Good morning, my beloved ones. Today is Wednesday, July 3, 2024. And based on today's date, we see that we have already passed half of another year.
Time is really speeding up. Let's bring some themes here today. I would put the title: Knowing the right time to act.
Some questions are asked with each audio released here on the channel, and many of them cannot be answered there. Because these are answers that require a very extensive subject. So we bring here some considerations regarding the last few days and the last audios.
A very, very repeated question, especially in this Saturday audio, it said, the soul. . .
makes an incarnational plan to come and be a bad person. Look, I don't see where the audio says this, because we always say that the soul disembodies precisely to carry out a self-evaluation. And remembering the past and knowing the future, she creates an incarnational plan for a next incarnation to improve herself.
Never to make your condition worse. What happens is that the soul knows its trials and expiations. If we are in a world of proofs and expiations, what are proofs and what are expiations?
You need to understand this. The tests are the lessons that are still missing, those that have not been learned, those that still require greater knowledge, greater performance. Finally, what has not yet been learned, the challenges that have not been overcome to date.
And the trends. And atonement, atonement is payment, it will atone. When we atone for something, we are paying off that something, through suffering, through pain, which is why it is an atonement.
We also need to understand a little bit, obviously, of grammar and language, otherwise it will be difficult to understand certain things. Atonement is when you pay for a mistake you made. So the soul chooses suffering as an alternative.
Although she has so many possibilities, before that, to make the payment without suffering. Of course, she puts firsthand the possibilities without the pain, without the suffering. Because when it is understood that the soul.
. . forgets its incarnational plan, it obviously needs to be guaranteed, otherwise it loses its journey, as they say.
It would be very sad for a soul to lose an incarnation. If you are afraid of death, which is natural, most people are, but if we understood how difficult reincarnation is. I would say that the fear we have of death is because unconsciously our soul knows how difficult and painful it is to reincarnate.
The soul is there on the astral plane, in a fourth-dimensional condition. No pain, no suffering, no physical body. And the sky.
She is there in a spiritual colony, as she has always been until now, although things are changing now, but it was like that, and she knows that she will be reincarnated and will forget everything, and she will suffer, she will pay, she will need to eat, take care of her body, pass due to illness, going through difficulties. This is painful for the soul. It's not disembodiment.
She knows that she is coming to the world of trials and expiations. So the tests, the people who do evil, they come in a condition. .
. with the tendency to comply with their tests. Because if she comes to atone, she already comes with a project.
I go there, I do this, I do that, I will make an effort, I will do good, I will do charity, I will collaborate with everything and everyone, and then I pay my bill with love, and not with pain. But if I don't do this, which is the human tendency, it is always to avoid what is most difficult, as they say, to follow the law of least effort, people have a tradition and custom of doing what is good, what pleases them. they.
It doesn't matter if you're going to do good or bad, but what's delicious, what's pleasurable. And that's where the big problem is. That's why the soul, to ensure itself, chooses.
I'll get through this, this, this, that It is pain, yes, because it is a bargaining chip. But when it comes to overcoming the tests, things are more complicated. Let's give some examples, because I think examples are easier to understand.
If a person who is incarnated now. . .
is a soul, obviously, we are all souls in a physical body. In that period between lives, in the afterlife, this soul did its review, its self-evaluation, and it knows that in a past life it betrayed. He cheated on his relationships, people, his spouse.
So she has a tendency to cheat. And she saw that it is not a nice thing, it caused pain, suffering, there in that condition of the fourth dimension, the soul knows that. She is sorry about that.
She makes the incarnational plan. She can choose, I will go to the next incarnation and I will associate with people who will betray me, so that I can feel the pain that I caused others. I want to harmonize my soul, my frequency, through going through pain.
Then it would be an atonement, obviously. But she can choose another condition. Instead of atonement, she can choose tests.
So she makes another plan. I will go to a new incarnation and I will go through the ordeal. I will find.
. . all the conditions and possibilities to betray again, to cause pain to the people I relate to through betrayal.
And I will resist, I will pass the test. So, in this case, she comes and she is not betrayed. It could be, but that's a coincidence.
But she has the tendency. At any moment, at any time, opportunity arises. It seems like it follows the person.
And she has to be strong, she has to resist. By not resisting, she falls into the same error again. She doesn't pass the test.
That's what addictions are like. So are any other situations where it needs to be proven, to win. Suicide is one of them, theft, betrayal, which I already mentioned here, the use of drugs, drinks, in short, gambling, gluttony, anything that is harmful to oneself or to others.
These are proofs. When we talk about suicide in previous audios and texts , we say that there are people who. .
. have the tendency to commit suicide , because they committed suicide in past lives and they need to go through the test. So, for any little reason, they feel like taking their own lives.
They have the tendency. The person who has a tendency towards addiction, it seems that those things haunt the person all the time. It is the group of friends who use this addiction product.
This addictive situation, it's the financial possibilities, it's the everyday situations, it seems like it's always at hand. The person who has proof of theft, overcomes the proof of theft, is always in conditions where there are possibilities of stealing. It's always a foot away from the money, as they say, and it itches in her hand all the time.
The person who doesn't have the tendency to steal doesn't care if he has the means or not. If she has a position there that has to deal with money and has the possibility, she doesn't even care about it, nor is she tempted. Or she has positions in jobs, in.
. . positions where she doesn't have the slightest possibility, it doesn't make any difference either.
Because these trends are what bring the possibility and opportunity to win the tests. All the people who do evil, they don't do it because they made a soul plan to come here and do evil. They are tested almost permanently.
And they continue to do evil. Some, obviously not, because they come without proof. But most do not pass the tests.
That's why there are so many and so many incarnations. And as I say once again here, despite there being someone who thinks not, reincarnations are not imposed by anyone, neither light nor shadow. The soul, after returning to the astral plane, carrying out its self-evaluation, sees the mistakes it made and it needs to return to make adjustments.
Because she knows that if she doesn't do this, she won't evolve, she won't get out of that stagnation. So I would like everyone who still has these doubts to reason a little, put their conscience there to work a little and understand, because it is so easy. The soul does not choose to come as a criminal.
She makes a decision to come and win the test that she is missing, that she has not yet won, but she succumbs. When we say that the soul chose to go through this experience, yes, but not when it carried out the incarnation project. You who are listening here, you are a soul, but you are incarnated.
And if you decided when a situation appeared, you chose it, that's why we said that everyone has choices. The opportunity arose. You didn't make your soul purpose before you incarnated, before you failed.
But now that the opportunity has arisen, you have the choice. You chose to go through the experience of repeating the fall in that test again. It's a choice, yes.
Because you always have choices. The person is married and has an opportunity to go out with someone else and cheat on their spouse. It's proof of betrayal.
She has the decision to choose not to go, not to betray, to resist, to win the test or to fail. She doesn't choose to fail, she chooses pleasure. She chooses the benefit of that act.
Whatever it is, she'll like it, because if. . .
it wasn't good, it would be easy to resist, but it's always good. Whether it's stealing, drinking, eating too much, doing anything, cheating, there's always a positive side, otherwise no one would need to go through the test, because it would even be a favor to come into situations and we could avoid them all, because it's not good. .
You won't eat food you don't like. Now, if it's good, you eat too much, as they say. So the soul chose to go through that experience, not there in its project.
In the project she will never put anything that will harm her. That's it. Point.
It's definitely an end point. The soul will always choose its best. But she has the choice, once again, the second choice, when push comes to shove, when she is incarnated.
There she has the choice again. So there she can choose to go through the experience of failing. Not that she is aware of it, she doesn't even think about it at the time.
She only thinks about the advantage she will have. Because in the soul, as incarnated, in the condition of the incarnated, it is very limited. She does not have this knowledge that she had there in the astral world before incarnating, she was in a dimension above.
These are situations that we cannot respond to there, because it is something more extensive, but also because it is very repetitive. I've answered this question hundreds of times. But there are always those who haven't seen the answers, they obviously want to know, so don't worry.
We are always happy when people interact, when people show interest. We will always find a way to provide answers in one way or another, because this is also a mission. If I have time here, I'll talk a little about the difference between mission and learning.
Another question here that I bring up today, which I think could be covered in the title of today's topic. The right time to act, especially in relationships. And relationships are not just marital, they are family, friendship, professional, work, anything.
In fact, one of the great relationships that we need to understand is the relationship with ourselves. Me with me, you with you. I would say it is the most important of all.
Relationships are the laboratories of souls, where the most work is done on polishing this work of art that we are, what we will be. There is a question here that was asked in this last audio. I'll summarize because it was a very long question.
I have lived as a toxic person for 30 years. I do my best, but I feel like there's nothing left to do. Perhaps it is one of the biggest doubts of many people, not being happy in a situation, usually in relationships, but it can be in another situation as well.
It could even be the house you live in, the city you live in, the school you attend, your job. It is also always a way of relating. But especially when it's person to person.
A couple, for example, and it can also be children with parents and vice versa, with siblings. A toxic relationship. Why is it toxic?
Because it's doing you harm. How many people live with other people and are unhappy? Well.
. . We talk so many times about understanding, we are all learning.
We learn much more from relationships than if it were. Live alone. Relationships are tied to something that we need to correct within ourselves.
And a relationship that isn't conflictual doesn't have much to teach. Because in good things you don't learn, what you learn is through difficulty. It's about the challenge.
Let's talk specifically about the marital relationship, so we can understand others too. A couple has problems, because everyone has some problems, some more, others less. Then there comes a point where one of the people, one of the two, comes to the conclusion, I can't take it anymore.
I've been living here, as this is the case, for 30 years. And it's hurting me, it's intoxicating me. What do I do?
How do I know if it's time to leave the relationship or not? Because let's assume it's karma. If I haven't paid off karma with a person, I still have a debt.
The next time I find it, I will have the opportunity to continue paying. But that's the most certain thing there is. And you know that.
Many have already tried it, changing partners and nothing changes in the future. Because it's not over yet. What is karma?
Karma is a learning experience. As painful as it is, it is a learning experience. If we knew that karma doesn't have to be for life, karma can last for a day.
As long as we understand. the reason for that. How many times have I posted here?
Understand, accept, let go. If I can do this in one day, in one situation, I will release that situation in one day. Or in a week, a month, a year, or a lifetime.
Until the end of life. It depends on how you act. Here we will try to answer this question in a very understandable way.
Thirty years, a toxic relationship. Well, it is certain that the person did not understand life. The law of cause and effect.
Otherwise I wouldn't have been suffering for thirty years. When we only complain. .
. that the other makes us unhappy. This account will never end.
It doesn't even end. Now, if I look and say, wow, but if I'm in this relationship and I'm suffering, like no one goes through what they shouldn't go through, then I need to go through this, for a reason. It could be that back then I caused someone pain.
It could be that I came on a mission to help this person. So let's look at this, is it mission or is it karma? When it's a mission, we don't suffer.
for being in the sacrifice. That's the point. I sacrifice myself, but I don't suffer.
I feel like it makes me bigger. Now, if I suffer and complain and don't accept it, it's karma. There's no doubt about that.
It's a debt. And no one likes paying debt. Everyone freaks out.
Whether it's one situation or another, when we know when it's time to get out of this situation, we abandon ship, as they say. Because if I let go of the boat before Time, I'll have to get another one. And then the situation is the same, if I'm facing a storm, it's the same storm.
There's no point leaving a relationship without learning what it wants to show you. Otherwise you will have the opportunity, this is a step forward, because otherwise we would not evolve. Destiny is set, the universe knows this, it says so, you are there to learn, you abandoned that person, you escaped the line.
The next one will continue, because otherwise you would miss the opportunity and waste a lot of time. Then the situation will manifest itself in the new relationship. So there's always a risk, I drop out and it's not time, there's no point, just wasting time.
Yes, it's a possibility. But there is also the possibility that it has ended and we don't know and we are there suffering. So, worst case scenario, it continues.
So I would say, if it's not good, if the situation is really toxic, get out. Find a way out. In the worst case scenario, you will continue with someone else.
And in the best case scenario, you won't find anyone again, because the sacrifice, the karma, had ended. In any situation, it is good to make an assessment first, before opting for a breakup, for separation. Why am I going through this?
What is this showing me? You came for me, you are for me, you are not for the neighbor. I asked to go through this situation, otherwise it wouldn't have happened.
There is learning. What do I need to learn? If I'm suffering, it's because I already made someone suffer back there.
It's only fair that I pay the bill, to free myself from this bill. Understanding this makes that pain begin to disappear. Because when we understand and accept, the knots are undone and the pain goes away little by little.
There is another possibility of also looking at the other and saying, but the other is also trying to get it right. If he looks to me like he's making mistakes, but he's also trying to get things right, just like me. We are all at the same school.
Why always criticize others and not look at our flaws, why do n't others see our flaws in us? The same way we see in others? After all, we are mirrors of each other.
Exhausting all possibilities, there are two options. The relationship improves like magic. And it's good.
Or finish it all at once, and go find another one, and you won't have the same problem, because you don't need it anymore. Already learned. These situations are so important because they define our future, our well-being, our happiness or our unhappiness.
We didn't come here to this school to suffer, we came to learn. Suffering is the resistance we place in understanding the lessons. Anyone who is a teacher, or even someone who is not a teacher and has studied at a school where everyone else studied, just observe, in a group of students, the one who makes the least effort.
The one who gets the lowest grades. Someone who rarely attends school. He's not interested in the lessons.
. . He's the one who's always complaining.
That you don't like the subject. That he doesn't like school. That there is only work, that there is only proof.
There's only this, there's only that. He's the one who doesn't do anything. The resistance to change.
In accepting, make an effort. After all, what are you doing there? Like I said one day, do you go to school just to eat lunch?
Even rats do this when they have access to a school kitchen. They go there and eat everything they have. We need to have a little more responsibility.
But, above all, we have to have a little rational awareness. So relationships are the polishers of our soul. And they bring us the possibilities of showing us when it is a mission, when it is karma, understanding life, the laws of cause and effect.
The mission, to summarize, is when we think about each other. If I'm in a situation, I always think about others, the other person, first than about myself. There is a mission, it is easy to identify the mission.
And when is karma? We always think of ourselves first. Ah, but this is fatal.
If you think about yourself first than the other person, in a relationship between two people, you always think about yourself and don't think about the other person. It's karma. If you think about others first, it’s a mission.
At the end of a relationship, we have to think about two possibilities. When you really need to get out. That's when those two words come in, leave or let go.
We always have to choose one of two situations. But one will carry out our mission, our karma, in short, any situation. And the other doesn't work out well.
Because leaving or letting go is not the same thing. I'll explain it here to see the difference. Leave the other person in a comfortable situation.
The best situation I can promote for him. Because any decision I make, I will leave him in a different situation. If I end up fighting, if I end up in trouble, discussing divisions of assets, mainly rights.
. . duties.
. . if I only think about myself, I'm leaving.
I'm not leaving. Because I'm not leaving the other person in a situation either. .
. I don't say comfortable, but as less dramatic as possible. And when I let go I abandon him to his fate Let him turn around!
The other one is his problem. I do not care! I'm letting go.
That's the difference. Once I went to explain this difference to someone and they couldn't understand, I had to use a comparison. You have a dog and you don't want to kill the dog because you don't have the courage, but you also don't want to keep the dog.
And no one appears to take him, to adopt him. What do you do? I use this example because I have seen this happen many times.
The person takes the car, puts the dog inside and leaves or leaves the dog somewhere. It's the difference, leave it or leave it. There are some who don't think much about the dog, they just think about him.
So they go very far, where the dog will no longer find the road back, because the dog has a certain distance to return. He has the sixth sense, intuition. So he takes him far away, leaves the dog in a deserted, abandoned place, far from everything.
He dropped the dog and walked away. Even if the dog runs after the car for a while, but then he gets tired. .
. left to fend for himself. Now there is that other person who is a little more compassionate, understands more, he can't have the dog, he doesn't want the dog anymore, but he doesn't want to kill the dog, no one comes to take it, but he has a feeling of love for the dog.
Even if it's minimal enough, so as not to drop it anywhere. He does the same procedure as the other, takes the car, puts the dog inside and goes to a very far away road and leaves the dog close to a house. He knows that that dog goes to that house and probably there , as it's a country place, even if there are already five or six dogs, one more or less won't make any difference, and no one will kill a dog that appears.
in a house. I know because I've lived in the countryside, I know how it works. The difference between leaving and letting go.
This will change a lot of things in that person's future life, because everything is a law of cause and effect. And everything that is done one day returns to you, whether good or bad, in the same proportion. And it is this law that we need to understand, because in Saturday's audio I said that there is no victim, there is no perpetrator.
There is the law of cause and effect. And people don't understand that. Some insist on refuting this law.
Because he thinks that the right is his alone and that it is not fair pay a bill you owe from past lives. If it is not fair to pay a bill for past lives, what is fair for people who today are causing and provoking crimes, for example, and will not pay in this life? Are you going to stay like that?
Will conscience forget this? So we have to have a little common sense and understand that life is an eternal learning process and it only depends on us. To each according to his works, to each according to his efforts.
And that is what our Great Master left us in his passage in human form. There's still time to answer one more question, because this one is simpler and quicker, and I was also asked these days. Is lighting candles for saints and souls right?
It's wrong? Look, what is right and what is wrong? If everything is learning.
. . Everything is evolution, everything is understanding.
I would say that we still have little confidence in ourselves. So we need to depend on certain beliefs. "In certain rituals, if I light a candle for the saint, he will help me.
" What is the candle? The candle is a light. What do you do?
It's turning on a light. The saint does not need the light. It's you who needs it.
So light it for yourself and ask the saint to help you. Instead of lighting the candle for the saint and asking him to help you. But you can ask your protector saint for help, clarity, without lighting a candle.
It's the same thing! So it doesn't justify it, but if you believe that it will increase your faith, then do it. Because we have to believe.
Because we are in a time of. . .
believing to see and no longer seeing to believe. We change our consciousness now. If you don't believe, you can't do it.
So if the candle makes you believe, light the candle, it will give you greater confidence, it will increase the frequency of faith. But the saint won't care at all whether you light the candle for him or not. The souls that disembodied.
. . the question was also for the souls.
. . There I would even say that, if you intend to illuminate that soul, then you do it with a candle.
I light the candle and illuminate that soul. But you can illuminate by sending an intention in thought. I will illuminate that soul.
I will wrap her in the light so she can see to the other side if she is still in the darkness. I will intercede for some selfless souls to help them to collect it, to forward it. Yes, intercession.
Intercession is very important, but it is not the candle itself. It's the intention. And we call it "the intention to intercede.
" Or an action of intercession too. When we make an intercession on behalf of someone, we are doing charity. We are intentionally helping another soul, whether incarnate or discarnate, to have a little more credit, because I am putting my credits in the request.
If the other person doesn't have much credit, I add some credit of my own and it helps. Sometimes there's just enough change to pay the bill. Interceding in favor of is always a work of charity.
And it is very heard and much appreciated by our benevolent entities that support us. So always intercede, yes. Do something for others, because you are doing it selflessly, because it is not for you.
I would say that the most honest requests are the ones we make to others. Because when we do it for ourselves, we are a little selfish, and we want more than is necessary. But when it's for someone else, we take a fairer measure.
So intercession, yes, is always important. But lighting a candle or not lighting a candle. .
. is nothing more than a practice, a ritual. And every ritual has intention.
What counts is the intention! It's not the candle, whether it's lit or extinguished. The color of the candle, the size of the candle, or the time it takes to burn it all down.
Does not matter. This is limiting belief. But like I said, it can help positively, because we need to believe.
Without believing, it's not worth making any effort because it won't bring results. And so now I leave you with my embrace of light in each of you. Namaste!
