[Music] [Music] [Music] i bring you greetings in the name of jesus and i welcome you all to another edition of managing your differences in relationship and marriage don't forget that we have been discussing the ingredients that will help us to manage differences in our relationship and marriage and by his grace today will be talking about another very important ingredient that will help us to effectively manage our differences before i go into that i want to also appreciate each and every one of you out there who are following this series with keen interest my prayer is
that this ministrations we better the lord of your homes in jesus name the feedbacks and the testimonies we are getting are encouraging to us and we want to admonish you to continue to follow us and as god's grace helps us will ensure to the best of our ability to deliver that which he has sent us to you so by god's grace today we are discussing another important ingredient in managing differences in relationship and marriage and today the ingredient we are talking about is what does the bible say on every matter a lot of times husband
and wife in marriage have issues and the first action that they take or the first decision is to attempt to want to solve the problem or resolve the matter with their own head knowledge especially on matters where you have critical issues in agreeing upon when there are matters you are struggling with you don't know what to do husband is saying his own the wife is saying so and both of you are insisting on your stand based on what you know the best resolution to such a matter is to come to the scripture what does this
scripture say and every marriage in which the word of god is the final authority such a marriage is always a success so what does the scripture says in ii timothy's chapter 3 verse 16 it says all scriptures is given by inspiration of god and is profitable for doctrine for reproof for correction for instruction in righteousness that is the word of god there is no question about life about issues that bothers us that consensus as human beings that the scripture does not provide answer to so in marriage also when there are issues of contention the scripture
should be allowed to provide the answer and our marriage to develop to a level in our work with god too such that when we have issues like that we take it back to god through his word so the scripture is inspired by the spirit of god the word of god should be our guide the word of god should be improved the word of god should be the mediator the word of god should be the final authority over all matter as human beings there will be differences you cannot do anything about that we can't help it
there will be differences then when the differences are proving difficult to resolve then let us take it back to god through his word when it is difficult to find a common ground on any matter at all the scripture should be consulted as the final authority on all matters even when situations are good when it seems rosy when it seems everything is right with us the scripture needs to constantly be consulted because the source of our sustainers the source of our lives the source of grace and strength for us to continue to move on the journey
that we have committed ourselves to in marriage is the word of god the word of god is the foundation the word of god is the pillar the word of god is the linter the word of god is the roofing the word of god is everything about the structure of our home if we make the word of god the final solution to every contentious issue no matter how difficult they are we will always find a way of escape until another edition and come your way again with another important ingredient stay blessed and god gives you [Music]