[Music] [Applause] my experience with motherhood has been amazing since she's here leading up to it being pregnant was was was really hard for me cuz I had morning sickness like the entire time but now that she's here my experience has been great she's so precious and so sweet and I just just want to hold her like this all day long her name is journey and the story behind her name is I wanted A J name so um so Jacob is my husband and I wanted uh our kids to all be Jay's so I was like
okay there's Jasmine there's Jackie there's all these beautiful names but they just weren't really hitting like the wow and that's the name so my mom was like wow this has been such a journey for you what about journey and I was like oh my God her name's Journey it's going to be Journey [Music] yeah so you know it was the whole I run LA and I'm going to be in LA and the Limelight you know has been it was fun but um I think I'm enjoying motherhood and being a wife even more um this has
you know been the biggest blessing that I could have ever asked for um I met Jacob in Michigan so it was when I had an appearance at one of the nightclubs and um he was actually one of the security guards working during his offseason from football so I was um we didn't exchange numbers we didn't even speak really but I was kind of eyeing him like the whole night so I met him at a club but he was working and um a couple weeks later I called up to the club and I said who was
that guy that was working security that night oh yeah and I tracked him down that's how I found [Music] Jacob oh Jacob was more Hands-On than me I didn't know I was like if any guy could be pregnant Jacob would have been pregnant he carried Journey just as much as I did the whole nine months he didn't miss a doctor's appointment he didn't miss a class we took um and he's been really Hands-On but now that she's here he's just like she's so small I feel like I'm going to hurt when I'm holding her she's
so little but he's been really amazing and really Hands-On and good with her I kidnapped Jacob that's like the joke everyone's like how did you get that Michigan Midwest boy to come to California and you know he's so not Hollywood and in the Limelight he's so in the background of everything but um he he does a really good job with being involved as as he feels that he wants to be but I um I kidnapped him I literally and actually the funny story is me and Tanisha from Bad Girls Club kidnapped him she met him
he was my date to her wedding and he she said you have to marry this guy Tanisha was like and if I have to pull out some pots and pans and beat him all the way to to California I'll do it for you so it's really funny cuz Tanisha and I will talk all the time and she's like I knew knew he was the one I told you he was the one for you so it's kind of like a bad girl Sisterhood with me and her and Jacob cuz he was trying to run for the
hills but that was our first date was at tanisha's wedding and it was you know tanisha's Tanisha everybody knows Tanisha so you know Tanisha was like you guys are going to get married someday and he's sitting at the wedding thinking I'm running for the hills as quick as I can with all you bad girls so yeah and so when Tanisha saw a little picture of baby Journey she just wrote Under there a long thing like I knew I was going to you guys were going to uh be together in the end so yeah I kidnapped
him really is what [Music] happen I know right um well yeah I I went to USC I'm a former USC Trojan and I played soccer at USC um but uh you know I always had that bad girl tendency so it was it wasn't like too farfetched when my family and friends saw me on Bad Girl's Club they're like she she was smart and she went to USC and she graduated and she was really uh a track star and a soccer star but I always kind of pushed the limits of when I could if I knew
I could get away with something and and push the limit I would do it so hope she doesn't have any of those bad girl ways so so when you look at you now how have you changed from that image you know that we know in the media yeah I have completely changed so when I look back and I see the bad girl things sometimes I cringe and then I think to myself well it was all a learning experience and I was in my early 20s I was like 23 when I went on Bad Girls Club
um I'm 32 now so it's been it's been time um but I've just completely changed I mean I'm a wife I'm a mom and um it was fun bad girl days were fun but it's it's been over with for a while um but I would say the most the biggest thing that's changed for me is is being married I think Jacob really calmed me down there was times when I would say oh I want to do this or let's go do that and he's like we're not doing that that why would you even say that
you know you're not putting that thong on like what are you talking I'm not taking this picture for you to post on Instagram you know he really kind of stepped up and I would say t named a bad girl and I didn't think it could ever be [Music] done yay sure I will Jacob's great love him couldn't have asked for a more wonderful son-in-law and a great Daddy he been with Natalie every step of the way through her nine months of just being as sick as can be and he was there to hold her hair
back and do whatever he needed to do and now he's doing that with his new little baby girl also we've got a little team going on Natalie Jacob and I we're trying to make her the happiest little thing on the earth you hear your grandma talking hi Mommy it was an experience it was an experience when she was on Bad Girls Club there were I used to have a little Wednesday night get togethers and invite girls over to the house to watch the show and half the time I'd be in the kitchen going why am
I doing this why am I doing this um but you know what she Natalie's always been Natalie and she's always always told me the truth and told me you know what she's done and no surprises or anything like that so I'm like oh yeah Mom on this episode of Bad Girls Club you might not want to watch why oh because I was hooking up with someone in the hot tub it's nothing big only 23 you know doing crazy my mom was like what we have so many people coming over tonight to watch this episode you
know what though I've always told her you're only going to be young once do what you want to do as long as you're not married and you don't have any babies and you're not hurting anybody go out there and spread your wings and fly and that's when she's done and that's exactly what she's done she's that's what she's done she's TR but now it's yeah but now it's completely different and when people bring up Bad Girls Club I like literally ignore it so you know fans will I mean and I love my fans I love
my fans they have literally been with me every step of the way for the last 9 years I don't know any reality star that can make it a decade and still carry their fanas as strong as mine they are ride or die um and I love them but it's like they've grown with me cuz like it's been 9 years so they were young watching me on backos school but now they're like some of them have kids of their own so they're like growing with me and that's been really fun too because some of them are
like oh I have a baby now too or I'm pregnant while you're pregnant and it's it's been really fun like in that sense but when they bring up B Girls Club I like oh my God we're not still talking about Bad Girls Club are we [Music]
