Hello everyone! Welcome everyone to our channel today! This is our long-lost couple Q&A!
Let’s share our story with you again. This time I did not avoid some relatively large-scale questions. As you have seen in our Q&A before, I actually deliberately avoided some relatively large-scale questions.
But now that I think about it, in fact, at this age, there is nothing to avoid . Everyone is an adult! J: Let me pick up my microphone first!
This time I will talk to you in depth B: Wait a minute! Why am I already getting hot? It also includes some secret topics that we have never talked about before!
Ok , let’s start today’s Q&A for couples. The first question is a more exciting one . Q: Are we satisfied with the frequency of sex?
J: Are you satisfied? B: I think I am satisfied. B: Jie, definitely not.
Satisfied J: I’m not satisfied! In fact, I am either not satisfied or I could be more satisfied! Our current frequency is about twice a week.
Sometimes , if we are busy, it will be once. If we haven’t seen each other for a while, for example, Binbin went home and we haven’t seen each other for a week, then it might be twice a day, Binbin. I think this frequency is more appropriate.
B: The reason I think it is appropriate is mainly from the perspective of physical health. J: For the sake of his own health. Of course, my first priority must be his health, and we will make an appointment in advance every time.
J: It usually doesn’t happen suddenly. J: It doesn’t happen suddenly. Usually we will make preparations a day in advance and both of us agree on the premise that both of us are ready.
J: Not me. If you think about it, you must force Binbin to do something. J: This question will be over soon!
J: What's going on? The first question was so big that my face turned red. The next question was "Who relies on whom more?
" If you often watch our videos, you should know this question. I seem to be a very I am a free and indifferent person , but in fact I am very dependent on Binbin. J: I just can’t leave him.
Without Binbin by my side, I feel that life is boring. Some time ago, he went back to attend a wedding. He went back for about three days, and during those three days, I was alone at home.
I felt it was very difficult, and then I went to the gym and met up with friends for dinner. Even though those things were fun to be with friends, and I was also happy to work out or play games, but I felt it was boring. The most serious thing was the night of the first day when he went back.
At night, I fell asleep in bed and fell asleep. I was really not used to him not being around me. When I was dreaming, I dreamed that Binbin was not beside me .
Then I woke up and found that Binbin was really not beside me. I felt very uncomfortable at that time . I woke up and couldn't sleep.
I was thinking a lot! I want to say that what if Binbin leaves first when we both get old ? B: What?
! J: I really thought about a lot of future possibilities at that time! But the fact that we are together does not mean that we interact together all the time .
In fact, we also have free time and space for each other. B: Yes! J: I think about being together .
For example, after I finish playing the game, when I want to turn around and talk to you, you are there! That’s what gives me peace of mind! J: It doesn’t mean that I want you to be here at any time, or look at me at any time!
The next question is so superficial! Who is top and who is bottom? Who is "1" and who is "0"?
Isn't this obvious? But there is no clear distinction between these two identities! On some nights, there may be things that are completely indistinguishable in our daily lives , because in the traditional sense, "Top" is more important than "Bottom", which actually does not exist between the two of us .
All things are equal and mutual B: It does not mean that one party should be cared for B: The other party should take the initiative to take care of B: There is no relationship between us! We don’t want one party in our relationship to be at a “disadvantage” and need you to protect, need you to accommodate, and need you to tolerate. In fact, our relationship is very equal, that is, we don’t distinguish between “0” and “1” in our lives.
China doesn’t distinguish between this and what? ! At night?
I can actually do it at night , it depends on what Binbin needs! Hahaha, Binbin can do whatever he wants with me , but he is quite lazy! Let’s not talk about this anymore!
B: What do you mean I am lazy? ! I'm very capable, okay?
! B: What am I talking about? !
J: Let’s move on to the next topic. I won’t answer it yet. Let me ask Binbin first.
Q: Do you still remember when was your “first time”? What does it feel like? B: No wonder you have to let me answer first!
In fact, this question only asked when was the "first time" and how it felt. I asked myself! I asked myself, how did it feel at that time?
Do you still remember? B: Of course! But our first time was not very pleasant.
B: Let me make a long story short: JIE is my first love, and I personally use it more conservatively . We have been together for a long time and have not had any substantial physical relationship . But at that time, Brother Jie I'm a little unhappy.
He just wants it "too much" , but I'm too conservative and JIE will feel that I'm on guard against him! Then I could understand him again! It just happened so unwillingly because I remember we had a quarrel, it wasn't a quarrel.
We had a little conflict about this matter , and we had a dispute! Because from Binbin’s point of view, he took it into consideration! It may take some time for him to completely trust me , because we were together at that time, and it was less than a month .
What he wants is to trust me completely, and only when he is worthy of trusting me will he think of further things happening! But me at that time! What I was thinking about at that time was, of course, it was for the sake of being together in the future.
That’s why I was like this because I might seem a little “careful” , but I’m actually not. I’m very, very dedicated. He now knows that I’m very dedicated.
That’s when I recognized you, that’s who you were, that is, I wanted to spend the rest of my life with you . I was almost suffocated to death! We have both been living together for almost half a month, and we are almost suffocated!
Hahaha every day he lets me kiss him and then after kissing him, there is nothing left! There's nothing left, even if it's gone, it won't do to touch him! Then I couldn't do anything, just didn't have any physical contact.
I knew him very well that day and asked him: Why don't you believe me? Then there was a small dispute over this matter. That night, after two people argued, it happened reluctantly.
B: I just compromised! Give it your all! That was the thought and then it happened!
Because that was not only the first time we were together, it was even the "first time" in my entire life, so he valued it very much. In fact, I also valued it very much. I am a very dedicated person and I want to be with you.
After a lifetime, you have to do this thing. You don’t do it for temporary physical pleasure. Well , then it happened that night , it just happened naturally .
How did it feel at that time? Oh, what does it feel like? Is it just because it’s the first time , or is it just a little uncomfortable because I’m nervous, right?
It still hurts a little bit. B: How did you feel that night? J: How I feel?
J: Amazing! I finally got him, not only physically but also mentally satisfied ! Don’t put it too bluntly!
I'm so shy! Here comes a more realistic question! Actually, I also want to answer Q: Does the relationship between you two need financial support?
To be honest, everyone needs the support of money to survive. Binbin and I have never had any differences or conflicts about money. We have never been about money since we first got together and confirmed our relationship.
We made the distinction above and in addition, every penny we earned was earned by the two of us together , and we never cared about who spent more or less. Buy this, you can't buy that. As long as it's within a reasonable range, it's OK for all of us, and there won't be any conflicts over money.
I think a relationship needs the support of money! But our relationship is not supported by money. We recalled that when we first met, we lived in a very small and old rental house.
It was right next to the school. It was very small and the environment was very unpleasant. Okay , but we were still very happy.
When I think about it now, I don’t think how uncomfortable the rental house was at that time, how dirty it was, or how noisy it was in the middle of the night. I just remember that I was very happy and happy in it at that time. When we were together for a month, we even held a commemorative party , just the two of us, and then made a small cake.
You wouldn’t care about the environment where we lived at that time, or whether the cake we ate at that time was expensive. I just I remember that I ate a very sweet cake. Later, after I started working and making money, I became a little richer, and then we could live a better life and live in a better house.
But it all depended on the two of us. Earned by working together! I think every relationship needs money to support it , but our relationship is not just supported by money.
The next question seems to be the first time someone asked : Why do you make videos and become a vlogger? B: Why? This is actually very simple.
When we first started working as video bloggers, our original intention was to record our lives. After 50 years, after 60 years, we will forget what we were like when we were young. We will forget what we did before, right?
Then we can use those videos to recall the most important nodes, such as every time we moved and every birthday. These important nodes can be recorded through videos . B: Later I found that more and more people Being interested in us and following us can bring us some benefits.
On the other hand, as a video creator, every time you make a video, you want to share some happiness and happy emotions with everyone. But what everyone doesn’t know is Every time you comment, you give us some support , which is actually a great encouragement and great energy for us. There are many comments.
I may not reply to every one, but I can basically read them. When everyone arrives, they say thank you for making such an interesting video and wish us to be together forever. In fact, I am very happy about this.
B: And I am very touched. Sometimes I see some friends blessing and thanking me from the heart, which is very touching! Although we don't speak the same language, we can completely feel the support and love for us.
If we can do something meaningful to everyone, then we can continue to make videos. We will continue to share our daily life and share the joy, anger and joy in our lives. We also hope to share our energy with everyone so that everyone can gain happiness and some happiness from our videos.
I really want to thank you all very much! We will continue to work hard! Okay!
I am in no way sensational! Let’s move on to the next question Q: How to become a video blogger? B: The questions people ask are becoming more and more professional!
So let’s share our shooting equipment first, because general videos are shot and then edited. Let’s talk about the shooting equipment first and then tell you how we edit. In fact, the shooting equipment we use is an action camera or Mobile phones actually take up most of our time because mobile phones are more convenient.
Action cameras are sometimes used when we want to secretly do pranks because they are small and easy to hide. It is also more convenient to take pictures when we are going on a trip. , because it can go up mountains and into water, it is very convenient.
I personally think that if you want to shoot videos, you can start with your mobile phone, because mobile phones are the most convenient and you can record your life anytime, anywhere . Then there is one of our editing software. In fact, we just When I started learning video editing, I used PR, but this PR was a bit difficult for us to get started with!
For vlog self-media bloggers like us, the threshold is indeed a bit high. Then later, we used clipping. Everyone should know that clipping is more convenient for editing on mobile phones, and there are a lot of popular music.
and special effects , but later we gradually discovered that it cannot meet some of our needs now, and it is not very suitable for editing long videos like ours, because everyone has seen that each of our videos is basically very long and they want to be professional. If you want to edit a long video or want your long video to be more interesting, I recommend you use Filmora because we saw Filmora recommended by a blogger on YouTube and then we used it ourselves and found that it is really easy to use! When I first learned it, I found that it is super easy to use and is very suitable for us to use.
It greatly shortens our editing time and improves the efficiency of our editing . If you also want to record your life like us, I can recommend you to use Filmora. So first of all, I will Let me briefly introduce to you how to get a video you want.
Now edit and start the small class! Now I will show you how to turn two ordinary pieces of material into a "life video". First, we will click on our Filmora and import the video clips we want.
Then you can see in the editing options , we can choose, crop, cut, delete some of the content we don’t want , and then splice the parts we want to keep together naturally, adjust the rhythm and speed of the entire video according to our favorite BGM, for example, if it gets stuck, then With these simple operations, you can get a video like this. This is a very simple and basic editing operation, and then you can turn two pieces of ordinary-looking material into an awesome "life video" for us. It is very efficient and concise.
The video just now made me cry a little bit. The editing was so good. I didn’t think anything of it when it was shot, but after it was edited, it was really great!
But if you feel that the process of editing videos is too difficult for you, it doesn’t matter. These functions are enough for many novice friends. Yes, and we have just started operating our short video platform recently , but many of our previous videos were on YouTube releases all long videos that are more than 10 minutes long.
If we edit each video ourselves, we really don’t know how much time and energy it would take. But now we only need Filmora’s AI smart long and short functions. You can easily help us solve this problem.
OK, I will give you an operation now. It only requires a simple operation like mine. First, select a long video that you want to edit , such as this travel video, and then import it for 30 seconds or 30 to 60 seconds.
You can choose a duration of seconds or even longer. It can help us extract highlight clips from a large number of original materials. It only needs to be cut in two steps to edit a long video into multiple interesting short videos.
He helps us erase a lot of things. The cumbersome process of editing videos. There are many short video templates for everyone to choose from.
Not to mention the editing efficiency, it has really skyrocketed. I can show you the short videos it has edited. It really captures the original.
Some highlights in the video extract the most exciting parts of the long video After the AI gives you a brief, you can edit it yourself and add some cute stickers. Filmora has a large number of various stickers that are funny, interesting, or cute. Now I will demonstrate to you that it actually has There are many themes to choose from .
For example, for the theme of our trip, I will choose some that are a bit cute. Then you can shrink or enlarge it according to your own preferences. Adjust it to a suitable size and place it in the position you like .
Because there are so many filters and stickers to choose from, you can DIY your video to make your entire video more personalized and unique. After selecting some stickers you like, you will get a video like this . We can switch freely between long video bloggers and short video bloggers, and its latest AI text editing function can really be said to have brought a revolutionary leap to video editing technology .
Now we can actually let AI edit videos. Convert any sound in the video into editable text , so that we can more easily modify the content of our videos. For example, our couple's Q&A in this issue will actually have a lot of dialogue and narration, which will mean a lot of words .
And if it is according to the previous words We add subtitles. The scariest thing is that editing the video is actually okay. The scariest thing is that when I add subtitles, my mind goes blank.
We sit in front of the computer and type every sentence with our hands. But now we only With just one click of the mouse, all our dialogues can be converted into text. It is really very easy to use.
It really improves our efficiency and can transfer some tedious and systematic work. It can be processed by AI , and even now it can be translated with one click by AI. It can translate the original text into the language you want.
It can be used in any language. According to this technology, AI can also remove silent clips. For example, in our video today, if we pause If the pause time is too long, you can directly cut out the silent segment.
Therefore, Filmora’s AI highly intelligent editing has helped us solve many tedious problems and troubles in editing. For example, I often used to upload videos. Some of the problems you encounter are that after you mix the music and upload it, you find that the music is copyrighted.
This is actually very troublesome . It is difficult to find music that is good-sounding and free of copyright money. But now there is an AI sound effect generator, which is this It can help us automatically generate a nice and copyright-free BGM according to our needs.
Fortunately, I found this app. First, I will choose a cheerful pop music. With these tags, you can freely choose its type, style, and theme.
. Several pieces of music will be automatically generated for you to choose. These music are copyright-free and very nice!
If you also want to add sound effects, it would be more fun. Let me show you. Just click on the AI sound effect and enter a text of the sound effect you want to describe the sound effect.
For example, the hearty laughter of my friends or the recent news. Halloween, the scary sounds of Halloween and the cheers of children will help you automatically generate an exclusive sound effect suitable for your video. Is it convenient and fun?
In addition, if you don’t have time to edit some videos carefully, but you I want to post a video again, for example, the first video of Shui. The one-click movie-making function of Filmora is a must-have for us lazy people. Now I will show you the one-click movie-making function of Filmora.
First, choose the theme style you want and travel. , sports, movie texture, etc. Then select the clips you want, click on automatic generation and you will get a video like this.
This is very friendly to novices, that is, you can edit it as you like, and we can try different The style is because of the theme and bgm I choose. In addition to the functions I usually use, Filmora also has some super editing functions such as "AI video enhancement", "AI sound effect enhancement", "AI color palette" and so on. To be honest, , some of which I have never experienced even myself, because Filmora will continue to update and continuously introduce some more interesting and novel AI gameplay related to editing.
If you also want to experience our latest editing function of Filmora, click below the video. Come and experience the fun of video editing in Filmora with us. Finally, if you have some ideas about recording your life, I will give you two suggestions .
Go ahead and shoot it boldly! Don’t worry about whether your photography is good enough or not professional enough because when you record your life, you don’t need to record it from a professional perspective at all. Just enjoy the moment and record your current emotions because when you recall this time, you will also feel good.
I was happy at that time. B: I think the most interesting thing is that every time you look through everything you have recorded in the past , you will feel, wow~ it makes sense. If you are still worried that you don’t know how to edit after shooting, we at Filmora will do a good job.
It helps you because of its AI editing function. Whether you are a novice or a veteran or you want to explore the mysteries of some new AI editing functions, it is very applicable. Let us work together to become a person who knows how to record his or her life.
Discover the little beautiful people in your life and you will become happier. Let’s record your life together and explore more possibilities in video editing ! So that concludes today’s Q&A for couples.
Today, I actually shared a lot of my thoughts with you, from some questions that were a bit big in scale at the beginning that everyone was interested in , to later some more realistic issues that I wanted to talk to you about, and finally to the end. Let me share with you a journey of becoming a video blogger. At the end, we will teach you how to record your life.
I hope you can gain something you need from this video of ours. For example, if you want to check the video recently, you will find it. Filmora is really good.
Go download it and give it a try. Let me get moving in one issue. That’s it for today’s video.
We’ll see you in the next video. Bye. Thank you for watching.
See you next week.