one looks at the most important factor for man stating success two women care about looks more than men three this is mainly because women are much more selective in their mate choice their dating strategy can be compared to a single line fisherman trying to catch the highest quality fish meanwhile four most men take whatever they can get they're like sea trawlers throwing a big net into the ocean picking up whatever there's a lot of men out there that will pretty much go with anyone attractive or unattractive 5. looks is becoming even more important for guys now because of the explosion of online dating apps 6. looks is also becoming more important because women are exposed to more and more options daily what's the fastest way to narrow down 100 options easy just get rid of anyone short ugly bald and so on seven any man and eight or above in attractiveness will have the red carpet rolled out for him on online dating apps 8.
in contrast any man between a 5 and 7 in attractiveness will struggle massively on online dating getting barely any matches and scarcely getting replies to messages 9. any man below a 5 will get 0 matches for life 10. on online dating apps 60 of likes go to the top 10 percent of men 11.
percent of the matches go to the top twenty percent twelve ninety five percent of matches go to the top fifty percent therefore thirteen just five percent of matches go to the bottom fifty percent of guys fourteen these statistics also show that looks are mostly objective there is very little room for opinion or preference 15. a man's money now means nothing to women as they can instead either work for themselves or rely on the government to provide resources instead 16. any man that gets in a relationship based on his money has no real attraction from the woman it is all fake love 17.
his only purpose is just to provide resources for her whether it be pay for her bills expensive dates holidays and so on 18. any man that gets a relationship mainly because of his money will likely get dumped as soon as he loses his job or investments 19. relationships based on money will likely end up as dead bedrooms the man might get intimacy twice a year on his birthday and on christmas 20.
confidence doesn't mean much and only helps if the man in question is already attractive 21. this is because if an unattractive guy is confident it is often seen as creepy or arrogant besides 22 confidence is very correlated with looks anyway statistically speaking shorter more unattractive and overweight people are more likely to get bullied in school which no surprise is going to have a negative effect on a person's confidence and self-esteem meanwhile 23 attractive people are more likely to be appraised from teachers parents which in turn boosts their confidence 24 on top of this generally people tend to adopt a level of confidence based on how they look 25 for example how can this short guy look confident to the camera if he's standing next to this man who's way taller than him 26. how can this man smile with confidence when he has bad teeth 27.
how can this man be confident in his own skin when he has severe facial acne 28. status also doesn't matter for these reasons because 29 similar to confidence status is also largely determined by looks for example 30 58 percent of ceos are over six foot despite them only making up 15 percent of the population additionally 31 women tend to only care about status when they have reached settling down age 32. university aged girls don't care much about a man's bmw if the man driving it is short old and balding 33.
women only start caring about your personality after you're above their minimum looks threshold 34. if you're way above a woman's minimum looks threshold it gets to the point where you can get away with pretty much anything and in fact your negative personality traits can be seen as positives c 35 an attractive man who is shy is perceived as cute meanwhile 36 an unattractive man who is shy is seen as antisocial 37 an attractive man who is awkward is seen as funny or adorable meanwhile 38 an unattractive man who is awkward is seen as weird or creepy 39 when an attractive man makes bad jokes they will be voluntarily laughed at by women as they want to impress him meanwhile faulty when an unattractive man makes good jokes they will be shunned as they will be seen as perfected or uncalled for 41. an attractive man who is intelligent is perceived as smart meanwhile 42 intelligence on an unattractive man is nerdy or geeky 43.
an attractive man with no friends is seen as a lone wolf meanwhile 44 an unattractive man with no friends is seen as a friendless loser so that's the first 44 points and now i've got almost half of the points out the way now is a good time to press the like button and leave any thoughts you have in the comments below as it helps the youtube algorithm anyway carrying on with the rest of the points 45. things such as grooming or improving your appearance don't amount to much and are overrated this is because 46 clothes and haircuts are not tied to your genetics you can't pass down an expensive haircut to a child it is an environmental factor therefore women won't care about it 47. additionally these factors often only work when the man is attractive anyway nice clothes look good when worn by attractive men not the other way around 48.
an unattractive man in the exact same clothes will look terrible 49. going to the gym only helps if you are at least average in the face for which it can dramatically improve your appearance meanwhile 50 if you're below average in the face getting a gym body will unlikely work as it will be seen as overcompensating 51. a gym body can look pathetic on a short guy like he's an aggressive leprechaun 52.
some men who are even above average in the face and height are still genetically limited due to factors such as a poor frame and bad muscle building genetics 53. if a man has good height who was previously overweight lowering his body fat percentage in the gym can completely transform his attractiveness however 54 this is only the case if the man's underlying facial structure is attractive if the man is unattractive beneath the fat he'll barely be in a better place than he was before 55. the only difference between a friend and a boyfriend is how physically attractive you are 56.
most mainstream dating advice is simply awful and it only serves to temporarily make people feel better about themselves 57 for example phrases such as just be yourself just put yourself out there just be presentable and make people laugh are only surface level and don't infiltrate deeper meanings of attraction 58 in fact any dating advice that starts with just do whatever is probably going to be terrible terrible advice 59 the number of men excluded from the dating market is increasing year after year and this is mainly because of rejections based on looks 60. the attractiveness of your face is determined by your facial bone structure and is almost entirely genetic 61. the importance of facial features goes eyes first then jaw then hair then midface however 62 it is better to score averagely in everything rather than having one or two fantastic features along with one outstandingly bad feature for these two guys the man on the left is more attractive than the man on the right because he has much better consistency and this is despite having a lower overall score 63 surgery may be one of the only potential solutions for men with unattractive features 64.
height is an attractive trait as it is seen as a display of dominance 65 the ideal height for men falls between the six two to six four range however men who are six foot are also in a good spot and don't have anything to worry about 66. every inch you have lower than six foot is seen as a small blow to your overall attractiveness this is the danger zone meanwhile 67 heights five foot seven and below are in the no-go zone persistent rejections will occur solely because of height and this is true even with an attractive face 68 on the other side of the spectrum heights taller than 6'4 are still good but have a few negatives going for them namely it can increase the likelihood of falling into a niche market also the likelihood of having an elongated horse face or a lanky body and frame will increase therefore the ideal remains at six two to six four that said those who are six five and above are still better off than the average heighters of five nine to five eleven seventy balding can destroy a man's chances in the dating market even if he was successful in the past seventy one although it's still possible to be attractive if you're bald the black pill teaches that less than five percent of men can pull off the bald look and those people would usually need to be attractive to begin with anyway 72 balding will give the appearance of being 10 years older than your true age 73 men reach their attractiveness peak between the ages of 20 and 28 74 men younger than the age of 20 may not have a fully developed face yet therefore they're not as attractive meanwhile 75 men older than the age of 28 will increasingly face issues caused by aging such as balding skin degradation wrinkling and so on 76 this process of aging will likely start off slow but accelerate rapidly into a man's mid-30s 77 women reach their peak of attractiveness between the ages of 18 to 24 78 the peak of attractiveness for women is narrower than men's because aging affects women faster and this is due to women's smaller fertility window as you can see from the chart on the right men's decline in fertility is much more gradual 79 the ideal p length is six inches or greater eighty five inches is seen as an uphill struggle again this is the danger zone eighty-one anything below five puts you in a very difficult situation 82. women of all ethnicities have a preference of dating ethnically men however 83 chads are their own separate class 84.
women will never tell men the truth about just how important looks are 85 the main reason for this is to avoid causing upset 86 instead women will tell men personality matters the most in order to keep those guys in the friend zone and or keep receiving attention and validation from them 87. women only date up in terms of value there is no dating down out of sympathy because she feels bad for the guy who can't find anyone else 88 and if there are no men available for her to date up in value she would rather share a chat than have a beta all to herself 89. the only exception to this is where a woman will deliberately date down with a guy in order to seize control of the relationship 90.
this will often lead to things such as the woman will decide if and when intimacy happens or 91 the man needs to compensate for his lack of looks by contributing disproportionately more financially towards the relationship 92 polygamy is becoming an ever more present reality for the future of the dating market 93 it is impossible for any woman irrespective of her attractiveness to not be able to get intimacy within the very next 24 hours 94. dating is like supermarket shopping for women but like trying to find life in outer space for men 95 modern women will spend their teens and 20s rejecting men who don't meet their crazy standards 96 then in their 30s those same women will plead where are all the good men gone 97 modern women will friend zone unattractive guys in their 20s who have provided potential therefore keeping him in orbit 98 then in her 30s she may try to settle down with the exact same guy so he can provide resources for her 99 the media encourages men to provide resources and simp over women for example just look at valentine's day it's all about the man proving himself and buying gifts for the women guys believe me i've worked in restaurants over valentine's and i'd say 80 of the time the man has to pay the bill in full 20 the bill is split 0 the woman will be the one to pay finally 100.
