the principles of successfully she wanted define principle for you first the word prints principles from the word prints which means first and I want to bring this back to you because a principle has to do it the first law that was laid down by the manufacturer in other words the principles of relationship has to do with the original laws of relationships that were laid down by the manufacturer so we're gonna be dealing with God's laws concerning how to have good relationships so we're gonna talk about the fundamental rule of principle means that the base rule

the fundamental rules of everything that God created the foundation laws principles therefore have to do with the first fundamental foundational original laws established by the manufacturer which are created and designed to regulate the function of everything that's created when God created a woman and a man he also designed laws by which they supposed to function and relate to each other just like every manufacturer makes a car he designs the car he tells you it makes the car work if you follow the laws of the manufacturer the car works right if you create your own laws

you got problems like orange juicing the gas tank so we gotta learn the precepts we gotta learn the principles the foundational laws and what I'm teaching you it's not something I came up with last week sometime I week when I see people especially Christians falling apart in marriage I weep I say to myself this is so easy to fix but they know nothing they don't understand it they don't forget the debt on the information and so what they do is they just throw it away it's like having a car don't know how to fix it

so you leave it on the side of the road few dare to the relationships there are people who you break up with in your relationships years ago you know friends who was supposed to be a blessing to you but you know speaking of no more for the last 20 years and they supposed to be a blessing to you they can never get the blessing to you because you couldn't handle the human relationship that's how important relationships are gotta learn those principles just a statement here the key to life therefore is to live according to the

knowledge and then understanding and obey those laws that make life function I believe that the greatest problem in all of life including relationships is the ignorance of those principles you know my wife and I been married for 25 years and I'm even afraid to say this because people don't believe me but we never had a fight you know we have differences of opinions we you know we discussing an issue she give her opinion I gave my opinion but never a fight never raised our voice at each other for 25 years never had a a negative

thing to throw at each other and it wasn't because we were lucky is because of knowledge let me give a quick example you remember this okay okay because of what I know the knowledge what I have studied about women what I've learned over the last thirty years about females I mean research do you know that it is a principle that you should never say a negative word to a woman as a principle now how many men know that see you could think negative words about your wife but you should never say them now a woman

can say any kind of negative word to a man it doesn't affect him but vice versa you got hell to pay do you know why because he the principle is that a woman does not hear words we may not design differently from a man they don't hear words men hear words women don't hear words they experience words this is negative and positive yes that works he's your husband you go to work he's not treating you right at home he's telling you negative things you crazy you stupid you know fat ok you go to work and

the guy in the job says you're cute you fine you wonderful you see you guys couple problems going on here she's having a bad experience at home so going to work for her as a pleasure she can't wait to see that guy every day who gives her another experience that's why it's important for you to be careful what you say to another man's wife are you getting it see I can talk to you women in the church today I talk to my wife as innocent as may seem I am giving you an experience such me

so as a man of God I have to be very careful what I say to women that's why I passed us get in trouble make any man gets in trouble because they don't know the principle the principle is you whatever you say to a woman she feels it that's why there's so many acts of adultery so many broken marriages because you got men who are so ignorant of the principles that even when they mean well it turns into a deep well especially if the woman is having a bad experience at home so the man keeps

telling woman negative things any man that tells of positive things you know she doesn't she's not looking for the man you know she's looking for the experience so she likes to be around this man and of course that feeds his ego so he keeps on telling her the things that make her be attracted to him and then she confuses that with love now we got a problem in the marriage it does make it sense but it's all because of a principle that's one I taught you just one shows are complicated in this relationships you don't

need to be married to experience this it's a relationship principle that's why women always seem to be controlled by men if the man knows how to talk get it yeah and that's why you know a woman who ain't married going over the guy and the guy is telling all these wonderful thing she experiences what she hears and then one day he says I don't like you you know and she can't believe this man was to leave him what are you talking about you already gave me six months of an experience you called me on the

phone and told me my voice was beautiful like music you told me that I am lovely you know I got a good place at night and you kept stroking my experience and now you telling me you were leaving me see and the woman takes it so hard because she is about to lose experience to him so then she calls him dog I see a man is different he doesn't feel words he is different so he takes the word dog he analyzes it dog no no good ok so now she gets doubly angry because he supposed

to be mad he doesn't get mad so now it makes him more angry that he doesn't feel bad maybe she feels so she thinks he is cold hotness no you just don't feel the word that's why Jesus Alba tells his wife beautiful things you are the apple of my eyes I mean Jesus never speaks negative to the church he loves us so much he says I'm gonna raise you up on the third day on the last day and you'd be like a prior to Turin for a hospital I mean he says you are my jewels

and my crown that's why they feel so special to Jesus he just says good things to his wife she has an experience so men you learn an important principle tonight be careful what you say to your secretary gotta keep your limits that's a nice dress today that's all you meant if you married you shouldn't let anybody tell your wife more good things than you tell her every morning before she leaves you understand how it works because if she gets more experiences from other men than she gets from you you are in danger getting deep already

eh just get an introduction here tonight it's a principle what's the problem the tragedy is that we are ignorant of these principles and so we don't know why we cause problems sometimes a man would end up having sex with a woman that he doesn't love he loves his wife but he's been talking to this woman saying the wrong things at the wrong level imagine a husband who's married to a woman telling another woman you are the most beautiful woman I have ever seen that is dangerous because when his wife's supposed to hear that you know

what she hears she experiences that she's better than your wife right away so now you're in trouble cause she sees you as a tongue you are vulnerable far as you concerned she is more important than your wife you should never tell a woman anything that makes them more important than your wife because she experiences it [Music] you thank you so much for watching please remember you can support our work on our patreon page and you get access to exclusive content and full videos and please hit that subscribe button if you haven't done so and click

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