how to disagree with people not that you need any help there's lots of stuff to disagree on if you're looking for cake versus pie apples oranges this sports team versus this sports team which movie star is better ryan goose baby or charming tater i don't know some people even argue for trees i got an opinion who am i the judge so maybe that tree said something about mama i'm just saying some people just get worked up about anything in one direction they're not all going the same direction anymore bye-bye zane everyone loved you you broke
everyone's heart bye-bye some people argue about which animal is better cat dog elephant or donkey okay okay you're not always going to agree even with the most agreeable person in the world just saying so look in the world with so many things to disagree on we gotta learn how to disagree without making everybody feel terrible step one treat people like their people people i know seems pretty simple but in a heated argument you can forget that you're talking to a person a human being someone who has a heartbeat unless you're arguing of a tree um
that's that's a whole other problem i can't help you there step two listen listen listen listen before trying to change someone's opinion take time to listen to them even with what they say does not make sense that's probably treating someone like a person you gotta hear him out you got two ears and one nose for a reason you gotta listen more than you smell i'm pretty sure that's not right keep listening step three pause breathe love when you disagree you're gonna want to do some crazy stuff like yell or write and release a whole entire
album outlining that you're right and they're wrong don't do it instead you gotta pause read it's okay to disagree it's not okay to be mean don't say it until you can say with love there's plenty of legit stuff to be mad at in the world this life stuff it's hard let's not just spend our time here being mad at each other you don't have to see either either word shoulder shoulder people step four are you stuck in the argument distract them look i know we don't see eye to eye but baby koalas are awesome but
we weren't talking about that [Music] three words baby koalas that's two words all you want to do is disagree just enjoy the koala babies man baby koalas bring peace step 5 acceptance here's something you gotta accept not everybody is the same and that's a good thing i mean imagine the world with just full rain wilson's nightmare right i'm just kidding graham williams you're a beautiful and amazing specimen i'm just saying we need variety we need disagreement we may not like it but we need each other we just gotta learn to be more awesome to each
other it's like what nelson mandela said if you want to make peace with your enemy you have to work with your enemy and then he becomes your partner and then there's gandhi he said honest disagreement is often a good sign of progress i mean both of them have disagreements with people wasn't always easy but they tried to treat people like your people people we can also look to the words of somebody else it's an amazing pokemon meow we do have a lot in common the same air the same earth the same sky maybe if we
start looking at what's the same instead of always looking at what's different well who knows yeah that's from the pokemon movie so it has to be true it is true you know it is grownups we kids have been watching you we've been learning how to disagree with people by watching you we've seen some healthy disagreements and also lots of um recent disagreements nobody wins when all we want to do is win we got a whole world to make more awesome no time to be yelling back and forth to each other maybe we should stop breathe
love it's okay it's gonna be okay we can disagree but we can't let it make us forget step six dance [Music] oh some mail dear key president your voice has changed will he become president forever i won't always be a kid guess you're gonna have to just stay tuned and see what happens next you know that's how life works [Music] thank you people
