quasi here in today's video I want to share with you how I surrendered my way to becoming a millionaire and how once I let go of trying working so hard and pushing and shoving and grinding and just relaxed into life and the flow of life it took me to where I wanted to get to where in three short years I was able to go from a 95 that I absolutely hated destined to working 40 years and then retiring only then to have my life to starting up a business that I love making YouTube videos and
making over a million dollars every single year and that allowed me the freedom to do what I wanted when I wanted how I wanted with whoever I wanted with this kind of Freedom now I can do more of the things that I love and express it even more and in today's video I want to show with you exactly how you can use this to completely surrender to ease into a joyous life that was meant for you to start with I want to begin with a simple quote that an ancient book and I'm going to paraphrase
this quote because it's in a different language it's in Sanskrit it was from the babad Gita which was written around 400 BCE and the quote goes something like you have the right to work but for the work's sake only you have no right to the fruits of work desire for the fruits of work must never be your motive in working never give way to laziness either perform every action with your heart fixed on the Supreme Lord renounce attachment to the fruits be even tempered in success and failure for it is this evenness of temper which
is meant by yoga work done with anxiety about results is far inferior to work done without such anxiety in the calm of selfs surrender seek refuge in the knowledge of Brahma they who work selfishly for results are miserable so this quote woke me up to the inevitability of effort and surrender learning how to put effort in whilst being fully surrendered fully unattached to the outcome because I remember when I was starting up my business I worked and I worked and I worked and I burned myself down to the ground thinking that that's what would do
it taking Massive Action would do it but if taking Massive Action was the only way then people who work 80 hour weeks in construction or janitorial services would be the richest people in the world when in reality it's less about work work work hard hard hard it's more about what's beyond the work it's about who is showing up to do the work so in today's video I'm going to show you exactly that to begin with we're going to have to understand the three different types of archetypes and which one you fall under and then what
you're going to learn are three main ways to properly surrender which literally no one knows how to do because there is an intellectual surrender surrendering the mind but there's also an emotional surrender surrendering your body okay your your heart giving it fully to what you want I'm really really excited to share this with you let's go get started so to understand the three different archetypes we have to understand this concept of the flow of Life your life right now has a flow it's flowing in a particular direction sometimes it may go to places where you
like other times it may not take you to places that you like but that's okay because life knows best okay wherever you're being delivered you just trust that this is the right place for you to be at at the right time no matter what you're going through right now just understand that God has a greater plan for you the three different types of people pertains to how they their relationship to the flow the very first type of person is what's known as the indignant the person who gets Swept Away by the flow okay so they
get swept away to wherever the flow takes them and sometimes the flow takes you to places you don't necessarily want to get to and that's completely fine but this indignant person feels apathetic to that and just thinks that it's their lot in life they in a in a very unconscious way resist this flow of life on the other hand you have the fighter the person who battles the flow of Life at every single turn every single thing is an uphill battle and Uphill clim for them I used to be this kind of person it was
always a battle it was always a fight I always thought I had to beat something and beat someone and compete against something and compete with someone until I woke up to the truth which was you don't have to do any of that the only person you have to compete with is who you were yesterday and even that itself is not necessary okay the perfect AR archetype is neither the indignant nor the fighter the best archetype I found that has completely changed my life is the archetype of the Wizard or the reality Creator this is the
person who is sort of navigating the flow of life except they adjust their sale right so if you imagine a sailboat how it works is there are times when you put up your sales there are times when you take down the sales because the flow is taking you to the right place or there are times when you don't adjust the sail of the boat you just leave it as it is but then there are other times you make Minor Adjustments the very reason people never achieve what they want is because they don't understand two simple
words course correct they don't understand how to course correct instead of trying to course correct and directing reality what do they do they try to control every little aspect of reality okay so most people when something in their current reality isn't going the way that they want they immediately try to choke it by the neck and control it and try to make it into something that it is not instead of letting it evolve into what they would like to see they don't know how to channel reality now I know I'm speaking very very esoterically but
to properly understand this you have to investigate your life right now when something terrible happens if you try to fight it or resist it you're giving something energy that's already done and gone because this present moment is continually becoming past the only thing that's in your power is to choose that next moment that's upcoming so as reality creators our Focus has to shift from trying to resist present and trying to resist the past and change it it has to go from changing to choosing instead of trying to change things choose choose what you want choose
who you would like to become stop trying to change yourself stop trying to change your spouse or your partner or your friends or your family choose what you would like to experience okay and learning to choose has to do with coming from a place of emptiness because if your cup is already full you can't fill it up any further and so where that leads me to is understanding these three different methods to properly surrender your resistance and the very first of which is learning the concept of importance okay so when we learn to deal with
our importance levels we're mentally surrendering it okay so the mind is at work and what I mean by that is whenever you put something on a pedestal you want to make a certain amount of money in your business you want to quit your job and you want to go into your business full-time you want to get the kind of relationship that you want the kind of Health that you want do you want to get out of debt you have a lot of importance to one thing in your life okay and for me what I always
dealt with for a very long time was my business anything happened to the business it would affect me personally because my business is my baby and I work so hard on on building it right and I've always been in this fight mentality like I have to fight to earn my place on a design so mentally anything that would happen to my business would affect me deeply and it would just make me anxious and you know it just my identity was deeply tied to it and to some extent it still is but I've gotten a lot
better than I was and I'm getting even better and better now but it took me a long time to fully fully grasp this which when you remove importance you you start to see that things just happen effortlessly you ever noticed how anything that you just had valued for a really long time you really wanted it but then one day you just forget all about it and then it just spontaneously manifests why why is it that when we forget about something it manifests here's why when we have importance towards anything in our lives we generate an
imbalance in the field of the universe so if you think of about the field of the universe and you think about it as little lines that are all uniform when your thought energy puts something on a pedestal you're making it very concentrated the field of the universe gets very concent at at that point because your thought energy is creating this imbalance when we create this imbalance what Mother Nature wants to do is balance it out it wants to come in and remove this imbalance and it looks at who is causing this imbalance which is this
individual via their thought energy okay so what's the easiest way to eliminate this importance to eliminate this individual that's causing this imbalance right if you're disturbing mother nature mother nature will want to elim elate you but it does so by taking the thing that you desperately want the sale you wanted to close the text you wanted to get back or you know the attention you wanted from the partner that you put on a pedestal it takes that person further and further away from you it takes that deal further and further away from you it does
this because that's the easiest possible way to balance out the imbalance in the field of the universe okay the key here is to understand anything that you put on a pedestal you're creating a resistance to so what's the solution the solution is to lower importance by accepting failure in the first place so I want you to take a moment to think about this if you really really want a particular outcome you want to quit your job and and you really want to make this business work and you've given it your heart you've given it everything
for the past 10 years to make this business work but it's still not working and now you're faced with its inevitable death of course it's going to make you feel sunk cost it's going to make you feel like this is the most important thing in the world and that's exactly when you start to fall into the Trap that's when you put it on a pedestal and you make it more important than other things in your life and other things in relationship to you so if you get to a point and you flip the script and
you say you know what this could fail I fully accept it and you even Envision the failure scenario that's completely fine this could just completely flop and that's okay it's just like public speaking you know I could just if I go up in front of a stage and before prior to going up I could be really nervous oh I could just totally it up I could just totally fail but then if I walk on stage and I'm like hey hi everyone I'm actually really nervous doing this immediately immediately my importance drops right so if you
acknowledge that yes I might fail and that's okay I'm going to learn something from it either I succeed or I learn something that helps me succeed in your life right now I want you to think about the goal that you want what's the worst case scenario become completely neutral to it fully fully accepted and then that will lead you to finding a plan B okay so a safety net to understand the concept of this plan B I want to give you an example of a man walking a tight RPP for the first time when the
man walks on the tight RPP what happens if it's on a very high precipice their importance level for their life is through the roof if one misstep they die that's certain death so therefore that man has very very high importance level don't make the wrong step don't make the wrong step their importance level is super super high and what Mother Nature wants to do at that point is just plunge them into their death because that's the easiest solution to balance things out okay and that's why you hear you see all of this in sports it
comes to the final clutch free throw or the golf shot and they choke right the the athlete chokes why because the importance level is so high it's just so easy to miss that's the easiest solution the easiest solution is to throw the ball anywhere else but the net the easiest solution is to putt the ball in anywhere else but the hole right that's the easiest solution and mother nature always forces it in that favor when your importance level is that high this always happens and that's why a lot of the times you see people get
to the last step of creating something and then their importance level is so high they've come so close to it they just somehow find a way to sabotage it has that happened to you you get to the final stage of something of the business of making the kind of money that you want and then all of a sudden you have that one creeping D that's like you're not good enough for this and then your importance levels through the roof and then you sabotage it I can't tell you the number of times I've seen clients who've
come to work with us who've been making $80,000 a month and then they just completely went bankrupt why this is why because they get to that point and they don't feel worthy within themselves to be experiencing that they haven't become the kind of person who's worthy of making and keeping $80,000 a month so they find a way to blow it to curb your importance level to mentally lower importance you have to accept failure in the first place and find a plan B if this doesn't work out what am I going to do instead in my
particular instance I quit my 95 job to go all in on my business and I didn't have a lot of capital to work with I was fortunate enough that my parents housed me and fed me but apart from that I didn't have much I just had my dad yelling at me every single day like what the heck are you doing did you make make a sale this isn't going to work this stupid online thing and I just felt frustrated anxious depressed every single day and I just still tried to make it with that pit of
anxiety you could even see my old videos I had this pit of anxiety in my stomach and in the month of May of 2019 was the worst month ever that's the month I graduated from college and I was supposed to go full-time into the job they already gave me an offer but I chose not to and I told my parents I'm going to make this business work and that month I made nothing absolute zero and prior to which I was making some money I was making 2 to 3K a month and they were like okay
you know this seems promising but then that month I made nothing and I just remember having a Dark Night of the soul and that's when I came to this realization when your reality is burning you have to let it burn you can't try to change that don't try to put it out see what Rises what's left From the Ashes because you're rebuilding when you make an intention to level up in your life life throws all of these tests and challenges to see if it phases you to see if it phases that ention that you made
for example when I made the intention to have a freedom business that makes me 20K a month so I could travel the world so I could live the life that I wanted to not be stuck at a desk for the rest of my life I couldn't fathom it at first it was just a dream but I visualized I felt this dream every single day in my bones I felt it in my heart every single day until I found everything it just happened spontaneously because I I trusted my heart but then I stopped trusting it when
those challenges came came I became phased and my importance level went through the roof so I had to accept the possibility of failure in the first place and my plan B was at least I got my degree at least I finished college and got a degree so now if anything happened I have an engineering degree I could potentially go out and get a job and then in June guess what happened I hit my first 7K month July was my first 12K month August of 2019 was my first 21k month so I made the intention in
July of 20 18 that by July of 2019 I would have a 20K a month business but it took me one year and one month to get to that and when I noticed what happened I was in complete awe it's like this is unbelievable so these two steps are the most important part of you lowering your importance because guess what happens when you lower your importance you have intention energy available okay so we're going to be discussing that just in a second but before I get to that I made a comprehensive reality creation movie for
you that has a free guide attached to it as well you can click this little I here or just go to the pin comments in the description section that shows you how I went from basically working a 9 to-5 to making $100,000 every single month with a business that I love by shifting my identity by becoming the kind of person who's worthy of that it's completely free for you to access by the way and it has the guide in there too my intention is to give you as much value as I can so that when
you're ready we can work together potentially and help you do this yourself through close mentorship so the next thing we have to understand is the concept of counter intention what I mean by that is when we go back to the analogy of the typ Rope Walker not only are they creating an imbalance in the field of the universe they are also having a lot of counter intention they're also their intention energy is working on resisting failure 99% of their intention energy is attached to don't fall don't fall don't fall whereas 1% of their intention energy
is on safely make it to the other side get to the other side get to the Target so have ever noticed how when you're on a highway and you look at the car next to you as you're driving next to it the more you look at it next to you the more you start veering towards it why is that it's because as human beings we have this thing called Target fixation the very first time I learned this was when I was being coached by my golf professional and he told me quasi you know we have
this mechanism this Servo subconscious mechanism and I'm like man you're preaching to the choir and he was saying how they did this study of two groups throwing dots one group focused for like 2 weeks and you know I could be completely butchering this for two weeks on just the mechanical movements of their hand to throw the dot to the Target whereas the other group group b focused on just the Target and nothing about the hand they just focus on send the dot to the Target send it to the Target in two weeks group a showed
a decline and Improvement they didn't not just not improve they decline they couldn't hit the target as well as they did before Group B though actually showed like a 20% 20 to 40% Improvement in their dot throwing abilities I don't know what the percentage is again but I know for a fact that they showed an improvement so this goes to show that as human beings we're Target creatures we've got to focus on the goal stop focusing on the mechanics the house of how to get to your goal just focus on the goal the rest will
take care of itself so in this case what is the tight R Walker focused on they're focused on don't fall don't fall don't fall what is reality here don't fall fall fall fall right it doesn't care about don't or do it just looks at the content of your focus it doesn't care about the context of your focus reality cares about the content of your focus so when your intention energy is tied to don't fall don't fall don't fall it's like oh fall fall I'm going to fall I'm going to fall and then you do fall
in the other case if intention energy were directed to cross to the other side safely cross to the other side safely then that's exactly what would happen cross cross cross cross right get there get there and then you would move there but if as a tight RPP Walker you're just looking down the whole time you're walking you're going to move towards down but if you're just looking forward you're going to move forward right so this is the importance in understanding that whenever you're focusing on a goal you have certain counter intentions that you don't even
know that are blocking you from achieving it so take an inventory of how you're speaking to yourself what kind of words you using when you're thinking about your goal is it possible or are you making excuses about why it's not Possible Oh I can't do this because me me me me me this is is this or I can do this it's going to happen just be patient how strong are you how many challenges are you willing to endure how patient are you because it is going to happen and I'm telling you the thing that you
want it is going to happen beyond your wildest dreams if you have faith if you have faith in the universe if you have faith in God the thing that you want to happen it'll be beyond your wildest dreams I only want to 20K a month okay I just wanted to have a laptop lifestyle and travel the world I have more money than I could have ever dreamed of at the age of 27 it's phenomenal it's phenomenal how far you can take this it's phenomenal what can happen if you really trust the universe God the universe
will give you more than you could have ever imagined for yourself you don't have to think about the goal if you don't know what it is just feel what it would feel to have the thing that you want how great your life feels how free you feel focus on the feeling if you don't know the thought or what it actually looks like because a feeling produces a myriad of thoughts which is what we're going to get to when when I show you how to surrender those bodily blocks that we hold on to but for now
understand that most people are actually resisting failure more than they want success you think about getting out of debt rather than having an abundance of wealth in your life you're thinking about what you don't want more than what you do want which is utilizing counter intentions unconsciously so from from now on really turn on your inner guardian and pay attention to the inner conversations you're having with yourself are you constantly resisting failure are you trying to get away from something are you trying to get away from the pain that is your life and all the
failures and all the that's happening or are you focused on moving towards pleasure are you focused on moving towards the dreams that you wanted to come to life that is the secret now let's go to the final part surrender surren wender is the process of properly handling our feelings in The yogic Sciences there is this concept of Karma we take on a bodily form our spirit takes on a bodily form to work out our Karma and there are different allotments of karma we have a current lifetime worth of karma called the paraba which means when
we take on this physical body a particular allotment of karma gets triggered based on our Tendencies and patterns and what we think we can handle we take it on and we take on certain Tendencies we take on a certain womb we're born in a certain way again this is I can't verify this this is what they believed and there is you know if you really study it you're going to see that there's a certain level of truth to it it's why certain people are certain way and have certain personality traits and when you do past
life regression therapy you see why there are so many people who can recall past life experiences that are familiar that they have no business recalling right so in understanding the process of surrender it's it's learning how to properly deal with these blocked feelings because every single one of us we have these blocked feelings that energetically are preventing you from achieving what you want so I have a client who isn't quite able to achieve that financial success that he wants and that's because every time he gets close he finds a way to sabotage it he gets
this fear this anxiety this lack of belief oh you're not good enough it's not going to work out and then he succumbs to it and then makes a bad decision runs away from it doesn't do the deal doesn't take the thing even though he knows that's the right thing to do consciously subconsciously he's holding on to this pain body so we have these blocks around our body and you'll notice this when you feel the consistent negative feelings that you feel so if you felt a feeling of anxiety you'll typically notice it either in your shoulders
your solar plexus area you feel this blockage like it's it's so strong and it's blocking you the correct way to deal with that is what's known as the surrender method if you find you keep attracting certain patterns into your life and before that pattern happens you have certain thoughts and feelings that are energetically blocking you this is why before we get to this surrender method please think about your feelings and memories when you think about a memory you don't actually think about the memory you feel what that memory felt like every single feeling is unique
no two anxieties are the same no two sadness and Sorrows are the same no one ever told you this but if if you really truly analyze it you'll see that no two feelings carry the same signature the same color they're all different they all have different dnas and that's how it's stored within our subconscious this is the ancient secret they knew how to manipulate different feelings for different things to create different things in their lives how to focus on it and create it so in understanding this if we have different storages within our psyche different
feelings store different memories you'll notice that you know maybe you're driving down an old neighborhood maybe you don't remember what actually happened here but you can feel that feeling of what happened here and the feeling is what leads to you recollecting the thought the event itself we can't store thoughts we store it in feelings within our bodies so now we store these certain traumas that we picked up in our lives certain events that have happened that we haven't properly processed relationships certain toxic parental Dynamics things that happened in the past regarding finances these Cycles these
toxic Cycles keep happening Our Lives because we unconsciously hold on to it so now what we got to do is learn to properly handle it how most people handle their feelings are in four ways the lowest most unconscious way is repression that's when it's too strong to be dealt with something terrible has happened you haven't dealt with it yet which is understandable but you have never Revisited that you've always run away from it you're in denial shows up in mental neurological declines you just see it happening in in a person that has held on to
a lot PTSD level above that is suppression it's what happens before you repress something you suppress it you push it down you can't deal with it right now you can't do it level above that is expression you express it you're angry you break something you punch something someone still not effective the highest level of all is surrender accepting it fully feeling it fully because understand there's something arising within you that is waiting to be felt that is waiting to pass through but you won't let it pass through because you're afraid you're afraid of what would
happen if you did you're afraid that if you open that door you might never come back but that's not true because typically when you open those doors that door you wake up even stronger you confront your inner demons and you come out of the other side even stronger whatever it is that you want lies on the other side of that fear how we do this the surrender method there's a very powerful method I recently discovered and this is called the alternating method the method was to allow yourself to fully feel what's coming up if you
feel anxious go to that anxiety don't run away from it go to it and go through it so let's say something is triggering your anxiety let's say you've got a work email or a business email or something's happening with your business right now it's falling apart and you feel really really anxious or something is happening at work and you feel really anxious instead of chasing the external trigger and trying to see like come on resolve itself keep checking your email keep texting the person instead of doing that instead of acting externally the methodology was to
act internally which is effective meaning you go to the feeling first instead of the thought you can't think your way out of a problem you can't think your way you can't outthink your problems you can't outthink your thoughts you have to out feel it a feeling produces a myriad of thoughts just like when we store memories we store the feeling first and then that produces the thought right so when I feel anxious then I try to justify the presence of that anxiety oh it's it's being caused by this this thing happening in my business it's
being caused by my relationship I don't want another failed relationship and I don't want my marriage to to fall apart I'm going through a tough divorce so all of these things happen because the feeling arises which then creates imprints in this Quantum field just like with the importance and it manifests that event because you keep that feeling alive instead of properly dealing with it so when we properly handle it we fully accept it we let it be instead of trying to let it go or pushing it away because when you try to let go you're
still trying to manipulate a feeling still ineffective you must let it be so the method I've recently discovered and I'm really excited to share this with you it's called the alternating method and how it works there's four main steps to it step one whenever you feel that strong feeling go within your body okay so I'd like to do this right now if you just take a seat somewhere just sit down comfortably let's do this whenever you feel a strong block like anxiety fear worry doubt go within don't look at the thing that's causing you anxiety
go within instead the next thing you want to do is inhale into it feel the feeling within your body and you inhale into it and you hold on to it tightly that's what I want you to do hold on to it tightly and mentally say give me more I am no longer afraid so let's do that right now hold onto it tight and hold your breath and now what I want you to do is exhale and let go and release and inhale again into it and hold on to it exhale and release inhale and hold
on to it exhale and release what you're going to notice is every time I do this the feeling subsides more and more because now I'm training myself to alternate and the fourth step the final step is to keep repeating this and take an inventory of your body and how you feel okay so whenever a strong block arises this is a dynamic method I want you to stop what you're doing take a pause for 2 or 3 minutes sit down go within your body feel where the feeling is happening breathe into it and hold on tightly
say give me more give me more and as you exhale unclench exhale release then inhale clench exhale release when we focus like this we neutralize that's how you let go to let go you have to know first how to hold on to work hard you have to know how to rest fully otherwise you're just a half zombie you need to know how to play with Duality how to play with polarities and what you'll notice is once you have fully surrendered these obstacles and these feelings the event the corresponding event in your life changes it's not
because we desire something that we get it it's because we make the choice to experience it to have it not from a place of I need but from a place of I am this is who I am so what I would like for you to do right now is to click right here and go to the reality creation movie that I've made for you with a free guide in there that's going to give you a system to shift into your ideal self your 2.0 self and what I do is show you the mirror principle of
reality the principle via which reality operates the model of reality and how your internal world is reflected in your external world and I have a comprehensive guide completely free for you to access in there as well so click right here to access it and I will see you in this next video right now thanks
