreaming until now and I want to achieve many things and among My daughters are among the achievements that I also consider very
beautiful in my life Are their personalities different? Each one is different from the other Nice, you never get bored No, no We don't have boredom at home Which one is the main character? I have a lot I have two Generations, I mean I have a six year old who is I watch Netflix I watch Disney I play with Barbie and so on and with the grown ups our games are different and our conversations are different our outings are different Nice Have you heard about the cube test? The test? The cube test - No - Nice
Today we will play the cube game This is a really nice question but I need imagination You're an artist so your imagination should go far Okay So, close your eyes for me please Nancy Okay, now imagine with me It has been a long time since I asked this, nice Imagine a barren empty desert completely empty not even you are there just a desert There's nothing at all and all of a sudden You only see a cube Describe the cube to me What do you mean by cube? - A cube - Okay Describe the cube for
me I didn't understand the question Cube? A desert How should I describe it? A desert If you keep your eyes closed you and I are imagining an empty desert And suddenly you see a cube appear A cube Now when you said cube - Describe it - It's a cube Describe it to me - I imagined a cube - Big or small? No, not very big How big? Not this small The size of a chair Meaning I can sit on it Okay, is it transparent? Do you see inside it or not? No, it's not transparent Okay,
is it on the surface of the desert, floating? Or inside the sand? On the surface of the desert On the surface of the desert, okay Should I keep my eyes closed? Yes, keep them, better Why, there is nothing I can read? No, no, I know but it depends on your imagination If it's better with your eyes closed, keep them closed Then you said Okay, after the cube, Nancy all of a sudden you see a ladder a ladder Where is the ladder? According to the cube? Far from it Far from it, okay Taller or shorter? Taller
New or old? Old Okay After the ladder If you would please Is the ladder more than twelve steps or less? Six Six steps Okay, God bless You're precise Okay, after the ladder You see a horse Where is the horse? The ladder is here The cube is here The horse is here Is the horse moving or not? It is moving, but not its body It's moving its head like this constantly looking up and turning Waiting for something Okay, does it have a saddle or not? The thing Where you sit? The thing you hold Is there a
saddle or not? Yes, there is There is, okay And it has the place we sit on The seat, okay nice What does the horse look like? Brown Its color is brown A bit dark Its hair is long like this Beautiful Okay Its tail is moving like this and it has a lot of hair After that, now we have the cube the ladder the horse Then, you see flowers Where are the flowers? I actually see the desert basically Not really flat I see it flat But I can see somewhere with a kind of hill in the
desert the ladder is leaning on this hill Okay? The flowers start from its edge and they end at a place I cannot see As if I see that flowers are starting And maybe all the way down is full of flowers Close to the ladder? Yes, close to the ladder Where is the horse in relation to the flowers? Here The cube is here The flowers start here and end there The ladder is here What is the condition of the flowers? Pink in color Healthy or unhealthy? Wilted or alive? No, alive Okay The last thing you see
a storm Where is the storm? Up in the sky - Far? - Far away And does the storm affect any of the other elements? No, it's It's turning on its own Okay Now open your eyes Let me explain to you They call it the Kokology cube test By a Japanese psychologist It talks about the subconscious mind The unconscious Okay Nancy The cube, you said Was not very small and not very big almost medium, you said roughly the size of the chair A big cube means you are a person who is more self confident bold, strong,
and eager to be seen If it's small, you might be the type who is more modest or shy and sometimes introverted who prefers blending more than Standing out and being distinguished, You are in between You have an introverted side and a social side maybe It stands on the surface of the desert This indicates stability You are rational and precise and you probably know what you want from life and you work hard to get it We have finished this a solid cube You said it wasn't transparent, right? You know who you are You are confident in
yourself and it's not easy to manipulate you Oh wow Go on! Good Now the ladder I don't want to go The ladder Is far from the cube means that you probably solve most of your problems without help from family and friends Okay, and a separate ladder indicates that you're a person who is more self confident and independent They just said that if it is big it means you have a lot of confidence and if it's medium you are less confident There's a contradiction What? No This is the ladder the ladder is separate Now we moved
to the ladder After the ladder You said it was higher than the cube Right? Yes, the ladder is higher You value your friends and family and care about them Then you said A six-step ladder six means It says between 3 and 5, you prefer to have a small number of friends Then, the horse is the partner the ideal partner You said, cube ladder, horse you said it depends on its distance the horse moving away from the cube Means No If it is close, it means a close relationship and far means insecurity in the relationship The
horse that is moving beside the cube a relationship Is a sign of a relationship The words are difficult - Many 'A' Sounds - A sign of a new relationship And strengthening the bonds of an old relationship Interesting but you said it didn't move much so it was still If it has a saddle You feel safe with your life partner If his physique is strong this means that you trust your partner and that he has the qualities you want Thank you, Nancy's husband The flowers are The children The number of flowers indicates the number of children
you want to have and have around you In general, you love children So there are many A flourishing, vibrant garden that reflects the health of your children their prosperity, and also your relationship with them If they're in good health What is nice is that You said the flowers were The cube ladder, horse, flowers So, If the flowers were very close to the cube It does not always reflect a strong relationship Sometimes it means a dependent relationship meaning your children are a bit too much I wouldn't call them spoiled but they don't know They do not
have their own independence People think that if the flowers are on the cube That's the best, no It means there's a lot of dependence You can't separate yourself from your children nor do they know how to separate themselves So they are between the three elements between you and your husband and between family and friends because the ladder is family and friends So they're surrounded - Yes, that's interesting - Nice - Yes - Of course Its position I will not over philosophize but it's interesting What else? The storm is the fears and pressures that you have
in life The storm that is far away means you are calmer But the closer the storm gets the more threat there is but it was far away And then I asked you whether it affected anything, you told me the storm passes over the elements without affecting them You have the ability to overcome difficulties and you have the ability to solve problems Yes That's it You wanted to ask me whether every question was right or wrong Now you tell me If you feel it's accurate or not But it is hard for someone to lie about this
question It's hard No - He is not aware - Why would he lie? No, he is not aware while he is answering No, no Why would he lie? If he doesn't know - What it meant - Right You cannot what it meant Right That's why I like this question Sometimes When do I like to ask it? is after they talk about love after they talk I see if there is a contradiction or not But it's always an interesting question Now, these questions I loved when it mentioned safety The saddle by the way also when you
asked me about marriage as well this is also an important point I forgot to tell you about that feeling safe is very important in marriage Safety Right Especially when a woman feels safe - with her husband - I was just going to say that A woman Sometimes when I talk to any of the women or ladies They tell me Anas, sometimes a woman needs to mirror the energy that the man gives her If the man is making her feel tense at home Don't expect the woman to be in her femininity She will be in masculine
energy pushy and strong and not emotionally open not vulnerable but if the man makes her feel stable and safe you'll see her become a little girl Right It becomes It becomes playful Yes Okay, these are maybe simpler questions What attracts you most in a person? Body language It's the first time I hear this answer and I mean From the very first time the greeting and interaction With the person Do you know how to read all these things easily? I read Not that I read everything but what attracts me at first Either I feel attracted and
it makes me curious to discover more to learn more about him Or not, straightaway I'm not interested, If you didn't know your age How old would you be? I don't have an idea If you didn't know your biological age How old would you feel? Based on my life experience, I am 100 years old From the inside? I have several ages sometimes you'll find me six years old I go back to my childhood and sometimes you'll find me as if I am 100 And sometimes - Nice - In between What do you spend most of your
money on? Now, this is an answer I want to answer a bit logically according to what I like and what I don't Well, Of course I spend on on my outer appearance since I am A public figure I mean, of course I need to always be dressed nicely but what I mostly love to spend spend my money on is having fun, travel and food and cuisines like New cuisines, like discovering for example a really good restaurant in a certain country while I'm there The first thing I think about is where to go, to which restaurant
to go out, explore the country but not alone, surrounded by my team my people, my friends I like to have fun with them So that is where I feel the happiest When I'm with people I love we are discovering or we are having fun together over food, an outing and so on So you're a foodie? - Like me - I love to discover I'm crazy about food Tell me about any place I have a full list You're crazy about food? I love food a lot but you don't eat I swear, I eat but I work
out every day Like me six times a week I eat a bit of Nutella but not a lot, moderately Just to taste I enjoy it But that's it, thank you The most embarrassing situation you have ever been through I told you that I memorize faces, not names So, many times I end up meeting people I am supposed to know I am supposed to know their names I want to introduce them to Fadi, for example to someone Who is with me I know them very well but I forgot their names - Me too - I forget
names Have you you ever been embarrassed on stage? Like something went wrong or the mic broke or you sang wrong No The mic broke maybe the sound cuts out sometimes but that's not embarrassing for me These are normal things that happen I handle them very spontaneously and naturally but no some embarrassing moments are for example, I want to welcome I want to welcome someone and I don't know their name This person and I love them I really like them I know them I like them But I don't know their name Go ahead Do you find
yourself beautiful? Very Of course Are you for cosmetic surgeries or against them? If there is a need, yes but not for my face to change I do not like to change my looks In general? I don't like to change my features there are things I love about myself I don't want them to change now, small things if something simple needs fixing I don't mind I am not against fixing myself For any woman are you for cosmetic surgeries? Or against them? Yes, if there is a need - I don't support - If needed someone doing something
extra that they don't need and their face changes, for example like they lose they lose their natural features Do you think cosmetic surgery should require approval from a psychologist before they do the procedure? And if they get the approval what happens? To know if the person is addicted to cosmetic surgeries or that they have mental stability If he gets it and if then it shows that the person is not addicted they go and do the cosmetic surgery and their features change What happens? because I see people who get addicted And it becomes a cycle They
change everything then change this or that It becomes The insecurity never stops it increases This is what needs a doctor a psychologist not the cosmetic procedure itself because a person who is insecure it's not just about Cosmetic surgery there are many things - they do in their lives - which they don't solve Their life won't be free from problems True Something that used to make you happy but doesn't make you happy now What's this question? I want to think Something that used to make me happy before but doesn't make me happy anymore Maybe spending time
with people spending time with people I thought that being with them was nice Then, I realized that I wish I hadn't spent time with them An insecurity you've had for years An insecurity I have? Like an insecurity you've had all of your life Look, We are at a point There is always sometimes we feel insecure in certain areas That's normal the circumstances we lived through the fear we lived through like I said, from war from lack of safety sometimes This creates in us things we can discover in ourselves With age I mean, but Either it
affects us very negatively very negatively or we can overcome it but as for an insecurity No I cannot call it an insecurity maybe there are things I don't like about myself but not an insecurity Not an insecurity Something you cannot forgive I cannot forgive someone who who fooled me I mean who lied to me and I later found out that all of those expressions the sincere ones that I saw were lies I feel that I do not want to talk to him or her again The hardest truth you learned about yourself The hardest? Something not
nice? It's not a must The hardest thing you didn't expect about yourself but discovered about your personality or in yourself Well, I am a person who analyzes a lot this is something I don't like about myself I analyze and analyze constant analysis like I hear a word I want to analyze it Why was it said and at which time Should it have not been said? and if it was said I dig and analyze this really exhausts me and I don't like it about myself I'm getting tired and I'm not always reaching a conclusion that I
like Sometimes it makes me reach conclusions I say Why did I do this? To get here? I could have not done it in the first place And I overthink a lot too I think a lot about things that I could not think about but I cannot What does your inner voice sound like? My inner voice? Inside your brain and what does it say to you? Everyone has a voice in their head It talks to you Go to the gym, no What's the voice like? that's on Nancy's mind I think a lot about tomorrow There is
a voice the voice of the future Is that voice motivating or negative? or complaining? Not negative It is nice, but it scares me I mean, because it's unknown to me I get scared Even though I think positively but I still have this fear or question mark “Be careful” Yes Be careful I was raised To be aware since I was little because I became aware very early I became aware I don't mean waking up from sleep I became aware I was always my dad would always tell me “Be careful” So this “be careful” is still with
me I hear its echo sometimes that I Always have to be aware I cannot ignore things I always have to be aware and always have my mind clear and always be alert I mean his words and how he raised me to be Constantly aware I feel that even when I'm asleep my head keeps working all the time There is awareness even in sleep I never imagined that for example, I can sit sitting with my friends in a way where I say whatever I want for example or, for example, Act however I want No, there is
no such thing as “whatever I want” There is contradiction in my personality I am someone very natural and genuine but alert inside me I cannot control this I'm someone who is always alert someone who is aware more than Just awareness, I mean I understand I don't know how to explain it further but I'm sure - No, I understand - you understood But is there any - not fear of - person - something or another person - I understand I am someone who has to always stay cautious Only that Was there a time you weren't cautious?
I mean maybe with your daughters I don't know with your husband or with yourself maybe with no one where you are, for example, silly and goofy laughing and doing whatever you love to do With my awareness by a decision from me That's it This is the struggle that I'm in I am telling you that I mean it is not spontaneous Of course, I am spontaneous but by a decision I decide to be spontaneous You scare me because I sometimes think the same way What does Lebanon mean to you? So many beautiful things My family Beirut,
Lebanon is my family My family and my people I told you, I feel it like a soul I cannot live without I cannot live without I cannot live without Lebanon I can only live in Lebanon ''I cannot live without you'' Do you know this song of mine? No - ''I can only be yours'' - I should listen to it Oh, ''''I cannot live'' I recognized it, see? Thank God, I recognized it I mean, even in the hardest circumstances I always think that if my dad is sick or my mom is sick would I leave them
and go? I cannot imagine that I mean, I never imagined I could do that with everything we have gone through Am I not able to leave? I am able to leave, of course Financially, I am able to be realistic I am able to take my children and tell my husband ''Please, let's leave'' but I really cannot at all I mean I cannot live without I have I have a sense of belonging to my country to my home, to my people, to my memories, These are the things I cannot get out of nor away from My
heart won't let me So, that's why I feel that In the difficult times when I most have to stay next to the one I love Lebanon is someone, a soul that I love so much I want to stay with it in the difficult times Now, I'm not saying unless something happens where we are all forced to leave and obliged to But as long as there is a choice and even when there is difficulty in staying I want to stay I just can't If you could Nancy, teach every child in the world one lesson What would
you teach them? Curiosity Nice Because When someone is curious since they're little They learn so many things Right They discover True and when they have curiosity and they ask I love the child who asks ''Why?'' ''How?'' Because they learn so many things they grow they mature their ideas grow their mind expands They discover, they know they are taught Even if sometimes they say wrong things in front of them and they ask But a time comes when they know that This is right This is wrong I love a curious child It shows Now, we will ask
a question from the card game I will give you a copy later You can play it with the family Shuffle them for me, please We will pick one for you Mix Can we cheat or not? What does that mean? Like this? We cheat You look? No, we'll pick one by chance Choose one and I will ask you any card Okay, alright Oh, nice question Okay I will ask you the question this is the style of the answer So I'll ask then you throw this this is the style If you had information that could harm your
friend's relationship with their partner Would you tell them about it? Throw it What's this question? Throw it Nice question In one word A single word - Yes or No? - Yes or No If you had information that could harm a friend's relationship with their partner Repeat the question slowly English or Arabic? Arabic If you had Information that could harm a friend's relationship with their partner Would you tell them? No Okay, I want to know why Why? It says ''one word'' but I want to ask What? It says ''one word'' But I want to ask why
Oh! You! You have no right to ask why I'm the one who made the game Why wouldn't you say it? Sometimes I feel Sometimes if you tell about something not nice that is happening and there is someone From the couple who does not know First of all, you are I mean, and especially Let's say, for example You mean there's a couple, right? - Yes - A couple You are ruining a family ruining a home ruining the children you might be ruining the children's future You might be destroying an entire family and I don't know what
the outcome will be Maybe I come and tell her and her reaction is Okay, it is fine, I already know or maybe, for example I tell her and something very big happens that leads to something worse Than the news itself So, I don't put I don't take this responsibility That's my answer What are you afraid of? What am I afraid of? Of death Why? I am afraid of death I am afraid of the idea of death Honestly I am very attached to things And to people and to life and I don't like to lose someone
I love and if something happens to me I don't like the people who love me to suffer or to miss me and cannot see me Have you lost someone you love? Thank God I have not lost people Who are very close to me But I have lost people I love Of course Friends, relatives If we could take you back, Nancy and you see little Nancy who takes on responsibilities this little girl, you know the picture better than I do If you could see little Nancy and you could hug her and whisper only one thing in
her ear What do you feel she needs to hear? Bravo Why? Because... bravo that I am I'm proud of myself I did many beautiful things And even if there are people Who helped me in life a person cannot do everything alone But they cannot help me if I do not want to and if I'm not able to and if I don't have the ability and if I don't have the determination and if I do not have You know the will I want it On the contrary, I I have reached a very beautiful place and it
cost me exhaustion It was exhausting I mean, I maybe 25 years of fame and art along with the family I built and over time, coordinating between being successful in both and I achieved many Dreams I had since I was little and I achieved them and still I have more dreams I reached a place that I really love Of course, I'd tell her bravo, because she is the reason What is the most hurtful thing someone has ever said to you? that you haven't forgotten? More than hurtful words There are some behaviors I feel that it's a
person trying to tell me "So what if you are Nancy Ajram?" So, those are people I cannot get close to I cannot talk to them again That's it, only once As soon as I see them I know, I feel there is resentment in their hearts And hatred I don't like to get close to them Moreover, I feel that they have no self-confidence because when a person wants to break the person in front of them it means they have an inferiority complex Right So, I don't get close to those people because it's toxic So, I don't
like that I leave May God grant you a long life Nancy God willing If today were the last night of your life and you could not reach anyone Who is the person you would be the saddest about not being able to talk to? I can't answer Not one person There are many people who love me and they will be upset if I don't talk to them I would be upset to upset them There isn't just one person Who are the most important people you must talk to? or that you wish you had talked to My
first answer My parents, children and husband That's the first answer and everyone around me I used to feel always how loyal they were their affection their love for me and how they worry about me I consider them also like someone close to me Like someone I would talk to them too I would talk to everyone I work with my team I would call them because I know how much they love me and how much they worry about me Do you express a lot to your children about how much you love them? To your daughters? May
I tell you who else? Go ahead If there were like in one word or one shout To all the people who love me because I have a huge audience They need to hear a word from me before I go Okay Let's say, God willing you have a long life God willing With good health and with achievements and you saw your daughters grow up each one with her own personality with her own life one gets married the other wants to... you saw that and then you left I left, you mean I died? You passed away And
then Your three daughters know about this interview but mom is not here anymore But they know that in every period they go through that's difficult or a challenge they can go on YouTube and they can skip to this moment until this minute because they're going through a tough situation But they know about this The clip they always need to hear in any challenge in their lives So, they come and skip What do you feel your daughters must hear from their mom? After you're gone You're asking me something that's not letting me think, because it's affecting
my emotions I mean You know, it's not I can't Really think this way about this situation You know what I mean? They will hear that that life has to go on with all its circumstances I mean, they must be and if they want to let me be at peace where I am They have to carry on carry on and not think not think about anything that makes them sad In order to put them more at ease, they can think that we're all going to the same place This idea is a bit God willing there will
be there will be a reunion But the question is heavy it is not really a nice question to answer Why does it tire you? Why does thinking about this exhaust you? No, because There are things in life that you cannot really talk about and express so much Emotionally, You cannot You know, I think a lot about the relationship between me and them I mean, but when I go I worry about them You know? I mean I'm afraid they will miss me It's not a nice feeling to miss someone you love Do you get me? I
know the difficulty of longing You cannot do anything about it I hope they don't hear it now Okay That's it May God protect your daughters Thank you You too Your children as well Amen May I leave before them This this I don't want any change This it's how it should naturally be We must go before them, of course and it will break them but But I prefer it that way I don't think any mother or father should bury their children It's not how life is meant to be No, it's not not the natural order of
life Right I was going to ask you Are you because you had talked about awareness and that even when you want to be spontaneous, spontaneity comes as a decision So, you are a person Who is very much in control of your life A person who's very in control of their life is afraid of the things they cannot control Right because they are used to being able to control Right I'm afraid of the things I cannot control I don't make myself reach that point Are you very protective of your feelings? Do you shut down your emotions?
I mean, very much in control of your emotions? You don't show too much happiness too much sadness or crying Or are you vulnerable? I cannot always control my emotions No I cannot always control, and not in every place There are places you're forced to control your emotions at in other places, you don't you feel that I mean there's something stronger than you Look, I, I am someone who Is emotional I told you, I am natural I mean there are things that happen to me naturally but most of the time I can I can control the
situations I let myself be In full awareness that I need to be in I notice even when I talk to you about something sensitive you compose yourself and you adjust yourself Yes, because I told you You don't go deep You're afraid You try to pull yourself back but I didn't tell you something that wasn't accurate I want my heart to say it before my mouth I didn't tell you anything wrong I'd prefer not to say I know this, I am aware of that So, if I can take Nancy's heart and remove it and keep it
outside No, no, it is busy now You cannot take it No, hypothetically Okay psychologically we take Nancy's heart and put it outside What would Nancy's heart say to Nancy? Today What would my heart tell me? What my heart would say to someone without a heart? No, I mean Think about it as a question, I can separate the logic and mind from the heart as much as you have lived and have been through hardships and you have seen and loved and everything I take your heart What does your heart need? What does your heart want to
convey to you? If your heart could speak What would it say to Nancy? Look, I have become better I became better when I started in the beginning it was only my heart that worked All my decisions and all and all my stories they were dictated only by my heart But the more a person grows older The more their mind starts to work more I mean Wisdom comes with age So, now when my heart and my mind started to coordinate I became better because the heart is weaker than the mind And when I used to let
only my heart work I was weaker than now Now I can even my heart sometimes has a mind of its own So, my heart can say to Nancy that It's good that you're not using me alone Nice It's better that my mind is also Working with me they're teaming up so you can make the right decisions Sometimes, you know the decisions that come only from your heart are very often right and I I follow my feelings and I follow What my intuition tells me very often it turns out to be right But when my mind
works I feel that there is more balance, and more rightness So, that's what it would say And this thing, with every I mean, every year There is more wisdom Last question Nancy, in one word Nancy What does it mean? Nancy What does Nancy mean? This person If we removed your name this person in one word Impossible there is no word There is only one Nancy for me That's it But what does it mean? There is no word that can equal Nancy There is nothing you can say about Nancy Nancy is Nancy In everything with the
good and bad and in everything, Nancy But okay, let me change the question If you and I are walking and I tell you You know this girl, Nancy and Nancy is walking You're someone else Nancy is walking, and I tell you This friend of yours Nancy Who is she, in one word? What do you feel you'd say about her? If we saw her from afar but you know her well What would I say about her? Describe this person for me who's walking there on the street Who is she? In one word I love her I
know that you love her Describe her for me as a stranger I should describe her to you in one word? One word? That's not an easy question I mean, We have to summarize your whole being as a person in one word Human What does that mean? There is a good person and a bad person No, there is a person who is a human being and has humanity and a person who doesn't have humanity But I do not know you said “human” I don't know what kind of human I want one word No I am explaining
to you the type I'm telling you there is a humane person - when someone is - I understand a humane person it means there are so many things in them They feel for people a person who doesn't - does not do - Oh, humane Not human Who has humanity A humane person Humane, with ''E'' Right? Yes Humane Humane Or humanity I actually had another word What? Curious I'm curious? - We're done - Nice, nice Your answer is nice Thank you, Nancy Thank you Thank you!
