I'm going to imaginarily hold your hand when I say this you're wasting your damn time if you're the kind of person who spends half their life worrying about what other people think and I mean that in the harshest most direct way possible you clicked on this video Because deep down you're tired tired of overthinking tired of stressing over what people think tired of being the person who hesitates who second guesses who gives way too many [ __ ] about [ __ ] that doesn't matter you want to be the I don't give a [ __
] guy go good because it's not some mystical superpower it's not some personality trait you're either born with or without it's a choice and the best part it's stupidly simple but here's the deal you need to be ready to unlearn some [ __ ] Society has drilled into your head you've been trained to care about the wrong things and I'm here to rip that mindset out like a bad weed by the time this video is over you're going to know exactly how to walk through life with a [ __ ] you level of confidence no
more people pleasing no more hesitation just raw unshakable Freedom so if you're ready to stop giving a [ __ ] let's get into it step one realize how little people actually care about you this one's going to sting a little but let me hit you with the truth nobody gives a [ __ ] about you not in the way you think they do you spend hours replaying that one awkward thing you said guess what nobody remembers you stress about what people might think of your choices they're too busy wor in about their own lives to
even notice most people are selfish not in a bad way but in a they've got their own [ __ ] to deal with way and yet you're out here wasting energy on imaginary judgment from people who don't even think about you that much the second you accept this truth you unlock a superpower suddenly that anxiety about what people think gone the hesitation before saying or doing what you really want vanished because you realize none of this [ __ ] matters let that sink in step two cut the emotional leash Society put on you from the
moment you were a kid you were trained to care too much be polite be agreeable fit in don't make waves that's cute and all but guess what that leash they put on you it's keeping you weak the world respects people who stand firm not people who bend over backwards trying to be liked you ever notice how the guys who don't give a [ __ ] the ones who walk with confidence say what's on their mind and move through life like they own it always seem to be the ones people gravitate towards that's not an accident
they broke free they stopped playing by the invisible rule book of please everyone offend no one and what happened respect attraction power you want that rip off the leash stop filtering every thought every move every decision through the lens of but what if someone doesn't like it who gives a [ __ ] you're not here to be everyone's favorite person you're here to be real and real people people they don't beg for approval step three set your own standards and never apologize for them most people drift through life letting others decide their worth they let
social media their family their friends even total [ __ ] strangers dictate what's cool what's acceptable what's successful nah [ __ ] that if you want to be the guy who doesn't give a [ __ ] you need to set your own rules decide what matters to you and stick to it like it's law you want to dress a certain way do it you want to chase a dream that nobody else believes in go all in you want to say no to [ __ ] that doesn't serve you say it loud and when people come
at you with their opinions laugh because the moment you start explaining yourself you lose you give them power over you and we don't do that here you don't owe anyone an explanation for living life on your terms own your choices stand by them and watch how people suddenly start resp expecting you instead of questioning you step four get comfortable with discomfort here's the part nobody wants to hear you're going to feel uncomfortable at first you're going to feel like you're doing something wrong that's because your brain is used to people pleasing you've spent years training
yourself to care too much so when you finally start saying [ __ ] it and doing what you want your brain is going to Panic it's going to scream at you what if they judge me what if they don't like me what if I make a mistake let me tell you something that feeling that discomfort that's proof you're doing it right discomfort is a sign that you're breaking out of the cage you've been trapped in and if you push through it you come out the other side Untouchable so don't run from the discomfort walk straight
into it because every time you do you're rewiring your brain to be stronger step five stop explaining yourself to people who don't matter you ever notice how the people who give the least [ __ ] never sit around justifying themselves they don't essays in the comment section they don't argue with every critic they don't waste energy trying to prove why they do what they do they just live and the world adjusts that's the move if someone doesn't like how you think how you dress how you live who cares that's their problem not yours you don't
owe a debate you don't owe an explanation you owe yourself peace so from now on if someone questions you practice this shrug and move on let them talk let them J judge while they're wasting time criticizing you you're out here living your best [ __ ] life and that's how you win step six Master the art of saying no without guilt you know who gives too many [ __ ] people who say yes to [ __ ] they don't want to do people who let others Guilt Trip them into commitments people who are afraid that
saying no will make them look mean selfish or rude let me make this simple saying no is a power move it protects your time time it protects your energy it protects you you do not owe anybody your time not your co-workers not your so-called friends not even your family if something doesn't align with what you want you say no and move the [ __ ] on and here's the trick you don't need to explain yourself you don't need a five paragraph essay can you help me move this weekend nope why don't you drink just don't
feel like it can I borrow some money nah man end a story you don't owe people a damn thing and if someone gets mad that's their problem not yours step seven destroy the fear of embarrassment let me ask you something how many things have you not done in life because you were afraid of looking stupid how many times have you stayed quiet avoided taking risks or held yourself back just because you didn't want to feel embarrassed that ends today embarrassment is a madeup emotion it only exists if you let it and the people who never
reach their potential they are the ones who let the fear of looking dumb control them you know what's more embarrassing than failing never trying at all you know what's worse than looking awkward for 5 seconds living a life full of regrets because you were too scared to take a chance so from now on embrace the awkward moments laugh at yourself own your mistakes realize that nobody [ __ ] cares because once you stop fearing embarrassment you become Unstoppable step eight train yourself to walk away without looking back most people cling to [ __ ] that's
already dead bad relationships fake friendships toxic environments they stay in situations that drain them just because they're afraid to walk away [ __ ] that you need to train yourself to walk away from anything that doesn't serve you without hesitation without guilt and without looking back a friendship where you're always the one putting in effort drop it a job that's sucking the soul out of you find something better a relationship that makes you miserable leave and don't you dare waste time explaining why just walk the [ __ ] away the people who truly don't give
a [ __ ] they don't beg for closure they don't sit around waiting for someone to validate their decision they decide they move and they never look back at the end of the day being the don't give a [ __ ] guy isn't about being Reckless it's not about being an [ __ ] for no reason it's about freed the freedom to live life on your terms to stop stressing over opinions that don't matter to move through the world with confidence knowing that you owe nobody anything but your authenticity most people will never get here
they'll stay trapped in their fears stuck in the loop of caring too much but not you you've got the blueprint now you know exactly what to do so go walk out into the world and own your space and the next time you catch yourself worrying about some dumb [ __ ] take a deep breath and remind yourself it does not [ __ ] matter
