roses are red violets are blue what you're attracted to says a lot about you the same goes for what you like in the bedroom not to wax poetic here but it's widely believed that a person's sexual fantasies can reveal deeper insights into their personality and even psyche this shouldn't be too surprising as studies show that roughly 98% of people reported having a sexual fantasy at least once in their life analyzing the interesting or even kinky details of your sexual fantasies can open you up to a world of self-discovery and awareness which can help you understand
yourself and those around you much better Dr Justin lameer remarks our fantasies appear to reflect who we are and seem to be designed to meet our unique psychological needs so let's dive in and explore what our sexual fantasies can reveal about us if you like it rough do you like being dominated in the bedroom how about BDSM BDSM is rooted in power exchange Dynamics between a couple usually one person plays the submissive role and the other plays the dominant role and it's a pretty popular type of fantasy one study shows that over 74% of respondents
chose BDSM as their favorite fetish so there's that a desire to always play the submissive one in the bedroom indicates a desire to lose control Poss possibly as an escape and a way of relieving stress or anxiety according to surveys in the book tell me what you want by social psychologist Dr Justin Liller those who prefer to be dominated in the bedroom often have anxiety around sex and would rather someone else take the lead to take some of the pressure of them submission in the bedroom can be an indication of needing to feel intensely desired
or adored during sex which is often associated with an anxious attachment style but for many losing control in the bedroom can be freeing and even work as a stress reliever while reducing anxiety so 50 Shades Freed anyone on the other hand those who prefer to dominate may be craving or lacking power in other areas of their lives and may be trying to compensate for it in the bedroom either way those who enjoy dominating in the bedroom tend to possess stronger personalities roleplay or cosplay I think we've all day dreamt of being a character in our
favorite movie TV show or even manga I mean how many people dress up as Sailor Moon or Naruto for Halloween the excitement of roleplay or cosplay can definitely translate to the bedroom and we don't blame you if you're a fan of Cosplay or roleplay in the bedroom then this might indicate that you're seeking a form of Escape or distraction from your regular day-to-day life according to clinical psychologist Dr Joshua kapow roleplay is simply an opportunity to escape our own reality by labeling it in a formal way we are giving permission to act speak feel and
think in a way that may be dramatically different from our true selves there are various reasons why a person might choose to escape their Reality by engaging in roleplay such as needing a break from extreme stress or anxiety or even an escape from boredom long as it doesn't interfere with important aspects of Life using roleplay as an escape mechanism can be healthy and a great way to spice things up in the bedroom just remember that respect and consent are absolutely necessary when engaging in any type of sexual activity so never feel obligated to do something
you aren't comfortable with Sweetest Taboo going back to Dr lem's study those who identify as extroverted are more inclined to fantasize about adventurous sexual encounters such as group sex and swinging it also indicates a strong need for attention when people dream of a threesome with their partner and one other person it could be because they want all of the attention on them however the study found that those who identified as introverts reported to prefer kinkier sex and surprisingly they were more open to trying taboo acts in the bedroom in comparison to extroverts Dr Liller explains
the reasons behind this stating that introverts have a harder time establishing the types of sexual relationships they want which can increase their propensity for developing taboo and uncommon sexual interests it just goes to show how different introverts and extroverts truly are foot fetish okay so a foot fetish may seem super taboo and deviant but it's actually a very common fetish according to research by Lema one in 14 people or 14% report having a foot fetish or a sexual fantasy related to feet but what does fantasizing about feet say about you similar to BDSM some people
may enjoy a foot fittish when they're either in a submissive or dominant role because it triggers arousal for example someone might enjoy someone else playing with their feet in a submissive position because it gives them a sense of control and power which is something they might Crave in their life outside the bedroom on the other hand someone who prefers pleasuring someone's feet in a submissive position might enjoy the feeling of being controlled which can stem from Early Childhood experiences and may even be a way of coping with trauma however fantasizing about feet occasionally doesn't necessarily
mean you have a full-blown foot fetish it just means you've been turned on by the idea of feet at least once romance and passion do you fantasize about having a steamy story book romance if this is the case then according to Dr Liller you might be the more anxious I and even the needy type he says those who are more likely to have romantic and passionate imagery in their fantasies could be trying to calm a sense of insecurity this type of fetish could also be rooted in a fear of Abandonment which could stem from a
series of broken or disappointing relationships that a person has experienced in real life so what do you think your sexual fantasies are trying to tell you about yourself do you agree with the insights from our video If you like this video make sure to check out three most common sexual fantasies we truly appreciate your support as always stay kind and have a wonderful day
