hey everyone I'm Lise Leblanc, therapist author and life coach and today I'm talking about 10 types of women that a good man should avoid if he wants to keep his sanity now this video assumes that you're seeking a healthy relationship but if not I'm not here to judge there are many reasons conscious and subconscious that you might be attracted to toxic women and I will be talking about these reasons in an upcoming video so if you haven't already subscribed to my Channel please take a moment to do so and hit the notification Bell so you
don't miss [Music] anything you may already know this but my channel is aimed at helping men who are dealing with toxic relationships because I find there just aren't enough resources out there for men who are in abusive situations now I know that relationships are a two-way street and if you're repeatedly finding yourself in toxic relationship after toxic relationship then there are probably some things that you need to address within yourself but there are other situations where good men fall prey to manipulative and abusive women and are sometimes emotionally and or financially ruined by them okay
so let's get started and in no specific order here are the 10 types of women so the first type of woman you'll want to avoid is the one who is emotionally volatile so here are a few Clues first she tells you that she's crazy hard to handle difficult that you'll regret getting involved with her second Oliver xes are abusers or stalkers maybe she even tells you about some situations that required police intervention third she has a lot of mood swings rage episodes and erratic Behavior within the first few months of the relationship you know what
forget I offered to help you forget the entire [ __ ] idea cuz that must have been [ __ ] crazy because I am so much crazier than you keep your voice down I'm just the crazy [ __ ] with a dead husband forget it shut the [ __ ] up [ __ ] [Music] you hey Tiffany now I'm not saying that you need to find a woman who is always calm and emotionally stable that might not be realistic now below a five crazy and above an eight hot this is your unicorn Zone these things
don't exist if you find a unicorn please capture it safely keep it alive we'd like to study it and maybe look at how to replicate that okay but you also don't want to be with someone who is is always going off on you being irrational antagonistic and just downright difficult I mean that might seem like a fun challenge at first but it gets exhausting really fast and it could cause you a whole lot of problems you are an [ __ ] get off me get off you're harassing me he's harassing me hey [Music] stop another
type of woman you will want to avoid is the micromanager this type of woman will tell you who you can talk to what you can do where you can go how you should do the things you've been doing since you've been on this planet she will order you around like you're a little puppy dog infringing on your Independence at every turn and before you know it she'll be telling you that you're eating and breathing wrong this woman is a control freak and if you stay with her your world will end up getting very very small
and you will need to shrink yourself to fit into the tiny box that she provides for you and that box just keeps getting smaller and smaller you'll feel trapped suffocated and you'll lose all self-respect every day it's it's like waves hitting the beach you know every day just eroding a little more your life away you know just waking up inch by inch every day just wa hang out with him he drinks too much where'd you buy that that's ugly throw it out number three is an entitled woman this is a woman who has no humility
and no appreciation for what you're bringing to the table she totally takes you for granted expecting you to do more more and more while she provides very little in return at first sure she probably love and sex bombed you but as soon as you were locked in and committed and fully invested in her and the relationship her new mantra became what have you done for me lately despite the fact that you're working your tail off giving her a great lifestyle that she doesn't have to work for and yet you're getting dissatisfaction disappointment and an endless
List of Demands from her and you might wake up one day realizing that you've wasted your life on someone who will never love value or appreciate you no matter how hard you work or what you give up for her okay what are we doing today yeah I say give me some that says I get up every morning at 5:30 and commute for an hour and a half to some [ __ ] job when my jag off boss expects me to kiss his balls all day just so I can afford to keep my ungrateful screaming kids
decked out and D the Explorer [ __ ] and my wife up to her fat ass and self-help videos until the day I get up the courage to put a shotgun in my mouth right here yeah that's it number four is the woman with multiple exes if your woman is a serial monogamist she's been with a lot of guys it's a sign that she's in love with the process of falling in love and obsessed with a fantasy fairy tale type of love that's typical of Disney movies her history of promiscuity and failed relationships suggests that
she's always searching for the next thrill or a fantasy relationship which makes it hard for her to be happy in reality don't be fooled into thinking that your ending is going to be different even though she's telling you how different and special you are you're not that's the Trap she starts by idealizing you treating you like a king acting like you're her hero but in reality she's in love with the idea of you not the real you and she will have no patience for any deviation from her fantasy then she'll start accusing you blaming you
devaluing you telling you you're not the man she thought you were she does not have the ability to transition from the honeymoon phase the fantasy illusion to a real long-term committed relationship number five is a woman with significant mental health or addiction issues where she is not in treatment maybe it's because she doesn't believe in therapy maybe she thinks she's self-aware and has things under control or maybe she is blaming her abusive behavior on past trauma and excusing it and it may be due to past trauma but if she's not taking responsibility and actively working
to address her issues you need to ask yourself whether you're willing to help someone who is not willing to help themselves abuse is abuse and you don't deserve it number six is gold diggers and sugar babies unless you're looking for a superficial transactional relationship steer clear they want you for your money and the lifestyle that you can provide and although they might be willing to act like your dream girl until you're emotionally invested you will eventually be manipulated and exploited now I'm not going to lie I don't have a ton of empathy for men who
fall for a materialistic woman because chances are you're exploiting her too for reasons like your own need for validation having a beautiful young woman on your arm might give you an ego boost it might ease your insecurities and elevate your status but just know that you're setting yourself up for a superficial transactional relationship and I'm not here to judge you do what you want it's a free country but at least be honest with your yourself about what you're getting into and don't be surprised when the relationship blocks depth and authenticity when you feel used and
exploited number seven is The Chronic victim so this is a woman who is always feeling sorry for herself always in crisis constantly surrounded by drama Misfortune and an endless series of problems she thrives on attention and sympathy often manipulating situations to keep herself looking like the victim instead of seeking real solutions or taking responsibility she will rely on you to uphold her victim stance and to rescue her from the problems that she is attracting and orchestrating but for every problem that you solve there will be 10 more right behind it so instead of feeling rewarded
and fulfilled by helping her you will end up drained feeling inadequate and frustrated especially when she starts blaming you for not doing enough to help her number eight is attention Seekers women who need constant attention and validation will never be satisfied with one man they thrive on this external validation and are always seeking out admiration from other men to meet their emotional needs and maybe even other needs too sure she'll tell you that he's just a friend she's not attracted to him if she wanted to be with him she would be you're the only one
who matters and yet she refuses to cut emotional ties or at least to set better boundaries to make you feel more comfortable secure and respected now I'm not trying to say that a purely platonic relationship with someone of the opposite sex is impossible but it is rare So a woman who needs to keep m multiple guys around as friends whether that's exes co-workers or just random guys um that she's overly friendly and involved with these guys that she turns to when she's upset or needs something that you can't provide then it's highly likely that she
either needs more validation and attention than you can provide or she's not fully committed to you and wants to keep some backup options open it might even be to make you feel insecure so that she can get more control over you the fact that she's keeping other guys around doesn't necessarily mean that she's being unfaithful but here's the red flag you need to pay attention to if you tell her that it makes you feel uncomfortable and you ask her to set boundaries respectfully and she turns around and accuses you of being insecure immature not trusting
her instead of trying to understand your perspective then then walk away and here's another one she'd be super jealous and insecure if you were to give that type of attention to another woman number nine is the dependent and insecure woman so while you don't necessarily want someone who is too independent you also don't want someone who is completely dependent on you at first this might make you feel good to have someone relying on you to meet their every need it might make you feel indispensable significant valued maybe even like a hero but in time you'll
probably find yourself feeling suffocated by her constant need for validation reassurance and resources you might find that the responsibility becomes too much and instead of feeling loved and valued you feel burdened and resentful number 10 is the woman who is detached and plays the pushpull game so this is a woman who wants to be with you when it's convenient for her maybe she's always busy making excuses to avoid you then when you start focusing on your own life she suddenly shows interest and draws you back in this pushpull Dynamic creates a lot of confusion and
doubt and it's often an indication that there is a lack of commitment a fear of intimacy um it could be emotional manipulation an an avoidant attachment style or other serious mental health issues now I'm not saying that people with these problems don't deserve love but just know that it will be very challenging to maintain a healthy relationship odds are you will likely end up feeling emotionally drained as you find yourself constantly trying to navigate her mixed signals so if she's not willing to address these issues in therapy you might want to think twice about investing
f into the relationship so there you have it 10 types of women that could rob you of your sanity if you're not careful if you need help breaking toxic relationship patterns or getting out of a toxic relationship reach out to a coach or therapist in your area or consider taking my toxic relationship recovery program that I Linked In the description section of this video if you found this content helpful please like share and subscribe and to learn more about the toxic tactics of a female covert narcissist please click on the link above [Music]
