10 THINGS to NEVER Do WHEN You are WITH WOMEN (LOWERS Attraction and RUINS DESIRE in Relationships)

all right 10 things to never do when you are with a woman okay this could be a woman that you're dating this could be a woman that you're in a relationship with this could be a woman that you're seeing consistently or this could even be a first date doesn't matter this is 10 specific things to never do when you're with a woman it's been a while since I've made a video like this so I just want to get right into it I made a list of 10 things that I think majority of men don't see

and because of that I'm going to explain how each of these is going to lower her attraction for and it's going to lower your perceived value in her eyes so number one the first thing to never do would be any public displays of affection okay no kissing no hand holding none of that never try to reach out and hold her hand don't do any of that okay if any sort of touch occurs it has to be her coming to you so like you know I see this all the time like I'll be at the gym

or something and I'll watch like some dude lifting with a woman and like all of a sudden he like leans over to try to like give her a kiss and he's like smiling while he's doing it and she will give one back or she will kiss him but I will just look and see the dissatisfaction on her face like I know that part of her doesn't like it and I can see it and the reason being is because now hypergamy is not satisfied what you have to remember with this one any interest indicator that you

give that signals attachment or that signals that you need some sort of connection or touch that is going to drop desire so that's first don't do it okay if she's seeking some kind of reassurance from the relationship through holding your hand or something like that let her come to you okay but do not initiate these types of things first that's number one okay now the second thing that you never want to do is you never want to tell a woman how much money you make and here's why what you want to do is you want

to let your lifestyle and your resources speak for itself okay if you ever tell the woman that you're dating how much money you make or how much money you're making here's what this is going to do it's going to look as if you're trying really hard to potentially impress her it's going to also look as if you're overcompensating and it's going to also look like you're trying to lead with your wallet so because of that naturally her desire will drop because what that's going to signal is potential insecurity she will look at that guy and

go well what deficits or what insecurities does he have deep down internally that he's trying to make up for by telling me this so when you do that and you try to show certain things or you try to over qualify it's very bad okay so never do this number three the third thing to never do and I'm going to tell you this when you stop doing this you guys will all thank me later and the reason why you'll thank me later is because your relationships will be smoother the third thing to never do would be

to never overtly compliment her beauty do not give any compliments regarding Beauty do not say oh gosh you look so amazing today don't say oh gosh you're so hot none of that do not say that okay what you want to do is you want to wait until she says something along the lines like Hey how do I look or how do I look in this outfit or how does this outfit look once she's seeking reassurance okay cool then you can say yeah you look great but by you overtly complimenting her first what this is going

to do is signal that you have lower dating value than her now keep in mind guys this is subconscious this just naturally will start to turn her off it's not like she decides that this is going to make her lose attraction it just happens okay so what I can tell you is this if you are overtly complimenting her beauty what it's going to do is it's going to signal that you're trying to make up for some kind of deficit that you have so she's going to say well he's only doing this because he has to

and the only reason that he has to is because he has low dating market value or low sexual market value and then she pulls away from you because she questions your value don't give compliments all of the stuff that you were told to do is completely wrong and it will leave you often times um having no options so that's number three number four never under any circumstances ever spend large amounts of time talking about her day and here's why if you're talking about her day with her repetitively for extended amounts of minutes or hours anything

like that here's what's going to happen she will pull away from you because the more you care the less she likes you and what I wrote down here on my sheet of paper is I wrote down she wants you to be more interesting than her okay she wants to care about your day so what you have to remember is that the more you make these interactions and the more you make these situations is all about you like me me me it's all about me we're going to talk about my day the projects I'm working on

is most important my whole world is the most important thing you will watch her attraction raise because naturally she wants that man or she wants the guy that she's dating to be far more interesting so now all of a sudden what you will notice happen is she's entering that guy's frame so he's creating a frame verbally like this is the life this is the lifestyle This Is The Life setup this is how everything going this is the purpose this is the things that I'm working on this is the things that I'm doing this is the

interactions that I'm having and the way he says it the way he speaks she wants him to be more charismatic she wants him to be more charming and then when she sees all these things and she notices that his day and his life is far more interesting than what she has going on naturally it raises her attraction so never spend large amounts of time trying to talk about her day with her there's a lot of guys who do this and they think that it's going to give them points points like oh since I did this

now all of a sudden she's going to be more attracted to me but it couldn't be further from the truth it doesn't work that way and the more you do that the less she's going to like you okay so do not spend large amounts of time talking about her day that is number four now number five the fifth thing to never do when you were with a woman would be to never under any circumstances ever act interested in things you don't care about just to make conversation if you do that that she's going to lose

attraction for you and you're going to watch minute by minute her desire just fade because she can see that you don't care but she can see that you're doing it anyways just to appease her so then what happens is she loses respect for you so never act interested in things that you don't care about just to make conversation you can't do that as soon as you do that she's going to pull away it's better to just use silence let the silence build some kind of a you know anticipation for what's going to happen next and

sometimes what you're going to notice with silence is she will actually change topics or she'll change subjects and she will actually invest in you more verbally and she will have deeper level conversation with you about something else so that's the fifth thing okay number six the sixth thing that I wrote down would be never allow her to persuade you to make an irresponsible decision okay so once again this stems into appeasing her there's a lot of men who will often times invest in things or buy things that they cannot afford just to look cool or

just to look like they can afford it now this is very bad if the woman you're dating knows what you do for a living and maybe let's say you never overtly said how much you make but maybe let's say she has a ballpark idea just through her own guess okay maybe she like guesses roughly about what you make and maybe she's kind of close to the actual amount if she gets a sense of your lifestyle what you're going to notice a lot of times is she might try TR to persuade you to do something that

you shouldn't do this could be you making a bad business move this could be you spending $10,000 on a new vacation that you didn't need to go on or a brand new experience or a new vacation little things like that in the moment if you say yes what's going to happen is she'll be excited about it and then instantly after the reasoning sets in she's going to notice that you made a bad judgment and as you made that bad judgment now what's going to happen is she pulls away so keep that in mind never allow

her to persuade you to make an irresponsible decision your job is the man is to say no that is not responsible or no we can't do that or no that's a vacation for a different day down the road when I have more money or whatever the case may be or that that's a that's a different time you know later on in the year when we're going to do something like that whatever the case may be you need to push it off and you need to basically set a frame for what is acceptable or not because

you're using logic and reason to make a proper decision very important so number seven this is another thing that many guys do never tell a woman that you want a relationship I'm going to keep this one brief but by telling a woman you want a relationship hypergamy is not satisfied because now you are a man who is seeking emotional reassurance you need to let everything play out day by day if you hang out with a woman you let four or five dates go by you got see each other after every date you got to tell

yourself that might be the last time you ever see her and that's just how life goes okay that's just how life goes after every date you tell yourself that might be the last time I ever see her and that's just how life moves okay but the second you want a relationship she fundamentally cannot want a relationship with you because she questions your strength she questions your emotional resiliency she questions What You're Made Of on the inside so keep that in mind the eighth thing number eight the eighth thing to never do never tell a woman

that you've ever been dumped or heartbroken ever never say this under any circumstances ever what she wants to see at all times you got to remember this what she wants to see is like a self-made man who's strong and like the finished product that she sees which is you is like just strong resilient has a grounded Center is not easily reactive or easily moved off center that's what she wants want to see the second that you start saying that other women have pulled away from you or you got dumped by this girl or things like

that she's going to naturally question your value because she's going to say well if that other girl didn't want him maybe I shouldn't want him either or what she's going to think is she's going to think well I was attracted to him until he told me this and this and this and now I can't be attracted to him because now I question his value okay so never ever tell a woman that you've ever been dumped or heartbroken you want to always appear strong and grounded and stable very important number nine never admit any insecurities okay

you want to walk around like you're 8T tall all day you don't want to act like you have any insecurities you want to act like you're completely strong from the inside out any insecurities you might think that this is good on paper because you're going to tell yourself oh well now there's trust building now she knows more about me that's not how it works you're going to think oh now there's real connection and real chemistry cuz she learned more about me it's not how it works the stronger you appear the more she respects you the

stronger you appear and the better you carry yourself the more she respects you the more she loves you the more she wants to be with you always keep that in mind never ever admit any insecurities ever very important now the last one number 10 this is the most important never ever tell a woman that you love her especially when you are deep in love love and you're really meaning it you never want to say I love you first because instantly once again you're seeking emotional reassurance when you say I love you what you're actually expecting

is her to say I love you back and you can't do that what you have to do is you have to always wait until she says it first okay so you have to wait until she says I love you and then you can say love you too but if you say it first she starts to question your value because what she's going to do is she's going to dig deep and she's going to see just how in love are you she's going to say how in love is this guy is he super in love with

me to what degree is he in love with me is he attached to me all of this is so important you have to be able to see through this and you cannot make these mistakes if you like this video I want you to hit the like button comment and subscribe and we'll see you in the next one