there will come opportunities in life you know when they're presented to you in front of you it's just a matter of whether you're not prepared to take advantage of the opportunity but you got to develop that resilience within you life is not about how much you succeed it's about what happens when you fail right so life is you could look at like man what's been inspiring for me if you said oh Tom what are the greatest winds I'd be like ah the winds those yeah you let's talk about the losses those are the ones that
really you know made me who I am and and you know as you go through life and we're all adults things happen in life that you don't want to have happen whether you lose a game or whether you things don't go well at work or something with your child there's a lot of things that come up in our personal and professional lives that just don't go the way we want and how do you deal with it do you deal with class and integrity and with with courage and with resilience and are you able to share
emotion with people and do you have other people in your life that can help you through those things my blessing is I've had people that go through those things with me they always say double the pleasure and divide the pain and that's what relationships are all about when you care for those people and when you love them and when you give to them they give back that's where the reward comes you know giving is for the giver and loving is for the lover and caring is for the carer it's not for you know for for
the other person all the time it's for you too
