this video is sponsored by delete me a service that will remove and stop your personal information and data from being sold online use my link in the description and use code Wonder at checkout for 20% off ruining your life is easy it can be accomplished in 15 easy steps anybody can do it and that's perfect because doing things that anybody can do is part of step one one do the easy things always do the easy things now and save the hard things for later since it's always now that should make everything easy and nothing hard
simply put everything off that's arduous challenging or intimidating and you'll never encounter any of those things because the easy things never lead to harder more difficult situations two do what others do the best way to avoid hard things is to always go the pre-worn paths desire paths worn down by the stampedes of others feet are always there for a good reason because they are the easiest and shortest paths and the easiest shortest paths especially those in which everyone else goes are always the best refer to step one there is rarely anything else in any other
direction there is never any reason to stop and consider other potentially unknown or different paths plus going different unknown ways is scary and nothing good has ever come from facing the unknown you could fail mess up or need to return to where you started and that is of course the worst possible case three know that everyone is watching you of course whenever you do anything people are watching they're always focused on you waiting for you to mess up to say and do the wrong things their own problems their own self-interests and their own complicated array
of experiences perceived from the solitary Viewpoint of their head suddenly fall to the Wayside when you come around and do anything they care so much about you and they notice everything four know that everyone is remembering you whenever you do inevitably say and do the wrong things it's important to remember that not only will other people notice and care but they'll also remember and think about it again often most likely perhaps it will be at a dinner a weekend outing or an early morning at the office in any or all of these moments that one
thing you did that one time will surely come up and be thought of or talked about it's important for you to dread and ruminate about this so that you avoid doing or saying anything risky different or hard moving forward five worry often think about every little detail of every action and choice you make as well as every moment that occurs no matter how big or small then think about them again more importantly think especially long and hard about the uncertainty of the outcomes of your actions and choices and the events that happen regardless of your
actions and choices all the things that you have no control over and cannot change for the things that you're worried about that you can change don't do anything that would require work and likely be very difficult which is to be avoided refer again to Step One six don't take the risk whatever it is you're worried about can be solved quite simply by just not doing it by avoiding it by denying it by running away from it or by hiding from it all options work equally well here even if you have the means to leave stay
in that job you have for as long as you can don't start that new project don't say hello to that new person don't accept any invites to any new things the easiest way to never fail to never mess up to never exert and to never be perceived negatively is to never try anything risk never do anything new and never be perceived at all seven complain often if steps 1- six are not working for you complain complain hard and often you are a victim of Misfortune assuming you are following the process here you have done everything
right and nothing wrong not only are you a victim but you're a special kind of victim one that no one else can understand sure other people's lives are probably hard and they are probably struggling with the similar process but no one has your brain and your Misfortune and your brain and Misfortune are uniquely bad and like worrying complaining doesn't mean you have to do anything or solve anything it keeps things the same nice and easy eight always see yourself in a positive light you can't spell self-care without self and so put the self yourself Above
All Else rationalize your pitfalls as positives you are a good person a great person you would never do anything wrong or bad bad practice affirmations to remind yourself of this but just stop there so to avoid any sort of self-reflection or work that might be hard or painful guided or internal affirmations work equally fine listen to or think things like the following I am powerful I am fierce I am beautiful I am special I am great I make healthy choices I will do amazing things today I know my worth I am proud for the avoidance
of any confusion here note that you don't have to be or do any of these things you just have to think them the more delusional in fact the better Nine always assume the worse than others whenever someone gets in your way does something wrong or is inconsiderate to you in any way know that it's because they are a uniquely Dreadful selfish person and they are singling you out it's like a sport for them they are inherently bad they have all the right information about the situation and about you and they have no reason to ever
be impatient foolish short slow inconsist in the way or defensive there is nothing going on in their lives that could possibly justify any mistakes or behavioral lapses people are always considering and treating you as an important distinction from their lives refer to step three and so it's best that you expect this and be short defensive and impatient toward them 10 avoid confrontation no matter what anyone does be extremely nice all the time to just about everyone of course don't always mean your niess use the niess to avoid conflict confrontation and difficult things refer to Step
One this helps ensure that Everyone likes you and it helps you avoid doing anything wrong or risky this works great in conjunction with step nine because now whenever someone does something wrong to you like crossing your boundaries misunderstanding you and so on you can blame them and not you because you're extremely nice 11 don't reach out to people your isolation is a superpower embrace it as a good thing as part of your identity you're alone because you're so unique and complicated refer to step seven if you haven't heard from someone in a while don't reach
out they haven't reached out to you after all sure they haven't heard from you either but that's different ultimately an endless game of hideand-seek with friends and family is a great way to increase the distance and isolation you've already Justified to yourself as a positive and now identify with as a part of who you are 12 disregard time don't acknowledge or respect time don't waste energy getting ready early so to ensure you're on time for things that you agreed to be at by a certain time be late if you have to how you handle your
time is your own choice and it doesn't affect anyone else better yet don't even try to schedule things be halfhazard and careless and refer to this as going with the flow don't make commitments that might be annoying even if they might be important and don't follow through well on the commitments you do have having little to no responsibilities and obligations and not caring much about the ones you do have makes it easy to not do anything wrong or feel negatively about yourself 13 don't ever think about death death is far too unsettling to think about
sure it will happen to you but it's better to pretend that it won't live like you aren't aging like this isn't the youngest you'll ever be and like this won't all end forever put everything off don't undertake meaningful challenges and hopes of overcoming and becoming Outsource your decisions to the factory of others don't take risks that might lead to circumstances of Independence and authenticity let people slip away and neglect trying to reconnect or make new connections waste time by not respecting it deny responsibility and resist reality have everything right now and complain about it all
you have so much time you have so much time to do the things you care about to love the people you care about and to appreciate what you have you don't need to do those things right now time will stop if you pretend it isn't ticking 14 don't try anything different if steps 1 through 13 still aren't working for you don't try anything different don't try different ways of thinking or different ways of being don't experiment don't explore don't deviate don't dedicate any energy to new habits Hobbies or people stick to the process trust the
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