the secret to unlocking your feminine energy is that it's not about completely changing who you are it's more so about just changing the way you think and so that is why I'm sharing five mindset tips to help you move out of hyper masculine mode and into your soft girl but also a little spicy sometimes feminine energy life and once you make these mindset shifts you will feel the difference you will notice the difference and how people respond to you and you will turn on and radiate feminine energy hey friends welcome back if you're new here
my name is and I help women step into their power tap into their divine feminine and become their best self so if that's something you want to do you should subscribe and stick around and in case you want more from me don't forget to check out my deep dive feminine energy course or any of my other digital products like my notion templates my workbooks Etc they're all linked down below the first mindset shift to increase your feminine energy is to get rid of your need to hurry and that feeling that you're always in a rush
and that you're always running out of time and I'm sure You' felt this before but hurrying just shifts your energy completely like that feeling of rushing just causes stress and stress takes you out of your feminine energy think about it this way you know when you're accidentally running late to an appointment and so you know you get in the car to drive to your appointment and because you're late you start speeding a little bit you start trying to like hurry and get there faster your body is a lot more stressed you're just more tense the
whole way there your energy is just a little different it's a little bit more panicky maybe a little bit more Reckless but then after all that all that that speeding all that stressing getting angry at the guy in front of you when he's driving too slow you get there maybe 1 minute faster it usually doesn't even benefit you that much especially when you think about how much peace it cost you that stress of rushing in life all the time it is a mindset that we choose you've got to decide to take that rushing energy out
of your life you'll be so much happier much more at peace and so much more tapped in and tuned into to your feminine energy think about it feminine energy is the energy that experiences life romanticizes life and you can't do that when you're hurrying when you're in a rush this was something that I noticed that I would really struggle with earlier on when I had like tasks to do or things to do whether it was work related things or home related tasks or anything I would kind of be like rushing to get them done as
quickly as possible I would have this energy of like ah I need to get this done instead of actually enjoying the process and enjoying the task and instead of being present in it I was just rushing to check it off the list so it became more of a to-do which is masculine energy rather than a to experience which is feminine energy don't rush through everything you need to do romanticize it enjoy it when you're getting ready in the morning and you're doing your makeup for example if you have enough time where you can do it
in a nice calm casual way when you are playing your favorite music when you have your cute little robe on that task becomes fun it feels like self-care but when you're doing your makeup in the morning and you woke up really late and you have to leave 5 minutes because you have a really important work meeting and you have to just like rush into do your makeup like as fast as you can all of a sudden that same task it doesn't feel so happy girly silly self-care time it feels like stress it feels like a
chore also like when you read books are you reading them to truly enjoy them or are you reading them to finish them when you listen to a podcast are you always listening at 2x speed so you can get through it as quickly as possible so this rushing can be a mindset yes but you also want to make sure practically that you do not always have to rush all the time make making sure you space enough time in between tasks or appointments waking up at a reasonable time so you're not rushing every morning to get out
the door reorganizing your routines or your habits if you need to and most importantly not overburdening yourself with too many tasks too many things to do all at once stop the rush stop the stress and you will get more of that radiant glow back a little affirmation I say to myself all the time still to this day is I have enough time whether it's little tasks I have to get done or big life goals that feeling of panic and being in a rush it takes you out of that soft girl life that soft girl energy
and 99% of the time it's not even helpful now moving on a woman in her feminine knows the power of her energy her attention her Focus or even when someone or something has access to it and therefore she also knows the power she has when she decides to walk away or when she resends her energy towards that something once she realizes that something is not for her it's time to move on she walks away whether it's a relationship an opportunity or the city she lives in once she knows that that thing is not meeting her
standards for the life she wants to live and once she can feel that it is no longer aligned she doesn't dwell she doesn't sit in that energy she doesn't complain she doesn't beg her partner to be better and say oh please do this oh please treat me this way she doesn't whine she doesn't beg she walks away she simply resends her energy if you want to level up and be in your magnetic healthy feminine energy you have to use discernment around where you put that energy and who or what has access to it I don't
think that people truly realize the power that feminine energy holds it is the power of transformation it's the power of creation and birth it's the power of attracting in and receiving rather than chasing things being in the presence of strong healthy feminine energy makes everyone's lives better especially men and feminine energy takes whatever it is given takes whatever environment it's in and she amplifies it and therefore everyone and everything should not have access to you not every thought that enters your mind should be given your mental attention and focus because whatever you focus on grows
and whatever environment you are in whatever energy you let into your life that's what you amplify and that's why that healthy magnetic radiant feminine energy struggles to exist in stressful negative situations or just in situations that are not aligned with her if whatever that thing is a job a person a friendship a romantic relationship or even certain thoughts that you have if it is continuously making your life worse you resend your energy towards it you stop giving it attention begging for what you want or begging for someone or something to change that comes from a
place of fear or lack but instead when something isn't working either walking away or pulling back or resending your energy a little bit that comes from a place of confidence and selflove the most magnetic feminine women are so soft and warm on the outside but so firm and soft solid on the inside you cannot crack them their boundaries their standards their values their beliefs they are so solid have your boundaries but don't beg for them and once you know that something isn't right for you once you know you can feel that it's not right and
it's not meeting the standards that you have for yourself in your life it is okay to walk away it is okay to pull back your energy sometimes or resend your energy remember whatever you take in you're going to amplify so it is okay to be picky and choosy about who has access to your little energy bubble the third mindset tip is to drop the perfectionism drop the thinking that if you don't do something then it won't get done the exact specific way that you like to do it and if that happens that's going to be
a disaster and to allow yourself to let go of control at least a little bit so many women struggle with this idea of like I have to do everything no one helps me with anything and then the minute someone helps it's like no not that way that's not the way you're supposed to do it h just let me do it Virgos this mindset is making life harder for yourself your need for absolute perfection in everything that you do in every single area of your life is going to cost you your peace and that will strip
you of your feminine energy if someone does something for you and it's done like 90% good enough like I mean 90% of the way that you would have done it and it's not like some insanely critical thing what's your first thought is it oh wow thank you so much now I don't have to do that that takes some stress off my plate or is it h you did it wrong you should have done it this way I should have just done it myself let me fix it if it's the second response then that is keeping
you stuck in your masculine energy and you know why it's because your focus is on the wrong thing instead of your focus being on what you're receiving and being able to lean back and soften and let go and just be your focus is on identifying problems to fix your focus is on taking action and doing right like the masculine energy is more about action as well as rigidity and structure and The Feminine energy is more about being as well as being spontaneous and flexible and more go with the flow now I just want to be
clear neither way is better than the other and we need both of these energies sometimes but if you want to step into your feminine energy and be more magnetic and radiant from a feminine energy perspective then one of your lessons in this life may be about allowing and letting go letting yourself receive and letting go of perfectionism because it's costing you your peace another mindset tip to radiate feminine energy is to turn your energy more inward rather than outward and let me explain a healthy feminine woman has more of an inward Focus and what that
means is she is present in her body she feels what's going on in her body she's not thinking about what other people are doing so much she's not thinking about oh are these people looking at me oh what do these people think of me she's not scanning the room taking in everyone else the whole time her energy and her focus is more inward she's present with herself she's present with what she's doing she's enjoying what she's doing when she's working at a coffee shop or even at a networking event or if she goes to the
bar with her friend or she goes to the gym she's not overly focused on the other people around her she's not thinking like oh do I look okay oh what do people think her attention is inward she doesn't get that validation from the external she gets it internally her presence is not overly focused on the external her presence is more focused on the internal so masculine energy has more of that external focus and outward energy whereas feminine energy has more of that inward focus and inward energy now I want to be clear inward doesn't mean
selfish inward doesn't mean self-centered it just means slightly more inward energy for example masculine energy looks more outward for answers through things like logic and data and analyzing things right but the feminine energy looks more inward for answers through their intuition and the way that they feel about something when we're upset about something masculine energy tends to immediately turn their attention outward and take action and try to fix the problem whereas feminine energy will turn their attention more inward first and feel their feelings first if you want to be more in your feminine energy turn
some of that attention more inward be present in your body learn to trust your intuition feel your feelings do more self-care make yourself beautiful that confident comfortable inward present in your body energy people will notice it and it will change the way you experience life and lastly something that stops women from becoming the woman of their dreams and becoming their most confident magnetic feminine energy self is that they keep trying key word trying to be her but you have to stop trying and just start being the more you try to do something or try to
be a certain type of person sometimes the farther away we get from it when you're always trying to be confident when you're always trying to be magnetic when you're trying to be in your feminine energy that can actually stop you from being truly magnetic being confident being feminine because when you say in your head that you're trying to be something what you're telling yourself subconsciously is that you are not that thing that you are not the type of person you're distancing yourself from that which you want and you are affirming to yourself that that is
indeed not you stop trying and instead just decide that that is who you are start embodying her Law of Attraction 101 right act as if but don't just pretend don't just put on a show actually embody her if you want to be a woman who radiates feminine energy decide that you are her embody her if you want to be magnetic decide that you are her embody her stop trying stop distancing yourself energetically and just start embodying masculine energy is doing energy right but feminine energy is being so stop trying and just start being and if
you're struggling with this and you don't really get what I mean it's probably because you're a little stuck in your head you're trying too hard to think your way into becoming her but you don't think your way into feminine energy you feel it move from thinking to feeling move from masculine energy which is more in the head to feminine energy which is more in the body and the Heart turn your brain off for a sec and just try to feel her try to embody her don't pretend but try to actually get in touch with the
energy of who that person is and then you embody that you don't think your way there you feel your way there you use your inward energy like we talked about you feel her so you become her one of the best things I've ever done for myself development in all aspects of life is I stopped trying and just started being now if you need more help with this concept I go into detail about it in this video here this video is all about Reinventing yourself and how to do it and I highly recommend you check it
out it's one of those videos that you're going to want to save and take some notes on so I'll see you over there or I'll just see you next time in my next video thank you so much for watching bye
