¿Quién eres cuando nadie te ve? 😶‍🌫️ Conferencia Enric Corbera

We are going to spend a while, it will be uncomfortable why am I going to touch the shadow And, it will be uncomfortable for you, for a very simple reason Beacuse our ego our ego, is the one that lies Our shadow always tells the truth Our ego projects in the shadow, the evil Ok? Therefore, we create an identity and that identity, with which we obviously identify ourselves We have beliefs, we have cultures in definitely we have all the information That we are aware, but there is all information that is in our unconscious Are we clear?

Then the ego always is, the great enemy of the ego is, the shadow Therefore, they are going to be uncomfortable for a very simple reason, beacuse we are going to take the shadow for a walk. but getting the shadow out for a walk what we want is to integrate, it is so that people recover, that energy that we all possess Therefore, one of the things that I have, I always have to take care when I talk about the shadow Is that when I allow myself to release the shadow, that gives me a lot of energy

It gives me a lot of energy, to such an extent it gives me energy that if I don't take care to take care of that energy It turns out that it will possess me, then the shadow when it comes out, well it comes out and it loves to go out Are we clear? Therefore I am going to touch very common things very normal and I ask you accept your discomfort I already ask you to observe Beacuse in short, we are going to bring out the dark side of you What the dark side, does not mean

the bad side that from the bad side, or from the dark side Is a thing of ego Are we clear? Are you following me that entry? Stay with that essence, Therefore leaving Eden is fall into temptation that there are good things and there are bad things Are we clear? So if there are bad things, those bad things like we hide them but the fact that we hide them does not mean that they will disappear but the more we repress this energy There will come a time that will manifest itself in our lives When are we

most resistant to allowing, to controlling that energy and giving it an outlet in the moments that it is necessary to give it an outlet it will not possess us ok? Everyone knows or has heard of the novels of Stevenson, Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde and he is doctor Jekyll, because he is a doctor who wants to eliminate evil this is the big mistake The great mistake we humans make is that we want to eliminate a polarity which we believe is evil, but curiously there is another part of society that has inverted values Are we clear?

And therefore, each one sees in the other the demons that he does not see in himself. Jesus said so, we see the straw in another's eye, and we don't see the beam in ours and that which is said and spoken, well as it is very beautiful but what I intend today, this afternoon with all of you who are here accompanying me, is that when you leave here, leave as like dizzy ok? Let them come out that they don't know anything, I'll tell them if they want to stick needles in me, please I beg you, do

it you can't imagine, when people stick needles into me, the strength they give me They have said it, Shanti Devi, Goethe, when they had an enemy, it is the most fabulous thing that one can have Why have an enemy, it means that the other polarity is getting mad at you Therefore, you are and the important thing is not Get rid of the enemy the important thing but bless him, because he is the one who is giving you strength It gives more force, a slander than a praise if you know how to manage it. ok? We

will continue Well, today's talk, basically I'm going to give some examples ok? I'll talk a little about what the psyche is like How is divided into shadow personality I will talk about that mythology that exists since the beginning of time who is always talking Ok? and later the last part will be how to... manage the shadow ok? Become aware of how it is expressed with the subtlety that it does, with that subtlety that that seems normal, ok? and I already tell you now not to feel guilty So do not hold back that something bothers you

a lot Are we clear? because this something that bothers you a lot it has to do with you Well, do not worry, now we are going with the examples and this is over and each one already, I see that someone is taking notes and each one is passing the notes and want you to take it here and if not, how this is going to be uploaded to youtube you can review the conference, which I advise you to watch several times Why talk about the shadow It is not a thing of, how beautiful, no, no, apart

from talking about shadow is something that I have been doing for many years ok? and it is one of the things, that when I began to meet my murderer To my rapist, to my carcamal When I met him then I realized of the compression you have on humanity that really cannot be explained, in fact Carl Gustav Jung tells us That knowing the shadow is the way to peace Therefore, in order to be at peace with ourselves we have to put ourselves at peace with our shadow Is this becoming clear? this is today's proposal is the

proposal we make in our conference, therefore all the examples that I am going to put are real, they are real examples the facts specifically, such I'm going to start with A lady that he goes to his daughter's house, to see her and it is quite uncomfortable for him to go to his daughter's house why is your daughter really what would be the opposite or the complementary of it to start with, your daughter has cats and that woman doesn't like those cats at all and your house smells bad ok? y es desordenada ok? that lady Check

how much you like your house to be clean than when you have a clean kitchen ok? Before cooking she says, what a shame, I'm going to dirty her always says, how clean it is is a polarity So when that person consults me, I tell him, is that you have your daughter's dirt in the shade Me? Why is one thing, say, this house is dirty Follow me? that, you don't have to be very smart it's an observation Smells bad It is something that we can verify I do not like cats Follow me? And everything begins here

and everything ends here. Do you understand what I want to explain, right? Another thing is that thing remove your guts and above the daughter asks, since you're leaving, take the garbage the unconscious says, I can't get the I mean, I explain, what the shadow of this lady would do is, take a broom and pim pam, pim pam, pim pam and she's left it all clean, but of course This he cannot do, but her shadow does want to do it. ok? It is information that you carry in your unconscious And that daughter is showing the other

side of the coin Are we clear? then take the trash Let's say with more disgust than pleasure And when is he going to throw it away, he is going to throw it away as they say in Latin America is going to throw it into the container the lever slips and hits his hand what a coincidence, right? Yes? What a coincidence, right? You are right Therefore I repeat, it is not about saying oh no, then comes the famous asshole oh no, I already know that my daughter is like that, yes, yes, yes, yes, and everything you

want, but the shadow Has manifested, then when does one really become aware of that watch What's behind of this...? What history do I carry? So that you have I was so upset how I like tidy things, clean things and such etc and have a daughter who is complementary Are we clear? Then one has to start inquiring Another story which is also very normal, is that man that goes around the world, they are all true stories It goes around the world, what happens is that I am making them short who goes around the world and the

whole world Wow, what a nice man! He's a man who goes around the world and the whole world oh, oh, oh that man, so and so but when he gets home scream he fights with his wife He tells his wife that I don't know what, he messes with the children or he screwed up I don't know how many, do you follow me? And when that person, in the end, that woman, lights up and says, to the asshole that one who goes with his holy mother ok? Well, then people say, ouch! How is it that you

divorce this man, so handsome, so nice and so nice Are you following me? Therefore Are we clear?, I'm talking about a prototype narcissist The narcissist is an extreme of polarity is a person who, who does everything well Are we clear? Does everything well and everyone else, they do it wrong it's a disorder Are we clear? But of course I always say to the other person, what were you thinking the day you married this? Well, you weren't thinking of anything All this, that you are to blame It has to be seen that I am carrying some

guilt That are not mine either Are they watching? We continue, another example He's obsessed with food I follow, for example no, no, I have to do that kind of diet, I have to eat this, this yes, this no that's it, yes, ok? Well the shadow is gluttony The shadow is Gluttony, people and I know cases that, strict with what I have to eat and drink vegetarian, macrobiotic whatever and one day suddenly, they see themselves eating a cow Do you follow me? The shadow comes out If the shadow does not come out, if we do not

know how to manage it obviously going to own us Are we clear? So when I am very strict on This is what I have to eat, because if I eat this, I am more spiritual. Are they following me? that is good, eating the other is bad. Are you following me? And they will end up eating the other then they will feel guilty that's what I'm talking about For example, another polarity women now also men, who fix their breasts, once yes, again no, the ass, whatever, it seems very good to me that they fix but when

there is an excess in that we are in that those women and their shadow, deny femininity And they usually have mothers who maybe they told you When you were little, don't be a whore watch her who are you going with Where are you going dressed like this? Do you follow me? okay? Therefore, in the unconscious that is hiding, but in the end this femininity You must go and comes out she goes to mass and does a lot of things, then she has his lovers okay? Speculate As they say in Mexico, scrub her employees Are you

following me? It's the dark side the topic is not that You can have the beliefs you want, it would be missing more, but do not believe them Why if you believe that you have some beliefs, you believe that your beliefs are better than that of others you are going to create shadow Attention to the peoples who believe they are chosen by God because they are going to create the shadow, who will want to destroy them How's it going? I am touching points I said that I was going to give, I have warned Because that touches

us all I mean, look at the world of religions it's paranoia God is with us no, God is with us and they will not find out that he is with everyone. Are we clear? Okay? We continue, envy Envy, when someone is envious of another it is because he does not recognize that he also has that quality and one way to recognize that quality is to envy the other, but The envious, as he does not recognize that quality in him wants to destroy the other if I do not recognize I mean, if I really When someone

tells me, hey, I'm envious of this, what can we say? What a healthier envy does that give me? When you say, what healthier envy does this give me automatically to give you that movement, that emotion you have to know that you have that quality and ask yourself Why aren't you developing them? What beliefs do you have? What have they told you? when u were little ok? very good, how lucky to be able to speak looking people in the eye, even a few Truth? very well for example, a very typical My partner wastes time Does this

ring a bell? My partner wastes time What do you think it is, what is the shadow? You don't spend time on yourself, or yourself Are we clear? My partner wastes time If it bothers you that your partner, I don't know I'm going to make it up that your partner is stretched out on the sofa watching what I know or touching their noses and it bothers you It is that you or your shadow wants to be also doing the same, but you do not allow it we will talk about shadow beliefs this afternoon which are the

ones that really condition us in our life Shadow beliefs that make us act in a certain way okay? very well We continue. so, I'm going to put a full real case all of them are real, so I'm going to put full So that it remains, I recently had it and I said, look at this one it suits me like a glove. ok, it's next, it says, a girl comes to the consultation Well, twenty-nine years old, well, I eat I already have an age For me, twenty-nine years old is a girl, but she is already a

woman of course, also considering that that our son is thirty and he has made us grandparents and if I don't say it I'll burst well someone has to say it comes and says What is your reason for consultation? I don't want to get pregnant, I don't want to be a mother She told me Well ¿Y cuál es el problema? and says, that I have become pregnant first, when we have a query someone says, I don't want to be a mother and I got pregnant A neuron goes off that says, attention, attention, Houston we have a

problem, Houston I don't want to be a mother, but I'm pregnant well i say And your couple? Ah no, we live together and he is delighted very well and what else? Do you have money problems? No, no, no. we work and we both earn a very good living Can you tell me what the stress is? stress is point here I don't know how to tell my parents, bang, bang, alarm again I don't know how to tell my parents, I said, I'm sorry? you are twenty-nine years old you are living with a partner you work together

you share a life and If you don't want to be a mother, Well there are ways to avoid it therefore, here is the shadow acting Are we clear? What happen? There is a shadow belief I can't be a mother, not being married Are we clear? She does want to be a mother but it turns out that her mother was exactly the same when her mother got pregnant not being married That was a great stress the stress of getting pregnant not being married Are we clear? that was a big problem for her mother Are you following

me? And she carries this information I don't want to be a mother, it's not true that she doesn't want to be a mother Whoever does not want to be a mother, is my conscience and I say it consciously, I do not want to have children Is that I don't want to have children OK, that's fine with me, I always tell them But what is behind, I do not want to have children? I don't know if I'm explaining what I mean Therefore in the end, what resulted is that She wanted to be a mother obviously and

the shadow acts acts in such a way that she has sex, and does nothing to avoid getting pregnant, therefore this is the shadow that manifests itself Is it becoming clear? Yes? that is already a very normal case It can also be the opposite, which is, I want to have children and I don't have them Are we clear? and no matter how much I do, I don't get pregnant Therefore, there is an information that you can not get pregnant, the shadow in that case is, you do not get pregnant because there is a lot of pain

and a lot of suffering Is this becoming clear, family? we go on then then they are there and they will all be known I think, they are the creeping people that says Stanford in The Sun, in the book Encounters with the Shadow, that is, it is extracted It's drawn exactly how he says it The speech of creeper people, creeper people are those people who are always asking others for help Everyone knows, yes everyone has a friend, a friend or knows someone, are those people who are always asking for help plus if you don't give it

to them automatically they or they, they qualify you as being a bad person Are we clear? Obliously in her unconscious, in her shadow is, the value and sincerity are. but as Stanford says For those people those qualities are diabolical Why are they evil? Because they are have some shadow creations, in which they are based on rights, how many people do we know who live on rights and little on duties? How many people are there waiting for someone to solve their life? Are we clear? When people come to our consultation we meet creeping people, who wait

for you to solve their lives when in reality we only accompany them to become aware and then make the decision they want Are you following me? Is a woman It is a case that I have also had recently she is a young woman pretty and and her query is I don't want to have sex with my husband How long you been married? six years and we see that there are situations in which, she has rejection towards her husband but she is still with her husband, to such an extent that there is rape in the marriage

Are we clear? Obviously there is a stress here I am summarizing the case, it was very fast, there is a stress and then they decide sleep in separate rooms but every now and then she goes to their room to have sex Does anyone understand something? she is possessed by the shadow the shadow has to manifest and the shadow it was a shadow belief inoculated, introjected by grandmother And it was summarized with the following sentence You have to put up with men because the important thing is the family Are we clear? And we are talking about

the 21st century of a young woman a woman who has studies and is subject to a man, but man is the one who that's what she thinks, he's really teaching her Therefore, as we can see now i hope all of you go into your world and begin to realize That, the best way to know your shadow, we don't have to go far, we usually sleep with him or her or we work with him or her or are our friends or our friends or our acquaintances or simply like the case of a lady that they are

two old ladies and they're talking about where she lives and the lady is super angry super angry, but very angry because is setting up a Chinese shop the chinese, they put up a store not a Chinese shop, but the Chinese put up a shop But I do not know or can you imagine, to what extent she is angry and the friend says she says, well the girl who rented the place to her must be very happy and that they didn't get her out of here and the friend says to the one who is angry. remember

that I also have a place, rented to some Chinese well, and they didn't take her out of here I don't know what prejudice that lady must have with the Chinese, but I do know perfectly well that this lady is very catholic, very apostolic, very much like going to mass, but you can see that he has forgotten about the trials but here's a prejudice, when we meet, therefore in situations That like they are, very visceral ok? Attention that our shadow is manifesting ok? Alright, we go on, therefore I read verbatim, Stanford says they are always asking

others for help justify their demands and if they do not receive help, they do not hesitate to say that they are bad people in its shadow, nest the courage and sincerity very desirable qualities but they don't express them But in front of these qualities the subject feels threatened, for him they are diabolical qualities Therefore I repeat when someone, for example sees someone who is very generous obviously that bothers them. To who? Do you follow me? It always bothers them, that's why when you do anything and Someone is bothered by what you are doing you have

to realize that, in front of you You have a wonderful opportunity to know yourself understanding that, what is removing that person, also has to do with you and I will give an example a person complains that you have a friend who is very irresponsible but like this, it's very, very, irresponsible and she says to me sure, you explain that if she is, very irresponsible I am also very irresponsible but I am not very irresponsible, I am very responsible notice that I am responsible, that I take care of their irresponsibilities Does this ring a bell? I

say yes you are very irresponsible with yourself What is your friend doing? Well, She is going for a walk going to have a few drinks with her friends And you? I take care of things Are you seeing, how does that work? yes the fun of the shadow. Knowing the shadow is what bothers you is to start doing it too To experience it, this is how the shadow integrates What would happen? If one day I spent a whole day playing softball What if one day you come home and do not quarrel my husband. that is not

in place. What would happen? What if the other did that and you don't? Are you following me? What if, one day I leave the house? and the beds are not made the dishes are dirty And I go out. I am explaining simple details to manage the shadow, I'm not doing any melodrama, ok? No melodrama am I explaining, simply how to manage the shadow what I want and i think i'm getting it here comes a lady who wears white with her little eyes she has little eyes that are saying everything, yes darling you can guess the

smile under the of the mask, you can guess the smile because her smile is the expression of the shadow that is, the shadow Manifests itself before a drama and is so dramatic that, laugh I am explaining small details, everyday things, I am not explaining any drama to you I want them to become aware, they express themselves the shadow welll, and you are laughing since i started. I have tried to pass the microphone to you, but I kept for the moment to pass the microphone to you, it is that since I started you are And that

she wears a mask that you only see up to here, up to here but is he really smiling So her smile is the manifestation of her shadow is realizing, but has to cover all that drama and smiles Are we clear? Ok? Alright, we go on then the conference says, what would happen when someone does not see you or when someone does not look at you which is exactly the same what is clear is that our psyche as explained by Karl Gustav Jung consists of consciousness, the conscious and the unconscious Okay? The conscious is 5% of

the psyche more or less and the unconscious 95% and within the unconscious is found and it is not that it occupies the all the unconscious far from it, is the shadow That was a discovery of Karl Gustav Jung and in the shadow it hides everything they have taught us since we were little That can't be done, that's wrong, etc., etc., etc. and therefore the shadow is being created throughout, what is our intimidation process, and that begins to manifest when we are between two and three years old Are we clear? And that is accumulating, accumulating, accumulating

and accumulating. And that's right and that's wrong, don't do that, don't say this That is the swear word, they have realized that the children tell you, Do not say that swear word! It is the one that they remember all their life you just need to tell a child, don't say that word that that word do you remember? "In sæcula sæculorum amen". Because we pay attention to it. Do not do this and it's what you want to do, you don't do that, you save it. or someone, when no one sees us when nobody looks at us

we take the shadow for a walk An exaggerated example of what I am explaining is, for example, those ladies if they have to go to throw away the garbage they can't come down with a gown or there are women who, if they go out into the street, cannot go out without having their hair combed and without being well painted. I mean, we are so used to giving an image no, we always have to give that image So we are a party of hypocrites We are constantly giving an image, when our mind, our psyche is divided

in two which are the personality and the shadow Are we clear? Or the ego and the shadow, the personality in Greek, it means, Mask Therefore, when did we go out into the world we show ourselves to the world if I am a rebel, if I am an anti-system How am I going to dress? If I am a prosystem, how am I going to dress? I mean, my way of dressing is the antithesis what I attack, do we agree? But, in my shadow, I want to be in that place A super tight person his shadow is

to be, what's more, when we are on vacation he says The first thing they do is take off their tie, take off their jacket, put on shorts and live with slippers all day, all summer, because the time will come that I have to put on the suit Am I explaining myself? that is very normal but it is, what I'm explaining Are we clear? People, a Californian is like that in fact, in California the the biggest ideas you can meet a director or with a millionaire and it seems They wear short shirts and go to a

business meeting Are we clear? In California, in Los Angeles, you never date who you have in front of you don't know who is ahead because its image is not giving you any sign and backwards people who are wearing many things and behind everything is dead. Are we clear? it is not obviously not to groom, not to dress, or to have surgery you can do whatever you want in your life but In the end, realize to what extent; I remember, a case of a lady that when she got divorced her mother said she was a whore

not even so wide the lady Are we clear? and then they are I'm going to touch more points, and more serious, eating disorders, which as explained in the book I think psychoanalyst Kim I do not remember her name Kim Chernina, or something like that Kim Chermin, who is a specialist precisely in eating disorders, she realizes that Has an article called, The Dark Side of the Mother-Daughter Relationship where there is anger, there is guilt and where really, that mother as she has an envy and jealousy of what his daughter is to such an extent it is

so, that she projects on her daughter that she does not let her evolve as a woman. and I know very well what I'm talking about because I have had five sisters with eating problems of varying severity and one died of anorexia and I can assure you, therefore, I have had a mother I have had a mother that I reproached her, I am the oldest of ten siblings I had a mother and i recriminated her, and i said, mom Why did you get married? you would have to be a nun she was praying all day and

I, more than once I remember taking a little brother of mine and taking him to the church next door. that she was visiting God that God will be pissed off if he is not visited, that you see him and I have taken the child to herand I say, hey, it's okay that you pray to God, but he is hungry Are we clear? And I became aware that my mother never hugged me nor did she ever kiss me well my father neither But he was nicer Okay? But life gave me a mother lmother consolation a nun

then you realize how polarities and shadows work a nun, who is like a mother and a mother who is like a nun. Are we clear? And I told her, why didn't she become a nun and instead the other day I was telling my wife about it and right now I feel her like she's here I was four or five years old and when I decided to marry my wife the first thing that came to me is to introduce her to my mother. And which mother was? ah, you can talk. yes stronger. to the nun. I

am aware of that but, I told my wife we go to the church of Monserrat, which is where I was born and we got there and I didn't see that lady a lot of years But, I had that need and then I got there and was not there, because her mother had become ill and she was with her mother. but, I told the one who attended me, tell her that i have come a man who was a boy that he remembers the words she said to me she always told me, Oh my boy, how much

I love you! and she hugged me, and I see myself, I reached her here. she was grabbing me by the legs and I can still smell her cassock Do you follow me? I can still smell his cassock instead, I don't remember a hug from my mother but life is like that. Therefore, you have to know how to capture that Always in our lives, we will always have the polarity, but we are such assholes that we want him to be the one who loves me Are we clear? We want it to be that one, It's not

that these do love you, no, that one then we are in the fraction mother and daughter of, I love you but I hate you with you but without you, are you following me? does not evolve, does not grow women who have problems being women Are we clear? Who have their femininity kidnapped that the shadows of my sisters, there was one who got married pregnant and another that was partying all day In short, they were and the eldest son got divorced, the day he told his mother that he was divorcing almost gave her a patatus. Are

we clear? that is, she had ahead in her shadow. Are you seeing how that works? I am explaining a very particular case but it really is The other day with my wife I was telling her, I had that I relived that experience, no When I am preparing the subject of the shadows This starts to giggles up, the shadow gets very happy then When are we talking about those two images that I am telling you? and the famous phrase from, you have to keep up appearances. Yes? watch what they will tell you watch what you do

does not affect your family. Are you following me? Ok? I don't know, plus all the social norms what do they teach us how we should behave, therefore, we have two faces The face we show the world and the face we hide and those two faces, one is the face of innocence the kind person that's why I don't want to go the hypocrite you go where you don't want to go you do what you don't want to do smile when you don't want to smile you pretend you listen when you don't want to listen you dress

in a way when you don't want to dress i like their faces even if I only see their eyes, I like their faces You're following me, aren't you? And of course, all that is creating a shadow and there comes a time that it comes out. When do you think the shadow appears? Okay, everything is assembled, when do you think the shadow comes out? It is not an exam, you can say what you want at night or when we are alone? the other side, what do I do when you don't see me? Are we clear? And

in the night the night has precisely that connotation and at night things are done that are not done during the day Are we clear? and it may be a person who seems I don't know what during the day and at night it seems I don't know how much. Yes? And one of the things that releases the shadow is, drink alcohol that's why people say drunkards always tell the truth Are we clear? for example I, that conference is mediated my me that I show to the world does not allow the shadow to say everything I think.

and it's not about offending anyone otherwise, I am explaining the power that we all have And i'm explaining it knowing that I'm moving feelings, emotions beliefs, guilt But I'm doing it with all my love to realize, to what extent, we are trapped in that personality in our shadow beliefs, are you following me? Okay? And how really that has to come out Yes? the beauty is not talking about something do not speak, you can speak, but you do it without attitude without criticism but, observing human behavior Do you follow me? If Antonio is arrogant Antonio's arrogance

bothers me, but the blood doesn't go to the river, I don't know if I'm explaining yes Antonio is a loudmouth and his screams bother me, obviously Either I'll tell him to calm down, or I'll manage what happens with Antonio's screams, I don't know if I'm explaining what I mean but the blood will not reach the river therefore, one of the things then I will go into detail on to what extent the shadow is showing and I want you to become aware that the shadow is always manifesting looking at things commenting on them showing your dislike

Showing your anger Okay? I know that we have many opportunities right now, we just have to put the television on, I no longer put it on, the television and on television I only watch what I want to watch Why, why am I going to dirty my mind if I am going to have to clean it, right? I mean, I see, I look at the world and I realize that the one who thinks white wants to load the one who thinks black, the one who thinks black wants to unload the one who thinks white and then

the stories begin for, finally, but like this, the world works Very good therefore let's go over something very important the shadow never lies the ego always lies We see that in the bioneuroemotion consultations When someone comes to make a consultation and we start the investigation, they are all lies they are all lies and justifications and explanations of yes, for what, why, for what. Until in the end we really find the reason to come out that girl who told me she didn't want to sleep with her husband she started by telling me, it's not that, I'm

very indecisive What What do you mean by that? Well, I don't make decisions, yes I know, that being indecisive is that you don't make decisions but, in relation to what? it took five minutes Well, I have a conflict with my husband very good, this is already important we have already advanced, I have a conflict with my husband, well and what is the conflict with your husband? five minutes more It is that we do not understand each other, it is that we do not communicate, lies, they are all lies In the end she said, I don't

want to sleep with him, that's already clear now, ask yourselves How many justifications do you give yourself in your life, to maintain situations that you do not want to maintain? I am from all over the world So I have not found anyone in my life to nobody Nobody virgin to nobody How many explanations do we give ourselves? to maintain a situation that I do not want to maintain and then we don't understand why we feel bad and then we do not understand why I get an outburst, an anger, some screams that do not come to

the story when yells and anger come out that don't come to the story and that happens to all of us. Do we agree? is the manifestation of the shadow How are you, everything okay? You can say what you want How are we doing? Good, well fucked that's what I pretend, the word I want to hear, dizzy because I'm not talking about extraordinary things I'm talking about everyday things I am explaining to them and almost always people think that talking about the shadow is... They look for "Dr. Jekyll, Mr. Hyde, we kill women", no, no, no,

no lthe thing is much simpler we are always here, I ask this question to everyone What situation are you putting up with that you don't want to put up with and are you justifying it? and you are getting a shadow belief, among others What do you say to yourself to keep complaining? to the government or whoever it is or your friend because you tell her to help you and your friend has sent you to brawl What are you doing? Ok? We follow, therefore, what I said the ego is always the one that determines, what is

right and what is wrong, therefore in different cultures obviously there are some things that are fine things that are wrong, and in other cultures it is the other way around, Are we ok? A very clear example of the shadow is that, if there is an all-out capitalist system, there is an all-out communist system. Are we clear? It is always so always Remember the analogue of the magnetic field? Ok? When Adam and Eve are in paradise paradise is a state of unity, that is, Adam and Eve do not exist as separate things that is, Adam and

Eve are potentialities I mean, we all have inside us the possibility of manifesting ourselves in two polarities Are we clear? Forever, and that always has to be like this Therefore What is the point of maximum energy in an electromagnetic field? The center Where is heaven? in the middle heaven is knowing how to play with the two polarities what Buddha called, the middle path Are we clear? therefore be in the center is knowing how to manage these two polarities and always decide who you want to be, but you will never go against any polarity Therefore Everyone,

for example, or many people, wants life to be easy, is that so or is it not? Yes? You are screwed easy roads don't go far the teacher is not born the teacher does himself the difficulties are what make the way and with a phrase that I read the other day the storm is always in favor of the sailor look what way of thinking difficulties are welcome why are they teaching me something an overprotection of a mother with a child, it weakens me An abandoned child is stronger than an overprotected child an extreme polarity is that

a woman does not allow the man to educate his child Are we clear? and then we complain that there is violence Am I playing? But we are all mothers and fathers Are we clear? Today i was with my daughter and our granddaughter who is five years old and she was fooling around with the food and women know how to manage that the polarity of women I'm not saying that a woman can't have that male polarity, I don't know if I'm explaining myself and I told her, without getting angry well, if you don't want to eat,

don't eat but, you will eat again at dinner time I mean, you're not going to say you're hungry in an hour of course when she hears the man speak, in this case her grandfather, which is me, with a smile, I don't know if I'm explaining myself neither scolding her, nor angering her, just by saying well, don't eat but you don't eat again until dinner time What cannot be, is that you have the plate on the table and you do not want to eat and then you want to eat something else, no, no Either you eat

that, which grandpa thinks is very good or you eat it later Then she stares at me I don't like that And do you like that? Yes, well you eat that and has eaten it her mom, I don't know what, I don't know what, eat, I don't know how much, no then both polarities are required therefore, in raising a child there has to be the female polarity, of course and there has to be the male polarity, of course they are polarities that complement each other, but not. are we clear? I have lived a polarity where, the

mother was never and the father was always working This is how I came out of smart Are we clear? Are you seeing how this works? Therefore, I am not talking about extraordinary things, I'm talking about everyday things, about things you have to look at how our shadow is manifested in the small details If I get angry, and yell at the table, what is coming out? The shadow, the shadow comes out and think, but you are managing this energy You are not attacking the other, I do not know if I am explaining what I mean things

can be said in many ways Yes? very well One of the things that we have to understand Now we are going to touch a point that, that is going to sting, that point is going to sting I warn you, that is it is the spiritual ego in fact, Carl Gustav Jung explains to us that there is a permanent dance, between the light and the shadow Between the personality and the shadow, there is a permanent dance as I was explaining to you, right? So, Jung said, one does not enlighten by imagining lights I'm going to meditate

with the light of her, Germain the violet one does not light up Imagining lights one lights up, says Jung working the dark for you it is in the dark where the treasure is found you don't fix your life, making positive affirmations I'm pretty, I'm pretty, I'm pretty and the shadow tells you that you are a donkey cow start exercising, do you follow me? I mean, this is very serious When we fall into the spirit ego trap, this is fine this is bad we fall into the trap of rituals And never, let's forget a thing the

problem of good and evil is that I decide what is right, and I decide what is wrong but when I love the most, Saint Paul said When I most want to do good the more I do what I consider to be wrong that was what Saint Paul used to say and already, realizing that when I tried the hardest to do something that I thought was right but there was a force that drove me to do the opposite Therefore we are already entering A very important subject, that we will be touching those delicate points but, those

are points that we live every day, ok? Is that becoming clear, family? Yes? We continue then they have taught us from a very young age, what I have been explaining to them, the decisions they have been taught that there are things that sin does that's fine and this is wrong in my case that I was born in a Religious fundamentalist family I have always explained that I still remember that it was the time of Lent We will talk about Lent, don't worry, don't worry in Lent you couldn't eat, I was then three or four years

old and I was hungry and did not give me a snack. and I still remember the anger that the priest gave my mother, why does it seem that she went to confession or she went to consult him and he was there and said, the child has to eat what was he explaining but this really look at the drama that I experienced that I remember as if it were yesterday Ok? And I still remember that I was sitting With one, at that time, you only ate chocolate bread and there was nothing but chocolate bread and that

was already king ostia And the chocolate made me a ball Because I couldn't eat it I don't know how I came out so well, from all that history well then When else do we fall into the trap When else do we fall into the trap that, that's right and that's wrong we are more asleep Ok? To be asleep or to be hypnotized is to be polarized Are we? Very well And when else do we ignore this, when more do we ignore that dark part of us, and it is dark because we have cataloged it the

most alienated mind is. And sooner or later it will manifest and it will show itself so when someone is doing something in front of, I'm going to make it up in front of a group of friends, that we are all we are the world's most spiritual groups, called JK I'm making it up and we are all there gathered and we sing and we hug and we kiss that we eat, we do not eat, we touch each other or we do not touch, or we touch each other a lot or we touch nothing, that is depends

on the groups when we are alone what do we do? All the opposite and I've seen that like this. but when nobody sees us Everything that we have repressed it ends up showing that's why it's called, the dark side of the psyche dark not because it's dark, but because we don't want anyone to see it Are we clear? And I repeat, the more polarized, the more force the other has I mean, when we show a face the most take what you want from our society we all have our dirty laundry But dirty laundry is a

judgment. Do we agree with that? for example, it comes to me is that I have many examples, it comes to me A girl who tells me, Enric only you can understand me, well, let's see well yeah yeah What happens? I understand with four men or with three and I asked her the question, do you all four know? and she tells me of course, well, I already knew. of course, what do you want me to tell you that is wrong? well I can ask you how you do it but that's already curiosity I do not know.

No it's just curiosity, I don't understand how you do it and after a while another comes with the same story. What's wrong uncle? He says, "is that I'm dating three women and I don't know how", and I say to him, do the four of them know? as he replies "do you want me to get killed? one is managing the shadow, the other is not Are you seeing how this works, right? Therefore, it is not about of what they do or what they stop doing the problem is not what they do or what they stop doing,

the problem is that they make a judgment about what they do or stop doing and that can be in anything in our life Are we clear? For example go to a family meal when you don't want to go, simple thing like this. What are you going for? then the whole string of ego comes out to justify, but yes when we get home, what do we do? we show the shadow and how we show the shadow I tell you? Have you seen that one? Have you seen the other? Here, they have done the same details as

always, you have to see, I don't know what shadow, what the hell are you going for? It sounds to you, right? And we force ourselves to eat, or to be or to talk and then when she leaves what a pity that woman was She always tells us the same asshole. We are talking of one thing, that the shadow loves Do you know what it is? The gossip and criticism When you find yourself gossiping Or making a criticism of don't be mad at you take paper and pencil and write down the gossip, because it has to

do with you Have you seen that? She is more whore than chickens I'm sure she fucks the boss, well, you too would like to fuck her, asshole. otherwise, it wouldn't bother you. Do you understand me? I mean, during the day it is a situation and well, as it is over Are we clear? but when we enter the trial, when we enter the criticism and especially when we make a group there, the shadow comes out Therefore, become aware of all that I'm not saying don't gossip nor am I saying do not criticize But watch when you

criticize and watch when you gossip and you will see what you can learn from yourselves. It is about that, I am not saying do not do this or do not do the other because you would fall into the same trap that is, it is about becoming aware of what acts I am doing in my life Are we clear? Believing that these acts are going nowhere, when they are really creating a shadow, do you follow me? And that shadow, sooner or later is going to manifest itself in my life or in my life ahead, or in

my life in my corporality and in everything that I experience. Are we clear? One of the things What they say in the course of miracles is that, any little anger any symptom, however slight of pain, is your desire to kill and murder and he also says, I do not tell you that you do not have that desire I only ask you to observe it and that's what I'm asking of you today that they observe that wish, when is that my sister-in-law, is that when I see my sister-in-law she gives me a I don't know what,

she goes up here and out there and I say, well, perfect very well embrace this feeling Embrace that emotion, embrace this rush you got what are you watching? and what we criticize us, is what we do not allow ourselves to do Because otherwise, we would not criticize it And this woman, taking every opportunity, and you would like it, jerk. Are we clear? it's like that, it's that simple calm that I have more, do not worry and Jesus said so the Gospel of Matthew, specifically 23:17 says the following, with the words of Jesus Woe to you,

scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites why are you similar to those whitewashed tombs on the outside that looks beautiful but, inside they are full of dead bones and all filth it is a parable, a phrase, a teaching That comes to tell us that, we show ourselves the face that we show to the world, the friendly face, the happy face, well dressed, oh how nice! Oh how nice! And when I get home, I fight with my wife, I give my son a wack. Do you follow me? OK or I start to criticize the neighbor, or I shit in

I do not know what and such and what. we look shiny outside and rotten inside And now, I ask you all a question What I just said, everyone lives, everyone. and it is not worth saying no, he is my husband no, she is my wife no, no, no Very good therefore The shadow in mythology the tree of knowledge the tree of good and evil, I have a lithograph here of the archbishop of salzburg where is it seen, the tree of good and evil, which is also the tree of knowledge and you see the virgin, to

Eva, dressed as a nun and the naked Eva dressed as a whore, both grabbing the same fruit from the same tree, she giving them to each other. Why do you think it is called, the tree of knowledge? Because, we understand that it does not exist, The nun and the prostitute, let's agree that they are two polarities I have already explained the case Are we clear? Then how Anthony De Mello would say. Paraphrasing Anthony Mello in his book inner self-liberation, It says that the prostitute loving men will find it to be God, that a nun turning

away from men return to God, therefore, if we are in the world we have to be in the world, therefore prostitution and celibacy What has it led to the Catholic Church? the prohibition of having sex, of being celibate, what has it led to? You can answer What? to abuse, to pedophilia, are we clear? Therefore, they should manage celibacy, When we are in a polarity the shadow comes out and manifests itself on the other side. always the shadow, it will end up manifesting and as Ken Wilber says in his book, consciousness without borders, to the extent

that we resist to take awareness of this that I am explaining Are we clear? To become aware that that, I am always projecting myself and I am seeing in the other, what is in me what I like and dislike, as I resist that that sooner or later, will end up manifesting in the form of a physical symptom And the first symptoms are depressions, anxieties Are you following me? Are we clear? Because the shadow has to come out and the shadow will always come out it will always come out it will always manifest itself to us,

therefore the moment we begin to integrate our shadow, which we will now talk about is the last part of the conference you will find that it will give you incredible energy and you will realize to what extent, when you know your shadow, the strength and creativity that you develop Jung calls it the value of the shadow, therefore the tree of knowledge, the tree of good and evil that's it, mythology So when do we separate the bad from the good We are expelled from Eden Do you follow me? and we're in hell, and we don't know

we want to go back to heaven, but to go back to heaven it's not doing anything special it is simply to integrate our shadow therefore, from the tree of good and evil arose, Cain and Abel the good and the bad Are we clear? More mythology in Egypt, Osiris fertility, Seth destruction in India, it is the same, Brahma creation, Shiva, destruction Greek religion, knew and respected the dark side of things and They made the famous bacchanalia in homage to Dionisio Are we clear? ok? Today, that figure has become Satan, we continue the Catholic Church proposed an

etymology of carnival, which in Vulgar Latin means carnem levare, which means, abandon the meat Ok? and this is meat for Baal and Baal, is the dark side, the devil Are we clear? Therefore When is carnival celebrated? Before lent What is celebrated in Lent? You do not know? The resurrection of Christ you know nothing lucky that I am, to explain it Well, I was educated in that and I have transcended in that, therefore, take a good look before we go from a polarity, that is, we go from an excess, are you following me? we go to

another excess but then it's done to make up let's do the carnival first To later do Lent, very well How does this work? Well, another, the Muslims to celebrate Muhammad's first appearance in the koran celebrate Ramadan Yes? Do you know what Ramadan is? I can also explain it to you if you want Do you know or not? Well I explain They fast during the day and eat during the night and they eat from 9:20pm to 4:30am they spend seventeen hours without eating Today, I accidentally realized that I do Ramadan every 2x3 because I have a

healthy habit, because my biology accepts it. And which does not mean that others have to do it, which is, many times a month my last meal of the day is, at noon I don't eat again until breakfast, and it's sixteen, seventeen hours but I do it for health, because my body rests and rest, but when the night comes we drink a glass of wine, we have to take out the shade at night, the glass of wine and such, then yesterday I said to my wife and my sister-in-law the day we understand that the most sacred

act that exists Is having a glass of wine with an angel during the day and a glass of wine at night, with a demon that day, we will be in the Kingdom of Heaven angels and demons they are the same energies working in different polarities this is wisdom this is wisdom yes darling yes It is all connected, it has shocked you, but it is like that therefore, I do that tribute at night ok? for example, in many conferences I always say Your holy motherfucker And one day a lady tells me, Oh, I don't like it

when you say those words! I tell her, first I say holy. because one of the problems that exists in the world is to believe that all mothers are good Do you follow me? Your holy mother, the mother, the mother must be demystified what I mean is that, you have to put it in its right place and the father, maybe he should be honored are two functions that are very necessary and that complement each other neither one is better, nor the other is worse when we polarize, oh, is that, how do you yell at my child!

Yes and you can tell her, and how do you protect me, this asshole, that he is going to be a fool Are we clear? So I tell mothers, because children go through mothers first Are we clear? So take care of it The most sacred thing there is, is that you you have to be in the highest place no judgment and you have to be in place more putrid, no judgment then you will be right in the middle Am I explaining myself? This requires habit this is not for tomorrow, this is not the shadow Can't release

the shadow all of a sudden because the shadow when there is a wonderful movie that I recommend that everyone see that it is from a monster in real life and the shadow, we see that child that always, that is, when there is a child that others mess with Oh poor boy, they are bullying him! So and which, but the question is What is this child projecting? or Why do the other children come in this, in doing this? Well of course, there we have a child we watch the movie, where he feels tremendously guilty he feels

tremendously guilty because somehow you feel guilty about the death of your mother, do you follow me? If you have already seen the movie, he always has the same dream That the earth is ending, that he loses his mother etcetera, etcetera and that punishment, that information it shows and they punish him, because he goes around the world as ignoring the world. He does not integrate with others, he does not do the same nonsense with others, I do not know if I am explaining myself automatically others realize I am not justifying anything i am saying how it

works we have a boy who is really trapped And when he can't take it anymore, the one who bullies him every 2x3 tells him now I have realized that What you want is for us to beat you up, because if we don't beat you up, you don't exist and that touches him. If I don't beat you up, they don't see me therefore, one of the things that we do and it has to do with today's conference is that I am doing everything possible so that you can say it louder, stronger so they can see me

we do things so that they see me we have a compulsive need to be seen, don't you believe it? Take social media someone shows their ass and the nets burn This is shadow Why do you think the networks burn? Morbidity on the roads There is an accident, everyone standing there watching. Are you following me? that's the shadow is the shadow there was one that says, he ate some lizard claws and he died, and everything to show and have likes, and so that the world knows that I am here. I am here for you to become

aware and observe the worlds and stop looking outside, as the cause of everything that is happening to you Realize that you are information and that you are constantly projecting and nothing happens, we are constantly projecting ourselves, but observe what really bothers you What really bothers you, this is what you have to inquire Where does that come from? or when in their life partners, it is that my husband does not know what such and which, for example a shy woman who complains that her husband always talks. my husband always talks, we are in a meeting and

he never stops talking And you? It's not that I don't speak, well someone has to speak you are in the other polarity Are you following me? Ok, very good, we continue we are going to enter the shadow, we are in the last part of the conference Well, I have more or less done many things, but we are going to recap this, we are going to look for the exaggerated anger ok, I recommend that you take paper And put on a sheet exaggerated anger do not write anything, you will write exaggerated anger and you remain silent

you will automatically see how your mind will manage justifications, I don't know what and what pero es igual What is it that makes you really angry? And when I say exaggerated anger, I do not mean that you start screaming, but what bothers you a lot ok, very good, the other linguae lapses Do you know what lapses are? is to put a word, I have here a phrase that is true that is please a man tells the doctor a man is at the doctor and says please don't give me any more receipts because I can't swallow

them Please don't give me more receipts because I can't swallow them that man has financial problems he is stressed out with financial problems And what I wanted to say is, please don't give me any more medications that I can't swallow and said, don't give me more receipts when a person makes a slip of the tongue, they don't realize it. Have you never seen television announcers, who say things for others? What would I be thinking to say those things, the slip of the tongue what i said before criticism, gossip and above all Have you noticed? About

what people need to go out at night Why? Because the night allows you to get drunk do what you don't do, dress the way you don't dress during the day the night It is time to go for a walk, the shade. notice that all the excesses and all the problems that there are, occur by the The problem is not that one cannot go out at night is that people say Ah so we can't go out at night! Yeah sure you can go out at night I have a glass of wine at night and toast to

Baal I don't know if I'm explaining myself? now it's time. Until my sister-in-law knows, hey, let's get the shade out a bit! So we take things out of the day that have caught our attention and we speak them But, we speak them without judgment, I don't know if I'm explaining myself. we spoke them without, then I have realized that This has to do with me, we get pissed off and I don't know what and I don't know how many, that's healthy Are we clear? That is very healthy, a good exercise What we do practically every

day thanks to confinement it's an exercise in, well it's 8:30 at night, it's time to toast with the devil then, alcohol disinhibits the shade the need to drink is, or to get high in extreme case, is the need to release the shadow Are we clear? Therefore, when one is more abstemious, more abstemious, more abstemious and that is not and that is not and that is not, rest assured that this is going to come out. therefore when things are done in moderation, now we will talk about that all things when they are spoken in moderation, I

am going to anticipate a little in ancient Greece, in the time of Delphus He put nothing in excess man know yourself or know yourself nothing in excess and what was actually taught Delphus, I don't know if you know, it was the temple of the god Apollo where was the oracle and indeed what the oracle said that she was a virgin Well, she was consulted about politics and so on, then what the oracle said it's like the god Apollo speaks through Delphus There it said, nothing in excess, what does that mean? What I am explaining to

you this afternoon nothing in excess when I really decide, that I can only eat that and eat that and eat this because if I don't eat this, but this is so and so, I'm going to fall into the other trap. Do you follow me? I am creating i'm blocking Gluttony, for example ok? The same with sex, the same with all the everyday things therefore nothing in excess and it is precisely in the temple of Delphi those who entered the temple, always said the same thing I told them, know your Lust know your gluttony, know your

rage know your anger, know it know it, you have to know it. ok and then, manage it nothing in excess and when you are in nothing in excess You know how to say, up to here, enough I don't know if I'm explaining myself If you are in, no, no, not to a thing, when you do it, it owns you Yes? Therefore, it is very important for example vigorexia It is another excess, it is very important to know how to be Well, today I don't do anything, or today I'm going to eat I'm going to eat

things that I don't normally eat, I don't know if I'm explaining myself, we're playing with the other polarity it's like exercise, you can exercise every day but there must be some days that you don't Are we clear? Ok because it is very important to manage the two polarities vigorexia, which exerts a polarization of and good and each time they are more swollen what is the polarity of anorexia The two have the same value, they are not valued what they find like this, they are not valued as men and women with anorexia, who curiously are practically

all women they are not valued as women, in fact they have problems with menstruation, etcetera, etcetera, I have lived that I have lived it in my case, I know it very well. I smell them right away, of course How can I not smell it? Are we clear? practically a sister died in my house Ok? And she didn't want to see her mother, our mother It was a total rejection Thus. an anorexic woman as Dr. Kim says who is a specialist in eating disorders she is used to being a mother who projects on her daughter Well,

everything that could no longer be then there is like a sacrifice There is like a control, a possession, what do you do with who do you do, who do you go with, who do you stop going with what boyfriend do you have, I don't like that one, then there is I mean, that woman cannot carry out the individuation process she can't unhook himself from his mother. Do you follow me? And then we find us that we have people who have many problems with food, because food and the mother is a symbolism Are we clear? It

is a rejection, rejection of a food is something archaic obviously and I've seen a lot of people with that story practically, obviously there are other factors involved, but this is present. and that doctor in the book, encounters with the shadow explains it perfectly, besides, it explains how I have lived it, therefore I very much agree with her and we have those two polarities Is that becoming clear, family? Therefore it is very important Well, do something crazy one day, is it clear or not clear? Okay we have to give way to Baal today we are going

to party Hey, and if you, one day you want to sleep with someone because he's handsome, well, look today you're going to be a whore. nothing happens. I don't know if I'm explaining myself, in the end it's about that it is about knowing how to manage the two polarities It is clear? very well here I have one one that came to the tired, I stayed with his phrase Comes and says I don't know what I would be thinking when I slept with that boy and ended it for confessions the same and you weren't thinking, you

were possessed by the shadow it looks like he was partying she was in a party and she found that boy and found herself in bed but he went to bed, she with him, not him with her and when It finish and the thing has calmed down, she looks at herself and says What am I doing with this man, what am I thinking? and also without taking precautions, and I say, it is your shadow. We were working on prejudices and information, etcetera, etcetera but I kept the phrase and put it because, many times many times, the

shadow manifests itself and shames us for example, are you you're at home, someone says something, you go out and say And who gives the hell to say anything to you! And when did you just say that, you say Sorry Hasn't that ever happened to you? Me. Has it never happened to you? well, if i haven't read it before, later you come up the stairs, you come out toads snakes and crocodiles by the mouth, right? Okay Because that was me from before, it happened to me I remember perfectly with my first wife, I was not yet

married to her, we were in classes of who would later be my brother-in-law And I don't know what happened to me, what my mother-in-law had to do And I got up and said, is what when I was younger it was all visceral well, the table stayed as if a layer of ice had fallen, and then I, the shame arises, but of course I came from a family I'm marrying my wife, the one I have now and the first thing she tells me We normally, every Sunday, every Saturday or every fifteen days we go to eat

at the house from my parents, All right, I think it's fucking awesome. What do you mean? That I'm not going. And why, are you not going? He says, man I leave one family to get into another, come on, come on, come on. then she told me, no, no, if you don't want to go, I'll stay with you if you want to go, you go but i'm not going or when I go, it will be because I want to. That, in the end my father-in-law understood. one day at a party he told me this is my

birthday. I have already understood you Enric The only person that I know is here because he wants to, is you the others are supposed When have I seen you enter, I have said ole, my son-in-law he is here, it's because he wants to. Ha, I say yes, if not, I would not have come, yes I already know but I would not have come, not out of spite for you simply because you did not feel like it. I would have called you another day, congratulations, etcetera, etcetera Is it becoming clear? Therefore, the proposal that I am

making to you is, if you want to find inner peace if you really want to feel at peace with what you are doing you have to put yourself at peace with your shadow And how to manage the shadow. we continue I have already talked about that, of the temple of Delphi look for the shadow anything we want to change anything we want to change in us or anything we want to change about others, okay? Anything that we are afraid of, or that we are going to do hey, I never heard that here anything that makes

us angry, I have already explained that and whatever we refuse to accept It is that I, this did not happen here, is that I, before dead than that, does that sound like? I before dead, than this, take the dead and nothing Ok, I am teaching you two ways I already know that I am giving a lot of information I would stay here for hours talking about it, but I have my limited time, I am also in time, on time, ok? but, as Carl Gustav Jung told you and reminds us the shadow hides a great treasure

in fact, when we connect with the shadow when did we really start to integrate it your energy rises, you can not imagine you can't imagine the energy, the creativity increases a lot You see everything very clear and another very important thing besides, connect with the shadow the shadow is the guardian of the threshold of our unconscious if we want to connect with our essence, with our divinity We have to go through the guardian of the threshold. Does the guardian of the threshold ring a bell? The guardian of the threshold it is precisely the shadow and

the shadow will not let you pass if you judge it therefore one of the things when I accompany someone in bioneuroemotion when I accompany someone People tell me, how can you know this about me if I haven't told you anything and I say, why have I put myself at peace with your shadow, your shadow lets me pass And then people tell me things and they tell me, I don't know how I can tell you that. Yes, I am very ashamed, but with you I am not ashamed and I tell them why your shadow lets me

pass because I'm not making any judgments, that's why we say as a companion in bioneuroemotion, I am a person who develops a innocent perception Are we clear? when I tell a person, well, fuck someone and you bustle, they always smile and say, what's up and I say, Is very funny how you say it, you say it like that everything is normal, I tell her, it is normal Is that, the problem is that you put it as bad, but you do not want to say you're just taking too long. Am I explaining myself? so this that

experience, it fills you so much gives you so much peace then it happens, a miracle which is the only miracle that exists is that you go out into the world and you don't judge it do you understand and you understand its dynamics and you realize, where is the suffering of the people And the suffering of the people is and everyone knows it but knowing it is not going anywhere Is that, we are doing things that we think we have to do, And we're not doing the things we thought we wanted to do with a little

like San Pablo and that generates suffering 'Cause we are trapped in shadow beliefs, we are trapped with those prohibitions which are actually a lie Therefore, the problem of the world is that we always go through the world is I have to show one face and I have to hide the other and luck that the parties are at night What is allowed, wear a very large neckline, show your back, half ass and such but it is normal, that if when it is time to be in the bank, suit and such we look like two different people,

doctor, jekyll Mr. Hyde Ok? very well Ken Wilber. I have already explained that too and the encounter with the shadow always the encounter with the shadow it is usually middle age, how old you are. normally, why? and I'm going to explain it to you because as Jung explains our journey In the dream world of duality, I mean, in the dream world of duality, that is which is not real, ok? we come out of being of the unit, of the self Ok? we enter the world of duality to experience ourselves, what we are but to experience

what we are, we have to live the experience of, not being the two polarities then it arises, good and evil, etcetera, etcetera And it has to do with a process where I really have to live that issue of separation and have to develop my ego, etcetera, etcetera, etcetera. but, there comes a point that you have to return home And when we return home which is middle age, thirty-five or forty years Well some of them are still eighty and still pending but that's apart then there is a crisis the crisis, before the crisis of the forties

was said, it is the same, there is a crisis and in that crisis, if we know how to understand that in that crisis it is precisely when the shadow is really knocking at the door Are you following me? it wouldn't be a crisis, it would be Come on, a resurrection, to me it's a resurrection when do you realize that this existential crisis it really is the opportunity to start managing all that, in fact the Metaphysics or Hindu philosophy It is planned this way, it divides the age of the people in the first part of life

raising children, I plant a tree I give children, I plant a tree I write a book, that this is education and when in the second part of my life I retire to a monastery and dedicate myself to my spiritual life or to finding myself It is a way to return, we do not have to go to any monastery, that is clear. ok, it's about going on living but already understanding that in that second part of your life you already begin to give the relief to the generations who follow you, your children I, for example, the

institute, yes, it bears my name but in fact I do not direct it I have passed it on to the next generation which is what it touches. I'm not that I'm back or retreat, I'm back I'm back home, but I'm back home I am precisely in the age of wisdom I'm explaining, I don't owe anything to the world I have already given everything of myself to the world, but I keep giving and I'm teaching or reminding people that that we are magnificent beings that we are divine beings and that precisely in the hell that we

are living It is because we have decided to divide it between good and evil, when there is neither good nor evil In fact, evil does not exist, there are only people so disconnected from themselves who do evil. because they are disconnected from themselves, who are so trapped in their shadow that are so polarized that they express themselves in such a way But never forget that there is always the legal evil and the illegal evil Have you noticed that? Haven't you ever seen that? Are you not in that world? There is the legal evil, that we

are holy wars I mean, those who are legally are in good and those who are not are evil, sorry. And we keep dividing the world and someone has to start to integrate the two polarities And this is the work i'm doing therefore, when I speak of the shadow, the only thing that I pretend is that people stay in peace that they do not stop doing anything they are doing, but that they ask themselves if what they are doing is what they want to do and if the answer is yes, go ahead, but first watch your

justifications there is a lot Because I have seen, people who have justified that they rape them and that they hit them, they have justified me and say sorry watch the justifications therefore, a way to know that information is simply to observe your projections which is the best mechanism that exists what I see that I like, that I dislike, have to do with me. So when we start to do that we really start to get at peace with ourselves things that used to bother me, bother me less Before I did twenty thousand trials per minute, now

I make ten which is important lower the streak of judgments, then you realize that you are calmer you will not like that or you will like that but You will understand that there has to be left and right, there has to be one polarity and there has to be the other because this is how the world works, no more, no less Okay? very well therefore, the repressed shadow in the end will always end up manifesting as I had already explained to them and I have put an example here very good, I've had it for a

long time but it's for me it is paradigmatic, I feel that it also shows How a person came to find balance and was not conscious, that is found the balance and was not conscious and came to the consultation maybe that query, if not ten years old, fifteen I've been with that for a long time and the consultation is the following, a girl comes who could have thirty-five or early thirties, ok and had a developed breast and the other did not ok? she told me, I only have a developed breast and it is the right not

the left and I asked her well, you are right-handed, such and which very well, then I ask him, what is the environment in which you have lived? The environment when you were little says, yeah, well then, we were three brothers and me, the little one. And my father was always playing with my brothers and he didn't play with me, so I wanted to play with them and she did everything, everything her brothers did, that is, she was a girl who became a boy ok? Therefore in her unconscious, she couldn't be a mother she couldn't be

a woman, which she obviously was that force, it was accumulating throughout her life until he came to the consultation, because I felt that it had a symbolic meaning that I had not just guessed, I said Man, I don't understand, a right-handed woman, the left breast, is for breastfeeding ok, and you want to have children? She said, I don't have a partner. and I say, well but I see you well, I see you balanced so and so, I say, what are you doing in your life? And answer me That day she was like this, for the

day she was wearing her jeans, her shirt, sneakers she walked like this, okay? Gym teacher normal in a boys' school, she was the gym teacher and at night she went to a center that did the dance of the seven veils. In other words, during the day she had a polarity, and at night she took out the shade, and when I told her that she was very feminine, you do the dance of the seven veils at night, which is when it is time to step out into the shade and became aware And said Thank you and

she left, I just made her aware but she didn't have any more stories, why? Because she gave it an outlet You understand? She gave way to her femininity and curiously it was a very erotic femininity erotic in the proportion in which femininity arrived, I do not know if I am explaining of course, when she stayed like that she said and that I always remember about this case because it is a really paradigmatic case, it is a case that summarizes what I am explaining to you Are we clear? very well Well, with the following integration, I

have made a summary here When we realize that, we begin to learn to relate, with ourselves In other words, the first person that we have to treat well, who is it? to the first person you don't have to judge, who is it? the first person you have to criticize, who is it? the person you have to take care of, who is it? This is how it has to be, we stop blaming others we stopped looking for the cause of our problems outside we become aware that they are in us we assume our responsibilities Ok? We

renounce the ideals of perfection and exigency Ok? We learn to live an uncertainty, which is to learn to live in the here and now and, letting it flow to see what happens in our lives and above all, we are going to develop a sense of humor, why a sense of humor It is, the best way out, that the psyche has developed to release the shadow ok therefore comedians they are an escape valve from the shadow and the comedians are very good, the good ones, because they know how to play with the things that people do

not say, that they do not do, they have the grace to take it out and people laugh and in short they are laughing at their own shadow Does the phrase sound familiar to you, laugh at your own shadow? this is the best advice I can give you when you find yourself saying, how do you think to do that ?, you seem silly, or you seem silly Stop for a second and laugh for a while very good, above all the shadow theme, give it time give it time, the subject of the shadow, you have to start

well with the shadow, manage the shadow, at first it stings But then, it's a lot of fun to release her, okay? It is clear? Very good therefore I have already talked about that example too I have put a few moments for reflection I am already finishing, I am going to make a recapitulation of everything I have explained Besides, I'm on time, it's two hours, yes by recognizing our own projections we free ourselves from guilt and shame we are aware that we create inherited information, which is manifested in our lives And in this way we heal

our relationships and this is possible, because we heal the first relationship that is the most important with ourselves the work with the shadow, is a work with the soul I am paraphrasing Jung the work with the shadow, is a work with the soul Jung in the "Encounters of the shadow" says, I prefer to be a complete person rather than a good person, it is more Jung when he was meeting a friend would say, Hello, how are you, has something bad happened to you? Why do people, how do they tell you? All good pulling, bullshit So

Jung was going straight, something bad happened to you something that has bothered you so and so, even if it makes a happy face, ok? And Robert A. Johnson tells us heaven and hell are only separated by an act of conscience and it also goes on saying, the place where it joins, the light and the dark It is where miracles arise, this place is called mándorla, mándorla in Italian means almond which is a parenthesis found in many church friezes and an image is put on a virgin, a Jesus, that is, when the two polarities meet is

when your mind really enters a state of virginity of purity, of no judgment, ok? We're? that's what that means and Jesus said If you allow what is inside you to manifest, that will save you, more if you do not do it, this will destroy you Okay? And to finish I'm going to put a phrase about the peace of from Sen kim in "Encounters in the shadow", that says if we wish peace We must begin to demystify the enemy stop politicizing psychological phenomena recover our shadow, dedicate ourselves to studying the thousand and one ways in which

we deny, alienate and project on others our selfishness, our curelness and our jealousy, and finally understand in depth how we have unconsciously created a belligerent psyche and how we have disturbed the innumerable varieties of violence Thank you very much, this is it.