You NEED To Be A VICTIM To Actually Change “Reality”

It doesn't matter how much you want to materialize money, how much you want to get that career, doesn't matter how much you want to get that promotion, more clients in your business, a healthy relationship. When it comes to manifestation, awareness is of the utmost importance. And unfortunately, in the realm of manifestation, people don't spend enough time centering awareness to the things that they should really Center awareness to. And I say this as somebody who's literally hired by NFL players, professional footballers, Hollywood actors, seven, eight figure entrepreneurs. Because what I'm going to show you today is

so important that this is actually the first thing that I take my clients through because I can't help anybody get to their desired reality. And you will not be able to get to your desired reality until you come to the conclusion of the one thing that's been Holding you back without even realizing it. And it's funny, we can read all these books, we can do all these meditations, we can do all these visualizations, but for some reason it still feels like at every step we try to take forward, we're going 10 steps back. And it's

really because of this. And it this is the puppet string that's being pulled that you're unaware of. Vibrational self-sabotage that leads to the distortion of the frequency or the State of consciousness that was seeking to maintain which makes it difficult for our reality to enter in. Now probably seen a title as a video. You're probably thinking this what the [ __ ] is this [ __ ] talking about? This doesn't make any sense. But here's the thing, and I say this as somebody who's worked with a multitude of people and people are all the same.

So, if you haven't done this one thing that I'm going to take you through in this video, it's going to Make sense why things haven't changed. So, just relax. You're going to get some. As you can see, puppet strings, a version of you. You don't even You don't even know what we're talking about yet. Things are being repelled. Right. Right. Right. Right. Right. Took me a minute to decode that. >> It's real vibrational self-sabotage. And see, the funny thing about self-sabotage is most [ __ ] don't even realize they're self-sabotaging. None of us do. But

here's the thing. If what I take you through in this video resonates to any degree, then the light bulb moment that you're going to get is going to last you a lifetime. >> People are saying 100 mil or dinner with neural knowledge. >> Okay, that's just that's just ridiculous. That's just that's just ridiculous. This video is actually of high importance. And I say that because quite Literally when clients hire me to help them materialize what it is that they want, this is the first thing I take them through. Bear in mind the first thing because

without this, think about what you're going to learn today, like the map. It's all good in knowing where your desired reality is, but if you don't know your starting location, you possibly can't be directed to your desired reality. Imagine somebody trying To link you. You send them your address and then you're like, "Yo, where are you?" And they're like, "I don't know. How the [ __ ] can they get to you if they don't know where they are?" And that can be extrapolated to the entirety of the materialization of your desired reality. Because if you

don't know your starting point, which most most of us don't, not only do we not realize our starting points, where we think our starting points are, is actually very far from Where it truly is. And I'll show you Cool. Cool. Now, in the realm of self-help, typically there's this idea of not being a victim. Nobody wants to be a victim. But what if I told you being a victim was the only way to materialize your desired reality? Now, before you think to yourself, "What the [ __ ] is this guy talking about? Just let me

land. Relax. You're going to get some. Just let me Land." Now, see, nobody wants to be a victim, which is a great thing, right? But the bad thing about not being a victim is that some people, and we likely see this in our parents, we have friends and even aspects of ourselves, we don't want to be victims so bad that we actually begin to neglect aspects as oof is o we actually begin to neglect aspects of our lives to which we were victims. And I say that to say that I need you to understand something.

The most important book you will ever read in the realm of manifestation is the previous chapters of your life. And I say that to say oftentimes it's very painful to go to the past. So often people will use this badge of honor of I'm not a victim. I'm not being a victim. I didn't go through trauma this and this and that without actually coming to the conclusion that you actually did because an inability to see aspects of your life to which you were a Victim or the experiences that you went through will lead to an

inability to know where you are. And an inability to know where you are will make it very difficult to get to your desired reality. We have this tendency of not wanting to be victim so bad that we actually become ignorant and neglect ourselves. And the irony of that is if you are ignorant and neglect yourself, Then you're ignorant of the frequency that you're admitting to the universe that is leading to materialization of your reality. You're ignorant to the state of consciousness that you're dwelling in, which is also materializing into reality. You're ignorant of your self-concept.

Once again, these are all interchangeable terms. You're ignorant of your mental attitude. And ignorance to self will always lead to ignorance in terms of how your world is comprised Because you live in a universe. But if you don't understand the previous chapters of you, then you won't know how the story continues. And we see this all the time. You can do all the meditations, you can do all the reading, you can do all the visualizations, all the affirmations, [ __ ] but the most important thing to study is you. And one thing that I've come

to a conclusion of being somebody who has read hundreds of books, somebody who speaks to people, Who's hired by people, is that we often use reading as a distraction. The old frequency will get you on the desire of acquiring more knowledge. But acquiring more knowledge is useless if you don't understand you because that knowledge has to be applied to you. But if you don't understand you, then how far can that knowledge truly be implemented? And make sure you take notes and leave them in the comments as Usual. But think about this. Really think about this.

If you're ignorant, if you're unaware of what's going on within, then you'll be unaware of what's going on without. You'll be continuously doing all of these things, reading all these books, and not understanding why. And don't get it twisted. This isn't me advocating for you to be a victim. That's not what the [ __ ] we're doing here. Here we create our desired reality simply and effortlessly. As I always Say, spirituality without the ability to control your reality is vanity. What I'm saying is manifestation begins with awareness. And that's a bar that down. But the

mistake that people make is thinking that awareness lies in the books that you read on how to manifest, how to visualize, how the universe works, the universal laws. No, no, no, no, no, no, no. Awareness begins with you because there is no manifestation Without you. But we don't spend enough time coming to an understanding of how we are. Because like I said, it's quite painful to think about the aspects of our lives to which we were victims quote unquote or the experiences that we went through. Because here's the thing that most people don't realize. Most

people think that they're holding on to the past. But the truth is the past is holding on to you. And that's a borrow that down. Because another thing that You have to come to a conclusion of is the fact that on a subconscious level time doesn't exist. Your subconscious mind is the aspect of you that is transcendent of this third dimensional realm. So time space constraints don't exist in your subconscious mind. So what you think is the past is actually being currently played in your subconscious mind right now leading to the materialization of your reality

right now. Think about the experiences that You've been through and I'll show you exactly how those experiences have transpired. Think about the experiences that you've been through as silently playing in the background of your reality. So even when you have this desire for a healthy relationship, for some reason when you're embarking on that path, some fuckeries happen. Think about when you want to materialize some more money and you're embarking on that path and some fuckeries happen. Think About when you go for that career, fuckeries, employment, career, promotions, fuckeries all over the place and we don't

understand why. And it's because the truth is you haven't spent enough time within. And I really mean this. Every one of my other videos is useless if you don't take this video into consideration because it's all good in knowing knowledge of how things work outside of you. But how things work outside of you is always a reflection of How things are working inside of you. And awareness begins within. Awareness is the first step to any particular degree of transformation. But typically nobody actually wants to revisit themselves. And I'll show you. This is literally the first

thing I take my clients through because I can't work with anybody if I don't understand how their mind works. And most of the time we don't understand how our mind works because of how we've been socialized and Conditioned to perceive things. Especially in the realm of this type of information where nobody wants to be a victim, but it's not really being a victim. It's actually being a victim. And I truly mean that because awareness is what will put you on the path to actually materializing your desired reality. It's the most powerful thing you can do

in manifestation. There's people that will never ever read a [ __ ] book on manifestation in their Lives, but because they understand themselves, they understand that there's this interconnectedness between them and reality. So things tend to go their way. Meanwhile, most of us who spend time reading bare [ __ ] books, bare podcasts, bare lectures, shit's still not changing. And it's because you don't understand that there's something deeper at play here. Nero picking dinner with Jay-Z over 500K. Bro's making too much money. You know, some men manifest women and some men manifest money. >> We

We got another guy manifesting women again. >> They're always manifesting women. >> Okay. >> But we did have a lot of women get married recently. >> And we also have women getting pregnant. >> Oh, yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. You know which comment I'm talking about. >> Yes. Yes. >> Someone said, "I've got my girl pregnant in the club." >> I got my girl pregnant in the club bathroom to love in this club. We were both teens, too. That's crazy. >> How you in the club as teens? First of all, millennials, I just know they're

millennials. You millennials were just built different. >> That man even had fake fake. Imagine being in a world with nobody recording. I guarantee if you begin doing a matting in the club, this is all you're going to see. You're going to look down and all you're going to see is this. You don't like can you imagine these lot were these lot were getting busy in the club. >> That's mad. That's too mad. That's too mad. >> I want to make love in this club. >> Uh I'll take this one. So, first things first, I want

to define something. I want to Define trauma metaphysically. And listen, don't run away. Don't run away. I know there's an aspect of you that's like, "No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no." But that very aspect of you that is probably feeling some type of discomfort when I talk about the word trauma is actually an indication of an aspect of you that is resonant with that, which is a good sign actually because most of us don't even realize we're traumatized. I know when I talk to like my mom or my Dad or you know my

uncles and aunties and they're just telling me stories and they're like I'm like like what the [ __ ] Like you ever you ever spoke to like family members and they're just telling you the craziest law casually? I'm like yeah I'm fine though. I'm not traumatized. Like I think you are mate. So let's define trauma in the realm of metaphysics because this is paramount to understanding the materialization of your reality. Because here's the thing, Some people are so traumatized, but when you don't want to be a victim, it places you in a state where you

don't place any particular degree of awareness to your trauma, which then leads to you vibrationally self-sabotaging your reality without ever realizing it. How many times have you felt like when you're in your reality, things are going good, it goes left. When things going right, it goes left. When you're climbing up, you go down. When you're on The path, it just doesn't feel right. And we don't understand what's going on. You might attribute it to some surface level characteristic, but as somebody who's literally hired by Hollywood actors, professional athletes, seven, eight figure entrepreneurs, it's this. It's

really this. And if you can just understand this, I promise you the light bulb moments that you're going to have will change everything for you. Now, trauma in the realm of metaphysics can Be defined simply as this. A negative emotionally intense experience. Nice and simple. Because typically when we think about typically when we think about trauma, a lot of people like to play, you know, in the trauma Olympics of, you know, oh that's not traumatizing or that's not traumatizing. But really and truly when it comes to the realm of manifestation, Your reality is nothing more

than a reflection of your degree of consciousness. It's nothing more than your frequency which the universe corresponds with a particular reality and assigns you that reality. It's important that you understand the experiences that you've got that you have went through that produced the most emotional I guess intense emotional experience but on the negative side of things because here's the thing the Subconscious mind is primarily programmed by emotion. A lot of people say it's repetition but think about trauma. Somebody only has to go through a traumatizing experience once for their entire mind to shift. And when

your entire mind shifts, your reality being a reflection of your mind as it says in the hermetic laws, the universe is entirely mental. When your entire mind shifts, your entire reality shifts. Your perception towards Reality, the experiences, the conditions, the circumstances, and the people that you begin to encounter due to a deep vibrational change. And it's due to the fact that, as I said, emotion is the true language of the subconscious mind. Somebody only has to go through a traumatizing experience once for their entire reality to be shifted. And based upon the trauma that they

go through, that begins to shift their mind, which begins to shift their reality. But if You're unaware to the instances of which your mind and how your mind shifted, you're going to be unaware of how your reality is being continuously shifted. And for the most part, unfortunately, due to the information, the knowledge, and the implementation, most of us only go surface level when it comes to understanding ourselves. And because you go surface level, you don't understand that that song is still quietly playing in the background of your reality. Think About the experiences that you've been

through, the negative, emotionally intense experiences that you've been through as silently playing in the background of your reality, still corrupting and distorting the frequency that you have. Because here's the thing, you can you can materialize things, you can manifest things, but eventually your frequency will catch up because reality is forever unfolding from you. That's borrowing That down. And due to the fact that reality is forever unfolding from you, if you don't shift on the deepest levels of your subconscious, your reality may temporarily shift, but I guarantee eventually it will come out and it will rear

its ugly head. And here's the thing, you have to begin to look at your life and come to a conclusion of the most emotionally intensive experiences. Now, those emotions is dependent upon the particular individual, of course, But you have to be able to look back at your life and actually sit down because how many times do we actually sit down and think about the past? It sounds [ __ ] crazy. Most people would actually advise you to not sit down and think about the past. But when you come to a conclusion that the past doesn't

exist in the subconscious, the past in the subconscious is the now. Your memories aren't memories of the past. They're actually energies that are Emitting themselves from you right now. And that's a bar. Write that down. And because they're energies that are emitting themselves from you, you don't realize how your frequency is being distorted in real time. And because your frequency is being distorted in real time, your reality is being distorted in real time. And because your reality is being distorted in real time, you can't help but feel you don't [ __ ] understand why things

are happening the Way that they're happening. It just doesn't make sense. And it's because frequency defies rationality. You could have all the rational understanding and conscious understanding of, you know, I've been doing my meditations. I've been doing my visualizations. I've been doing my affirmations. I've been journaling. I've been taking walks and doing all of this other [ __ ] But if you don't dig deep, pause, things will never change. Because the truth of the matter Is this is where you need to begin. Think about this like a starting location. This is the true starting location

because the most emotionally intense experiences of your life are registered in your subconscious mind. And because they're registered in your subconscious mind, those are songs that are quietly playing themselves in the back. But here's the thing, you can't hear them, but the universe can Hear them. And because the universe can hear them, it materializes them. But because you're unaware of them, when it happens, you don't understand what the [ __ ] is going on. And you really, really need to think about this because I see this time and time again. And unfortunately, and I remember

there was a comment ages ago. This was months ago. Somebody was like, you know, I've watched a bunch of manifestation content, but watching Nero is like Graduary. And it's really and truly because of the fact that most people only understand information and that's it. But if you don't understand yourself, then how the [ __ ] can you utilize that information to change yourself? And I borrow that down. I really truly I really and truly mean it when I say there is nothing more important in the realm of manifestation than understanding self. Know thyself and thou

shalt know all. The more you Come to a conclusion of the aspects of yourself and how the building blocks of you are made up, you will understand the building blocks of your reality. And if there are building blocks that are not moving, it's because they have not moved internally. And that's a bar that down. Most people don't understand, and I know cuz I've been there for years. I read plenty of books, but nothing was changing. But until I began to look back in the past, which is the now, which is The memories that exist in

my subconscious mind, the memories that have the most emotion behind them, because emotion is the energetic charge, which enters the subconscious mind. Those energies still exist within you right now that are distorting the frequency of your desired reality. And you have to begin to understand how the mind works. And especially on a psychological level because as we know in the hermetic law of correspondence as Above so below the way that you are psychologically wide is the way your universe will be psychologically wide and that's a bar that down and we have to begin to understand

things. So let's actually take a quick trip to the past and this this might be a hard watch. I'll be honest like even as I'm talking right now I'm feeling different because like I said we don't have this tendency as human beings especially human beings who want to advance to the future. We Don't have an understanding of our past. We don't want to look back to the past either because it's too painful or because we've been conditioned to believe that spending time in the past will lead us to being a victim as opposed to giving

you the correct positioning to actually shift out of being a victim in your universe. Because most [ __ ] don't want to be a victim internally, but you're a victim externally, which means you're still a Victim internally. Because being a victim isn't necessarily going through something. It's lacking the awareness of how what you're going through is affecting you. And most of us really know people in real life, including ourselves, because we're all exactly the same. We all know people that are [ __ ] traumatized, but them [ __ ] don't realize that they're traumatized. They're

walking through life and they're not realizing the same patterns again And again. But if you can see those patterns in others, those people are nothing more than a reflection of you. And there's aspects of your trauma that is affecting your life to this day. And I think about that all the time. I really think about that all the time. Hello, Nero. >> Hello. Hello. Hello. >> I know you don't do the whole SP thing, >> but I've been manifesting gal for about 2 years. >> Manif manifesting gal for about 2 years. You know what's there

in life? prosperity, success, abundance, career advancement, you know, promotions, getting a particular career, you know, business sales, client sales, you know, getting into your >> Yeah. >> Go on, bro. >> Yeah. It wasn't until last winter I found out about your channel and I extrapolated your teachings to my Desired reality brackets. Being with Gal, aka SP, >> bro knows what he is. He knows what he is. Say less. Say less. Say less. But before I found out about your channel, nothing was working. No technique seemed to work. Even after watching some of your videos, it

still seemed as if nothing worked. I bought your book, which basically covers what you go over in your videos, but in deeper detail, and all of a sudden it clicked. I Imagine a scene where Gal and I slept together. >> I imagine a scene where Gal and I slept together. >> Well, some what are some people manifested? You know, my client manifested being in the NFL. My other client manifested a new contract. Another client of mine is going to a new football team. Another client of mine increased more money in their business. >> Bro, this

is the first time I'm reading This, so this is hilarious. Go on. >> Um, I imagine a scene where Gell and I slept together enhanced the scene with intense emotional charge until I internally believed until I internally believed it to be already done. And even though it hasn't happened yet in 3D, I knew it was bound to happen because I am the only evidence I need. No technique worked because I wasn't working. It wasn't until I won. >> And I and I say that to say, sorry to Cut you off. Most people in the realm

of manifestation have this particular concept of I need to find the perfect technique. Only this technique works. Only this techniques work. And that's intellectual infancy because that's showing an understanding of the fact that you don't understand that if there's a placebo effect in the human body, then the law of correspondence as above so below means that the universe has its own placebo effect. And that Placebo effect is triggered by conviction and confidence. Because conviction and confidence aligns with the ethmological origins of the word faith which in Latin means felas which is confidence and faith can

move mountains. And most people don't have the capability of understanding that it's actually the conviction that you have in the technique that leads to the activation of the technique not the technique itself. Why the [ __ ] does Affirmations work for one [ __ ] but affir and um visualizations work for another and journaling works for another and scripting works for another. It's coming to the conclusion that it's your conviction in it that makes it work. Because even if you look at a book called influence by Robert Chaldini um that's a book on behavioral psychology

that book says that one of the characteristics of influencing behavior is authority and the authority that You're lacking is actually authority in yourself because if you have the ability to guide yourself and make yourself believe that this is that this is what's going to work. Transcending belief actually and knowing it's going to work that's what that's when it's going to work actually different. Did that come and finish? >> It wasn't until I used unwanted circumstances to my advantage by saying nothing can throw me off my desired Reality. >> Anyh who, I slept with Gal last

night and she told me everything I affirmed her to say to me. Not only that, I've increased my income just a tad. >> Just a tad, [ __ ] Just just a [ __ ] tad. But you're just sleeping with Gal. You can't you can't make this up. proving that I've proven that I always proving that I always have more than enough and money and that money doesn't get spent but circulated. You've opened A whole new world for me, Nero and AJ. You both are amazing. Not only that, I've also enhanced my physical appearance, getting

in better shape than ever. And I've also improved my performance at work. I love you guys. >> Okay. Okay. You know, you had me there in the first half. You know what I'm saying? You nearly lost me. But it's gal first though. >> Huh? >> It's gal first. >> Gal first. >> Goodness gracious. Cool. So, most people don't actually understand how the mind works. And when I first get into a meeting with a client, this is the first thing that I'm seeking to do. So, if you can find this in yourself, this will push you

levels ahead. This will put you levels ahead. First things first, most of you [ __ ] want to materialize things, but you don't know what those things [ __ ] mean to you. Have you ever thought about that? Actually, stop and just think about what I said. A lot of you want to materialize things. All of us, we want to manifest things, but we don't take consideration what those things [ __ ] mean to us because it's our perception towards the meaning of those things that is going to alter our ability to materialize those things.

And that's borrowed that down. I don't remember what I just said. So, please rewind and just make sure you Write that down because that was serious. What do I mean? We have definitions of things in reality. You have a definition of success. You have a definition of love. You have a definition of You have a definition of a career. You have a definition on money. You have a definition on status, clout, whatever. And these are the things that typically we want to materialize as individuals. But you don't understand that it's actually it's actually your definition

of those things that leads to your inability to materialize those things. What do you mean by that mirror? Relax. Relax. Relax. Just wipe your mouth. Wipe your mouth. Relax. Here's the thing. You have to understand something. Like I told you, the subconscious mind is primarily programmed by emotion. Your Consciousness is most affected by emotion. Your frequency is most affected by emotion. Your self-concept is most affected by emotion. Why? We can just look at it on a scientific level. Even the fact that um there are two electromagnetic fields produced, one by the brain and one by

the heart. The one by the heart is 60 to 100 times more powerful than the one of the brain. Your heart is actually the first organ that is developed across a multitude of Different spiritual traditions going back all the way to ancient Egypt. They had the idea of the heart weighing on the scales. You also see the same concept in Islamic traditions. In Proverbs, it says, you know, guard your heart because life unfolds from it. It also says as a man thinkketh in his heart. As a man thinkketh in his heart. As a man thinkketh

in his heart. And it's understanding that the mind is that the heart is inherently more powerful When it's coming to the understanding simultaneously of the fact that due to the fact that emotion is what programs the subconscious mind, our definitions of things are in our subconscious mind. So the way that we define things is through emotional association. There is no word more there's nothing more powerful than understanding this. If you want to understand yourself, understand emotional association. If you Want to understand yourself, understand emotional association. I kid you not. I'll literally get on calls with

my clients and in an hour I'll give them a full analysis of everything. They'll be like, "How the [ __ ] do you know that?" And it's because I can draw these parallels and you have the capability of drawing these parallels too. Hence why I'm sharing this particular lecture with you. Emotional association. I'm so excited. I'm so excited. You're probably thinking, why is this [ __ ] so excited? Just get to it. Here's the thing. There's no point defining or desiring more money if you don't understand the emotional association with money that you have on

a subconscious level. What do you mean by that? Think about it like this. Let's do a thought experiment. Let's say like me, you grow up on a council Estate, the projects or the ends, whatever, and you have a particular experience with money. AJ, what's the typical experience of somebody with money in the ends? >> Don't know. It depends on who you are >> in the ends. >> In the ends, >> money, it's simple, bro. >> I don't know, bro. I don't know the typical experience. >> Yes. With [ __ ] with money in the ends.

>> I don't know [ __ ] with money in the ends. >> Exactly. >> So money in the ends is struggle. It's burdens. You don't have enough of it. It's problems. It's pain. It's stress. If you grew up in a particular circumstance where you saw that around the house there wasn't a lot of money. You saw how money stressed out those Around you. You saw that not having a certain degree of money, money was always problems, money was always problems. Money was always problems. Money then begins to equate to problems on in your subconscious mind

and that's based upon the association emotionally. And if money is problems in your mind, your mind doesn't want problems. So in order to get rid of problems, what's it going to get rid of? Money. Bingo. And that means I'm broke. And by getting rid of money, this happens vibrationally. Because before anything can exist physically, it first must exist vibrationally. And vibrationally, what happens? You materialize more conditions, >> circumstances. >> Uh-huh. >> And people. >> Uh-huh. Circumstances, conditions, people. and Events that lead to the materialization of more money problems. You don't have money. You get a

parking ticket when you ain't got no money. Somebody really needs to borrow money. Something breaks. You need to pay for it. Something in your car breaks down. Something in your house breaks down. It seems as though the universe is taking money away from you. And it's because you're taking money away from yourself. You're taking money away from yourself because your mind has associated money to be problems. And in order to get rid of problems, it wants to get rid of money. So how the [ __ ] could you manifest more money if you don't even

understand the emotional association that you have with money in the first place? Because this is happening at a deeper level. Think about it like this. Your subconscious mind means below your conscious mind. Your subconscious mind means below your conscious mind. So the deeper >> pause the better. No, I'm joking. The deeper that these emotional associations are in your mind, [ __ ] your your meditations your medit let's say in order to change your mind we need to go here your meditations visualizations all of that all of that is only up here at the surface level

why because you haven't gone deep enough It's [ __ ] up isn't it because money in your mind is a problem your mind wants to get rid of it and this can be extrapolated outside of people that just grow up in the ants I've had clients who quite literally had way too many stuff in their business and in order to alleviate that problem which their mind had associated that to be a problem it got rid of money in their business. You understand what I'm saying? It's really really deep. It's Deeper than you think. Now let's

talk about in the context of love. Let's say you grow up in chaos. Let's say you grow let's say you grow up in chaos. Let's say you grew up in disharmony. Let's say that you grew up in toxicity or you never saw love. What's your mind going to associate love with? Chaos, disharmony, toxicity. So, in order to avoid love, well, in order to avoid this, It's going to see the opposite of love. And it it's really [ __ ] up. It's really [ __ ] up because the mind works in two ways. It has two

types of associations. If love is equal to chaos, then to the same degree, it will seek out chaos. In the same way, if money is associated, if money is associated with struggle, it will seek out that struggle. It'll seek out those problems. But then simultaneously to avoid the pain associated with those problems, it Will also get rid of it. You see how [ __ ] up it is. It's really, really crazy. A >> Yeah, I see it. >> What you you just clucked. >> I see it. I understand it now. Nero, >> we're not done.

We're not done. I want to show you some more. We're not done because I'm just going to I'm going to go through like the typical associations that people have when it comes to the Emotional associations of the subconscious mind. Because if you don't understand what your subconscious mind is tying definitions to, when you go to seek to manifest those definitions, you will manifest those definitions. And that's the [ __ ] up thing. If you want to manifest more money because your mind has associated money to be problems, you want to manifest more money, you end

up manifesting more problems. And your mind is like, "Yes, we done it. We manifested More money." Because money has been defined as problems. It's [ __ ] up, right? I already know this video is going to have a lot of people in tears because when it's really sad when you think about it, it's really, really deep. So, how do I stop the association? >> Don't worry. Relax. Association to the >> Listen, listen, listen, listen, listen. Two hands, bro. Two hands. >> Pause. What do you mean by that? What do You actually mean by that? What

is it? Wipe your mouth, bro. Wipe your mouth. Too eager. We're going to get through it. Because this is of the highest importance. Because if you can detach the negative associations of the mind, then it'll be great. So, just to clarify a couple points, uh let me use just black because it's easier. Just clarify a couple points. When you seek to manifest something, you're not understanding what that Something truly means because you're not taking into consideration the way that your mind has defined it through emotional association. And because you're not taking into consideration the way

that your mind has defined it through emotional association, when you manifest it, you're getting the opposite of what you want, but you're getting the opposite of what you want because the thing that you've defined is the opposite of what It is. So once again, let's say that in your mind you went through bear in mind the emotional association is based upon emotional experiences. So when you want to manifest something, so let's say the first question you should ask yourself when you say I want to manifest more success is what are the emotional negative experiences that

I've had in my life to do with success. When you want to manifest a healthy Relationship, what are the negative emotional experiences that I have went through when it comes to relationships? When you want to manifest more money, you need to ask yourself, what are the most emotional experiences that I've went through with money? Because in doing so, you'll be able to deduce the emotional association. And when you deduce the emotional association, you'll come to a conclusion of what it truly means. Because here's the thing, like I Said, if money based upon your experiences was

problems, pain, stress, then what you're going to do is seek to materialize money. But if money is defined as problems, pain, and stress, what you're really materializing is problems, pain, and stress, which you do get. How many people want to manifest more money? [ __ ] everyone. How many people seem to have bare problems, bare pain, and bare stress? Is their manifestations not working? No, your Manifestations are working. Just you're just not taking consideration what it means. You understand what I'm saying? And here's the thing. Most people, let's say you want a relationship. What is

relationship defined as in your head? If it's disharmony, isolation, stress again, pain, betrayal. Then guess what? You start manifesting for a better relationship. And what do you get? Disharmony, isolation, stress, and betrayal. Why is your manifestation not working? No, it 100% is working. But it's working based upon the emotional association which is based upon an emotional experience which then enters the subconscious mind. So when what you've defined as a relationship in your subconscious mind isn't actually a relationship or love. It's disharmony. It's isolation. It's stresses pain and betrayal. So then you seek to manifest and

what do you get? Why? Because you're unaware of what it means. This one is one that I came to a conclusion of myself and this is really [ __ ] up when you think about it. And this can be extrapolated into multiple contexts. So let's say like me, you're from the ends. Naturally, if you if you was to walk in my ends with a Rolex, you could wear some nice shoes. You Could wear some nice shoes in my ends. So it's a very UK thing. >> What size are those? >> What size are those? They're

my size. So let's say that part of success is being seen. But in the hood, being seen makes you vulnerable. It makes you liable to be a threat. It puts you in danger. It makes you a target. So then when it comes to being seen, In order to be seen, you'll put yourself through these things. And this is something I didn't realize. Now here's the thing. When the mind wants to avoid something, when the mind wants to avoid an aspect of what you've defined, to avoid the pain associated with that thing, it will actually avoid

the thing itself. Because money is so painful, it will avoid money. Because relationships are so painful, it will avoid relationships. Because being seen is so painful, it will avoid it. And one of my own traumas that I had to come to a conclusion of, I'm not somebody who likes being in the limelight. Just cuz a [ __ ] talks on camera, don't think I'm like this. If you met me in person, I'm very much an introverted person. I do not go out at all. I literally don't go out or I keep myself to myself. I

don't like talking to people. My friends always call me antisocial. And I I could never understand. Even if you look at when I first began making content on like Instagram or Tik Tok, whatever, I used to wear a [ __ ] mask, mate. I used to wear a mask because I didn't want to be seen. He's laughing. He was there. That's when we first met. And he was he saw me. He was thinking, "Who's this [ __ ] wearing a mask and shades?" >> I was like, "This [ __ ] don't want to be seen

>> with a hoodie on." >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. >> I look like Victor Doom. >> Now, >> you don't know who Victor Doom is, do you? You know that's some superhero stuff. >> Yeah. Villain stuff. >> Yeah. You can tell tell by the name. >> Yeah. >> To avoid and extrapolate this to anybody who wants to be on social media because Part of being on social media is being seen. But you're vibrationally I was vibrationally self-sabotaging to the degree that I was going to be seen because an aspect of my mind associated with being seen

to make you a target, danger, and threat. Hence, I had this discomfort with being seen because in my ends, if you were seen, you you're done, mate. you're absolutely done. And this this even gets crazier. This gets crazier. I know of I know of people Who when their parents would come back from work, it would like be misery. Straight misery. They're chilling, their mom or dad gets back from work, it's hell. And they would disappear and go off into the house. Why? Because they knew there was going to be some type of negativity associated with

being seen by that particular person. And the mind forms the association with being seen as putting you in danger, threat and and being a target. So then to avoid being Seen or to avoid being a danger, a target, a threat, you will avoid being seen. Take it further. Let's say in school [ __ ] made fun of you or picked on you, whatever. In that particular context, being seen would put you into into a degree of humiliation. So now to avoid humiliation, you avoid being seen. But you haven't you haven't made that connection. And because

you haven't made that connection, you try Then put yourself out there for that promotion and they don't see you they don't see it. You put yourself for that job, they don't see it. You put yourself on social media, they don't see it. You try to put yourself to go chat to that person that you like, but they don't see you. Because energetically, you are masking your own energy to avoid being seen. Because being seen is humiliation. Being seen makes you a threat. Being seen puts you in danger. So to avoid Humiliation, being a threat, being

under threat and being in a vulnerable position, you avoid yourself from being seen. And and when I realized that, that's when my channel went from 4,000 to 100,000 in 4 weeks and then 200,000 2 months later after that. And it's because I came to the conclusion like, damn, why don't you want to be seen? I had to ask myself, why don't you want to be seen? And it was the experiences that I've seen of seeing people get robbed. Could have you could have had a new bike in my end. And it's real. And it's real.

Another association naturally ends. Another association is the idea that success equals you switching up on everybody that you've gone Hollywood. that you've changed. And to avoid the discomfort with being isolated from the group, you then avoid success because it's too painful for the mind. It's too painful for the mind. So to avoid the pain of your association, you avoid what's being associated with it. It's [ __ ] crazy when you really think about this. Now, whatever it is that you seek to desire, you have to come to a conclusion on what the association is. And

there's two types of ways that associations are formed. through own personal experience. So emotional associations are formed through either emotional experience or Observation. But either way, there has to be some type of emotion. So whether you've been through these things yourself or you've observed other people through it, especially the observation, we end up catching bullets that didn't even have our name on without even realizing. That's what I think about the internet to be fair. internet's just a bunch of traumatized [ __ ] traumatizing people who have Never even been through those experiences. But now, because

there's an aspect of emotion, it now enters your subconscious mind and then seeks to materialize it based upon the association. It's very, very dangerous. It's like if you go on social media, you see relationships, all you see is men absolutely treating women terribly and women treating men absolutely terribly. And then based upon the fact that people aren't deducing that that is just the Internet they then end up adopting based upon observation the emotion and then form an association of relationships equating to betrayal and then they either materialize that betrayal or that disharmony or that isolation

or they seek to avoid it by then seeking avoiding love unconsciously and they don't even realize why they can't even form relationships and it's based upon the association. So you need to ask yourself, what are my emotional Associations? Cuz this is the deep work that is going to set in motion for things to change. This is the true deep work that is going to set in motion for things to change. Because it's all good and well for you wanting to materialize more money, more success. I'll give you another one. Let's say success, right? Let's say

your way that you've defined success. How do most people define success? Ah, perfect. Perfect. In fact, I got a Better one. I got a better one. And this is one that we've all been fed for whatever reason, and I see this one a lot with clients in particular. So let's say in your head hard work hard work is a celebrated thing in society. Being a hard worker makes you noble. And see this is an aspect of how the definitions associated things aren't Always negative but it's the indirect implication that sets you up contradictory to the

frequency that you're seeking to materialize. So let's say being a hard work being a hard worker makes you noble. And when I say hard work, you can also merge that over with struggle. Struggling, it makes you noble. It makes you a good person. It makes you deserving. So guess what? The indirect implication of what it is that you desire. If there's a positive association, then there's a negative indirect implication. That's so borrow that down. If there's a positive emotional association, then there's also an indirect negative implication. If being a hard worker or struggling through life

makes you a noble, good, deserving person. When you're not working hard and you're not struggling, you're the opposite of noble. You're the Opposite of good. You're the opposite of deser. You're a bad person. You're undeserving. And of course, nobody wants to be a bad person. Nobody wants to be undeserving. So then you put yourself in a perpetual cycle of working hard and struggling because of the association that hard work and struggle is good. Let me tell you [ __ ] something right now. You're not going to be rewarded for struggling. >> You'll be rewarded with

more struggling Because you can only have what you have. And I know there's this religious context which at the time being distributed. You know the masses would look at the large you know gap in between. People think there's a wealth gap now. the large wealth gap back then with the royals and the feast that were eating while the commoners or the peasants were in destitute poverty and the rationalization that they come up with they said listen don't worry don't Worry don't worry about your struggle right now they you're a great person for struggling you you'll

get yours in heaven don't don't even worry about that so then society we have this conditioned idea that hard work or struggle and bear in mind I'm not saying don't work don't even hit my comments with that [ __ ] Because some [ __ ] are so idiotic when I say hard work isn't necessary that they say so you think you can just Manifest things out of it. There's three planes of existence. So mental, physical, spiritual, physical. Action is a necessity to the materialization of reality. But that doesn't mean that the action has to be

hard. Effort is required but struggle and effort aren't the same thing. Struggle is effort laced with negativity and a state of consciousness that is in direct contradiction to what it is that you're seeking to do. More important than Action is action preceded by the right state of consciousness. So starting from the end and allowing your subconscious based upon your intuition to essentially lead you to remembering how another version of you that's already in this desired reality got here in the first place, that's of the highest importance. But if hard work is nobility, if it's good,

if it's deserving, that any time that you're not working hard, you're going to feel bad. Then you're going to Feel undeserving. And then what does that lead to materialization of? conditions, circumstances, and events that reflect that you're bad and undeserving. >> What if you don't see hard work as hard work? >> Huh? >> What if you don't see hard work as hard work? >> Then it doesn't have to be cuz your perception is directly interconnected to Your projection. And here's the thing, right? Really think about this. Really think about this. I've had clients who I

have made them quit their whole calendar for a week, >> cancel everything. My clients that watch me, you know exactly what I'm talking about. And it's because of the association that the mind has formed that hard work is nobility, good and deserving. Which means that when I am not working hard, how do you feel when You're not working? Feels bad in it. Feel like you're wasting time. Feels terrible. And that solves a misassociation with creation because your action, you still think creation is based upon action as opposed to creation being based upon frequency, your state

of consciousness. It's not like that. So you actually need to ask yourself what are my emotional associations? The only way you can know your emotional Associations is by being able to reverse engineer your emotional experiences. What are the experiences that you have been through? This can come down to intimacy. This can come down to relationships. It comes down to career. It comes down to promotions. If you continuously applying for jobs and you're being met with rejection, then rejection in your mind is now equated to a job. So to avoid rejection, you're vibrationally going to Avoid

a job. And you're not going to understand why you're not manifesting a job. It's because there's an aspect of your mind that's avoiding that rejection. But the rejection is merged with the job. You're going to avoid a job. And despite your applications, despite your meditations, despite your visualizations, despite your scripting, it's still not materializing. So, break it down to me in football terms, like Ronaldo is always like first At training, last to leave. like he's putting in hard work. You get me? >> Anything? >> Is his hard work not seen as >> hard work isn't

a necessity? >> But also you have to take into consideration the collective consciousness based upon the field that you're in and how that leads to a molding of it. So in instances such as football where hard work is celebrated And rewarded and seen as the way to create reality then based upon the fact that there no truths in reality other than what the subconscious mind accepts as true that will then be true. >> I see. I see. But simultaneously, there's also people who don't work as hard, and they may not be the best, quote unquote,

but they're still good. All right. Think about it in the context of business as well. There's some people who work 3 hours a week making millions a month, and there's other people that work extremely hard. Now, don't get it twisted. But I have a client who believes in hard work. And because he believes in hard work, that's the paradigm that I'm adhering to for his work. And he makes, I think, 1.1 million a month in one company and 2.5 in Another. >> He owns a trading prop firm. >> That's crazy, Brad. But it's just the

understanding that it is possible to achieve more with less. It's not necessarily about working hard or working smart, but working multi-dimensionally. So if the emotional experiences that we go through lead to our definitions of things and we seek to materialize those Definitions, if we have a corrupted or a distorted frequency based upon the negative emotional experiences that we've gone through, that would lead to us materializing izing a distorted definition which then leads us materializing a distorted reality. How can we change that? Now there's two things to note here. The beauty of the mind is that

it cannot distinguish between Reality and imagination. If the imagination or your consciousness, if the imagination is emotional enough, bear in mind when I say emotional, this is in relative to you. So it's not going to be the same for so don't go asking me what type of emotion. It's about how you would feel. I'm not in your reality. Um the second thing is that because the past doesn't exist in the subconscious mind. It is being Cleared right now. So like a file, you have the capability of overwriting it. And that's essentially what we're going to

do. Now, whatever it is that you seek to materialize, you need to understand what it is that I want to materialize. What is my definition based upon what I have observed and what I have experienced, let me know in the comments. In the same way that I let you know that mine and being seen was being under threat and being in danger to Avoid being in danger, I avoided being seen, which then led to slow growth as opposed to the explosive growth that you've seen. Now at the same time because the mind can't distinguish between

the reality and imagination if it's emotionally intensive enough and because the past is happening right now you have the capability of overwriting that file. If you can produce emotion if you can produce emotion in your state of consciousness while in in stillness Right because stillness is theta alpha which is the gates of the subconscious mind. That is all you need. you need stillness and emotion and be in a relaxed meditative state and begin visualizing things. Um, I have a whole technique on that um, which I talk about in other videos. But if you want, you

can go get outsmarting reality, Amazon bestseller in all three categories in less than 24 hours. Now, to go back to what I was saying, You can whatever it is that you want to materialize, understand what you want, but you can't have what you want. You can only have what you already have. But let's say what it is that you want to materialize. Then understand and you need to actually sit down and [ __ ] think. Crazy, is it? It's crazy. It's crazy. Who would have thought? You need to sit down and think to yourself, what

are the experiences that I've been through in the past in relation to what I want that has stimulated the most emotion negatively because then that's what I call core memories. And the core memories are core energies. And the core energies are core frequencies. The core frequencies that are vibrationally self-sabotaging what it is that you want. And just think to yourself, cool. What's the memory that I have in regards to money? Mine was seeing family members cry about money. So then in my mind, it's like Money equals sadness. Like what the [ __ ] So to

avoid being sad, I avoided money. It's crazy, right? It doesn't make sense. But the subconscious mind is far from rational. When you have a core memory, find one and it's simple. You rewrite it. You get into a relaxed meditative state where that takes you 5 10 minutes. Bring that memory up to your mind and rewrite it in a way that reflects your desired reality. So if you saw experiences of Those around you having emotionally intense experiences with money, then rewrite it to be reflective of them having money and the energetic complimentary opposite of whatever the

experience was. If you saw disharmony in the context of relationship between your parents, then material then recreate it in a relaxed meditative state of seeing harmony between them. Because if you do that enough and if you allow yourself to feel the emotion that arises from that, Bear in mind your mind is going to resist at the beginning because it's going to be like this ain't [ __ ] real. This ain't [ __ ] real. But if you eventually allow yourself to continue to do that, emotion is going to arise. And when emotion arises, that's how

you know you're setting yourself in motion to displace the energetic charge in your subconscious mind based upon the emotion That's pre-established, which is an energetic charge too of negativity. And the only way you can do that is by creating an equal or more powerful emotional charge in reflection of your desired reality and what you wish would have happened as opposed to what happened. And that is how you rewrite that core memory. That's all you need to do. That's literally all you need to do. >> That ball is literally dripping. All the Juice is just coming

out of there. >> Out of everything I said that that's what you go to. >> It's a core memory, bro. >> Okay. That was real. >> That's the crest of the memory. [Music] Now, at this point in this video, you should have formed your association. And if you haven't, think about it. Actually sit down and think about it. What were the emotional experiences that I Observed or experienced in reflection to money, in reflection to success, in reflection to career and whatever it is that you want to desire because the if you can find that I

tell you not, it will be like a light bulb moment and you'll be like [ __ ] got it. And then at that point, you set yourself in motion to recreate it. And when you can recreate it, that song that's silently playing in the background that's leading to a distorted Frequency and making your world go against you, things will harmonize for you. Got a lot of pens here. Just purple. Now, as I said, the most important book that you can read in the realm of manifestation is the previous chapters of your life. And that's actually

a bar. And your previous chapters of your life are nothing more than the emotional experiences that you've went through. And the emotional that experiences that you've went through is nothing more than a reflection of previous state of consciousness, a previous frequency. But even though I say previous, it's still within you right now. So it's al taking place right now. And you just need to come to a conclusion of One, two, three, four, five. What's missing for this? Ah, the previous chapters of your life, if you analyze, you will begin to Understand the way that you

used to look at things. And until you understand the way that you used to look at things, you won't be able to understand how remnants of the way you used to look at things is still distorting the way that you look at things now. And the way that you look at reality is the way reality looks back at you. Until you can look back your old beliefs, you won't see how those beliefs are materializing themselves into your reality as truths. And then you're still Holding on to those particular beliefs. Because if a belief doesn't serve

you, then it's just there to control you. The old things that you used to expect in reality, problems, betrayal, not to get it, rejection, all of those things. If you can't clearly define how you used to look at things, the things you used to believe, the things you used to expect, the things that you used to place your attention because your focus is the centralization of energy and attention Is alignment. The things that used to have conviction and the conviction that you have in yourself. Have you had conviction in yourself which is predicated upon your

self-confidence which is then predicated upon your self trust. Do you trust yourself? Self trust is your ability to follow through on the things you know you should do and stay away from the things you know that you shouldn't do. And that's personal to you. the way that you used to react to Things. Your reaction is an indication to your state of consciousness and your old emotionally charged thoughts. Because if you don't understand each one of those things, you won't understand how those previous chapters of your life is still affecting your reality right now. The past

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