here's an interesting little experiment that you can perform if you want to find out if the women in your lives have any empathy for men if they actually think about what the male experience is like or if they just think about themselves you ask them this question ask them if a man is single and lonely what's his biggest pain yeah what causes him the most suffering now she might say well it's the fact that nobody loves him he wants to be loved but he has no partner now if she answers that way she is half
right right but she says that she gives that specific answer because she is a woman and that's her experience that's what would cause her as a woman pain because women want to be loved and when they're single it hurts them that no one is there and loving them now of course men want to be loved too all humans do but the answer that women never give because they don't understand this about men is that wanting to be loved is only half of the equation the other half that causes him lots of pain and suffering is
that he doesn't have somebody to love yeah there is something so tragic about a chef who cooks delicious meals that nobody eats there's something so sad about a musician who writes amazing songs that nobody wants to listen to and there's something really depressing about a man who has so much love to give and yet nobody wants to receive his love as much as it is a human need to be loved equally it is a human need to love to have somebody be the recipient of your love men who are single and lonely experience that pain
acutely you know they have that feeling that that thought that they have loved to share but nobody wants to receive it it hurts and this is actually the reason why sugar babies exist it's not just about sex of course not if it was then people would just go and see you know 30 minute hookers but women have figured out that men have this need beyond just sexual gratification to actually love women to provide for them to shower them with gifts and affection and it's very easy for women to become sugar babies to play that role
because receiving love from men that comes naturally to women that's normal for them that feels safe and familiar to have this strong masculine man love and adore them they love that you know they absolutely revel in that sort of attention what doesn't come naturally to women is to give love to men you see women still want to give love but they have a different outlet you know it's not necessarily romantic you've probably heard that saying men love women women receive love from men women give love to children children receive love from women and children give
love to animals it's this sort of like love hierarchy it's a simplistic idea of course but it sort of paints the natural flow of things and when you first hear it it sort of sounds a bit sexist doesn't it sort of like men are above women women are above children and that love flows that way because human beings are only capable of loving things that are lesser than us or or something like i'll agree it doesn't sound great it sounds a bit sexist but i don't really know what to do about that because from my
perspective if women don't like it like they want to disprove that this hierarchy exists then the onus is on them to actually make a change they need to show more love and care for the men in their lives right like once women spend as much time comforting their boyfriends and attending to their emotions as men do to them once women plan as many romantic gestures for their boyfriends as their boyfriends do for them once women can articulate the nuances of the many issues facing men in today's society as men can do for the main feminist
issues like once women demonstrate that they care about men and that they view it as their responsibility to help men and they take lots of time and effort to understand and sympathize with men it's at that point we can say that this you know sexist sounding hierarchy doesn't exist but until that happens while men give so much more love to women so much more attention than women give to men we're stuck with this hierarchy which by the way even though it sounds sexist it's not actually sexist it just sounds that way because really what's going
on here is that evolution has created men and women differently you know like think of how men used to take women back take care of women back in caveman days he'd be hunting food making shelters uh protecting her against like would-be attackers and this is not some you know miserable chore he's performing he's happy to do it because they're partners they're a team and she's doing her part because she's pregnant or she's breastfeeding an infant or whatever it might be so evolution incentivized these different instincts these different priorities in both agendas but you know we
have to have some cross-gender understanding here we have to actually make an effort to learn what things are like for the other gender and this aspect of male psychology women still don't understand it about men they take the simple path you know it's easier to just demonize men to actually make an effort to understand them but when a man wants a girlfriend it's not just so that he can like ruthlessly exploit her and drain her of all of her love you know take it into himself that's not what's going on he wants to give her
love he's desperate too that's where that saying comes from he has so much love to give and when speaking to women i often get them to understand this by making the like the comparison i make something you know similar to their experience that they can relate to the way that some women feel when they see babies that urge to take care of something to shower it with love and you know to sort of spoil it and protect it that is how single men often feel around women they want to take care of them they want
to shower them with love and affection and it hurts to have all of that love and to have nobody to give it to it's actually an important part of feeling fulfilled as a man of being validated as a man who's worthy in your masculinity you know to actually find a woman who wants to receive your love you know some women say you know i just feel like i'm going to be a full woman and validated in my femininity once i have children once i have this little being that is dependent upon me and i get
to take care of it and you know share all of my love with it yeah awesome you know that but that feeling that you're experiencing men are experiencing something similar in their romantic lives in that wanting to take care of a woman and wanting to give her love so many single guys feel abnormal like something is missing in their lives something's wrong with them until they have a girlfriend somebody they can love then they feel normal like they're having the normal human experience it's then that they feel like a real man and i want women
to understand that this is not something small and insignificant that we can just brush aside this is a serious need that men have some men are even resorting to buying dolls like these life-sized replicas of of women and they're having relationships i watch this documentary on it it's not just about sex some of these guys have full-on imaginary relationships with these dolls now women can't relate to this you know they they can't understand there's never going to be the same market for male dolls that are sold to women because i mean for the most part
women it's so easy for them in the daily markets they're never going to be as desperate as a man is but it's also because women aren't having that male experience of needing a romantic relationship so that they can express their love so women can't understand why a man would ever buy a doll they see a man with a doll in this fake relationship and she thinks this makes zero sense what possible pleasure could he get from this the doll doesn't interact with him it doesn't talk back to him and she's right but what she doesn't
understand is that the doll is meeting something very important for that man's psychology it fulfills that very human need of giving him something that he can love and of course with advances in technology where inanimate dolls are going to be replaced by robots that are able to speak and you know respond they're gonna have artificial intelligence they'll give men the impression of loving them back and so that's i mean that's a whole other discussion but from my perspective this trend of robots and i mean that that's inevitable there's a certain percentage of the population that
is never going to partner up and that percentage seems to be climbing now as much as possible i'm trying to fight against that trend for the men who watch this channel i'm trying to get them into healthy relationships with human females not dolls so i explain how the female mind works so that men can understand them better and have you know successful relationships which is a reminder if you need advice you know please reach out to me on hey hero tell me your story i'll send you a personalized video in response i've got tremendous views
over there people seem to enjoy the surface so if you need to talk to me that's the way to do it but just to reiterate as a man you want to receive love of course but you also need to give love that is an equally important human need and there's nothing to be ashamed of about that it is built into your biology hardwired in your brain i've had guys in my hair here a request tell me how fulfilling it is to them personally as an individual man to love a woman to have somebody to do
nice things for to do favors to do romantic gestures and to receive gratitude in return there are lots of men who instead of receiving a favor from a war from a woman they would rather do a favor from a woman and then receive gratitude for that favor and in a sense as a man that gratitude is actually an important way that we receive love it's how we feel valued and validated in our worth and our masculinity and so to any women out there you know who's listening to this if your boyfriend wants to love you
please let him and please show him your gratitude i promise it's gonna mean a lot to him this actually ties in nicely with my latest patreon video which is the importance of finding a woman who you want to reward in your long-term relationship with your love right like as you improve as a man your relationships are going to be a lot less about what you can get and more about what you can give and all of this stuff is what i cover in my latest patreon video fascinating topic if you want access to that then
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