This is How I Transformed My Financial Future | Les Brown

how many have major goals you like to achieve raise your hands please very good I like seeing that always like to ask that question how many of you have major goals you like to achieve then I follow up with another question because this is a crucial place in my life just came from Memorial Services yesterday in Plano Texas Zig Ziggler I remember when I first saw him speak I I knew I was looking at my destiny I love helping people and and my goal was to be on stage with Zig and Dr Norman Vincent Peele

and Jim ran these guys have gone on to the next level but that was my goal and dream and I was very fortunate to achieve that at a very crucial point in my life this industry has really contributed a great deal to me I go way back in multi- marketing from the days of a company called best l products a guy named Bill Bailey he was one of the mentors of Jim Rowan one of the greatest speakers on the planet and holiday magic this stage of my life and I think about all of the things

that I've done I can tell you unequivocably to dreamers there's no business that will contribute to your growth in development more than this industry there are several Power strategies i' like to share with you but with the limited time that I have I want to drill deeply on three of those that you will have as a result of being a part of this industry because what this industry allows you to do and I want you to write this down number one it secures your future it secures your future number two it will stretch you you

develop some new skills people skills you're a dreamer you can't make your dream happen without building people as I reflect on my life know 15 years ago I was diagnosed with prostate cancer given a two to threee prognosis and the skill set that I developed and multi-level marketing allowed me to generate enough income that I could focus on my health take care of my mother I'm adopted I was born in a poor section of Miami Florida called Liberty City the other thing it did it expanded my vision of myself this is the time that as

you look at yourself there's no such thing as job security how many of you know that raise your hands please and it instilled in me a sense of confidence a strong sense of self you have strong sense of self that that gives you life life a sense of purpose your life has a sense of purpose that gives your life a sense of direction the economy has changed we have switched I remember reading a book by Alvin Toffler called Future Shock and the things that he talked about what he predicted we're living that right now the

4040 plan has G where you can go to college and graduate and get a job and work 40 hours a week doing the same thing 40 years that's gone 73% of the college graduates when they graduate unable to find a job they move back home with their parents what multi-level marketing does it owers you and gives you the ability to create your own job gives you the ability to create your own destiny I remember seeing Zig on stage if you give enough people what they want they will give you what you want I remember Dr

Norman Vincent Peele change your thinking and you will change your life I remember Jim row when the income comes for you let it find you conquering a new Mountain not sliding down in 01 I remember ear Nightingale all of us are selfmade but only the successful will admit it I remember listening to those recordings over and over and over and over again to change my mental blueprint I was born in a p section of Miami Florida called Liberty City with a twin brother and in an abandoned building on a floor and when we were 6

weeks of Age We Were adop sted by Mrs M Brown whenever I speak I always say all that I am and all that ever hope to be I owe to my mother so a sign once that said God took me out of my biological mother's womb and placed me in the heart of my adopted brother mama was a domestic worker she worked on Miami Beach she made up beds and clean homes she cooked for families we ate the food left over from the families that she cooked for my mother could bake too Mama could bake

a sweet potato pie so good you couldn't eat it with your shoes [Music] on had take your shoes off so you can wiggle your toes we wore the hand-me-down clothes of the children that Mama kept these families are kind and generous they would say maybe whatever food is left over you can pack it up and take it home to those children that you have adopted when I ask you how many have big goals and dreams I want to ask you to think about your goals and dreams in three areas number one what's some personal goal

that you have for someone that you love my first major goal was to buy my mother a home that's what I wanted to do I remember walking around these big beautiful mansions before catching the bus going back to Liberty City and Overtown in Miami I said mama she said what is it lesie when I become a man I'm going to buy you a big beautiful home just like this let me have somebody and you like to do something for that's personal to you raise your hands please very good I want you to think about that

I'm going to share with you some strategies how you can make that [Music] happen next thing is I want you to think about your Financial Freedom number that when you reach that number when you earn that amount of money that you will feel a sense of relief it take a lot of stress out of your life to give you more time for yourself and for your family and what that number is if you wrote it down or if you're thinking about it I want you to multiply it a 100 times and the reason that I

want you to do that I have found in my own life that most people fail in life not because they aim too high and miss most people fail in life because they have done what I did for the first part of my life aim too low and [Music] hit and then I want you to think about your social contribution I believe that we live in the greatest country in the world that allows us to live a life of contribution har man said we should be ashamed to die until we've made some major contribution to humankind

one of the goals I have is to reduce the number of women who died from breast cancer my mother was a 22-year breast cancer conqueror when it goah every time I get on stage I tell men that I was diagnosed 15 years ago with prostate cancer given a 2 to threee prognosis one of the things I believe they should never tell doctors should never tell someone they're terminally ill what they should say is that my ability to help you has [Music] [Applause] terminated so I encourage men to get their PSA test which stands for prostate

specific antigen and the digital rectal examination and I'll be glad when they can check our prostate by looking in our ears can you feel a brother up in here up in here I was at this medical convention a friend of mine say hey Les let me give you a free rectal snow buddy you too motivated Homie don't roll like that you know I mean I was in Florida Hospital guy came in new doctor didn't say hello good morning anything goes get some gloves and some petroleum jelly I say hey buddy this is our first date

hey you got to bring me some potato chips some Emin and peanuts we got to sit down and talk I got to get relaxed what's your mama name I can't believe I'm telling y'all this I'm turning red but y'all can't see [Applause] it oh my God one of the goals I have is the train my gifting is in the area of helping you to discover your power voice how to become a powerful presenter that's what multi-level marketing does the money's in the front of the room the money's in 101 small groups on the telephone your

ability to present yourself a gentleman changed my life Mr Leroy Washington he's in his 90s now he's blind from glaucoma I never forget the first day we met I went in his class he said young man go to board and work problem out for us I said oh I can't do that sir he said why not I said I'm not one of your students he said look at me yes sir go to the board work the problem out anyhow I said I can't do that sir her and the other student started laughing saying he's lesie

he's DT he's got a twin brothers twin brother Wesley is smart he's DT he said what does DT stand for he's the dumb twin and many of the K kids laugh just like some of you did and I said I am sir and he came from behind his desk and he looked at me he said don't you ever say that again someone's opinion of you does not have to become your [Music] reality that was the turning point in my life on one hand I was humiliated but on the other hand I was liberated because he

looked at me with the eyes of Gera who said look at a man the way that he is he only becomes worse but look at him as if he were what he could be then he becomes what he should be I want you to shake someone's hand on your right and left and look up in the eyes and say you have something special do that right [Music] now ladies and gentlemen you have something special I don't know you but here's what I know about you based upon my own experience you have something special you have

greatness within you you have the ability to do more than you can ever begin to imagine just the fact that you showed up the fact that you said yes to this industry it says a lot about you you're uncommon because it means that you have a sense of taking responsibility for your own life Jo Bernard Shaw said the people that will make it in this life they look around for the circumstances that they want and if they can't find them they create them you have something special you have greatness within you you've experienced setbacks and

disappointments like everybody else in the economy but you are operating out of the thinking of one Elsie Robinson who said things may happen around you and things may happen to you but the only things that really count of the things that happen in you you have something special for some of you it was a struggle to get here you couldn't afford to be here but there's something in you that said I can't afford not to be here you have something special you are uncommon one Great American said I choose not to be a common man

it's my right to be uncommon if I can I seek opportunity not security I don't wish to be a kept citizen humbled and dulled by having the state look after me I want to take the calculated risk to dream and to build to fail and to succeed I refuse to live from hand to mouth I prefer the challenges of life to the guaranteed existence the thrill of fulfill to the still calm of Utopia I will never C before any Master nor Bend to any threat it's my Heritage to stand direct proud and unafraid to face

the world boldly and say this I have done that's what it means to be a part of multi-level marketing an uncommon desire to Live Your Dream and control your destiny you have something special you have greatness in you I want you to like this page and share it I got a message for you there something been on my mind I want to share with you on this beautiful beautiful day this is the day the Lord has made let us rejoice and be glad in it I want you to think about the fact that this is

the fourth quarter the fourth quarter and I want you to think about finishing strong and preparing for 2023 and I and and and and something that I'm encouraging you to do and I want you to like this page and Shar I want you to ask yourself some questions and just about three one of them where you are right now is it what you anticipated when you started the year off is it alignment with your resolutions because if you follow what I'm going to share with you if you are willing to give up who you've been

the negative people the thoughts and the choices that's produced what you now have if it does not measure up to your level of expectation and you know as as Einstein said insanity is doing the same thing in the same way expecting a different outcome if you want to be create a different outcome you got to do some things differently you got to change some relationships you got to do what Celeste Johnson say operation Clean Slate you got to get some people out of your life you got to come out from among the people where you

are you know people who earn 15 20 30 40 50,000 $100,000 a month don't hang out with people who earn five and $7,000 a month no you got to upgrade your relationships one of the things when I when I began to understand the statement come out from among them I left Miami in a Greyhound bus I had too many poor people in my life okay family members and friends I had to get out of there why God said to Abraham get up and go to a new land sometimes you've got to change where you are

a place you you got a place that is your place trust me on this the things that I've accomplished I would have never accomplished those things in Miami I had to go to some other place you have a Divine place and there are certain relationships you'll never ever do anything with those people why because you're not the one where you are is your rightful place where your thoughts your thinking and your choices have brought you where you can be is your true place come on somebody I'm coming just slow down just slow down I'm coming

I'm coming yeah I mean think about it this is fourth quarter and so you want to look at your life and say wait a minute what got me here because you don't want to get to the end of 2022 and say oh my God I didn't do all the things that I was capable of doing no no evaluate because there are certain places there are certain choices there's certain behaviors there's certain people that you just don't need to be a part of your life let me give you an example in my own life like for

instance I I got up this morning and I I take the medication that they have placed me on notice I didn't say my medication I'm not claiming it the medication they put me on my goal before the end of the year is to be off all medication what major goal do you have before the end of the year so that you can look back and say that 202 22 brought out the best in you I'm not asking to have four and five different things that you'll focus on I'm I'm just saying to you and just

requesting what what major area of your life in mind I'm focusing on my health M making cancer history M getting off all this medication I've been able to get off my insulin why because I'm focused I want you to put down focus focus on one thing one thing that's important to you one thing that will make a dramatic difference in your life one thing that when you accomplish that you can pat yourself on the shoulder and say I've done good because at the end of the day life is about choices choose ye this day whom

ye shall serve but most of us and I'm using myself as an example for a long time I was just Coast ing toward an accelerated end I I I just decided I'm going to be mindful I don't want to take medication for the rest of my life I don't want to be sticking myself for the rest of my life then what are you going to do about it I dramatically began to focus and tune everything else out saying my health is my wealth that sounds nice Rhymes nice and I'm backing it up with action I'm

mindful of what I eat I'm mindful of my state of mind I'm mindful of my peace what is it you're going to do what differently are how you going to show up we're in the fourth quarter it's and I want you to write this down it's time to close chapters and turn the page come on somebody yes it's time there's some chapters you need to close they've gone beyond their expiration date some people come to your life for a season some for a reason and some for a lifetime and when I made a list of

the people that I communicate with there's some calls I don't take anymore why because it's a gimme call yeah that that that if you look at it the majority of your calls or give me calls there's a limited number of people saying hey I got something for you just look at the ratio look at it evaluate it there people who are always there when they need you life ain't playing with us and we don't need to be playing with life come on I'm telling you I'm not making this stuff up life is for laughing loving

and living it doesn't have to be all that complicated I'm telling you I'm tell there this is the time you don't want people who get on your last and stress you out being around you or in your ear come out from among them and don't try to change them a person changed against their will of the same opinion still that they are okay just as they are you have no right to weigh in on how they live their lives I don't care if it's your children or your family members friends no people got a choice

that's that's that's what God has given us all a choice and their choices a friend of mine Patricia wiard out of Columbus Ohio the choices and consequence quences listen to me listen to the old Rascal yes I've been under planed for 77 years I know some stuff now listen I'm I'm looking for some people I'm looking for the few this is not for everybody I'm just looking for the F you know what I decided to do what did you decide to do I'm going to build a culture of greatness people who have goals and dreams

people who want to do something dramatically different with their lives who want to finish the year strong people who want to get a jump start on 2023 people who have things that they want to accomplish to improve their health improve their relationships get a game plan and a blueprint on how they can begin to to bring out the greatness in them if that's you touch the link above that's all it's not for everybody it's because see and and here's something that we must learn to do and it's it's not easy learn how to become an

observer I've learned how and it took some time because I'm a they call me an empath most people ladies and gentlemen won't participate in their own rescue I have a friend I said some some videos on people who who made dramatic changes in their lives and and who had lost a lot of weight and and they had instructions on how they did it so I said this to a friend of by weigh over 400 PB you know though she asked me are you calling me fat I said no I didn't call you nothing I just

sent you some stuff [Music] that I thought maybe that you might be interested in no I did not call you f and I'm saying to myself did this person ask me that question this person who came to my house and sat in the chair in the chair broke and said oh hell [Music] no the yeah bro it's just what the hell's going on [Music] here I'm sorry you can't make this up okay you can't make [Music] any I'm sorry I'm like I'm having a hot flash I call it my my power surge so so if

you like to have fun if you want to learn how I earned my first million Against All Odds you you ever hear politician talk about the middle class they never talk about the 1% they don't want you to become 1% I'm a part of the population who's earned over a million dollars that's just 1% of the population who earned that I've done that you come into Community if you give me one year with you see you your network and George Frasier said this best your network determines your net worth did you hear what I just

said your network determines your net worth and when you're in a community with me with likeminded people people that are focused on their dreams and improving themselves people who are tuning out the negative toxic behavior and and and people that will compromise your power we have energy all of us that energy if you don't use it well it will work against you if you use it well it will help you to take responsibility for your life and create the kind of life that you're proud of I'm telling you what I know and if that's you

come on join me so it's right now it's at this time of the struggle we go through a restructuring we have competition that's doing weird stuff out in the market um and and what you're saying is it's right now that test my medal that that builds me as a leader yes without any question the sign that I saw the other day that said If You're Going Through Hell don't stop keep moving you know you got to continue to move and if you continue to move and make the adjustments and fine-tune your strategy and and let

the people on the organization know hey look here we're going to make this happen and here's what they have to do they have to come from a place of it's possible and once people begin to know that it's possible then they begin to work within that framework sometime we have to be intelligently ignorant many people fail to achieve the goals that they're capable of doing because they judge according to appearances they know too much and they think themselves out of it what we have to do in this point in time at this period of our

history is begin to be open to the possibility that it's possible that we can do this and the next step is that it's necessary it's necessary that we find a way to make this work that we look for ways to optimize the efficiency of our operation it's necessary that everybody gets on the same page it's necessary that we develop One Vision one voice and higher standards on how we're going to begin to drive the culture to impact our bottom line to begin to take the level of customer service that we envision to another level to

dominate The Marketplace it's necessary being second place is not name of the game that's not acceptable we've got to make it happen and that it's you and it's me all of us must take ownership for it it was George B Bernard Shaw who said the people that make it in life they look around for the circumstances that they want and if they can't find them they create them that's what leaders do and how do I take that that picture that I have and get my employees to really see the possibility as well speeder the leader

speed are the group you have got to buy into it you've got to believe it the difference between leaders and and and people that are followers leaders it's a it's a whole different standard for them you know they it's a different between being in the business and the business being in you that it has to be who you are and that you set the pace for the organization if the leader become cynical if there's any doubt if you don't have absolute faith that you can make it happen if you become cynical if they sense that

you don't believe that it can happen if you start complaining about the fact that you can't get your higher-ups to answer or there's so much political bureaucracy that we have to deal with that you're frustrated that you don't know what to do that you're pulling your hair out that you can't sleep at night because of the fact that it's out of your control if you have that victim mindset and feeling powerless that nonverbal communication your facial expression your energy the spirit of who you are that will permeate and contaminate the spirit of the organization many

leaders their effectiveness with their people their impact their influence begins to diminish because they don't take the time to sharpen their minds to build their faith to build their skills to empower and increase their confidence in themselves so part of what we have to do all leaders you have to take time to pour into yourself and you got to also reach out You' got to have a board of advisors and and it's your support committee that will give you a home court advantage more teams win on at home than they do on the road 87%

why because they have people cheering for them I think that all leaders should have people around them their group their Mastermind group that will help to pour into them there's safety in Council they can talk to one of the things I always tell leaders that ask for help not because you're weak but because you want to remain strong and ask for help and don't stop until you get it make it important to know what drives you and what's most important now there are things that used to be important to me they're no longer important and

that's why I've been doing operation Clean Slate getting a lot of stuff and a lot of people out of my life I remember when I read the book who's the matter with me I wrote down the names of the family members and friends that I communicated with most and I ask myself the question is this relevant this relationship is it productive is it positive is this relationship does it bring the best out of me this relationship this energy do does it challenge me hold me accountable to a higher standard people rub off on you Academy

Award winner Sydney porier said when you go for a walk with someone something happens without being spoken he said either you adjust to their Pace or they adjust to your pace whose Pace have you adjusted to I want you to write this down oqp going forward only quality people I do not allow myself to be in the company of people that I know more than them why if you're the modest one in the group you you need to get a new group no no Jim Ron said something he said your life is either a warning

or an example a warning of what not to do or an example of what to do and and part of what I'm saying to my children hey be careful about who you're around with I Remember Mama saying lesie if you run around with nine broke people she said I guarantee you you become number 10 [Laughter] and so as you look at growing your practice as you look at uh making a greater impact in your community as as you look at the things that you want to do and and and and being involved in Legacy building

and and and making the rest of your life the best of your life we have to constantly Monitor and be mindful of who's around us and what relationships that we have people say it's not what you know it's who you know not just that it's who you know and what they know about you do you have the kind of re reputation in the industry that that people will see you as a go-to person he God said to Abraham you know I make your name great didn't say I'll make you a great man I I make

your name great the reason that when when Fab calls me he's a good man he calls me I don't call everybody back but when he calls me because of how I see him and because of my relationship with him because of his vision because of his Integrity because of the stand that he's taken with his life people say Practice What You Preach no preach what you practice and what I know about him I'm going to answer his call I'm going to follow up and that's the kind of relationships going forward in and out of the

pandemic that we have to continue to look for and to develop some of the relationships that we need to spend less time with there's some people if we never saw them again it would be too soon yes what I what I read that that you earned within2 to $3,000 of your closest friends I got all my broke friends out of my life I used to be so broke I walk past the bank and trip the alarm it's so this is the time you have to look at who's around me who's the matter with you and

I want you to share it with others don't be selfish because I want to talk to you about shifting your focus and managing your mind and the thoughts that you have because when we wake up in the morning advertisers are competing for the real estate of our minds and what we have to do is begin to be proactive in programming ourselves rather than allowing ourselves to be programmed by the world that's why we're told be not conformed to this world be transformed by the renewing of your mind if you agree with me I want you

to put yes in the comment section just put yes make a brother feel [Laughter] good and and and and something else see there there are things that's going to happen yes beyond our reach and it's important that you be okay with that that that's God's business you do what you can do handling your business and those things that you can handle and those things that's beyond you you have to let go or be dragged because there a lot of stuff this this thing called life where we are we've never been here before I feel like

uh Mother Teresa she said Lord I know you know how much I can bear I just wish you didn't have so much confidence in me oh my goodness oh boy so I want to share some thoughts with you people ask me what do you do during tough times what is how do you handle it well they ask the right person as I speak to you I have a trophy here from Cancer Centers of America it is a trophy that you don't want it's called the cancer center perseverance award perseverance I'm a 29-year fourth stage prostate

cancer conqueror all right so you don't want that award some awards you want some awards you don't want but I'm glad to get the award because I'm still here [Music] so the question becomes how do you do that how do you keep a a positive mindset in the face of a prognosis and say you're on the way out how do you deal with that well number one what's very important is to understand this that at get any given time we have the power to choose choose ye this day whom ye shall serve we have the

power too choose to focus on the things that are not what we want them to be or focus on what we can do to create the things that we want in our lives see because at the end of the day life is a fight for territory and once you stop fighting for what you want what you don't want will automatically take over so I deliberately when I wake up in the morning I'm grateful I I'm great and grateful I'm still here there are a lot of people didn't wake up this morning they're taking a dirt

nap [Applause] hello so I'm grateful I'm not in pain you can hear my voice I can still serve at 77 I can still make an impact all right so what you have to do is face this every day is not going to be a good day but there's some good in every day so here's my challenge to you look for the good I ain't playing with you I'm coming for you right now look for the good because it's here and and then just take the time to savor it what most people do and this is

crucial they leave their minds open like a a universal garbage can and taking in stuff and information that they can't do anything about I I support the ukrainians without any question I pray for them I support them I will contribute to anything to help people who are being displaced but I will not watch the news on that it's too negative I guess I'm not going to inundate my mind with stuff that does not build me up you remember that song don't let nobody bring me no bad news if you if you can if you can

identify with what I'm seeing up in here my brother I was talking to him the other day my twin brother and I can hear him cranking up to give me some bad news I said hold just a minute hold just a minute I paused for a minute I said you know what I'm G to Circle back with you and so he thought I hung up and I heard him say in the background he's not going to call me back he's right no I don't want to hear that he's about to tell me some problem about

somebody I don't know that person why do I need that in my mind I remember a story about a very brilliant man we we all heard his name Einstein Alber Einstein and he he was asked for his phone number and he went to a pay phone booth and and went into the telephone booth and opened up a telephone book and I said wait a minute you I said you don't know your phone number he said I don't keep information in my mind that's not usable to me I don't call myself why should I put some

stuff in my mind about things I can't do anything about other than say wow I'm sorry sorry to hear that but I will take some things in that inspire me things that encourage people that I can use in my presentations I tell speakers and I train speakers and some of you out there I want you to listen to me and I'm going to give you a a strategy on how to become a powerful global voice of transformation you got to be a good listener I listen for stories that encourage that motivate that Inspire I I

this there's a story in the internet of a little 8-year-old Ukrainian girl who went up to a soldier who had all of his gear and his rle and everything he needs to kill somebody and this little girl unarmed but all she had was her fist and she went up and she punched him of course she didn't call caus any damage but she was striking a blow for Give me liberty or give me death I know you can kill me I know you don't value my life I know y'all just blew up a hospital with children

in there I know that but we're fighting for our freedom here and and and all I got is this right here and I'm going to come up there I'm G to punch you with everything I got now that's inspiring I want to hear those kind of stories tell me stories that I can share that can lift people's spirits that can encourage people because see at the end of the day we don't know how strong we are until we have to be strong you don't know enough about yourself to be a wimp greater is he that's

in you than he that's in the world you are more than a conqueror and when you just be with that I'm more than are conqueror I'm made in the likeness and image of God it doesn't get any better than that I've been given a Authority and dominion over everything on the face of the Earth these are not just words to be read but to be lived from people say Practice What You Preach no preach what you practice sometimes you have to get an attitude with yourself and and begin to realize we're more blessed Le than

we give ourselves credit for being and we must focus on that when I get up in the morning I have a gratitude list I have things that I write down that I'm grateful for that you can hear me that I can see I got my my nephew James he went Stone blind my twin brother's son blind at 38 I'm grateful that I have the ability to see and to hear and that I can pick up my body weight there was a period of time I was being rolled around in a wheelchair because of stic of

pain and the pain from the little CA cancer so there's going to always be some stuff Victor Franco he talks about it in Man's Search for meaning he said you either in a problem or you just left one or you headed toward one therefore take unto you the whole armor of God what is that armor faith and faith not test that can't be trusted perseverance you're going to go through some stuff lady she had a car accident and her neck was broken she said my neck was broken but my neck didn't break me although she's

a quadriplegic she's still living a productive life she's not somewhere feeling sorry for herself the other thing is you got to watch who you talk to I think I have a friend named ed former who just passed pass a few weeks ago and as the first seminar that I went to Ed had something that he did and at first I didn't get it Ed will never ask you how you doing I said Ed why don't you ask her people are feeling he said because they might tell [Applause] [Laughter] you he said no he said I

just tell her you're doing great you look better than this time than the last time I saw you you see I compliment him I find something good to say because people want to tell somebody about what they're dealing with but you want to call forth those things that be not as though they were do you believe that are you down with that do you understand what I'm sharing with you right now it's a part of of what we have been told and and it's something that we don't want to just hear it but to live

from that place to stand in that place of power I believe that we're here for a reason and all this stuff that's happening that God is in the midst of it but therefore take unto you the whole armor that we've got to stand up inside ourselves and face it head on call light and sometimes I have to get an attitude with myself because sometimes things get to me got a son who's bipolar schizophrenic and I had to realize hey that's his trip he doesn't want to take his medication he's 38 years old that's beyond me

that's him and God they got to work that thing out I'm not going to stress myself out about some stuff that I can't control Lord grant me the serenity to accept the things that I cannot control courage to change the things that I can and the wisdom to know the difference see it's easy to say those nice little words when you don't have any pain in your body and your bills are paid you're not facing foreclosure or your relationship is working out fine and your children act like they have good sense it's easy to say

those things but when life knock when life challenges you that's that's when you have to pull and call on the whole armor that's when you have to be be able to understand yay though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death I will fear no evil oh boy this thingin called light I I saw something with some actors they were talking about had they learned when they were younger that whatever you're going through right now if it's bad if it's painful if it's tragic guess what this too shall pass pass and whatever you're

going through right now if it's a celebration you're happy you are joyful things are going great you feel good in your body you physically capable to doing whatever you want to do your relationship is working out fine this too shall pass what do you mean life is a roller coaster sometimes you up sometimes you down sometimes things go well sometimes they don't go so well and we have the power to be an observer and not buy into it and decide wait a minute I'm gon to find some good in this I'm going to wrestle with

this Angel until I find my blessing up in here life is a fight for territory and once you stop fighting for what you want peace of mind for your relationship for your health once you stop fighting for what you want a good night sleep a relationship that that that's where you you love each other and care about each other and got each other's back once you are unwilling to fight for what you want what you don't want will automatically take over I ain't playing with you I'm telling you what I know know you have something

special and even if you don't believe me I don't care I'm I'm going to say it until I get through to you why because that's my mission I believe live your life the way you want to leave your life and that's what I'm doing my goal is to leave my life inspiring you encouraging you lifting Spirits reminding you of the greatness that you have in you reminding you that you are treasure you are Masterpiece because you're peace of the master oh Behave hello so having said those words I want you to know Tyrone and I

my little girlfriend you have something special you have greatness in you bye for now [Music]