so if you look at 99% of men in the world today who are sitting in their bedroom late at night with the door locked and looking at things at the computer that they should not ever be looking at if you look at the reason of why they're all doing this it's because they believe that getting with women is so much harder than it really is what I'm going to share with you in this video is kind of like a cheat code that will allow you to make a simple change in the way that you interact
on a daily basis that will allow you to pretty much get any woman that you want on this planet so with that said let's get right into it now in the world of men and women there is a silent war going on that has been going on for thousands of years it's a battle that most men do not even know that they are fighting this is not a battle for money it is not a battle for status but something that is far more subtle and Powerful you see in every conversation in every glance there is
a test my friend it is a test that most men fail without ever even knowing it and the reason they fail is not because they don't have enough money or enough muscles it is simply because they lack the one thing that truly sets A Man Apart which is the ability to control his own emotions okay if you look around you'll see it everywhere you'll see men who crumble at the slightest challenge this is far more prevailing in the world today than it has ever been before we have more men in the world today who are
more emotional than they have ever been before and they're triggered at the slightest little thing that happens to them men who lose their temper over the smallest things men who get nervous and fumble when a woman throws them a curve ball that they didn't expect and every single time that they do every time they lose control of their emotions something happens there is a shift in the air there is a change in the dynamic so to speak between them and women and what ends up happening is ultimately they lose they fail this test and the
problem is that in the moment of emotional weakness they reveal the very thing that a woman fears most in a man which is instability okay never ever forget that now imagine the opposite imagine a man who no matter what was able to keep his cool imagine a guy who whenever he's challenged he doesn't react in anger or panic but he remains calm he remains cool and collected and steady women always notice this in a man why because that is the kind of man that they instinctively on a subconscious level know that they can trust literally
with their life it's not about being cold it's not about even being detached but about maintaining control over your your emotions okay now here's where things really really get interesting so this ability to control your emotions is so incredibly rare in the average man that when a man is able to demonstrate this it almost feels unnatural okay but in the best way possible if we look at one of the greatest conquerors of all time Alexander the Great now this man was not just a conqueror he was a master of self-control this is one of the
things that set him apart from all the other guys of the time now at the height of his power when his army was marching through Persia Alexander's closest advisers doubted his decisions they all doubted him they feared that he was pushing too far too fast but he didn't react in frustration he didn't react with defensiveness like most men would instead what he did was he listened he weighed their words and he remained calm now his soldiers followed him not because he was always right but because he never let his emotions betray him and that was
his real strength that was his superpower that was his cheat code if you want to call it that now from an evolutionary perspective this all makes perfect sense because thousands of years ago a man who could not control his emotions was a liability you see in times of danger back in the the old old days in times of danger Panic or rage could quite literally get everybody killed and women have learned to seek out men who are able to remain calm and cool Under Pressure because those men are more likely to survive it all comes
down to survival okay at the deepest level the core of Attraction it all comes down to survival it all comes down to a woman being able to ensure the survival of herself and her family her children so the men who could keep their emotions in check were the ones who always thrived they were the ones who were able to pass on their genes so it is quite literally built into our DNA it's built into the DNA of every woman to seek out the man who's able to control his emotions now if you look at psychology
psychology supports this as well you see women are drawn to men who are able to project stability because in a world that can be chaotic and unpredictable a man who can keep his emotions steady is able to provide a sense of security he becomes the quote unquote anchor in the storm someone who will never waver even when things get really tough and make no mistake things will get tough women will always test you women will do all kinds of things to push you they will throw challenges your way and most of the time these challenges
will come at your Peak they will come when you least SU ECT them they will come when you are at your best when you feel like everything is going your way that is the exact moment when a woman will throw you a curveball she'll throw you this test not because women want to inherently break you but because they want to see if you can handle the heat okay women actually do this to men that they are attracted to we look at these ancient stoics somebody like Marcus aurelus the Roman Emperor and philosopher now he often
spoke of the importance of controlling one's emotions and he said you have power over your mind not outside events realize this and you will find strength he actually wrote this in his famous meditations and this was not just a philosophy it was practical wisdom you see the thing that Marcus knew was that his ability and the ability of any man to remain calm in the face of adversity was what allowed him to rule with Clarity and purpose it's what allowed him to rule as well as he did now in today's world so many men out
there are absolutely slaves to their emotions they allow their anger their frustration their insecurities to dictate their actions okay if you look at the M the number one reason of why men are being killed in the world today it's over the stupidest things it's over things like road rage all of these things they all come down to your emotions it all comes down to a single man who lost control of his emotions and now he has killed somebody it's really that simple okay in today's world men are absolutely slaves to their emotions they allow their
anger their frustration their insecurities to control them and women can sense this they can see when a man is on edge when he's easily rattled and here's the truth that's really hard for a lot of guys to understand it's that no woman wants to be with a man who cannot control his emotions and the reason why is because this signals more than anything else weakness it tells her that when the going gets tough you are not the type of man that she can rely on okay this is why characters like James Bond are so attractive
it's why they're so desirable among women it's because they're able to keep their cool and keep their emotions in check when things get tough and if you're able to do this this helps to guarantee survival and women inherently instinctively know this this is why they search for men who are able to keep control of their emotions now on the flip side the man who is able to master his emotions becomes something different he stands out amongst a sea of men who are completely and utterly enslaved by their emotions and he's not reacting to the world
instead he's dictating his own terms he is making his own way he's pushing his own way through the chaos and this isn't just attractive this is absolutely magnetic okay any time that you are put to the test whether it's by a woman whether it's by some circumstance in life and you have the opportunity to show a woman particularly one that you like that you can handle the chaos in a calm and cool collected way without losing control of your emotions you should cherish this because every time that you can do this you are demonstrating it's
another opportunity to show women that you are not like other men this you are the type of man who has control of his emotions you're the type of man who's able to guarantee the survival of the woman that you like it's really that simple because in a world that is full of chaos that's becoming more and more chaotic by the day the man who has control of his emotions is ultimately the man who has hold of The reigns so the ability to control your emotions is kind of like a cheat code for attracting women because
it is truly a rare strength it is a rare trait that women value far more than most men even realize so on a daily basis whenever you are challenged by something whenever you're put in a situation which will be frequently where your emotions are tested where you're able to have the opportunity to show that you have control over your emotions that you do not lose your cool any of these moments where you have the ability to play the character of James Bond you should be happy and thankful for these moments because these are the moments
that will Define you these are the moments that will set you apart from the average man so you can avoid being the average man the type of man that women do not desire the type of man they do not want and with that said as always until next time my friends thanks for watching
