all right so it's interesting because we live in a time where everyone's seeking this idea of masculinity men are being prescribed the red pill or you know black pill or whatever just to boost their masculinity there are masculinity influencers out there right and you know I don't consider myself that at all I honestly I feel like I'm still building my way up to becoming more masculine whatever that means but you're probably wondering why I should listen to this dude man like he's young right I'm 27 years old what do I know about masculinity and the
reality is I actually grew up with my father right I can say this confidently I grew up with my father around me 247 he was one of the most masculine men I've ever seen in my entire life granted we do have our differences right we do have our different view points of life but at the end of the day I grew up with a masculine father a a lot of these guys were trying to teach you masculinity never had a masculine man to even emulate so a lot of what they're emulating are these prescriptions that
are given online and so that's why you should listen to me because I've observed masculine men I have a lot of masculine men in my family I'm Haitian American um we tend to have very masculine men um if you go look up like the Haitian revolution um you know my ancestors were a part of that right so it runs in my blood the warrior energy energy runs in my blood that masculine energy runs in my blood which is why a lot of people say man you are very masculine and I never really understood what that
meant so I started to analyze all of this I started to understand because I used I started to think back of how my dad was how my grandfather was how different men that are around me that are masculine act and it's very different from what a lot of these influencers are pushing on social media right it's not prescriptive whatsoever there's an energy to it it's not necessarily holding frame because holding frame is essentially means that you're not that actual person you're just holding a Persona to gain a certain result I'm talking about the embodiment like
the actual essence of masculinity what is that and how can you develop that for yourself so I'm going to walk through a few of the different things that I've noticed a few of the characteristics that I've noticed and how you can apply them so that you can become a more masculine man the same way that I am becoming more masculine as I integrate these different things into my reality to my daily life all right so the first thing that I want to hit that's the most important is not caring that's a big thing and not
caring about what other people think about you that is one of the most like essential masculine traits that you can ever have is being your authentic self and literally not caring about what anybody says about you because at the end of the day you're going to realize that everybody on this planet will have an opinion about you that is different that is a perception that they have based on an experience that they have with you so when you have that level of understanding that everybody will essentially have that opinion about you you will stop worrying
about what other people think about you you'll start to make decisions based on what you want you'll start to actually like things based on whether you like them or lot so for example if you like anime just because that masculine influencer is saying you shouldn't be watching anime or you shouldn't be playing video games doesn't mean that you listen to that person if that's truly what you like see a masculine man unlike what a lot of people are saying they literally do not care they do what they want to do when they want to do
it right as long as it's not disrupting like the world or they're not harming anybody right they will do what they want to do they will be interested in what they want to be interested in you don't necessarily need to be interested in all of these fake masculine um Trends or these fake masculine Hobbies just to do it right like for example cigars I like cigars a lot but it's not because I want to look more masculine I generally just like the actual smoke and I like the tobacco I like that type of thing am
I going to utilize that to be more masculine no that's just something that I like do I like playing video games on occasion I'm not going to listen to this masculinity influencer that tells me that I shouldn't do that because who cares right it's the same if you dress a certain way you don't need to dress like a Mafia Boss to be more masculine you simply need to dress the way that you want to address unapologetically and walk with confidence right so the next thing is going to be confidence you need to have confidence in
everything that you do like Supreme confidence because at the end of the day that is how people are going to perceive you when they see you in person when you speak you want to be able to speak with confidence with authority you have to actually be definite with what you say see the feminine energy is more of the unsureness or of the looking for approval right and again men and women have masculine and feminine energy both both have both right so I'm not saying that women are like this there are women who have significant masculine
energy and there are men who have significant feminine energy right but you have to be able to tap into that masculine energy as the dominant energy that you have as a man to really Captivate who you truly are so the next step like I was saying being more confident right stepping in and instead of speaking in like a like unsure tone like yeah I mean I think that this is you want to no yes this is exactly what this is oh we are going to do this be more definite be more commanding and not in
a dictatorship way but in a way that you are sure with your decisions because as a masculine man you need to be very decisive you need to have confidence in your decisions right if you do not have confidence in your decisions you cannot be a leader that is one of the main tenants of masculinity is leadership you need to be a leader in your household in your in your relationships in you know different activities that you're doing you want to be that leader the man needs to be the leader that's just a trait that you
need to have to be able to direct people in ways that will benefit them to be able to empower people but you need to be confident in yourself you need to be confident in the clothes that you wear you need to be confident in the way that you speak you need to be confident in your views about life that is how you influence people see the masculine man is so confident that he can influence anybody regardless of what he believes in right so you have to understand confidence is very important to get and so how
do you get confidence well you need to start getting clear about who you are what you like what you dislike and and having values build your value system understand what you agree with what you don't agree with write that down on paper and that will be the value system that you live by right how you think the world should be your your world view develop these things on a document and really start to have the confidence in yourself to know that you know exactly what you want you you know exactly who you are and you
know exactly what to do in different situations and you will quickly be decisive and figure that out right so that leads to the next Point as a masculine man you have to be extremely Primal I know a lot of people won't like this and I didn't like this at first but to be Primal means you need to live in your your natural state which means you should be seeking out risk right A lot of people nowadays they seek out risk through business which is great that is a great way to exercise and train the masculine
side of you without having physical risk but you should also experience physical risk not consistently to the point where you actually will get hurt but at the end of the day you need to put yourself in positions for example ride a motorcycle right you can ride a motorcycle you can um what else can you do go shoot guns right these are like traditional masculine things that people say but they genuinely are are helpful because they allow for you to see a different side of life they allow for you to experience the the risk so that
you can control yourself so that you can be calm Under Pressure right bungee jumping do something that is considered quote unquote risky and get yourself out into a safer position while you take that risk that is another thing if you do not take risk you will never know who you truly are when the the odds are stacked against you when you have certain things that are happening to you take the risk on the business that you want to go start burn all of the ships behind you and go and try that business and see if
it works out I did that with my tech company had a pretty good job at a software company doing sales and I decided to quit cold turkey and go build my startup whether it failed or not and it actually ended up failing and that was catastrophic for me I was at an all-time low but I learned so much about myself that again it goes back to the tenent of confidence it built my confidence see taking these risks are going to build your confidence as a man what you need to do to build your masculinity right
you need to be calm Under Pressure you need to know who you truly are and to do that you have to be taking these risks to understand how your emotions are managed during these risks right the next thing you need to surround yourself with other men who exhibit the masculine traits or are on their way to learning those masculine traits see men tend to have energy that is fueled up when they are around other men doing Primal things right so if you go join your local boxing club that's actually what I'm going to do I'm
going to go join my local boxing club and learn see for me I I'll go on a little tangent here I was into bodybuilding and I realized I was into bodybuilding because it was safe that's why I did bodybuilding and also I'm good at it right my frame works for a bodybuilder I can develop my body in an extreme way naturally but I really did it because it was safe I didn't get into boxing because oh I want a head injury or but at the end of the day I want to take the risk in
life I want to take risks in life I want to put myself in position where my adrenaline is high and I need to control my emotions while I'm actually I have somebody in front of me that's trying to literally knock me out you know so as a man you need to be able to take risk and you also need to be around other men who are taking risks with you who are also on the on the Cutting Edge Of Life who are also building businesses going to zero every day and getting back up right and
making 10 grand in a day and and then dropping down to zero the next day and then making this is like these are the risks of life that will that will build you up as a man that will build your confidence that will help you understand who you truly are right and and from there you won't start to look for other people to tell you what to do because your decision making skills will improve because you are taking the risks right so risk-taking the next thing you need to be able to do as a man
to develop this masculine energy is to always walk with your head up I know this sounds so basic but it's so important if you watch any man you can literally tell if he's quote unquote masculine or not based on how he presents himself does he look you in the eye is his head up does he give you a firm handshake these are important things that signal to other people whether one you know yourself you're confident in yourself and overall you are a masculine man or you are a feminine man who is shy and doesn't really
know how to speak to people and stumbles over his words and doesn't really understand what he's saying does not think quickly doesn't isn't decisive with his words you have to walk with your head up your shoulders back and you need to be able to show yourself as a masculine man you can develop this by consciously understanding how you move throughout life how other people are perceiving you it's another one let's conquer the world together that's why I created training grounds training grounds is the ultimate self-development and fitness Community where you'll learn training nutrition build social
skills and network you need to have a community of men around you that are elevating you on a daytoday basis that's going through a lot of the trials and tribulations so that way you don't feel alone that's why I created training grounds you'll learn how to build an incredible business for yourself for me so tap in link is in the description become a conqueror be around other conquerors and let's conquer the world together I'm going to catch you in training grounds the next I lost count of how many I'm going to have to go back
in this video and see how many steps I said but the next step is going to be physicality I said boxing but you also need to be in the gym you need to build a dominant frame now a lot of copers a lot of The Drifters will say oh I don't want to go to the gym you don't need to go to the gym to be a man sure you don't I mean you already are a man right but to be a masculine man to develop your masculine energy you need to actually start to move
weight you need to pushing your body to different limits to actually see the potential of which your body can actually take what your body can get to right it's the same you need to build that body so that when you walk in front of somebody you have a frame that is dominant and it is respectable I don't care what you say Aesthetics matter yes functionality matters too that is why you're going boxing that's why you're doing wrestling whatever it is that you want to do with the muscle that you're building but you need to build
that foundation so that you can be sitting up head H held high shoulders back frame wide right you you embody that physicality you need to have that all right the next is you need to be Unapologetic with what you do unless it genuinely hurt somebody else and you did not mean to do it you need to be Unapologetic nothing you do has to be an apology right if you tell somebody the truth don't apologize for the truth you said that and you mean it right don't fall into the emotions of other people be Unapologetic with
who you are be Unapologetic with what you say think before you speak develop a thought process that is quick again being decisive think about the things that you say and be decisive and do not apologize for everything that you say unless it genuinely was something that you didn't mean to do but if you think correctly if you have a thought process and you're able to think before you speak you won't say things that you don't mean to say right so you need to be able to develop that to be able to make sure that you
have that ability to be Unapologetic people will respect you for that people understand that you're a man of your word right that's another thing let's transition to the next being a man of your word you have to be a man of your word I struggled with this a lot right and I told you this is how you'll respect yourself this is how other people will respect you when you say you're going to do something you have to do it when you say you will not do something you will not do it that is how you
develop respect that is the masculine energy of of dominance of respect is to be able to say something and mean it and execute on it if you say you're going to start that business go start the business if you say you're going to sign up for this membership go sign up for the membership if you say you're going to get this car get that car if you say you're going to sleep at this time sleep at that time if you say you're going to wake up at 5 a.m. wake up at 5:00 a.m. whether you
like it or not that is what is going to develop that Master Uline energy inside of you and other people will see that and other people will respect you the way that they need to respect you right there's nothing wrong with having some feminine energy you have to tap into that sometimes as well if you want to be nurturing if you have a significant other um your mother right um your your family you have to have that feminine energy in certain occasions but the problem is we live in a society where everything is Warped where
men have significant feminine energy and no masculine energy you see women with significantly more masculine energy because they have to fill in the for men who do not have that masculine energy because there has to be a balance in the world right so you need to be able to utilize what I'm telling you right now to be able to build yourself up these are just the basics of actually improving your masculine energy improving your aura this is something that once you start building up on this type of this these types of things you will start
to actually see yourself in a better light you will start to be represented by other people in a better way people want to be around you people want you to lead them right you will make more money that's a fact because you'll be able to lead other people towards a vision that you have and people will be happy to work for you and with you but these are the basics of masculinity if you want to build that masculine energy another thing that I want to say because I'm I'm just going off the top of my
head with this because I've seen this a lot the the music that you listen to right listen to uplifting music L listen to music that has positive energy but also brings out that Warrior energy that you have right I like to listen to old school rap I like to listen to afro beats I like to listen to different things that will get me in the mood get me excited get me you know ready to take on the day I don't like to listen to sad music why am I listening to sad music that will lower
my vibration that will lower my energy my masculine energy that will make me sad a masculine man can be sad but not throughout the entire day I don't want to listen to music to add to whatever sadness I could have had right so listen to powerful music listen to uplifting music listen to music that is going to make you feel better about yourself if you like classic rock listen to that if you like classical music listen to that but utilize music to be able to uplift yourself so that you have the energy to do what
you have to do throughout the day so that you have the confidence in yourself right that's the biggest thing pick up an instrument pick up an instrument and learn it right become competent in different things become multi-dimensional this is what's going to improve your your masculine energy is being multi-dimensional you may read certain books books you might be able to write poetry you might be able to you know write blogs you can um paint you can do art you can do um all kinds of things right play a guitar play the piano I can play
the piano right I might learn the guitar as well but you need to be multifaceted multi-dimensional in everything that you do with the skills that you learn right learn how to speak to people in public learn how to how to build on the internet right learn how to build a business on the internet learn learn all kinds of things that you can dive in into that and really just use your mind and build your mind because that will give you competency which will improve your masculine energy see if you do all of this and you
start to work on this every single day you will start to feel yourself becoming more masculine you will start to actually believe in yourself as a masculine man without doing these things if you miss out on these Basics you're going to always feel like there's something missing because there is something missing and I had to learn this because I saw all of this in my father my father played instruments my father was a very dominant person and not in a in a negative way to where it was toxic like he he rarely ever rarely ever
hit me right but at the end of the day um he was a dominant he was a dominant man everything he said I believed it right everything that he said his word was Bond if he said he was going to do something he was going to do it right he was multifaceted he knew a lot of things he knew how to sing he knew how to write poetry he knew how to write he knew how to um do mathematics he knew how to do a lot of different things he was just a multi m-dimensional man
that was very confident and and knew what he wanted out of life and that is essentially what masculine energy is right he used to ride a motorcycle he used to take risks he used to do a lot of different things right so if you found this video valuable like comment subscribe share with a friend who is looking to build their masculine energy again I'm still on my journey of building mine I'm not the ultimate masculine man of course I know the haters are going to be like bro what are you talking about masculinity you I
know I know I'm not there but I'm helping other people with the Journey of with my journey and what I've learned from masculine men in my life because most of you have not grown up with a father and it shows right so you need to be able to either find somebody who has grown up with a father that has learned these tenants aka me or somebody else or you need to find a father figure in your life that is masculine that can teach you all of these things so that you can have a leg up
on the world so that way you can actually take over and conquer the world right so I appreciate you again like comment subscribe hit H me up one-on-one coaching if you're interested in in Fitness um you know getting in the best shape of your life getting lean and muscular for the summer link is in the description I'm taking applications today starting today for the summer and I'm excited um sign up to the free email newsletter as well as training grounds training grounds is my PRI private Community for men who are looking to better themselves in
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