stop texting her like she's one of your boys you know how you text your buddies using shorthand zero courtesy offensive humor from time to time stop it guys just stop it instead do this welcome back Jessica OS here if you're new here well one big family with one matre feel free to go through my catalog of videos that have helped many men all over the world look around this just might be your new home just hit the that subscribe button don't forget to turn on notifications so you don't miss a single video when I post
so guys this is how women want you to text them number one use proper grammar and spelling now the world today where texting seems to be the preferred medium texting her while sounding like your texting one of your boys is a huge huge turnoff for several reasons the obvious one being she's not your boy plus you don't want to act familiar too quickly using proper grammar and spelling reflects on you it shows that you care about how you present yourself and that you respect the person that you're communicating with correct grammar and spelling make your
messages easier to read and understand miscommunication on the other hand due to typos grammatical errors or shorthand can lead to confusion or misinterpretation proper grammar helps convey the right tone and intent misplaced pronunciation or incorrect word usage will change the meaning of the message very often for example let's eat Grandma versus let's eat grandma illustr rates how punctuation can dramatically alter the meaning of something right this is not an English class but hear me out consistently using correct grammar and spelling helps establish your credibility people are more likely to take your messages seriously and Trust
the information that you're providing as well I think my point is clear so I'll suggest you generally maybe proofread your messages and it happens to the best of us typos right luckily some of these messaging apps allow you to edit the messages before you send them right and most of these smartphones have built-in spell check features so use them enable those features to catch common spelling mistakes and keep it simple too don't use words that will require her to pick up a dictionary to understand you number two respond promptly responding on time shows that you
respect her time you value her message okay quick responses help make the conversation flow really really smoothly delays on the other hand as you know will disrupt the natural back and forth of the com ation potentially leading to misunderstandings or a loss of Interest consistently responding in a timely manner will help you build trust and reliability people are more likely to depend on you and feel confident in that communication in your communication and really if it's not a good time for a chat just be honest about your availability if you're busy let her know that
you'll get back to her as soon as possible for example you could say I'm in a meeting right now but I'll respond to you as soon as I'm free if you can't provide a full response immediately maybe you could just acknowledge that you received the message a simple got your message I reply shortly will work it will reassure her that you've seen her message and will respond when you can many messaging apps also offer quick reply options or templates for common responses so you can use these to send brief acknowledgement or status updates when you're
pressed for time so let's say she sends you a message and says do you want to grab dinner tonight you could respond by saying hey sounds great I'm finishing up some work now I'll be free after 6:00 so let's meet around 700 that's pretty simple isn't it the third thing you want to do is to be respectful of her privacy guys and we really need to have this chat because some of you just don't know when to stop now when a woman shares information with you they trust you to handle it discreetly and responsibly and
I get it sometimes you may be too excited that you're finally getting the attention from her so you end up saying and revealing too much too soon to your friends and basically anyone who will listen listen I've seen this happen so many times word gets back to her and then she becomes so disappointed in you that she just dumps you like that stop taking sneaky screenshots of her on a video call and I know you do that if you want her picture ask for it everyone has different Comfort levels when it comes to sharing personal
information so you want to respect her privacy it means acknowledging and honoring these boundaries that she has remember to always ask for permission before sharing her messages or photos information with others for example say hey is it okay if I share a message your photo with XYZ right if you receive sensitive information consider deleting it after it served its purpose this reduces the risk obviously of the information being accessed by other people they know the internet is wild these days if she requests that you keep certain information confidential you need to respect her wishes and
do exactly that okay fourth thing you want to do is respect her time respecting someone's time when texting is essential guys be mindful of her daily routine and schedules if you're not sure what her schedules are like just ask avoid sending messages very late at night or very early in the morning unless it's absolutely necessary or urgent example if you know the person usually wakes up around 700 try not to text them before then unless it's an emergency this shows that you value their downtime and privacy consider the urgency of your message before you send
it if it's something that can wait it's better that you send it during regular hours for Urgent matters clearly State the urgency in your message example you can say hey sorry to text you so late but I need your input on this issue before tomorrow morning can you have a look at it look I've had a guy that I was getting to know text me at 4:00 a.m. 4 a.m. his excuse was he knows media personalities wake up early oh my God like seriously I was Gob smacked to say the least and I didn't take
him seriously after that don't be that guy be aware of cultural differences time zones if you're texting someone in a different region what might be an appropriate time for you could be inconvenient for them for so for example let's say you live in New York and your friend lives in London remember it's a 4 to 5 hour difference depending on the time of year so you want to take note of that and text accordingly now the fifth tip is to be mindful of your tone now texting is tricky without the nuances of spoken language the
intent behind your words can be easily misinterpreted right a wrong tone can unintentionally offend or upset her so what you want to do is use straight for language to convey a message so for example say instead of we need to talk for instance you can say can we discuss the incident that happened last week I have a few suggestions right emojis can help they can help convey your emotions and add a little friendly tone to your messages as well but you want to use them sparingly and appropriately based on the context so think about how
she might interpre your message adjust your wording sure it comes across as intended for example instead of why didn't you respond to me last night you could say hey I noticed you didn't respond to my message last night is everything okay also just in case you didn't know this typing in all capitals can be interpreted as shouting or being aggressive so use regular case to maintain a neutral or friendly tone example please respond ASAP can come across as demanding while please respond as soon as possible is more polite all right guys we're almost at the
end of the video last tip I have for you is to be patient okay patience they say moves mountains people have varying schedules and commitments granted being patient shows that you respect her you understand that she might not be readily available when you're impatient you'll be tempted to double text which can quickly become overwhelming patience demonstrates consideration and respect for her which helps maintain that positive healthy relationship if you need to follow up do so politely and considerably a gentle reminder can be effective without being pushy for example you can say hey just checking on
my previous message when you have a moment can you let me know your thoughts on it now if the matter is urgent consider if a phone call might be more appropriate than than waiting for a text response for example you if you need a like an immediate answer for a time-sensitive question you can go like hey I need a quick answer on this can I call if you expect a quick response communicate this clearly and politely this sets clear expectations without coming across as demanding example could you please get back to me by the end
of the day it's important for tomorrow's meeting all right so these are a couple of texting rules that you need to keep in mind whenever you text women if you want to be good at this woman game then you got to do it right and yes you're welcome I'll be more than happy to share more information with you on the channel in actual fact take a look at my big catalog of videos and see what suits you watch it and it will change your life my name is Jessica OS thank you so much for watching
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